Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

So last week I took a chick out and we just chilled at a bar and had a few drinks. Our first choice ended up not working out so this was the backup plan. I'm not that attracted to the girl, but she is cool to hang out with. We talk for a little bit then I start rubbing my hand on her lower back and I can feel her starting to loosen up. A few seconds later I start to palm her ass which was actually bigger than I thought it would be. We end up making out on and off for the next hour or so.

Long story short, everything was cool until we took a taxi back instead of the train. I wanted to get home faster and 99% of the time it's the faster way. This just happened to be a time we hit traffic. I could sense her being upset, but not wanting to show it. She then goes on a passive aggressive streak of saying "I knew I was right when I said we should of taken the train". At first I laughed it off, but she kept at it in one way or another multiple times. She was never nasty but I was getting annoyed and eventually just stopped responding. We still kissed when we got back, but I about had enough. This was the second time we met and I have a feeling that car ride exposed more of her true self outside of fluffy date persona she put on. Now if I was attracted to this girl, I would maybe give it another go but I just totally lost all interest after that.

I made the decision to cut her off. It was a much easier decision since I already have another date lined up for this week. Always have choices my friends!

some may need choices others if you have the mindset can cut and just walk away.

when someone shows you who they are believe them

 

[RealAssanova]

3rd time in less than a year ,

I've been to halifax not bad
windsor ass
been to kingston it was iight
never been to ottawa or montreal

van city is dope, barely any black folks, more black people in brampton than the province of bc , but yeah being black you'll eat out there man , i remember how my tinder was going off.

rein

 

[MikelArteta]

rein

no wife no kids, no gf
travel

canada is a big country don't even have to cross the ocean.

I want to go to Newfoundland next I don't even know why just want to be a flashy nikka walking through the streets of st johns

 

[RealAssanova]

no wife no kids, no gf
travel

canada is a big country don't even have to cross the ocean.

I want to go to Newfoundland next I don't even know why just want to be a flashy nikka walking through the streets of st johns

wayyy to cacish for me

 

[MikelArteta]

wayyy to cacish for me

sunwing does charter in the summer yyz to vancouver can get under 500 round trip

porter needs to step up

you can fly porter airlines to puerto rico roundtrip for under 600

 

[MikelArteta]

toronto to halifax roundtrip
Total
$ 528.49 CAD

not bad at all

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

i'm leaving mcdonalds and i start talking to this chick that was in line ahead of me...she musta been like 6 foot 2 cause she was an inch above me in uggs but I didnt get a great look at her because I was just focused on getting my food.

After a certain point i mention how I thought she was pretty and she said thanks and how she didnt think she was.

Immediately I went and asked her why while examining her a bit more. Upon further examination I to came to a conclusion that she wasnt pretty enough for me to holla either. We continued talking and then parted cause i was going to work and she was going to school. Even though I probably couldve got the digits and smashed I didnt want to anymore. This probably seems like a rant but notice how it wasnt until she demeaned herself that I started to sag off. I say all this to say that you really have to appreciate yourself before others will appreciate you. If you are not comfortable or confident in your own skin it will show unconsciously in your everyday life. The way you talk, walk, your whole aura gets affected by it. Never be negative when tryna mack on the opposite sex and take everything they throw at you good or bad in stride. Confidence is extremely important in life.

Real shyt I've gotten more attention from chicks since I've felt more confidence

I went to the club early this morning just to chillout and have a drink.....I notice that this worker keeps coming near my table, but I just sit there and act like she's not there. So after it was over with it, I began to walk out and she just starts asking me all kinds of questions "Where you from?", "I never seen you around here before". So after a brief chat, She gives me her fukking number...before I could get it


Lowkey, my homeboy was hating tho lol....."See, I could've gotten her number a long time ago, but....but...but....."


"But you didn't my nega.....and I didn't have to ask"

I'll say the broad is average looks wise but her ass-waist-thigh ratio is . She a nice lil thick piece of chocolate.



When I gets back in....another broad hits me up, but this one I been kinda flakin on. I had like a few chances to go kick it with her but I really didn't feel like it. She wants me to come see her later on. Then there's the redbone.....Even though I put her in the friendzone, she still trying to get out. I know I gotta hit it atleast one time tho, but it might be risky.



It took awhile since my breakup.....but now I'm starting to have options. The funny thing is once I stopped putting so much time, thought and energy into finding a chick, they start to come to me.

I'm going on thru the break up stage

We have these mandatory trainings for my job every 3-6 months or so. We see people we know from different offices in our classes sometimes. So I'm in class with a woman that I met a couple of trainings ago. She has a boyfriend but I can feel she has some sort of attraction to me. I'm not gonna lie, I want to fukk her. She is very sexy, the way she talks, moves, her body etc.. I never tried anything because she had a BF. So, lunchtime rolls around and she walks over to my desk and sits on it and ask me where I'm going for lunch. I tell her and she says "Let's go". I say "let's go then" we proceed to my car.

So we're having lunch, talking about our lives since we last seen each other. then she mentions she broke up with her BF. Then she says "well not really broken up yet" I ask her what she means. She says she knows she's going to leave him in six months, but she has to save her money up to get her own spot. Breh doesn't have the slightest idea. She's about to make this dude take her to a concert knowing she doesn't love him.

Her reason for leaving was she woke up one day and realized that he didn't deserve her and she didn't see a future with him. They had been dating for about 4 years. She says he's a good dude though.. needless to say I don't want to fukk anymore.

fukk these hoes..

These hoes delusional

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

fellas I need Yall insight!If ur with a girl and yu not staying with her than yu have to help her with her living conditions?

 

[MikelArteta]

Hell no

fellas I need Yall insight!If ur with a girl and yu not staying with her than yu have to help her with her living conditions?

 

[George Gooney]

When you know the game so well you can't even commit to your woman 100 percent anymore When you know women so well they can't even lie to you anymore... When you can hit your girl with random trivia from her email accounts just to see her reactions then adapt to her patterns like a chess game against a toddler. when you know your girls complete history and she can't even tell you no because you'll be forced to toss her in the bushes for holding out on you what have we become @Emperor_ReinScarf???

I want my innocence back...

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup its like being robbed Now you will always look over your shoulder and always take precautions.

The days of being young and innocent and trusting . now when you try they tell you one thing but your eyes see something totally different.

If anything I'm happy for what I've been through because I can walk away. I'm happy for the wisdom and knowledge.

When you know the game so well you can't even commit to your woman 100 percent anymore When you know women so well they can't even lie to you anymore... When you can hit your girl with random trivia from her email accounts just to see her reactions then adapt to her patterns like a chess game against a toddler. when you know your girls complete history and she can't even tell you no because you'll be forced to toss her in the bushes for holding out on you what have we become @Emperor_ReinScarf???

I want my innocence back...

 

[MikelArteta]

That's one reason I don't even care to date, the type of woman I desire is almost non existent in my city.

I don't need some chick from a broken home seeking validation online, I don't need a chick whose chummy with a bunch of guys and some social media whore. I don't need a chick whose friends with exes etc.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

fellas I need Yall insight!If ur with a girl and yu not staying with her than yu have to help her with her living conditions?

I saw this post and immediately left the thread in confusion and disgust.

I better address it now. Why would this be your concern? What kinda help is she looking for? Sounds like she cant handle her own responsibilities and is looking for a sponsor.

dont do it

 

[kevm3]

They told you what it is. You end up paying your rent and you're going to get played
Something about paying a woman's rent, school, etc., is going to make her put you in a certain category
You think you're helping out someone you love or whatever, but women will put you in a 'provider category',
as someone to be used.

 

[MikelArteta]

They told you what it is. You end up paying your rent and you're going to get played
Something about paying a woman's rent, school, etc., is going to make her put you in a certain category
You think you're helping out someone you love or whatever, but women will put you in a 'provider category',
as someone to be used.

yup thats the sad thing even if you are doing it out f teh goodness and kindness of your heart and this money won't even hurt you giving it o her, she will view you as a sucker