Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

You don't understand breh. There's a difference between darkskin and blick. I can't speak for @Asantehene but I'm blick.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Blick



shyt rough outchea but I'm getting through it alie

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[Grams]

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[Brandsdale]

@Grams I'm feeling a way breh.

There's this chick I bagged way back in the day...cool chick (light skinned/half white half black). We went out once last winter and I guess probablywould've more but we lived pretty far away from each other in school and in the summer my broken ankle ruined the flex. She always seemed like a nice/cool chick...and interested in the kid too. Nothing over the top but why go out with a dude if you aint at least attracted to him and continue talking after? Perhaps

Anyways, a few weeks back...I messaged this chick cause I hadnt spoke to her in a very long time. Turns out she moved to Ottawa to do an internship for a year. We do a bit of catching up i guess and that was that.

Weeks later...today, I'm bored watching raptors halftime and get on twitter to see what some ppl i know (via Google, I dont have twitter) are saying. Tell me how I see a status from this chick saying, "All darksins...ew." Then I see the date and think to myself damn...that was around the time I holla'ed at her.



I'm speechless. I havent had a midnight boy wakeup call in quite some time . My homie thinks that might have even been a subliminal to me . fukk HOH...I'm straight TGLS (treat girls like shyt) mode now

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

I hated school too. School is there to make you an obedient employee. I don't have a perpetual 'employee' mindset, so I myself am making plans on business ventures . You have shown that you have an entrepreneurial mindset, but you are selling the wrong product. Definitely get right with God, and also hold yourself to a higher standard and get up out of that life of quick, dirty money and scandalous women. It'll get you nowhere, I promise you that. Also, start reading books on entrepreneurship and start making plans on starting your own business. You may have to work a job here and there in the meanwhile, but it'll pay off. Definitely make the moves to rid yourself of that negative environment before it has a magnetic hold on you. God bless.

I Indefinitely am gonna do something constructive with this money,I plan to keep at it another 6 months,by then I should have a enough to own beach front property in Mexico and open up an Internet cafe

 

[nalej]

I Indefinitely am gonna do something constructive with this money,I plan to keep at it another 6 months,by then I should have a enough to own beach front property in Mexico and open up an Internet cafe

you sure you wanna move down to mexico right now?

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

you sure you wanna move down to mexico right now?

Imma be by the beach,plus I'm plugged in with people in TJ and Rosarito

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

I needta cop some "sex sweats".

Cant be answering the door in some pajamas on the late night but cant be wearin no damn jeans either.

 

[Pyrexcup]

I caught a private L

I went out last week with my boys and this girl was showing me interest, coming up to me and hanging out with me for night. Since I'm the kind of person that becomes nonchalant when I'm under the influence and I've never been approached by a white girl before, I didn't have any motivation to ask for her number, even though me and her were speaking and dancing together.

My boys kept telling me that she was a top shelf girl and that I should get the number before we left but 'cause I was under the influence, I was like and tbh, I don't remember her looking that nice

Now I've seen the pictures from the club that night..she was decent

Spoiler

How big of an L did I catch? Can the Becky connoisseurs () tell me where she ranks? I need to know so I know where my bar is set from now on when I go out

she looks good like one of those artsy type of girls the type of girls you can show off to your family. you missed the goal though she already put in all the work for you happens to all of us

 

[Youseenmywork]

What if your girl did this to you ?

https://mobile.twitter.com/Cleatscleavage/media/grid?idx=12&tid=539829219636047872

 

[EA]

she looks good like one of those artsy type of girls the type of girls you can show off to your family. you missed the goal though she already put in all the work for you happens to all of us

Breh, she was dancing in rhythm to club bangers. I should have made sure I got the number simply for that fact

My game is shocking though. I haven't been in a flirting situation with a girl since I first met my ex and that was over 2 years ago. The only silver lining is that I'm attracting better looking girls now than I was when I was last single so I guess all the weight loss has paid off

 

[Ohene]

Breh, she was dancing in rhythm to club bangers. I should have made sure I got the number simply for that fact

My game is shocking though. I haven't been in a flirting situation with a girl since I first met my ex and that was over 2 years ago. The only silver lining is that I'm attracting better looking girls now than I was when I was last single so I guess all the weight loss has paid off

it could actually work that much bhetter for you if u see her again. what are the chances you may?

 

[EA]

it could actually work that much bhetter for you if u see her again. what are the chances you may?

Probably 50/50 if I go to that club again. It's one of those clubs that people go to on a regular but she said it was her first time going there so it's a toss up.

 

[re'up]

My post from another thread today, I wanted to throw this in here because I posted in here about this 2 years ago almost, and wanted to share the conclusion. Partly as my own processing of this, but also to say, how much I appreciate the site and all the posters, this thread in this instance. I have always been a perceptive, intelligent person, and didn't have major issues with women, mainly with actual romance, but this thread helped me articulate, and form some of my more insightful thoughts on relationships with women, and women themselves…and my friends, and others now constantly use me as a source of advice and counsel, which is cool.

So, this girl, I sent Valentines Day flowers to, and we got closer and closer, but always had that guard up and would always pull back….I finally just said fukk it, and wrote was basically a love letter and gave her that, and $500 bracelet that was perfect for her, no simp….i am just someone whose time may be limited, I have to make most of it, and I truly cared about her. So, put it all out there, and then went back and forth, for months as she clung to me, slipping up her and there with those clear signs she was really into me, and I just had to finally get closure and move on, because it was unhealthy as fukk for me. In the end, it was good thing, I got to be there for and do nice things for someone I like, and if I hurt a little…it's a price I can live with.

I had that talk yesterday,… girl is Iraqi with a range of issues…..Her brother and I are like family, and I fell for her hard, years ago, she basically has no education past hs, no career except working in families store, religious low self esteem, unable or unwilling to do anything else, and zero support she is a women in an Iraqi patriarchy, and is mid 30's….Very sheltered, she had 1 ex who she was with since 15 to late 20's…and since has had no relationships (or much sex, presumably at all…and I really tried with her, I had to really push her to hear that 'Im not ready'….which was a relief, because it was an agonizing process, and I put myself all the way out there. And I am self aware and perceptive, without arrogance to know she really likes me…she just can't do it, she has her security blanket and won't let go. And she really went thru the whole process, or something similar, when that talk happened….denial, slight anger, acceptance…and finally 'you can call me for anything, someone to talk to, money, anything, except a date..not ready for that', I just said if she was ever ready, I hope i would be too, and if not please find someone who really loves her…and thats it from me. I said everything I wanted to say. Best advice is always make what you want clear, never be deceptive, and be ready to walk away, no anger, no regret, no resentment. More then a little raw, because I genuinely love her,…but it can't be any other way right now. Yeah I am all in my feelings on my kevin Gates shyt today. And of course, theres are too many girls known, and unknown to me that would be with me…to put myself through anymore of that.

 

[karim]

My post from another thread today, I wanted to throw this in here because I posted in here about this 2 years ago almost, and wanted to share the conclusion. Partly as my own processing of this, but also to say, how much I appreciate the site and all the posters, this thread in this instance. I have always been a perceptive, intelligent person, and didn't have major issues with women, mainly with actual romance, but this thread helped me articulate, and form some of my more insightful thoughts on relationships with women, and women themselves…and my friends, and others now constantly use me as a source of advice and counsel, which is cool.

So, this girl, I sent Valentines Day flowers to, and we got closer and closer, but always had that guard up and would always pull back….I finally just said fukk it, and wrote was basically a love letter and gave her that, and $500 bracelet that was perfect for her, no simp….i am just someone whose time may be limited, I have to make most of it, and I truly cared about her. So, put it all out there, and then went back and forth, for months as she clung to me, slipping up her and there with those clear signs she was really into me, and I just had to finally get closure and move on, because it was unhealthy as fukk for me. In the end, it was good thing, I got to be there for and do nice things for someone I like, and if I hurt a little…it's a price I can live with.

I had that talk yesterday,… girl is Iraqi with a range of issues…..Her brother and I are like family, and I fell for her hard, years ago, she basically has no education past hs, no career except working in families store, religious low self esteem, unable or unwilling to do anything else, and zero support she is a women in an Iraqi patriarchy, and is mid 30's….Very sheltered, she had 1 ex who she was with since 15 to late 20's…and since has had no relationships (or much sex, presumably at all…and I really tried with her, I had to really push her to hear that 'Im not ready'….which was a relief, because it was an agonizing process, and I put myself all the way out there. And I am self aware and perceptive, without arrogance to know she really likes me…she just can't do it, she has her security blanket and won't let go. And she really went thru the whole process, or something similar, when that talk happened….denial, slight anger, acceptance…and finally 'you can call me for anything, someone to talk to, money, anything, except a date..not ready for that', I just said if she was ever ready, I hope i would be too, and if not please find someone who really loves her…and thats it from me. I said everything I wanted to say. Best advice is always make what you want clear, never be deceptive, and be ready to walk away, no anger, no regret, no resentment. More then a little raw, because I genuinely love her,…but it can't be any other way right now. Yeah I am all in my feelings on my kevin Gates shyt today. And of course, theres are too many girls known, and unknown to me that would be with me…to put myself through anymore of that.

You send a bytch a 500 Dollar bracelet and a love letter (and got nothing out of it) and think that wasn't simping?

 

[Ohene]

Probably 50/50 if I go to that club again. It's one of those clubs that people go to on a regular but she said it was her first time going there so it's a toss up.

if your homies know her you can always ask them to set it up ...without setting it up