Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

yup. don't let opportunities like that pass. Girls rarely ask guys out

or talk to you first, i say grasp it especially in this transient days. I remember all the women and opportunities I lost along the way, because I was that guy who thought it was wrong to talk to other women when I was in a relationship.

now im like , not going to cheat, not going to sext why not

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

After a 3 hr pointless "argument" with my ex that caused me to go to bed at 3 am and be tired as fukk today, I realized that these women are a distraction to my goals.

Like I literally sat in class and reflected on the things I wanted to accomplish and the man I wanted to be. Then I was mad at myself because I'm fukking up this opportunity I have right now. I'm not using my resources appropriately and I'm not putting enough time in my "craft". It's nobody's fault but mine for allowing this situation to happen but I had a moment of clarity brehs.

The only thing stopping me and the future I want is my lack of focus. Time to cut out the distractions.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

My nikka..I dont understand the hate for single moms breh

They got the most connects networking wise and they look out for you if you treat them good.

They barely have time to date if they have over 2 kids...

Most just want a nikka they can see once in a while.

If they do get tied down to someone else, it would most likely be a somewhat open relationship on their end..

I would love to get 1-2 females without kids on my contact list though

So true. I used to fukk with a chick who was 26 with three kids

She never had time for real dates and could only meet at her crib. Once I properly vetted the baby daddy situation (had to make sure no crazy nikkas were gonna pop up) it was a go. I used to show up at 8 and them kids would be put to bed and everything.

I never met them lil mufukkas once.

I don't do the single mom thing any more, because I'm past that point in my life. Plus if they really like you they ALL will want a legit relationship. But it was fun.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

you've learned your lesson.

if you didnt turn her down by actually saying you had a GF (and then maybe asking for the #) then you fukked up. you'll know better next time.

she knew I had a GF. Those two have hated each other from the time layed eyes on each other. She knew me and her we're going thru things and so she asked. I honestly thought it was the right thing to do bc it would have showed her that I could be loyal to her if one day we end up talking. But I guess she wanted me to kick my girl to the curve for her right then and there. And I should have

It funny how women work bruh

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

yup. don't let opportunities like that pass. Girls rarely ask guys out

Espically ones who look like this

Is in school, doesn't do the club thing, and can take care of herself

The complete opposite from my ex

 

[Krazy]

So me and this single mom fell out, i didn't think before I spoke
Wound up getting all pissy after she asked a question.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

So me and this single mom fell out, i didn't think before I spoke
Wound up getting all pissy after she asked a question.
Looks like my invite revoked.

Wat she asked?

 

[Krazy]

Wat she asked?

Basically if I expected sex first time I came to see her and I was horny and didnt wanna dance around the point so replied with my balls and basically said yes
Instead of saying nah or sugar coating it lmao.
I didn't think about my response and the reaction lmao, I just instantly replied without thinking.
She gotta rate my honesty right

I goofed and ain't got time to rectify it, so ima holla at her in a few weeks and try get back in the good books when i got time to invest.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Basically if I expected sex first time I came to see her and I was horny and dance around the point so replied with my balls and basically said yes
Instead of saying nah or sugar coating it lmao.
I didn't think about my response and the reaction lmao, I just instantly replied without thinking.
She gotta rate my honesty right

I goofed and ain't got time to rectify it, so ima holla at her in a few weeks and try get back in the good books when i got time to invest.

Damn breh what the body look like?

 

[Krazy]

Damn breh what the body look like?

Ehh, nothing crazy
Dunno why she mad like she aint know from the jump, I just reconfirmed my intentions

I shouldve really said no when she hit me the question but I didnt think and I wasnt about that hanging out with her and her kid lifestyle a few times for some p*ssy

Next thing I know I see her kid out in the street and she pointing me out waving and shyt

 

[Ohene]

Espically ones who look like this

Is in school, doesn't do the club thing, and can take care of herself

The complete opposite from my ex

Damn bruh...you might have to simp / think outside the box :mpls: twitter is your only way to see her?

 

[Ohene]

she knew I had a GF. Those two have hated each other from the time layed eyes on each other. She knew me and her we're going thru things and so she asked. I honestly thought it was the right thing to do bc it would have showed her that I could be loyal to her if one day we end up talking. But I guess she wanted me to kick my girl to the curve for her right then and there. And I should have

It funny how women work bruh

In that case you did the right thing. She was being immature

 

[MikelArteta]

After a 3 hr pointless "argument" with my ex that caused me to go to bed at 3 am and be tired as fukk today, I realized that these women are a distraction to my goals.

Like I literally sat in class and reflected on the things I wanted to accomplish and the man I wanted to be. Then I was mad at myself because I'm fukking up this opportunity I have right now. I'm not using my resources appropriately and I'm not putting enough time in my "craft". It's nobody's fault but mine for allowing this situation to happen but I had a moment of clarity brehs.

The only thing stopping me and the future I want is my lack of focus. Time to cut out the distractions.

the ex ex the one that changed your life breh?

tom leykis has always said that "women are dream killers" an dto accomplish your eams before you get serious with a woman because they won't sacrifice for you rarely.

and ive been there I would have been so much further in life if it wasn't for my two main exes

one thing ive learned to realize in life is that there will always be women but there wont always be time and situation in your life where you can bette yourself and take risks.

 

[MAGNETO.]

we have a big multipurpose staff room
doing a late shift (finish at around 2am in the morning)
quite attractive girl that everyone has been hitting on and I began talking
just talked from a position of strength (aka no simping and challenging her here and there) and ever since we've been talking regularly at work, having coffee's and even accompanying each other on smoke breaks and walks etc.
not really looking for anything at the moment, me and my gf been on and off so it has been refreshing

 

[The Mad Titan]

I simp'd, I simp'd because I thought it was "the right thing to do" not even on some true simpathic ish.


But I've come to realize it is never, ever the right thing to do. Ever, point blank period.


No matter how you feel in your mind fellas, what your personality or heart wants to tell you. Its just NOT the right move.