Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

how about the situation if the women that have the body also have the personality that matches? that is somewhat the what if factor for me...not even the hoodrats. I feel like i had an opportunity to get one like that classy with morals, and has the body....but i dont wanna risk losing the sure thing now...but yall preachin in here..much needed

There's always something 'better around the corner' in our mind. That woman with the body, you'll get bored of her after a while because you've seen that body 10,000 times before and your 'fleshly desires' will start craving for variety. Or what happens if your thick mami gets comfortable with you and stops working out and gets chubby? Our fleshly desires will never be satisfied on it's on. Our flesh will always crave variety. It's something we have to choose to willingly choose to work on.

Let's do a little test. Think RIGHT NOW of a woman you know that was the thick body, the personality and the morals of your current woman right now. How many can you come up with?

 

[MikelArteta]

There's always something 'better around the corner' in our mind. That woman with the body, you'll get bored of her after a while because you've seen that body 10,000 times before and your 'fleshly desires' will start craving for variety. Or what happens if your thick mami gets comfortable with you and stops working out and gets chubby? Our fleshly desires will never be satisfied on it's on. Our flesh will always crave variety. It's something we have to choose to willingly choose to work on.

Let's do a little test. Think RIGHT NOW of a woman you know that was the thick body, the personality and the morals of your current woman right now. How many can you come up with?

the new car smell, grass is greener syndrome

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

Bros, question. You been more successful in getting a chick to fukk after a date/courting or whatever, either by going to her place, or by bringing her/asking her to come to yours?

Which is the better environment in getting them panties to drop?

 

[Jahmal]

Man check this out brehs... this girl was supposed to have me come over last week and she was gonna cook for me/watch movies and what not, but she cancels last minute cause she had to work late... I say that's cool but you owe me and she says I know. So I'm talkin to her today and she's like so lets do somethin on your next day off, and I'm thinkin she's gonna make it up by cookin for me but it seems like she wants me to take her out and shyt. I wouldn't mind that

She owes you so you should remind her ass of that and you let her know you want her to cook for you. Dont let these chicks get off the hook so easily.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup the one thing that was saved me thankfully is my ex, my ex was gorgeous a straight dime, with a curvy body but she was straight poison. But her looks blinded me and kept me around when I should have ran and almost destroyed my life.

I appreciate beautiful women but like you mentioned many of them have never heard No, as guys are so scared to "lose them", "ill never get another girl that looks this good" so they bend over backwards.


Like Is aid as a man the three things a woman can hold over you is her beauty, sex, emotional connection if you can control all 3 you win.

It's crazy man, but that's how life is. There's always a trade-off. You just have to find the package with the trade-offs that are most acceptable to you. When I was young, I thought I was going to find the perfect package in all areas, but that never happened, and realistically, I'm not perfect myself, so how can I expect that from a woman?

Most of the time, these superbad chicks have flawed personalities. Look at how nearly every man Halle Berry has been with went off on her. Rihanna, Evelyn Lozada. A lot of men allow straight poison into their lives because the broad is so fine and they get blinded by those looks. I'm not going to lie... It's tough getting past a woman's looks, because I'm a looks connoisseur myself. It's hard not to make a fine woman into something she isn't, which often is wifey, when she's really a woman of the streets.

Most of these superfine chicks have had their minds warped from a lifetime of simpdom... a lifetime of men never holding them accountable or telling them they were wrong.... a lifetime of men making excuses for their every action. A lifetime of virtually endless choices when it comes to men, all of who are very eager to do their bidding. These type of women grow up in an environment where men are expendable and they never have to work at a relationship. They just have to show up and the man is willing to do all the work to 'earn her'. Thus, she becomes so entitled that she doesn't know how to put anything in in a relationship. Often, when you have two women, there is one that gets less attention than the other one. That's the one I prefer because she's had to work for her attention and she's usually got a more laid-back personality.

I absolutely love a fine woman, but as I get older, I just find that these superfine broads are headaches. They never have to put in any effort, so most of the time they are stingy and their conversations are mediocre because they never had to work for anything. They also often have a big roster of men, so once they get bored of you, they have another guy they can zip to in an instant. Once the looks fade though, the real comes out, and you'll be like, Man, why did I wife her up?

 

[MikelArteta]

its never been worse to be in a committed monogamous relationship with a chick. Before you only had to worry about that lame nikka at her work or a old ex, don't get a clubber, or bar hopper and your good , now these homebodies got everything at their disposal now you gotta worry about whose fb messaging her, whose dm her on twitter, instagram, if shes on tinder looking for hookups, who she has on snapchat, bbm, skype who shes whatsappin worldwide.

Temptation is all around, hypergamy. always looking for that next best breh, always embracing the attention she receives, nothing wrong with having all those male friends, your just "insecure" if any of these bother you, and now the media and society is spreading the leave when your "bored", have a affair its nothing monogamy isn't natural, don't slut shame, sleep around have 100 different sexual connections its all good just embrace your sex drive.

That's why I tell brehs if you got a good loyal chick who has proved it time and time again don't blow it, us single brehs out here choosing between jezebels, delihahs, marilyn monroes, potiphers wife and milady de winters

 

[CASHAPP]

what do you guys think are the wisest things to get for either yourself or ask someone to give you for christmas...the older you get the less obsessed you get with simple electronics....i wanna think of something or a thing that is something that I need...not a desire

 

[Beerus]

L streak still going on strong

 

[twan83]

man y'all gonna learn bout this feenin for badder chics when u got a good loyal one at home

all of us at times get tempted no doubt but the one's who know better be like in they head ya i would hit or i know i could hit she look good as shyt but oh well time to go home to wifey cuz i know she gives what no other female can give me

i cant stress that enough a good female is hard to fine

when your in ur younger days u probably will find her but u aint ready so u pass that up and as u get older u be like she was perfect but i just wasn't ready which was true so u had to do the right thing

I've been around the world dated some of the baddest females u wouldn't believe went thru serious heart break been cheated on and i learned thru it all

DONT fukk UP A GOOD THING WHEN U HAVE A GOOD FEMALE

looks pass but a down ass female wont

especially one that will fukk your brains all the time as much as u want cook clean spoil you and make u wanna be a better person

 

[kevm3]

its never been worse to be in a committed monogamous relationship with a chick. Before you only had to worry about that lame nikka at her work or a old ex, don't get a clubber, or bar hopper and your good , now these homebodies got everything at their disposal now you gotta worry about whose fb messaging her, whose dm her on twitter, instagram, if shes on tinder looking for hookups, who she has on snapchat, bbm, skype who shes whatsappin worldwide.

Temptation is all around, hypergamy. always looking for that next best breh, always embracing the attention she receives, nothing wrong with having all those male friends, your just "insecure" if any of these bother you, and now the media and society is spreading the leave when your "bored", have a affair its nothing monogamy isn't natural, don't slut shame, sleep around have 100 different sexual connections its all good just embrace your sex drive.

That's why I tell brehs if you got a good loyal chick who has proved it time and time again don't blow it, us single brehs out here choosing between jezebels, delihahs, marilyn monroes, potiphers wife and milady de winters

Exactly. If dudes are going to trade in their loyal woman for a fatter butt or some other such nonsense, then they are out of their minds. Even if you 'win' a woman and get into a relationship with her nowadays, you might even be WORSE off because you never know if that kid is yours or you don't know how many guys she's talking to on the side. Sadly enough, I'm more surprised these days if a woman DOESN'T cheat.

 

[Rich Spirit]

what do you guys think are the wisest things to get for either yourself or ask someone to give you for christmas...the older you get the less obsessed you get with simple electronics....i wanna think of something or a thing that is something that I need...not a desire

dress shoes?

 

[kevm3]

what do you guys think are the wisest things to get for either yourself or ask someone to give you for christmas...the older you get the less obsessed you get with simple electronics....i wanna think of something or a thing that is something that I need...not a desire

Get something that is going to further your skills. I bought myself tons of programming books. In this day and age, if you aren't a cut above the rest, it's going to be very hard to make it economically.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm shocked whenever I come across a woman who isn't a social media whore or has traits of loyalty and faithfulness

Exactly. If dudes are going to trade in their loyal woman for a fatter butt or some other such nonsense, then they are out of their minds. Even if you 'win' a woman and get into a relationship with her nowadays, you might even be WORSE off because you never know if that kid is yours or you don't know how many guys she's talking to on the side. Sadly enough, I'm more surprised these days if a woman DOESN'T cheat.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Chick I gave my # to about 2 weeks ago hit me last night before she went to bed.

Told her to get at me today. Gonna learn to have patience.

 

[twan83]

I'm shocked whenever I come across a woman who isn't a social media whore or has traits of loyalty and faithfulness

what do u consider a social media whore?