Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Dudes are weak

I said the same thing....them stories almost got me legit heated....I would of left the bytch in the 1st story laying in her own vomit, deleted her contacts and never spoke to her again.

 

[Medio]

how do dudes tolerate that:
if i walk in on my girl on some dudes lap, nah that aint flying
your girl slappin you, nah that aint flying either

 

[EA]

Those stories have genuinely upset me

 

[MikelArteta]

Those stories have genuinely upset me

it can happen to you
i've been cheated on twice its not a nice feeling both times was blindsided.

 

[EA]

So today, I have been reminded of the entitlement complex that some girls can have. It's funny how you can point where a girl has gone wrong in her actions and rather than just own it and apologise, she'll take the defensive stance and try to justify what she did. Then what makes it worse is how they can flip it in their mind and decide that once they've justified themselves, it's now your problem if you don't want to carry on like everything is all good.

it can happen to you
i've been cheated on twice its not a nice feeling both times was blindsided.

That's why reading these have bothered me because its extremely possible that being cheated on can happen at anytime and unless you're ominpresent and omniscient, you'll never truly see it coming.

 

[MikelArteta]

So today, I have been reminded of the entitlement complex that some girls can have. It's funny how you can point where a girl has gone wrong in her actions and rather than just own it and apologise, she'll take the defensive stance and try to justify what she did. Then what makes it worse is how they can flip it in their mind and decide that once they've justified themselves, it's now your problem if you don't want to carry on like everything is all good.



That's why reading these have bothered me because its extremely possible that being cheated on can happen at anytime and unless you're ominpresent and omniscient, you'll never truly see it coming.

its like I said all you can do is stop worrying about things you can't control, if shes going to cheat she's going to cheat all you can do is sever the ties when you find out .

I no longer care if a womanw ants to be around and be faithful and respect you she will if she won't she won't. All we can control is how we handle the situation. And well I'm not afraid to cut the cord with any chick

 

[A.V.]

I'm on the phone with T-mobile talking about upgrading phones and shyt when suddenly it feels like the chick on the other line did NOT want to hang up. She just kept talking and ended up shifting the convo about italians(I think she italian) and dating. She telling me her life story about her abusive marriage, her trying to get over the guy and yadda yadda. She ended up telling me all sorts of funny shyt and telling me how she's funny and looks great but people think she's very high maintenance.

I should've gotten her Facebook or something She said she was 32 with 3 kids and once I heard that I was like ehh .

bytch saved you fam. Rejoice

 

[MikelArteta]

if a woman truly likes you, you don't have to do ANYTHING

I can recall the day when I met my ex fiancé. I was invited to a birthday party and just decided to venture out of my shell and attend even though parties have never really been my thing. I found a spot on the couch and just sat there turned up music on my iPod and just sat back counting down the time when I could make my exit without it looking bad.

There was only four other individuals at the party, however my friend mentioned that her next door neighbour who had just moved to Canada a few months ago would be making an appearance. A few hours went by and finally she showed up, I took a quick glance with my peripheral vision and was like oh wow. She ended up taking a seat right beside me, however no pleasantries were exchanged. About thirty minutes later she made her exit and well never thought anything more about her. Later than evening when I returned back to my hometown my friend articulated to me how her neighbour thought I was the best looking guy she's seen so far in Canada and I was like oh really. Time goes on and I'm not even thinking of her yet again and then boom about two months later she pops up adding me to msn, we talk on and off and then decide to meet and then we meet again and again and again.

I did zero chasing, not a iota of thirstiness lived in my veins, zero anything, I was just living my life going about my day to day and poof someone popped up who was interested in me, saw me as someone valuable and valued my morals and character traits.

 

[Swing]

if a woman truly likes you, you don't have to do ANYTHING

I can recall the day when I met my ex fiancé. I was invited to a birthday party and just decided to venture out of my shell and attend even though parties have never really been my thing. I found a spot on the couch and just sat there turned up music on my iPod and just sat back counting down the time when I could make my exit without it looking bad.

There was only four other individuals at the party, however my friend mentioned that her next door neighbour who had just moved to Canada a few months ago would be making an appearance. A few hours went by and finally she showed up, I took a quick glance with my peripheral vision and was like oh wow. She ended up taking a seat right beside me, however no pleasantries were exchanged. About thirty minutes later she made her exit and well never thought anything more about her. Later than evening when I returned back to my hometown my friend articulated to me how her neighbour thought I was the best looking guy she's seen so far in Canada and I was like oh really. Time goes on and I'm not even thinking of her yet again and then boom about two months later she pops up adding me to msn, we talk on and off and then decide to meet and then we meet again and again and again.

I did zero chasing, not a iota of thirstiness lived in my veins, zero anything, I was just living my life going about my day to day and poof someone popped up who was interested in me, saw me as someone valuable and valued my morals and character traits.

What happened breh...

 

[MikelArteta]

Still been my longest relationship we dated for 3 years were engaged till she screwed me over in the end.

But yeah she's still one of the most beautiful women I've ever been with and I didn't have to do anything, she kissed me first and even asked to be my girlfriend

The day you see me chase or be thirsty for these average ass thots out here never

What happened breh...

 

[Steezy]

Dudes just got to learn to keep the emotions in tact. That's one of the biggest things a woman can use against you.

I don't go back and fourth with these women, trying to win back their attention or affection. You fall back on me? Cool, I'm just going to fall back on you.

Learned this in the hardest of ways ironically this chick I been knowing for a min dm'd last night talking bout she got tired of waiting and wants to treat me like a gawd and likes steezy for steezy

 

[MikelArteta]

Learned this in the hardest of ways ironically this chick I been knowing for a min dm'd last night talking bout she got tired of waiting and wants to treat me like a gawd and likes steezy for steezy

you never have to chase a woman that is into you.

IF a woman is into you, pride, rules, regulations, "her friends advice" everything goes out the window, look how that chick that was into you threw out "pride", tat whole the men is supposed to make the first move as she wanted her valuable prize of steezy.

for some men its hard to fathom and they can't believe it to be true, but trust me when a woman is into you you dont have to do NOTHING

 

[Steezy]

you never have to chase a woman that is into you.

IF a woman is into you, pride, rules, regulations, "her friends advice" everything goes out the window, look how that chick that was into you threw out "pride", tat whole the men is supposed to make the first move as she wanted her valuable prize of steezy.

for some men its hard to fathom and they can't believe it to be true, but trust me when a woman is into you you dont have to do NOTHING

I be hearing my brehs in here preaching.. I'm jus hard headed like my daddy

 

[Mr210]

Be careful fellas

 

[EA]

Why am I the voice of reason that people come to with their problems?