Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The power of forgiveness is huge. Just as Jesus forgave our sins, we should forget the past and forgive past transgressions. Forgiveness doesn't mean letting a scandalous woman back in your life. It means to let all bitterness and animosity flow from your heart and to simply wash away those negative feelings of the past. It means being able to simply say, "Well, she did me wrong, but that's fine. I'm just happy to be free of her and now have the ability to move on to better things."

It's a natural reaction to want to get revenge on someone who has done us wrong, especially a woman, but let it go. Don't waste time doing vindictive things, harboring hateful feelings, etc. The quicker you learn to let it go, the better you will feel. You don't realize how much harboring ill intentions towards someone affects you until you take a step back and reflect. When you learn this process, you start coming to a point where you can say, "I won't allow shady people to control my emotions and to take me out of my peace and joy.". Life is way too short to be angry and to allow someone to influence your emotions for the worse. Let your heart be filled with joy by embracing forgiveness. God bless.
 
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The Bible tells us it is not good for man to be alone. We also see in it the effects of what a bad woman will do. An adulterous woman is like a deep pit.

Essentially, if you can find a great woman, that's a lovely thing. Otherwise, you got to learn to be single, because having a bad woman will ruin your life. As men, we all have emotions and we'd prefer not to be alone as opposed to being single, but it's also our duty to learn to keep our emotions into control and avoiding turning a woman into something she is not. If she doesn't have any morals but is fine, a lot of times we try to morph her into an upstanding woman when all the signs are there. On the other hand, we have that great girl, but we toss her away because she isn't as 'exciting' as we'd desire. It's little different than the woman passing up the decent dude for the bad boy. We pass up the decent woman for the bad girl because the bad girl is wild, has a big butt, etc., and we end up paying the price down the line.
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and also yep the disease of leeway, she's hot even though shes no good news you try and change her etc., try and make that anaconda a puppy.

I've been guilty of that, now i don't try and change someone. I don't like all teh guys orbiting around, I'm gone. I'd rather find a female who doesn't have a bunch of guys orbiting instead of making her give up
all her male freinds. She' clubs and drinks and parties, that's cool, i'd rather find a girl who doesn't club drink and party instead of trying for her to change her life.
 
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The power of forgiveness is huge. Just as Jesus forgave our sins, we should forget the past and forgive past transgressions. Forgiveness doesn't mean letting a scandalous woman back in your life. It means to let all bitterness and animosity flow from your heart and to simply wash away those negative feelings of the past. It means being able to simply say, "Well, she did me wrong, but that's fine. I'm just happy to be free of her and now have the ability to move on to better things."

It's a natural reaction to want to get revenge on someone who has done us wrong, especially a woman, but let it go. Don't waste time doing vindictive things, harboring hateful feelings, etc. The quicker you learn to let it go, the better you will feel. You don't realize how much harboring ill intentions towards someone affects you until you take a step back and reflect. When you learn this process, you start coming to a point where you can say, "I won't allow shady people to control my emotions and to take me out of my peace and joy.". Life is way too short to be angry and to allow someone to influence your emotions for the worse. Let your heart be filled with joy by embracing forgiveness. God bless.
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yep as well forgiving an dforgetting doesn't mean you have to maintain association
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
and also yep the disease of leeway, she's hot even though shes no good news you try and change her etc., try and make that anaconda a puppy.

I've been guilty of that, now i don't try and change someone. I don't like all teh guys orbiting around, I'm gone. I'd rather find a female who doesn't have a bunch of guys orbiting instead of making her give up
all her male freinds. She' clubs and drinks and parties, that's cool, i'd rather find a girl who doesn't club drink and party instead of trying for her to change her life.
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It takes countless years of pressure to turn a lump of coal into a diamond. Why try to do that when there are already diamonds laying about? I agree that trying to change someone is ultimately a fruitless endeavor and it's nearly impossible to do so with core personality traits. People have to choose to change on their own.

A loyal person is loyal. It doesn't have anything to do with what you do, what game you shoot what resources you provide. Loyalty is part of THEIR moral makeup. If they don't have it, it doesn't matter what you bring to the table. They'll peel off when they perceive a better deal or they'll simply keep you around for provisions will finding entertainment on the side. We, as men, like to imagine we have some unbelievable, super powerful game that far exceeds what the next man has, when in reality, oftentimes, we're just the best entertainment at the moment. We start to think that we got some kind of lock on this or that woman because of something we do, we get attached, and next thing we know, she's gone and we wonder what happened. The only thing game will do is help you become a woman's entertainment for a little while. True relationships require two genuine people who have some semblance of morals, and that means shucking the antics and roleplaying to the side.

The best solution, more times than not, is to simply go out and get what we're looking for instead of trying to morph coals into diamonds. Some men can do it, but I personally don't feel like putting up with that risk. Why waste time trying to change that wild party girl into an angel when there are angels out and about?
 
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ProfessionallyTrill said:
Good shyt in here today :wow:

But gotdamn there is a lot of coal. :damn: I got about 8 numbers in two days and maybe 2 were actually about shyt.
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which is why trying to spit game at random chicks is :camby: majority of the time, way too much investment for little to no return.
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
but is the cold oatmeal worth it?

its crazy all the hoops, games, time we all put in with the end goal being one woman who you don't have to do ish for who will totally be into you and maybe you end up marrying her.

It like they not listening cause all of the time you spend getting rid of chicks adding chicks to roster or whatever ...you could have add to your legacy or to just developedyourself more as a man . The question is why deal with all the flacking, no women not texting you back or calling you back etc .The question is WHY deal with all of that ?
the game :wow:
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