Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Thats the thing though....i am not sexually frustrated... i have a nice rotation of main joints...and about 6-7 side pieces that i can call up anytime.... but it was the nerve of the bytch to say that she wont get anything out of her topping me off... like its my fukkin problem... thats why i had to let her know what the deal was... now she on the b-team cuz of that bullshyt she said..i had a day off and couldve kicked it with any of my other joints...but i chose to see this bird and she said some bs like that

Okay, what you said was fukked up. fr
But it was true.
But what she said was also fukked up. And true- for her. I won't speak for all women so I'll just say some women don't get turned on from giving head. So your girl probably meant she wouldn't get anything physically from 'topping you off', other than a sore jaw/cheeks.
With my current guy I don't get turned on from going down on him, but I do when I think about it.

 

[DeeezNuts]

Okay, what you said was fukked up. fr
But it was true.
But what she said was also fukked up. And true- for her. I won't speak for all women so I'll just say some women don't get turned on from giving head. So your girl probably meant she wouldn't get anything physically from 'topping you off', other than a sore jaw/cheeks.
With my current guy I don't get turned on from going down on him, but I do when I think about it.

Word...I dont ever want a chic to do anything she is not comfortable with... I dont force myself on any woman... but I just cant take a bs excuse.. she made herself sound selfish... if she wouldve told me she was tired... i might have believed her.... MIGHT... but the whole "whats in it for her bs"... nahhhh... i aint with that.. So i gave her options... so she on the b-squad.... and she knew she was wrong for that cuz she tried to do it later to the kid.... but i dont do pity sex or any type of bs like that... I'm the same way now too with my main chic... the thought of me eating that box...that shyt be having me rubbing my hands like birdman... either way... selfish slores gets thrown in the bushes

 

[360dagod]

be prepared to hit the ejection button

That nikka not going nowhere

This nikka ran thru all the red lights with no fukks given

 

[Grams]

@Asantehene you my dawg but that's exactly why when you said it's not about skin color I had to give you the :henrycmon: . It's not like I'm a skinny girl who says "guys don't like me cuz I'm fat". It's facts that if you blick some girls won't fukk with you at all. I remember I was at a party and these two girls didn't think I could hear them but I did and they said "he'd be good if he wasn't dark" man I heard the same shyt from black women too. It use to get to me big time but now I'm just like fukk those people. Who are you to say that but you'd fukk some aids infested nikka cuz he lightskin. If a girl looks good ima holla regardless. How does "he look good but he dark" even make sense. I either look good or I don't. You gotta brush these heaux off man

 

[EA]

I caught a private L

I went out last week with my boys and this girl was showing me interest, coming up to me and hanging out with me for night. Since I'm the kind of person that becomes nonchalant when I'm under the influence and I've never been approached by a white girl before, I didn't have any motivation to ask for her number, even though me and her were speaking and dancing together.

My boys kept telling me that she was a top shelf girl and that I should get the number before we left but 'cause I was under the influence, I was like and tbh, I don't remember her looking that nice

Now I've seen the pictures from the club that night..she was decent

Spoiler

How big of an L did I catch? Can the Becky connoisseurs () tell me where she ranks? I need to know so I know where my bar is set from now on when I go out

 

[kevm3]

More than anything, light skinned girls gravitate towards dark skinned dudes, so I don't understand this whole 'women don't like dark skinned guys thing.' One instance of a woman that ain't feeling you? No sweat, there's a ton other that are.

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

I still can't seem to get over my ex brehs,deep down I don't want to,it was all my fault,I completely turned a small break I initiated until a clusterfukk of a mistake,I loved this girl and she loved me,I was her first, and she was ready,we had her family's blessing and she knew her role,and she always held me down,always,and now I find myself week in and week out in a constant daze fueled by alcohol and drugs,I'm not an addict by no means,I only feel the need to do those things wen im In the companionship of a woman,I don't know why,I guess that's why I relate to the weeknd's music so much,cuz in his music he's always talkin about that one good girl,and how now all he does is just have sex with random women while drinking and takin drugs,but it doesn't work,same with me,I work at a strip club,and for the very fact that I sell drugs,I'm constantly fukkin strippers or customers after work or during work,while drinking,on coke,Molly's,stoned. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me,I'm makin a lot of money while partying with strippers that look bad as fukk and they givin ya boi the puss for free,but it's like the more I fall deep into this other world of constant drug and alcohol fueled sex,the more I miss her,the more I feel alone,I feel less alone wen I actually am alone if that makes sense,it's not all bad tho,for the longest i made it my goal to get her back,and that had me saving up everything and hittin the gym daily,even tho she basically said keep leavin her alone like I have been,I was left over with my savings account lookin very very healthy,and with a good foundation to keep my body getting brolic,I don't even know what the point of me typing all this up was,I know eventually I'll get over her,I just have to out myself in a position to meet another great girl,until then I'll keep it ignant and fukk bytches get money,thanks for listening brehs

 

[kevm3]

Let's get back on the 'man mentality' lessons

Hunter Mentality part 2
In the olden days before these ultra efficient systems where essentially everything is provided for us, we had to hunt for our food or gather it somehow, someway. If we didn't find food, we perished. What this environment created was a type of person that had to be truly accountable. If you didn't go out and handle your business, you wouldn't survive. Another key characteristic of the hunter was that the hunter knew that he had to pursue. He had to make a conscious effort to go out and look for his sustenance.

One thing I notice about a lot of today's generation is the passivity. A lot of this was drilled into you from your schooling. Do what the authority's tell you and you will be provided for. Get 'the grades' and you'll get a nice, little comfortable job. However, we see that all of that is an illusion. The reality is that nothing is guaranteed, as your job will fire you in the drop of a dime. However, this passive attitude still remains. What do most people do if they get fired and can't find another job? A lot of them go into depression and allow themselves to sulk. We've removed the hunter's mentality from today's man and he no longer has any entrepreneurial ability to go out and seek his own sustenance when some company isn't providing for him.

We've also lost out on the wisdom that it is a great thing to have a stockpile of reserves. When most people get some cash, such as a cash return, what do they do with it? Most likely they will go and spend it all. Then they wonder why they are so stressed out and constantly under pressure at their job. They build no reserves, so if they in a jam where no income is coming in, they are stuck. Think about the story in the Bible where there were 7 years of abundance and 7 years of famine. If Pharoah didn't listen to Joseph when God warned him about this and decide to stock up during those 7 years of abundance, those 7 years of famine would have destroyed the populace. We live in such a time where there is enough prosperity that we don't believe we ever have to store up reserves. If you went to someone's house and you seen he had a couple of years worth of water and canned food stored up, you would probably think he was some 'conspiracy theorist' or some kind of nut because you've never lived in a time where you couldn't just up and go to a stocked grocery store. However, if it has happened in the past, it can happen again. This applies to money as well. If you have a large sum coming in, you simply have to stash some of it away as a fall-back fund because you never know when you will be let go from your job. Also, a large fall-back fund allows you much more independence, since you aren't forced to be at a job you detest.

One thing I learned in life is that things simply don't 'come to you.' If you wait for it to just come to you, you'll be waiting forever. You have to go up and get it. What does this really mean? It means you need to start training yourself to develop a stockpile of reserves, and you also need to develop a hunter's mentality to where you have some entrepreneurial talent. The reality is that we are living in a time where corporations exert a huge amount of leverage on any nation and their goal is profit, first and foremost. Labor cost is a profit, and they want you, a human resource, as cheaply as possible. If you simply leave your income up to some company paying you, you will be making less and less as time goes on, to the point where you can't even survive.

You ever wonder why they don't teach you entrepreneurship or personal finance in school? The reason is because school isn't intended for learning. It's intended to make you an obedient employee and a consumer. This will lead to someone who is perpetually in debt and a wage slave. It's up to you to choose to break that cycle or not.

 

[MikelArteta]

Substance attracts substance

I still can't seem to get over my ex brehs,deep down I don't want to,it was all my fault,I completely turned a small break I initiated until a clusterfukk of a mistake,I loved this girl and she loved me,I was her first, and she was ready,we had her family's blessing and she knew her role,and she always held me down,always,and now I find myself week in and week out in a constant daze fueled by alcohol and drugs,I'm not an addict by no means,I only feel the need to do those things wen im In the companionship of a woman,I don't know why,I guess that's why I relate to the weeknd's music so much,cuz in his music he's always talkin about that one good girl,and how now all he does is just have sex with random women while drinking and takin drugs,but it doesn't work,same with me,I work at a strip club,and for the very fact that I sell drugs,I'm constantly fukkin strippers or customers after work or during work,while drinking,on coke,Molly's,stoned. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me,I'm makin a lot of money while partying with strippers that look bad as fukk and they givin ya boi the puss for free,but it's like the more I fall deep into this other world of constant drug and alcohol fueled sex,the more I miss her,the more I feel alone,I feel less alone wen I actually am alone if that makes sense,it's not all bad tho,for the longest i made it my goal to get her back,and that had me saving up everything and hittin the gym daily,even tho she basically said keep leavin her alone like I have been,I was left over with my savings account lookin very very healthy,and with a good foundation to keep my body getting brolic,I don't even know what the point of me typing all this up was,I know eventually I'll get over her,I just have to out myself in a position to meet another great girl,until then I'll keep it ignant and fukk bytches get money,thanks for listening brehs

 

[kevm3]

I still can't seem to get over my ex brehs,deep down I don't want to,it was all my fault,I completely turned a small break I initiated until a clusterfukk of a mistake,I loved this girl and she loved me,I was her first, and she was ready,we had her family's blessing and she knew her role,and she always held me down,always,and now I find myself week in and week out in a constant daze fueled by alcohol and drugs,I'm not an addict by no means,I only feel the need to do those things wen im In the companionship of a woman,I don't know why,I guess that's why I relate to the weeknd's music so much,cuz in his music he's always talkin about that one good girl,and how now all he does is just have sex with random women while drinking and takin drugs,but it doesn't work,same with me,I work at a strip club,and for the very fact that I sell drugs,I'm constantly fukkin strippers or customers after work or during work,while drinking,on coke,Molly's,stoned. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me,I'm makin a lot of money while partying with strippers that look bad as fukk and they givin ya boi the puss for free,but it's like the more I fall deep into this other world of constant drug and alcohol fueled sex,the more I miss her,the more I feel alone,I feel less alone wen I actually am alone if that makes sense,it's not all bad tho,for the longest i made it my goal to get her back,and that had me saving up everything and hittin the gym daily,even tho she basically said keep leavin her alone like I have been,I was left over with my savings account lookin very very healthy,and with a good foundation to keep my body getting brolic,I don't even know what the point of me typing all this up was,I know eventually I'll get over her,I just have to out myself in a position to meet another great girl,until then I'll keep it ignant and fukk bytches get money,thanks for listening brehs

More than anything, you're learning the lesson of the illusion of all of the superficiality of what we're told to value in society. "Bad hoes and money'". Humans were made to love each other, and all drugs and 'bad hoes' will do is provide temporary pleasure before that void returns.
Deion Sanders had the same dilemma. He had all the bad hoes, a ton of money, just won the Super Bowl and right after, tried to commit suicide. He found that all of those things of the world didn't fulfill him, but Jesus did.

http://www.redlegsreview.com/2012/12/deion-sanders-attempted-suicide-while.html

Anyhow, I'd recommend you get away from that environment. The longer you stay, the more rooted the drugs and loose women will become and it will have a strong magnetic pull that will be hard to escape. You're seeing that although it looks tempting on the outside, it is unfulfilling on the inside.

You should also count your blessings in that you learned early the value of someone who actually cares for you> It's unfortunate that you had to lose that woman to learn the lesson, but next time a quality woman comes around, hopefully you won't make that same mistake.

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

More than anything, you're learning the lesson of the illusion of all of the superficiality of what we're told to value in society. "Bad hoes and money'". Humans were made to love each other, and all drugs and 'bad hoes' will do is provide temporary pleasure before that void returns.
Deion Sanders had the same dilemma. He had all the bad hoes, a ton of money, just won the Super Bowl and right after, tried to commit suicide. He found that all of those things of the world didn't fulfill him, but Jesus did.

http://www.redlegsreview.com/2012/12/deion-sanders-attempted-suicide-while.html

Anyhow, I'd recommend you get away from that environment. The longer you stay, the more rooted the drugs and loose women will become and it will have a strong magnetic pull that will be hard to escape. You're seeing that although it looks tempting on the outside, it is unfulfilling on the inside.

You should also count your blessings in that you learned early the value of someone who actually cares for you> It's unfortunate that you had to lose that woman to learn the lesson, but next time a quality woman comes around, hopefully you won't make that same mistake.

Your so right,I tell myself what's the point of makin all,this easy money if none of it will get her back,or make me happy,yeah buying what I want just buys me temporary satisfaction,it doesn't take away that feeling of emptiness and loneliness. it's allowed me to be able to help my mom out a lot,even tho it's dirty money,but I don't know anymore,I was a screw up growin up,I went straight once I became an adult and got off probation,seen it as a second chance since I had a clean slate,I did pretty good in school,was always in advance classes,but makin money growin up always grabbed my attention,at one time all my teachers told me I was their first honors student with an anklet monitor,school just never grabbed my attention to put myself through it just for a chance to make something of myself,with her it was worth doing it,she saw all of my potential and she pushed and pushed and pressured me,askin me how do I plan to be a good husband and provider that I promised her I would be,but now that I got myself into this "drug game" it feels so natural to me,sleeping around with little effort makes me feel like maybe this is what I'm good at,making money.not every one is meant to be good,or maybe I'm just takin the easy way out,I don't know anymore,maybe I do need to get to church,I appreciate your advice,I mean that

 

[kevm3]

Why am I talking about lessons of manhood? Because they simply weren't passed down to a large extent in our generation. Many parents parked their kids in front of a videogame and simply told them to 'do well in school'. School is a government institution and the government is largely controlled by an elite sector that wants to remove 'manhood' from men... why? Because it makes controlling the population much easier. If you look in the media or what's propagated in school, it's essentially men are bad, females need to rule... men need to be more passive, less domineering, etc. You keep on listening to that nonsense, you'll end up wearing a skirt and walking with a switch. It's important that we have these discussions about manhood, because a lot of guys have never even heard many of these lessons.

God gave man the authority to be head of the household. It even tells you in the Bible no woman should have authority over a man...and yet in this modern day, how many men are comfortable deferring to a woman and letting a woman make all the choices? Is it no wonder they don't respect men anymore? Authority is something that has to be ESTABLISHED. Just because you are a male doesn't give you authority. What gives you authority is the ability to stand on principle and make sound decisions. Think of football and how different coaches run their organization. You have some of those 'player coaches' who are too buddy with the players and end up losing their respect and end up getting ran over and you have no-nonsense coaches who hold their players accountable and don't listen to excuses. The latter may be hard on their players, but players who are winners love playing for these coaches because they want to win. We have way too many buddy buddy type of men in this day and age who are always cutting excuses for themselves and for the women they deal with and have no kind of principle and standard. Your standards, principles and the actions you take based off of them will decide much of where you end up in life.

 

[kevm3]

Your so right,I tell myself what's the point of makin all,this easy money if none of it will get her back,or make me happy,yeah buying what I want just buys me temporary satisfaction,it doesn't take away that feeling of emptiness and loneliness. it's allowed me to be able to help my mom out a lot,even tho it's dirty money,but I don't know anymore,I was a screw up growin up,I went straight once I became an adult and got off probation,seen it as a second chance since I had a clean slate,I did pretty good in school,was always in advance classes,but makin money growin up always grabbed my attention,at one time all my teachers told me I was their first honors student with an anklet monitor,school just never grabbed my attention to put myself through it just for a chance to make something of myself,with her it was worth doing it,she saw all of my potential and she pushed and pushed and pressured me,askin me how do I plan to be a good husband and provider that I promised her I would be,but now that I got myself into this "drug game" it feels so natural to me,sleeping around with little effort makes me feel like maybe this is what I'm good at,making money.not every one is meant to be good,or maybe I'm just takin the easy way out,I don't know anymore,maybe I do need to get to church,I appreciate your advice,I mean that

I hated school too. School is there to make you an obedient employee. I don't have a perpetual 'employee' mindset, so I myself am making plans on business ventures . You have shown that you have an entrepreneurial mindset, but you are selling the wrong product. Definitely get right with God, and also hold yourself to a higher standard and get up out of that life of quick, dirty money and scandalous women. It'll get you nowhere, I promise you that. Also, start reading books on entrepreneurship and start making plans on starting your own business. You may have to work a job here and there in the meanwhile, but it'll pay off. Definitely make the moves to rid yourself of that negative environment before it has a magnetic hold on you. God bless.

 

[Ohene]

@Asantehene you my dawg but that's exactly why when you said it's not about skin color I had to give you the :henrycmon: . It's not like I'm a skinny girl who says "guys don't like me cuz I'm fat". It's facts that if you blick some girls won't fukk with you at all. I remember I was at a party and these two girls didn't think I could hear them but I did and they said "he'd be good if he wasn't dark" man I heard the same shyt from black women too. It use to get to me big time but now I'm just like fukk those people. Who are you to say that but you'd fukk some aids infested nikka cuz he lightskin. If a girl looks good ima holla regardless. How does "he look good but he dark" even make sense. I either look good or I don't. You gotta brush these heaux off man

lol it wasnt that I didnt already know...all I was saying was that although there are people on that bullshyt you can still eat / shouldnt let it deter you because theyre are plenty who dont have that lightskin/darkskin complex. but i digress. the worst part is when black women say it to be frank. this chick was half/half but i've heard dark skin women say they like lightskin guys more/discriminate and thats when it really gets confusing.

fukk em all

 

[Grams]

More than anything, light skinned girls gravitate towards dark skinned dudes, so I don't understand this whole 'women don't like dark skinned guys thing.' One instance of a woman that ain't feeling you? No sweat, there's a ton other that are.

You don't understand breh. There's a difference between darkskin and blick. I can't speak for @Asantehene but I'm blick.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Blick

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Blick
So black that one appears slick- like oil.
I thought I was dark til I seen dat nikka- his ass is blick!

shyt rough outchea but I'm getting through it alie