Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

That's what women do, keep that string to make sure you don't go to far.

Gotta stop texting and hanging outout to kill the emotional connection. Or every time she texts or calls you'll be back at square one in a emotional r

Already entertaining other dudes right odd the script

Thing is we still text and she was over here had me feeling on her ass and shyt...then tells me she could never trust me and I can't change

Plus told me she has other dudes texting her.

 

[NerdNash]

That's what women do, keep that string to make sure you don't go to far.

Gotta stop texting and hanging outout to kill the emotional connection. Or every time she texts or calls you'll be back at square one in a emotional r

Already entertaining other dudes right odd the script

She says she wants to believe I can change but doesn't think I can.

I know I'm a piece of shyt lol and I needs change and I plan to.

Man idk. She's a good bytch I just fell to temptation too many times.

I know what I need to do. Just focus on me and go real fukking hard at getting better but wit this on my mind it makes the days longer smh

 

[NerdNash]

That's what women do, keep that string to make sure you don't go to far.

Gotta stop texting and hanging outout to kill the emotional connection. Or every time she texts or calls you'll be back at square one in a emotional r

Already entertaining other dudes right odd the script

Maybe I'm just being a bytch ass nikka and not realizing the greatness I can reach by being alone

 

[Jesus]

@Emperor_ReinScarf What's this about the Mafia running certain parts of Canada?

Last 3 dates I've been taken out by the female and I've only paid the tip....bytches got it easy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Basically run construction in montreal

@Emperor_ReinScarf What's this about the Mafia running certain parts of Canada?

Last 3 dates I've been taken out by the female and I've only paid the tip....bytches got it easy.

 

[kevm3]

Man smh I need help from my brehs....


@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
And all my brehs gotta help me on this one .

I fukked up bad and lost a good one. Due to my savage way of living. I gotta change my brehs. Even if it doesn't lead to getting her back I gotta change. This current version of me won't cut it. I'm a piece of shyt in a lot of ways.

She told me I won't ever change and I need to prove her and myself wrong.

I hurt her and it's hurting me even more. shyt is paralyzing my brehs. I try to stay busy but it's hard (I have hobbies like my site, podcast and etc..) but I'm at work for 8 hrs thinking about her ...

My brehs gotta help me on this one

Ultimately, it starts with realizing that you are severely affecting others with your actions. You'll have a lot of people cheering on the playa lifestyle, but when you see how you can completely alter the mentality of someone that trusts you and cares about you for the worst, you'll come to realize, as you have, that it's not worth it. Like Reincar said, it starts with you, and it requires taking action. The key is ultimately aligning your words with your actions.

Honestly, to lose a quality girl is extremely difficult because you'll now be exposed to what most of us are dealing with. We never miss what we have until its gone. I'm telling you man, these hoes ain't worth anything. Watch how they are around to break up your relationship, but as soon as you need them or after you break up, they're nowhere to be found.

In the end, you simply have to find value in a quality woman and make a commitment to yourself to stop delving outside. Maybe it will take some time by yourself and actually dealing with the 'average woman' of today to see what kind of situation you'll be dealing with if you lose a quality woman.

 

[McPiff]

Thing is we still text and she was over here had me feeling on her ass and shyt...then tells me she could never trust me and I can't change

Plus told me she has other dudes texting her.

 

[Rich Spirit]

These females and their damn exes

They complain when the ex constantly texts/calls but never do shyt about it

 

[PrnzHakeem]

She says she wants to believe I can change but doesn't think I can.

I know I'm a piece of shyt lol and I needs change and I plan to.

Man idk. She's a good bytch I just fell to temptation too many times.

I know what I need to do. Just focus on me and go real fukking hard at getting better but wit this on my mind it makes the days longer smh

Everyone knows the savage life will eventually catch up to them, but they fool themselves into thinking other parties won't move on from you.

This could be a good thing. Most people only respond to pain points. It could force you change some bad habits and mindset, force you to develop some self discipline.

Or it could be business as usual. if I remember correctly, this aint ya first time getting caught up.


Whatever you learn about yourself after this period of self reflection, REALLY LEARN FROM IT. Even if you realize you're savage nicca when it comes to relationships, own it. Accept it and stop leading chicks on into believing you're something else. And accept the fact that you probably lost ya girl forever. If yall reconcile, you will be at her mercy.

 

[MikelArteta]

In this day its easy to block numbers.

People talk to who they want to

Any female that talks to an ex is bushes to me

These females and their damn exes

They complain when the ex constantly texts/calls but never do shyt about it

 

[kevm3]

These females and their damn exes

They complain when the ex constantly texts/calls but never do shyt about it

They love the attention, plus the dude a woman constantly complains about is the one she has on her mind

 

[MikelArteta]

Another thing I've realized is to just keep your mouth shut and let women fall in their own.

What I mean is this, I was an acquaintance with this chick, she started to talk to this dude I told her watch out dude is a known player and he's 22 and your 26, she didn't listen to me, thought I was jealous or whatever stopped talking to me.

Guess what other day she popped back up apologizing, dude ended up playing her , he was a charmer she said

 

[BlaKcMoney]

a homie down the street from me about 19-20 years old just hung himself over his baby mom leaving him . Lil nikka was popping pills and drinking lean all day running around the hood like everything was good, come to find out this nikka was one push away from suicide the whole time.

i think the pills played a role in his mental breakdown

quit giving hoes power over your mind

 

[LaLuna]

a homie down the street from me about 19-20 years old just hung himself over his baby mom leaving him . Lil nikka was popping pills and drinking lean all day running around the hood like everything was good, come to find out this nikka was one push away from suicide the whole time.

i think the pills played a role in his mental breakdown

quit giving hoes power over your mind

That young man had issues beyond her.

 

[jadillac]

After a 3 hr pointless "argument" with my ex that caused me to go to bed at 3 am and be tired as fukk today, I realized that these women are a distraction to my goals.

Like I literally sat in class and reflected on the things I wanted to accomplish and the man I wanted to be. Then I was mad at myself because I'm fukking up this opportunity I have right now. I'm not using my resources appropriately and I'm not putting enough time in my "craft". It's nobody's fault but mine for allowing this situation to happen but I had a moment of clarity brehs.

The only thing stopping me and the future I want is my lack of focus. Time to cut out the distractions.

This is why they say, "you can't live with em, can't live without em"