Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

[emperor]life can change in a instant [/reinscarf]

travelling is the best man, its only sad when you leave and have to return to where you live. It's amazing how at home no one may look at you, smile at you, women are cold, but you go elsewhere and everyone is warm as hell, women look and smile at you.

jjust imagine if you were still pinning over the ex or with her you'd never be able to experience this.

Jesus said a prophet isn't accepted in his own town. Sometimes, where you grow up, people are way too familiar with you and don't take you seriously enough and just look at you as common.

Sometimes you just have to move around to really fine where you shine. Marbury hated America, but moved to China and loved it

 

[kevm3]

Oh wow I posted the details in that other thread but I'll post it again.

The trip was way better than I expected. When I arrived in Japan, I had to take a bus and 2 hour train ride to her city which she assisted me via text step by step. When I got to the train station by her house, she told me her AND her mother and sister were picking me up. I was suprised as I thought her Mom wasn't going to be cool to me. I got in the car, they drove me to my apt I rented and got me acquainted with the area. Her mom was really nice and even though we couldn't communicate as well since my japanese isn't proficient yet, we still talked. It was a pain finding my apt but we eventually did.

The next day ole girl and her mom picked me up from the train station which is 10 minutes by feet from my house and took me out to eat and sight seeing. I went back home and met up with shorty again alone later that night and we went out to eat. She came over my house and we did the thing Almost everyday her mom took me out to eat and invited me to dinner. We was at her house eating Nabe and Udon noodles and playing N64 .

Ole girl was sad when I was leaving and shyt but we still talk everyday just as before. Nothing really going wrong except us not being able to see each other but she talks to me everyday, texting at the same time(when she wakes up, during lunch at work and after work throughout the night.)

I can't wait to go back.

Now you see firsthand the treatment of a woman that's into you and you saw how quickly what your ex did doesn't matter anymore once you found a new woman that is really into you. It's never worth it to give an ex power by moping over them or letting them get you emotional. Just take your talents on the road and find where it's appreciated. That simple. Glad you enjoyed your trip.

 

[MikelArteta]

Its just like any addiction, the withdrawals suck. But go ahead and text or message you'll feel good for a few minutes then once she goes cold again you'll feel like a idiot for sending it in the first place.

The one thing you have is your dignity, the less you say the less you can mess up. Every day it gets easier and easier. But if you check Facebook, Instagram, text, call you'll be back at square one

It's taking everything in my being not to call this girl. Even though I made the decision.

Damn I have break-ups

 

[Atlrocafella]

Now you see firsthand the treatment of a woman that's into you and you saw how quickly what your ex did doesn't matter anymore once you found a new woman that is really into you. It's never worth it to give an ex power by moping over them or letting them get you emotional. Just take your talents on the road and find where it's appreciated. That simple. Glad you enjoyed your trip.

Once you experience this, dealing with uncooperative females should not even be on your radar. All the no call backs, chasing her around for months, wondering if you did something wrong becomes so pointless.

 

[kevm3]

The one thing I've learned? Women are replaceable . You CAN do without them and there WILL be another one that will be receptive to your advances. Most of us just end up emotionally hooked to some particular woman and that emotional hook makes us think some nonsense like she's the one and only. The only thing that really makes a woman irreplaceable is her behavior... and if she isn't acting how a woman should, realize that there are way more women out there if you only can overcome your emotions and fantasies that are keeping you propping up some wack woman.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Homeboy is going thru withdrawals.It's like a smoker,they are excited to quit the habit but has an itching to smoke 1 more time.Realizing 1 more time can hurt them

 

[RealAssanova]

just booked my trip, just 3 nights 4 days but all i can do with my new job as I can't take time off but ill enjoy it nonetheless

Toronto, ON (YYZ) to Vancouver, BC (YVR)

Departing
Lester B Pearson Intl Airport
Fri, May. 15, 2015 at 4:30 PM

Arriving
Vancouver Intl Airport
Fri, May. 15, 2015 at 6:32 PM

Departing
Vancouver Intl Airport
Mon, May. 18, 2015 at 12:15 PM

Arriving
Lester B Pearson Intl Airport
Mon, May. 18, 2015 at 7:46 PM

i hope u ain't linking up with that breezy

 

[MikelArteta]

i hope u ain't linking up with that breezy

HELL NO

 

[MikelArteta]

The one thing I've learned? Women are replaceable . You CAN do without them and there WILL be another one that will be receptive to your advances. Most of us just end up emotionally hooked to some particular woman and that emotional hook makes us think some nonsense like she's the one and only. The only thing that really makes a woman irreplaceable is her behavior... and if she isn't acting how a woman should, realize that there are way more women out there if you only can overcome your emotions and fantasies that are keeping you propping up some wack woman.

pretty much, even if you were to say get married that means only ONE woman out of all the countless you dated, liked etc. were that special to be your wife. All these other chicks are replaceable there is nothing special about them.

Once you kill the emotional connection everything becomes perfect again.

 

[RealAssanova]

HELL NO

that's my nikka

but i'm guessing you going outthere to try and bag a few more pawgs

 

[MikelArteta]

that's my nikka

but i'm guessing you going outthere to try and bag a few more pawgs

ill hop on tinder or something and set something up if i get the energy to create a facebook , just going for 3 nights so I really don't care. I love vancouver, just gonna spoil myself eat at expensive restaurants by myself and take photos and ish, maybe rent a car and drive up to whistler.

flight was expensive as hell, but I can't risk leaving canada as I can't miss a day of work, even for the friday i'm leaving two hours early and will prob have to beg for it.

 

[RealAssanova]

ill hop on tinder or something and set something up if i get the energy to create a facebook , just going for 3 nights so I really don't care. I love vancouver, just gonna spoil myself eat at expensive restaurants by myself and take photos and ish, maybe rent a car and drive up to whistler.

flight was expensive as hell, but I can't risk leaving canada as I can't miss a day of work, even for the friday i'm leaving two hours early and will prob have to beg for it.

fam

this is like your 3rd time going to van city....meanwhile only other canadian city i been outside T.O. was kingston and ottawa

i gotta go to montreal and van city. Get my pawgin on

 

[Spin]

So last week I took a chick out and we just chilled at a bar and had a few drinks. Our first choice ended up not working out so this was the backup plan. I'm not that attracted to the girl, but she is cool to hang out with. We talk for a little bit then I start rubbing my hand on her lower back and I can feel her starting to loosen up. A few seconds later I start to palm her ass which was actually bigger than I thought it would be. We end up making out on and off for the next hour or so.

Long story short, everything was cool until we took a taxi back instead of the train. I wanted to get home faster and 99% of the time it's the faster way. This just happened to be a time we hit traffic. I could sense her being upset, but not wanting to show it. She then goes on a passive aggressive streak of saying "I knew I was right when I said we should of taken the train". At first I laughed it off, but she kept at it in one way or another multiple times. She was never nasty but I was getting annoyed and eventually just stopped responding. We still kissed when we got back, but I about had enough. This was the second time we met and I have a feeling that car ride exposed more of her true self outside of fluffy date persona she put on. Now if I was attracted to this girl, I would maybe give it another go but I just totally lost all interest after that.

I made the decision to cut her off. It was a much easier decision since I already have another date lined up for this week. Always have choices my friends!

 

[MikelArteta]

fam

this is like your 3rd time going to van city....meanwhile only other canadian city i been outside T.O. was kingston and ottawa

i gotta go to montreal and van city. Get my pawgin on

3rd time in less than a year ,

I've been to halifax not bad
windsor ass
been to kingston it was iight
never been to ottawa or montreal

van city is dope, barely any black folks, more black people in brampton than the province of bc , but yeah being black you'll eat out there man , i remember how my tinder was going off.

 

[MikelArteta]

So last week I took a chick out and we just chilled at a bar and had a few drinks. Our first choice ended up not working out so this was the backup plan. I'm not that attracted to the girl, but she is cool to hang out with. We talk for a little bit then I start rubbing my hand on her lower back and I can feel her starting to loosen up. A few seconds later I start to palm her ass which was actually bigger than I thought it would be. We end up making out on and off for the next hour or so.

Long story short, everything was cool until we took a taxi back instead of the train. I wanted to get home faster and 99% of the time it's the faster way. This just happened to be a time we hit traffic. I could sense her being upset, but not wanting to show it. She then goes on a passive aggressive streak of saying "I knew I was right when I said we should of taken the train". At first I laughed it off, but she kept at it in one way or another multiple times. She was never nasty but I was getting annoyed and eventually just stopped responding. We still kissed when we got back, but I about had enough. This was the second time we met and I have a feeling that car ride exposed more of her true self outside of fluffy date persona she put on. Now if I was attracted to this girl, I would maybe give it another go but I just totally lost all interest after that.

I made the decision to cut her off. It was a much easier decision since I already have another date lined up for this week. Always have choices my friends!

some may need choices others if you have the mindset can cut and just walk away.

when someone shows you who they are believe them