Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

So, my friend (or at least I thought) the other day I guess trying to show me "tough love" tells me my ex gf already has a new bf. Now Im not gonna lie, it hit me but I was still like cause we only broke up 5 months ago but I know she was probably already gone emotionally before that. I more at my friend for telling this nonsense. Im not a bitter or angry person, Im not gonna be like my ex needs to get hit by a rogue asteroid or anything, if she happy I'm about it. But now my mind is stuck on it like because Im still out here trying to just find a peace of mind. I dunno brehs. I just want peace and a good holiday. But to hear that shyt is like she just replaced a nikka like that. I didn't mean much to her. Even after being her rock when her moms died. Now some new nikka just swoops right in and gets the benefits of it all. Anyways brehs, Ive been working 16 hour shift for the past 2 weeks no days off so I haven't read this thread in a min. Hope you gents having a good holiday. I will, once the check clears

only care so much for a female; not fully.
I would say 25% "I care", 75% "fukk it"
that way if she fukks you over you're not as upset/effected because you only cared so much for her.

I don't put nothing past a female no more. A chick could buy me everything, turn off her phone with me, and pay my rent and something in the back of my head will always think she will run off if the right dude came along.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

True true fam that's the shyt that happens when a nikka catches feelings..god damn I almost got lost in the sauce

that sauce thick as shyt when she added that flour to it.

I tried to do all that ask her what she wants me to do different shyt with my ex........never again

 

[MikelArteta]

I been talking to this girl I've known for a while, I promised her that I would leave my old ways just to be with her bytch just posted a pic with her " dude " this is what I get for being loyal?? oh well back to my savage ways fukk these hoes

never promise a chick you will "change"


if a chick doesnt like you for who you are find one who does breh

loyalty gets you nowhere, but ill still be loyal because thats who I am

 

[MikelArteta]

only care so much for a female; not fully.
I would say 25% "I care", 75% "fukk it"
that way if she fukks you over you're not as upset/effected because you only cared so much for her.

I don't put nothing past a female no more. A chick could buy me everything, turn off her phone with me, and pay my rent and something in the back of my head will always think she will run off if the right dude came along.

I don't expect anything

I look at it like this, lets just say your going to get married one day.

That means only ONE yes ONE chick out every chick you ever dated, casually talked to, had sex with , had feelings for only one chick made it to the point of walking down the aisle and taking your last name

so why stress over all these seasonal ass chicks?

I use to be , , frustrated dismayed now I don't even care

kevin ollie played for 12 nba teams, kept getting cut kept geting , laughed at being a 12th man or not even dressed, but he took experience from every stop, sat back and watched, became a coach before he even turned 40, won a national title and is now making more than he ever did in the nba, instead of being kicked to the curb not being wanted now hes wanted now hes in demand now hes secured.

Any chick that doesn't see value in me THERE LOSS, thanks for the experience brehettes no hard feelings

because you know what? if I get married or even in another secure long term relationship I want a woman who sees me as valuable, I don't want some iffy/flaky oh i couldnt get tyrone but ill settle for you reinscarf type brehette and if I gotta wait so be it

 

[MikelArteta]

I know its hard to do especially with emotions involved but we should have the mindset of thanks for not wasting my time if a woman shows her true colours ala not interested in you. Think of when you just graduated college or was in hs all the jobs you applied for , sometimes got interviews but it didn't work out, but then next thing you got a job at a great place, just imagined if you got that other job you would have never have got that great gig. PATIENCE. Many of these flakey ass chicks that spit you out like cold oatmeal are just stocking shelves at walmart, that 9-5 with benefits not a contract is out there.

1.
You never know what's around the corner, things didn't work out with this brehette , two weeks from now you may meet a much better women from top to bottom

2.
You never know what you may be saved from, as somoene who believes in God I'm not preaching yor anything but He may be saving me from this chick. I remember with my last ex who almost destroyed my life I was warned so much, like a month in I received a fb msg from some hoodrat how my gf is a slut I thought she was just a hater , my mom warned me how she felt something was amiss with her, of course I didn't listen like a stupid idiot.

But you never know, I've mentioned before how I was feeling this chick and she totally disappeared I googled and found out her blog and she was battling severe depression, you never know. In essence this chick could be crazy, depressed, carrying hiv, hepatitis, cheated on every bf in the past, would probably end up screwing you over, and God is like nah b you've been through enough :kony:

I saw my sister and her husband relationship from the beginning, there were no breaks, no wishy washy, no flakes, no I'm not sure how I feel, no drama.

So I know its possible brehs.

Im greedy and selfish in teh regards that I want a woman with only my name on her tongue and in her heart

 

[MikelArteta]

True true fam that's the shyt that happens when a nikka catches feelings..god damn I almost got lost in the sauce

count your blessings, if she could hop to a new nukka that fast, just imagine if you were invested in her more, talking about months or even years.

@Sharp mentioned something that always sticks with me a woman who is loyal will always be loyal, a woman who is monogamous will always be monagamous, it's part of their makeup.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I don't expect anything

I look at it like this, lets just say your going to get married one day.

That means only ONE yes ONE chick out every chick you ever dated, casually talked to, had sex with , had feelings for only one chick made it to the point of walking down the aisle and taking your last name

so why stress over all these seasonal ass chicks?

I use to be , , frustrated dismayed now I don't even care

kevin ollie played for 12 nba teams, kept getting cut kept geting , laughed at being a 12th man or not even dressed, but he took experience from every stop, sat back and watched, became a coach before he even turned 40, won a national title and is now making more than he ever did in the nba, instead of being kicked to the curb not being wanted now hes wanted now hes in demand now hes secured.

Any chick that doesn't see value in me THERE LOSS, thanks for the experience brehettes no hard feelings

because you know what? if I get married or even in another secure long term relationship I want a woman who sees me as valuable, I don't want some iffy/flaky oh i couldnt get tyrone but ill settle for you reinscarf type brehette and if I gotta wait so be it

member when o said I wasn't gone try to get at females no more?... Its been over a month and I'm still on mode

 

[MikelArteta]

member when o said I wasn't gone try to get at females no more?... Its been over a month and I'm still on mode

everytime I had that mindset a chick popped up

 

[The Frozen One]

2015 is almost here..
the year of #HOH

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

everytime I had that mindset a chick popped up

shyt not for me. its all good though

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

2015 is almost here..
the year of #HOH

whats your New Year's HardOnHoesolution?

 

[kaiOogway]

that sauce thick as shyt when she added that flour to it.

I tried to do all that ask her what she wants me to do different shyt with my ex........never again

shyts crazy but atleast its gonna be a lesson there's still a lot of women out there bruh even tho shyt kinda hits after a while

 

[Swing]

you fukkin up breh.
soon she just gone not respond at all then you gone be making a coli topic

Not a coli topic breh but I'll write a little in this thread This is a chick I met twice.

So, I took her out to eat and we had drinks after.

I'm teasing her a bit during dinner and she tells me Im mean. I ask for a doggy bag to give what we didnt eat to a homeless dude outside, she said no thats disgusting. I keep busting her balls a little bit, we get to the bar and she buys drinks for us.

We keep going back and forth, all in good fun... I lean in for a kiss a couple of times, she seems hesitant. I'm getting tired of that shyt and she notices it. I order another drink...

Now Im getting a bit tipsy and I dont know how we got into this discussion, but all of a sudden:

Her: I have the power. You dont even understand, we're too much alike and one has to give in.

Suddenly she hops out the seat, tells me she's had enough, she never does this but she's leaving. I tell her to sit back down. She goes and grabs her coat, once again tells me she's leaving and I shouldn't tell her what to do. This time I actually ask her nicely to sit back down.

Her: Im going to leave, grab your coat.

Me: Sit

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Not a coli topic breh but I'll write a little in this thread This is a chick I met twice.

So, I took her out to eat and we had drinks after.

I'm teasing her a bit during dinner and she tells me Im mean. I ask for a doggy bag to give what we didnt eat to a homeless dude outside, she said no thats disgusting. I keep busting her balls a little bit, we get to the bar and she buys drinks for us.

We keep going back and forth, all in good fun... I lean in for a kiss a couple of times, she seems hesitant. I'm getting tired of that shyt and she notices it. I order another drink...

Now Im getting a bit tipsy and I dont know how we got into this discussion, but all of a sudden:

Her: I have the power. You dont even understand, we're too much alike and one has to give in.

Suddenly she hops out the seat, tells me she's had enough, she never does this but she's leaving. I tell her to sit back down. She goes and grabs her coat, once again tells me she's leaving and I shouldn't tell her what to do. This time I actually ask her nicely to sit back down.

Her: Im going to leave, grab your coat.

Me: Sit

breh it look a blood gang reunion in here with all those red flags

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

One of my mentors put me on some game today.

He said, "Coffee, it's real simple man. When you meet a chick, she's either gonna build with you or destroy you. That's it."

shyt had me like I've seen a lot of chicks tear some good men down.