Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
It's hard because our social media was soo connected. I used my Twitter to promote my music and radio show so I see her retweeting my shyt sometimes and curiousity gets me.
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block her on twitter i'm sure its possible?
curiosity killed the cat and will also keep you emotionally connected.
The whole image of being friendly, acting like you don't care is bs to me, I take swift decisive actions to allow myself to heal, if that means blocking and deleting so be it.
in 6 months or whenever you don't care anymore she'll be there if you want t o reconnect or retween.
The Holiday "In"
While the holidays are a great time to spend with family and friends, as well it presents a great opportunity to rest and relax and enjoy some time off work or school. The holidays also brings two opportunities within a week for individuals to rise from the ashes to try and forge an “in” back into your life.
Christmas day and New years, under the disguise of “mass texting” on those two days the famed Merry Christmas and Happy New Years text messages. They have nothing to lose but everything to gain, from exes/former lovers to former friends and toxic individuals that you have severed the ties with will pop up out of the woodwork knowing exactly what they are doing; I call it malicious manipulating tactics, using the goodwill of the holidays to try and restore contact. As you sit there pondering whether to reply before you do if there is even a semblance of emotional connection still left, you will feed it and will be right back at square one, nullifying all your progress made to that day…….or not, however I say don’t take the risk! People are not in your life for a reason, leave them in the past!!
While the holidays are a great time to spend with family and friends, as well it presents a great opportunity to rest and relax and enjoy some time off work or school. The holidays also brings two opportunities within a week for individuals to rise from the ashes to try and forge an “in” back into your life.
Christmas day and New years, under the disguise of “mass texting” on those two days the famed Merry Christmas and Happy New Years text messages. They have nothing to lose but everything to gain, from exes/former lovers to former friends and toxic individuals that you have severed the ties with will pop up out of the woodwork knowing exactly what they are doing; I call it malicious manipulating tactics, using the goodwill of the holidays to try and restore contact. As you sit there pondering whether to reply before you do if there is even a semblance of emotional connection still left, you will feed it and will be right back at square one, nullifying all your progress made to that day…….or not, however I say don’t take the risk! People are not in your life for a reason, leave them in the past!!
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
You know it was all my friends fault. I was doing ok not thinking about shyt until she ruined it by trying to mention something about her moving on and I should too. It only kinda stings a bit because to me it happened so fast. We break up in July and already in dec you got a new bf. Not even dating like a brand new long term bf like my shyt didn't matter. Maybe it didn't. But whatever I'm on 90 days of nothing dealing with her and whoever we have in common
Be strong breh, you on the right path. I know that feeling all to well
Its official I have no hoes left
That just means new hoes breh... 2015 is around the corner, no need to be stuck in the past
Just a hiccup, fell over the first hurdle but the race isn't over.
Doesn't matter how "fast" it happened, she's single it was going to happen one day anyways. Sometimes the earlier the better because hope dies last, if she was still single and texting you, you maybe would have clinged to that cliff of hope. Now you know!
PaperEnterprise
It's the inner strength..
2015. The year that will live in infamy. Lets take an oath to stop holding on to irrelevant people. No self loathing. No checking in or snooping on exes.
Appreciate the freedom and trust me their are many good women out there, just have to keep going and better yourself.
Appreciate the freedom and trust me their are many good women out there, just have to keep going and better yourself.
Sometimes when you are single for so long you may be longing for a relationship its crazy how that works then when you are in a relationship you long to be single.
EQ.
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I really don't see the point of checking up on your ex..
The ex I broke up with last year tried to get back to me late summer.. I saw her one time and ended up fukking her
but she asked how often I checked up on her and I told her the truth I never had the feeling or the urge to look up anything about her. She got mad upset.. She's like oh you never cared for me blah blah blah.. I gave her the
reaction and told her to 
I really don't see the point of checking up on your ex..
The ex I broke up with last year tried to get back to me late summer.. I saw her one time and ended up fukking her
She got mad upset.. She's like oh you never cared for me blah blah blah.. I gave her the
people do facebook,instagram, twitter, googling and the like.
When you are over her it's ehh, but many times dudes aren't and to me checking up on a ex is just like seeing her with a new guy out on a date and your sitting a table by yourself.
What you don't know can never hurt you!