Single moms are not build worthy,
is this based on what she said? what a chick says and what she ends up doing when shyt hits the fan might be different. you never know how people react under pressure. hope you don't take her reassuring words as a greenlight to hit it rawHell Nah *knock on wood*
She's self sufficient.. She lives in a nicer crib than me and has a career n everything. It's like back in hs when u hung out with a broad after school and eventually banged her. Every time I've seen her we've watched sports
Just 2 grown ppl enjoying each other's company
Edit: last thing she needs is to get pregnant, with how her shyt is right now. So I know I ain't in a risk to get trapped.![]()

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.
For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years![]()

People doing silly shyt, that's life.A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.
For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years![]()
smash and dash onlyA lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.
For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years![]()
This same thing happened with me.
It shows how shallow they really are.
Coming out of high school I dropped mad weight and got into a good degree, Law/Arts. And what do you know, girls look at you different. Hence why when I meet girls I never mention it but my boys at work always slipping
In my experience it's made me reticent, especially around these types of women. Like Rein I have the luxury of being able to travel abroad too, so all these things lead these women to come back. But I digress.

People doing silly shyt, that's life.
Your pool of chicks you deal with should be bigger than those old associates. Letting them impact your social life going forward isn't the move. Sounds like you are making moves, everything else will fall into place.
is this based on what she said? what a chick says and what she ends up doing when shyt hits the fan might be different. you never know how people react under pressure. hope you don't take her reassuring words as a greenlight to hit it raw![]()
I got in this situation the other day.
bytch hit me with she likes me talk etc but I aint playing no step daddy
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Shut it down but told her im down for some...though
Nikka finna eat when i go her crib
Finna be in the bath like
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and she's ok with not getting into a serious relationship 


seeing a single mom right now and brehs
she's treating a nicca like he's the king of the world and we aint even talking about dating.
We just enjoy each other company, she's not trying to trap a nikka with a kid or something, she's a great woman, loyal, we have a outstanding chemistryand she's ok with not getting into a serious relationship
the other day my whip was broke and she let me used hers without even asking
single moms are the best![]()
I'm the same wayA lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.
For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years![]()
ah the single mother trap
Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc, it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship. What is really going on is a shyt-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc. No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.
One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated that single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc they seem to be ideal mates.
What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don´t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don´t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually this occurs just after marriage.
A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:

nah breh it aint even like that
we see each other occasionally like once or twice every three weeks. i made clear that she wasnt anywhere being one of my prorities.
I just do me and i'm not gonna get into a relationship with her because i dont want to be in one. i'm not that attached to her so if she doesnt follow suit it's![]()