With a little bit of self-reflection I was coming off a lil too strong this year after I got the number.
I'm selling hoes dreams in 2015.
I'm selling hoes dreams in 2015.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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So, my friend (or at least I thought) the other day I guess trying to show me "tough love" tells me my ex gf already has a new bf. Now Im not gonna lie, it hit me but I was still likecause we only broke up 5 months ago but I know she was probably already gone emotionally before that. I more
at my friend for telling this nonsense. Im not a bitter or angry person, Im not gonna be like my ex needs to get hit by a rogue asteroid or anything, if she happy I'm
about it. But now my mind is stuck on it like
because Im still out here trying to just find a peace of mind. I dunno brehs. I just want peace and a good holiday. But to hear that shyt is like she just replaced a nikka like that. I didn't mean much to her. Even after being her rock when her moms died. Now some new nikka just swoops right in and gets the benefits of it all. Anyways brehs, Ive been working 16 hour shift for the past 2 weeks no days off so I haven't read this thread in a min. Hope you gents having a good holiday. I will, once the check clears
That's why we're questioning why do guys put in all this effort. You do all this stuff and as soon as she loses emotions for you, you are absolutely nothing to her. You get replaced like nothing, so what did all of that really mean? "Being there", "helping a woman out in her time of need", etc. mean nothing to a lot of these modern women. It's all about feelings and entertainment.
It takes a bit of time to shake the feeling, but eventually you're going to come to the conclusion of, "Why stress over someone who isn't stressing over me?" God bless.
That's pretty much the conclusion most men have been coming to. PUAs are morphing into mini-sociopaths to get brief access to something 10, 20 or 30 men get before them. Simps are forced to 'deal' with women, aka putting up with suffering and rude behavior in order to get a bit of a woman's time. Rescue rangers are paying all of a woman's bills while some other guy on the side gets the benefits.
There's little use in spending time or mental cycles worried about someone who isn't concerned about you at all. You'll throw your life away doing that. Even these 'bad boys' who the women are making themselves easily available to are expendable. What happens when they go to prison? Think she'll be loyal? What happens if a baller comes around? Think she'll stay around? The same bad boy she was in love with all of a sudden will become a 'loser who needs to get his life together.'
It's simply not worth putting all of that effort into something that brings so little to no return. A lot of the nonsense going on is about 'proving' something to a woman and 'showing you have high value' as if she's some sort of princess who you have to prove worthy of her time. Nah, I'm not proving anything. If you don't like what you see, keep it pushing.
There is so much richness and interesting things to do in life, it would be a waste to spend it trying to be a little boytoy or circus monkey to these modern women. Handle your business, enjoy your life, get closer with God, take care of your family, build with your friends and if you find one of those gem of a women, excellent. If not, you'll still be completely enjoying life.
The reality of the situation is most women are dealing with several guys at once and always keeping their options open. They kick it with you a little while, become 'busy' and disappear for a week, reappear when they're bored and try to blame it on you on some, "hey stranger, why haven't you been hitting me up?" tip. When a woman leaves you, it's like you didn't exist at all. She's just wrapped up in this other guy. What was the point of it all?
I think men in this age are either so ignorant of what's really going on or have such low self esteem that they are willing to completely discard themselves for sex , which is pathetic. If a woman can't respect you and can't deal with you enough without being a headache or a big ball of questions such as you not knowing whether or not she will show up, she should be booted. Too many men are simply happy being one in a roster of many and are overjoyed at 'getting their turn'.
All that jaded and bitter stuff is is an attempt at psychological manipulation to make you feel wrong for directly observing the wrong that someone else is doing.
I remember all the talk about how if you check up on what your girl is doing, you're 'not confident' and you're going to make her cheat because you're insecure. Then they found out their broad peeled out on them regardless of how 'confident' they appeared to be and how much space they gave her. The reality is, they would have saved a ton of time if they verified their woman's trustworthiness. There is nothing insecure about that. In fact, it takes a VERY secure man to ensure his woman is trustworthy, because he deems himself of enough worth that he isn't letting anyone into his graces.
All of the shaming language are just cheater tactics trying to reverse the blame when they get caught doing wrong. It's like the guy who tells his woman, "You shouldn't have looked in my phone if you didn't want to find me cheating. You found what what you were looking for." It's psychological manipulation that works on the weak-minded. There'd be nothing to find if there was nothing shady done.
Seeing things through a realistic perspective is called 'jaded' because it's not presenting the fantasyland, lollipops and gumdrops vision of reality some would like to see, or it's called 'bitter' because it's cutting down on the ability of people to try to run their two-bit game because they're facing increased scrutiny for their funny antics.
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R.I.P. Kobe and Nip, that’s off the rip
heartbreak is a lot like chicken pox brehs...the younger you are when you get it, the better...often the worst situations come when dudes are in their late 20's or even 30's and then experience a tough heartbreak for the first time
if you in highschool/college age and you get that first heartbreak, consider it a blessing, you learned the lesson early
if you in highschool/college age and you get that first heartbreak, consider it a blessing, you learned the lesson early
its get easier i remember my first heartbreak and even my second after awhile it still stings but you remember you've been there before and give it awhile and you'll be fine
the women I thought that was the "one" who I loved even more than my ex fiance and never even thought that was possible after what I been through, I remember when she cheated, i remember in two weeks facebook profile with a new nukka and how much she loved him, and i remember her being in my house with her new fiance telling my mom that she's getting married, and I also remember hating her and bein gbitter, and I also remember true forgiveness and getting over it all I can say is if you follow the steps you can get through it.
I know its hard as hell feeling being replaced, thinking about all you've done, hell I saved my ex from homelessness twice and even got her a gawt damn job and in the end it doesn't mean jack, some next nikka gets the benefits, but in life no one owes you anything.
Time is the great equalizer
Man I'm becoming as good as @Emperor_ReinScarf with that shyt, just tossed two of them in the bushes earlier this week for being annoying and unreasonable.tapping that eject button to the bushes has become second nature lately
years and years ago
kevm3 wrote something on sohh and its always stuck with me
the greatest tool a man has is a quick boot to women.
Like that chick Imessed with earlier this year when she got distant etc. I just booted her ito the bushes almost a year later and shes still emailing me and texting begging for another chance, i'm nothing special well i am
but you know what I mean she coud have 50 guys after her if she wanted.All i did is stand on my two feet in the sand and said NO MORE, without respect as a man you have nothing.
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A big problem is that men are taught that their value lies in their penis, and their genitalia essentially defines them. What's the first thing these rappers or some of these athletes say to diss someone? "Man that's why I smashed your girl."
Men feel as if they are becoming more valuable men by sleeping with more women when in reality, they are engaging in dangerous behavior. Watch what happens when you get the wrong one pregnant or you catch an STD you can't get rid of. This worship of one's own sexuality makes men constantly compromise in order to obtain sex from a woman.
Something that kind of boggles my mind is if you read on some of these sites, guys are bashing women left and right and yet they are still trying to figure out 10,000 tricks to get sex from a woman. Think about some of these PUA sites. They talk about 'red pill this', 'red pill that', but then they go off into a tirade on how to become a chameleon to sneak some sex from a woman.
Most men have no idea about the power of withholding. The reason the modern woman can act as she does is because she is flooded with attention. American simps are so thirsty that they allow the woman to behave in any manner they wish. They value sex so highly, they are willing to put up with any abuse to get it and are willing to discard their character in order to role-play as a guy he thinks the woman will actually find attractive. This sort of man has no real authority. All he has done is take on the female role of using seduction to get something from a woman. Truthfully, a woman should be the one trying to seduce YOU, but men, who either have low self-esteem or no real knowledge, make their presence and attention way to cheap. They allow a woman to talk to them any way possible, come in the door with all kinds of baggage and pop up any time as long as they believe they have a shot at sex. is it any wonder women look as men as disposable? Men allow themselves to be disposable.
Respect is much more important, and you have to be willing to sacrifice things such as a 'shot at sex' in order to maintain it. Respect is something that you have to be worthy of and DEMAND. It will not be given. if you let people get away with things around you, they will continue to attempt to push the bar. You have to be willing to set people straight if they are bringing disparate behavior in your atmosphere. If it means you 'lose your shot' at some broad, that should be perfectly fine. What do you really have if you don't have respect? A brief instance of pleasure before this broad dumps you or uses you up because she has no respect for you?
The reality of the matter is, YOU should be the one giving a woman a shot, not the other way around. She should be the one trying to seduce and earn you. Look at what is happening in Japan. Those men over there are ignoring women and now it's the women who are doing anything to get male attention.
On a deeper note, I see all of this shape-shifting and role-playing as a feminine characteristic. Men shouldn't have a varying personality that shape shifts in order to accommodate a woman. He should have a strong and CONSISTENT personality rooted on principle. The woman should be the one trying to get YOUR attention, not the other way around. The only way for that to happen is to eliminate thirst and stand on your respect, even if it costs you interactions with a girl or two. Having women know they have to act right in your presence is what you need to establish.
Men feel as if they are becoming more valuable men by sleeping with more women when in reality, they are engaging in dangerous behavior. Watch what happens when you get the wrong one pregnant or you catch an STD you can't get rid of. This worship of one's own sexuality makes men constantly compromise in order to obtain sex from a woman.
Something that kind of boggles my mind is if you read on some of these sites, guys are bashing women left and right and yet they are still trying to figure out 10,000 tricks to get sex from a woman. Think about some of these PUA sites. They talk about 'red pill this', 'red pill that', but then they go off into a tirade on how to become a chameleon to sneak some sex from a woman.
Most men have no idea about the power of withholding. The reason the modern woman can act as she does is because she is flooded with attention. American simps are so thirsty that they allow the woman to behave in any manner they wish. They value sex so highly, they are willing to put up with any abuse to get it and are willing to discard their character in order to role-play as a guy he thinks the woman will actually find attractive. This sort of man has no real authority. All he has done is take on the female role of using seduction to get something from a woman. Truthfully, a woman should be the one trying to seduce YOU, but men, who either have low self-esteem or no real knowledge, make their presence and attention way to cheap. They allow a woman to talk to them any way possible, come in the door with all kinds of baggage and pop up any time as long as they believe they have a shot at sex. is it any wonder women look as men as disposable? Men allow themselves to be disposable.
Respect is much more important, and you have to be willing to sacrifice things such as a 'shot at sex' in order to maintain it. Respect is something that you have to be worthy of and DEMAND. It will not be given. if you let people get away with things around you, they will continue to attempt to push the bar. You have to be willing to set people straight if they are bringing disparate behavior in your atmosphere. If it means you 'lose your shot' at some broad, that should be perfectly fine. What do you really have if you don't have respect? A brief instance of pleasure before this broad dumps you or uses you up because she has no respect for you?
The reality of the matter is, YOU should be the one giving a woman a shot, not the other way around. She should be the one trying to seduce and earn you. Look at what is happening in Japan. Those men over there are ignoring women and now it's the women who are doing anything to get male attention.
On a deeper note, I see all of this shape-shifting and role-playing as a feminine characteristic. Men shouldn't have a varying personality that shape shifts in order to accommodate a woman. He should have a strong and CONSISTENT personality rooted on principle. The woman should be the one trying to get YOUR attention, not the other way around. The only way for that to happen is to eliminate thirst and stand on your respect, even if it costs you interactions with a girl or two. Having women know they have to act right in your presence is what you need to establish.
Brehs I've been reading over a bunch of divorce cases for work and I'm telling you all that status money up means nothing.
Dude making 800k a year with a net worth of 14.2 mill his wife cheated.
Dude making 1.2 mill a year has to pay 32k in spousal support, his wife files for divorce
All that status get your money up, does not equate loyalty.
A loyal woman to you will be loyal whether your making 20k working at Walmart or 10 million putting balls in a net
Dude making 800k a year with a net worth of 14.2 mill his wife cheated.
Dude making 1.2 mill a year has to pay 32k in spousal support, his wife files for divorce
All that status get your money up, does not equate loyalty.
A loyal woman to you will be loyal whether your making 20k working at Walmart or 10 million putting balls in a net
Bless't
Living the dream
Same here. I'm not stressing over anything. If we click, we click. If not, safe travels.
I been talking to this girl I've known for a while, I promised her that I would leave my old ways just to be with her bytch just posted a pic with her " dude " 
this is what I get for being loyal?? oh well back to my savage ways 
fukk these hoes
this is what I get for being loyal?? oh well back to my savage ways fukk these hoes
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I been talking to this girl I've known for a while, I promised her that I would leave my old ways just to be with her bytch just posted a pic with her " dude "
breh, never change or attempt to change for a woman.
You think if you told her to delete her instagram/twitter and get rid of her male friends she would?
True true fam that's the shyt that happens when a nikka catches feelings..god damn I almost got lost in the sauce