Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SpacelySprockets]

You automatically friend zoned yourself for this pathetic shyt

it was on the way to where I was going anyway, we just walked together

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

it was on the way to where I was going anyway, we just walked together

still, you either spit or walk and not pay attention her

 

[Grams]

@SpacelySprockets I used to be on the same shyt. "Lemme build something up and then swoop in at the end of the semester" I was friendzoning MYSELF cuz I was too friendly with these heaux instead of being direct and upfront. That was a huge mistake. I think it was a confidence issue but that mascot shyt been passed with me. I'm on a new wave. The first time you see a girl and you know you like her, you gotta be on that quick.



This goes out to anybody reading this who was on that same mindset as well. "Strike while the iron is hot"

 

[Fatboi1]

Man it feels great having things to do during the day and looking forward to learning new things. It's been about two weeks since I last spoke to my ex and had her on my mind constantly. Since I've been working my new job, I've been legitimately busy and occupied mentally.

In addition to that when I come home in the after work I immerse myself in Japanese(music, anime with no subtitles, youtube videos, SRS reps for learning and remembering Kanji etc.) since I'm learning it and want to be fluent when I go to Japan in the next few years. I've pretty much been under little stress the past two weeks and have felt better than ever mentally at least.

When you're occupied you don't have time to be stressing over some basic broad.

 

[MikelArteta]

When you're occupied you don't have time to be stressing over some basic broad

which is why a woman should be like the 4th or 5th priority on your list

 

[MikelArteta]

Remember its all about how you make a woman "feel"

It's like a drug and you produce a certain emotion in her and that is what she loves about you. Why do you think that when they stop feeling that emotion many of them cheat or fall out of love . Once that emotional high is no longer there you are treated like a used up wash rag.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Remember its all about how you make a woman "feel"

It's like a drug and you produce a certain emotion in her and that is what she loves about you. Why do you think that when they stop feeling that emotion many of them cheat or fall out of love . Once that emotional high is no longer there you are treated like a used up wash rag.

stupid hoez

 

[RealAssanova]

Brehs I need your help

So I met this chick last year in the fall semester at school cuz we had class together and sat next to each other. We ended up talking a lot and doing work together and I pretty much walked her to the bus stop everyday after class, me being as desperate as I was at the time, I thought we had something special building. We got to know a lot about each other. So I finally ask her for her number the last week of class and she gives it to me, I text her throughout the break to dry responses that take centuries for her to send. So now im figuring this isnt going to go anywhere at this rate so I ended up texting her telling her how I felt about her. It wasnt mutual she said she only see's me as a friend blah blah blah so my soul is burning but I still wanna try to do mission impossible and make it out of the friendzone.. we never even talked again cuz I texted her a few days later and she didn't respond to me so I just said fukk it. We would see each other on campus here and there during the spring semester and just not say anything.. it wasnt awkward for me I was just like nikkas get curved everyday b.

So this years fall semester ive been running into her a lot more often than before but we still didn't speak not one time and at that point I didnt really care either. Last week during finals week I was in the library with another chick studying for finals, then she walked in and sat not too far from us. Then when we were done studying I went to the cafe to get something to eat.. lo and behold I end up running into her again, she's right in front of me in the line to get food and im just like. So I get my food, she's there with her friends waiting to get all of their food.. I go sit my plate down at a table and go to the bathroom real quick, I come back and her and her friends are sitting right in front of my table.. didn't give it much mind, ate and kept it moving.

A day later I get a text from her, December 2014.. mind you the last time we talked was probably December 2013, a whole year. She's like "hey we see each other so may times and never say hi".. me being the dumb simp I am entertains the convo and talks to her.. im not saying anything crazy tho, then she's saying how she missed talking to me and how last time we talked she was shy now she's changed. I'm not sure what to make of it.. why did she randomly hit me up a year later after curving me? Did she really just wanna see how I was doing or is she having 2nd thoughts on curving me? What should I do

what she meant by hey we see each other soo many times and never say hi...was why haven't you approached me and said wassup?

she is at a vulnerable point where she couldn't come to you at the same comfort level like before when ya'll were cool..cuz you can actually reject her this time..which is why she came at you the puzzy way. This is good, because it gives you power.

Now, i wouldn't entertain her at all. She ain't shy no more? bytch was never shy to begin with. All you should've said was nicee. Don't let this shyt start fukkin with your mind and if you say you got options, then forget her. But if you do decide to get at her, you gotta do it almost in a nonchalantly/a$$hole way. No texting/no calling..unless you telling her what time you comin to scoop her up.

In any case, this hoe should either be a non-option or a really really LAST option.

 

[Turbulent]

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what she meant by hey we see each other soo many times and never say hi...was why haven't you approached me and said wassup?

she is at a vulnerable point where she couldn't come to you at the same comfort level like before when ya'll were cool..cuz you can actually reject her this time..which is why she came at you the puzzy way. This is good, because it gives you power.

Now, i wouldn't entertain her at all. She ain't shy no more? bytch was never shy to begin with. All you should've said was nicee. Don't let this shyt start fukkin with your mind and if you say you got options, then forget her. But if you do decide to get at her, you gotta do it almost in a nonchalantly/a$$hole way. No texting/no calling..unless you telling her what time you comin to scoop her up.

In any case, this hoe should either be a non-option or a really really LAST option.

this dude knows!

 

[kevm3]

Man it feels great having things to do during the day and looking forward to learning new things. It's been about two weeks since I last spoke to my ex and had her on my mind constantly. Since I've been working my new job, I've been legitimately busy and occupied mentally.

In addition to that when I come home in the after work I immerse myself in Japanese(music, anime with no subtitles, youtube videos, SRS reps for learning and remembering Kanji etc.) since I'm learning it and want to be fluent when I go to Japan in the next few years. I've pretty much been under little stress the past two weeks and have felt better than ever mentally at least.

When you're occupied you don't have time to be stressing over some basic broad.

That's the power of focusing on things other than women and being a man that does now allow his life to revolve around women. A bad woman is like a drug. It's something that ultimately ruins us, but has such a strong magnetic pull that we don't want to let her go.

When you take a step back and find happiness without a woman, you learn that it's not going to be a woman that makes you happy. She can add to it, but she isn't the root source of your happiness. This enables you to more carefully choose who you allow to enter into your life so as not to disturb your peace of mind.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Ok so check it.

I was talking to this one girl at work and we made plans to fukk. The day before thanksgiving she tells me to text her. She tells me that she doesn't feel comfortable doing this with me because the dude "she's involved with" is getting out of prison on X-Mas Eve after being there for 4 years. So she's like I was kinda offering to hang out with you at the movies or dinner in place of this. I take this as a sympathy ploy instead of something from the heart so I don't go for it.

I find out:
a)She was already messing with someone else
b)Two days later she got another dude number
c)Two days after that she bowling with some dude she called her boo which most likely isn't the dude in a.
d)She's not even on it with the dude that's getting out of prison anymore.


Then I find out she told two girls at work about our situation. And she told her friend (lets call her Orange) who I use to mess with/smash years ago about it. I didn't tell anyone about our business.

After she realizes I'm not talking to her anymore, she tells Orange that I said she had a nasty body after she had a baby when all I said was that I liked her body before she had the baby. Now this conversation happened two months ago and she's just now telling Orange! This was some poor attempt to turn Orange against me because she pressed me about it all upset. This attempt backfired though because me and Orange talked about fukking again because I told her I'm not on speaking terms with homegirl right now.

I haven't spoke to her since the day before thanksgiving. Not one word. I don't plan to either. I don't like being played like that. And she's been visibility upset that I won't speak to her. So much that she stormed out the door one night after work.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Ok so check it.

I was talking to this one girl at work and we made plans to fukk. The day before thanksgiving she tells me to text her. She tells me that she doesn't feel comfortable doing this with me because the dude "she's involved with" is getting out of prison on X-Mas Eve after being there for 4 years. So she's like I was kinda offering to hang out with you at the movies or dinner in place of this. I take this as a sympathy ploy instead of something from the heart so I don't go for it.

I find out:
a)She was already messing with someone else
b)Two days later she got another dude number
c)Two days after that she bowling with some dude she called her boo which most likely isn't the dude in a.
d)She's not even on it with the dude that's getting out of prison anymore.


Then I find out she told two girls at work about our situation. And she told her friend (lets call her Orange) who I use to mess with/smash years ago about it. I didn't tell anyone about our business.

After she realizes I'm not talking to her anymore, she tells Orange that I said she had a nasty body after she had a baby when all I said was that I liked her body before she had the baby. Now this conversation happened two months ago and she's just now telling Orange! This was some poor attempt to turn Orange against me because she pressed me about it all upset. This attempt backfired though because me and Orange talked about fukking again because I told her I'm not on speaking terms with homegirl right now.

I haven't spoke to her since the day before thanksgiving. Not one word. I don't plan to either. I don't like being played like that. And she's been visibility upset that I won't speak to her. So much that she stormed out the door one night after work.

The good ol "messing up your game because you're giving attention to someone else" trick.

 

[Momentum]

whenevery our writing paragraphs about chicks your not dating, haven't been on a date yet, haven't smashed its bushes!!

and chicks look at desireability, i've already said some chicks look at me like but then when they see my ex, or i tell em about my trysts with model suddenly its tell me more reinscarf

 

[kevm3]

Man you better quit dealing with all them chicks at your job. You're creating a volatile situation.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I still can't seem to get over my ex brehs,deep down I don't want to,it was all my fault,I completely turned a small break I initiated until a clusterfukk of a mistake,I loved this girl and she loved me,I was her first, and she was ready,we had her family's blessing and she knew her role,and she always held me down,always,and now I find myself week in and week out in a constant daze fueled by alcohol and drugs,I'm not an addict by no means,I only feel the need to do those things wen im In the companionship of a woman,I don't know why,I guess that's why I relate to the weeknd's music so much,cuz in his music he's always talkin about that one good girl,and how now all he does is just have sex with random women while drinking and takin drugs,but it doesn't work,same with me,I work at a strip club,and for the very fact that I sell drugs,I'm constantly fukkin strippers or customers after work or during work,while drinking,on coke,Molly's,stoned. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me,I'm makin a lot of money while partying with strippers that look bad as fukk and they givin ya boi the puss for free,but it's like the more I fall deep into this other world of constant drug and alcohol fueled sex,the more I miss her,the more I feel alone,I feel less alone wen I actually am alone if that makes sense,it's not all bad tho,for the longest i made it my goal to get her back,and that had me saving up everything and hittin the gym daily,even tho she basically said keep leavin her alone like I have been,I was left over with my savings account lookin very very healthy,and with a good foundation to keep my body getting brolic,I don't even know what the point of me typing all this up was,I know eventually I'll get over her,I just have to out myself in a position to meet another great girl,until then I'll keep it ignant and fukk bytches get money,thanks for listening brehs

Happens to the best of us. You just gotta treat it as a life lesson. Just know that it could be worse... much worse.