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hell last friday was the first time i never even got a second date
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i know what you mean
hell last friday was the first time i never even got a second date
Walked in on my bossn in the break room while she was on the phone and she was saying she loves loves DP
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went through my contacts and recognized this chick I was cool with back in high school. Reality I was always plottin if she ever broke up with her man but its been like a couple since I seen her
called her at one point, then texted 3 hours later (bad move if you trying to fukk, but I was just trying to talk/see how receptive she was)
she replied immediately "whos this" (I changed numbers from last time I've spoken)
I texted her who I was right back, after like 4 mins of no response I knew where this was going
a nikka just trying to keep tabs on future p*ssy , I thought this was my one ace up my sleeve
I'm happy I learned not to put too much women as partners or acquaintances, I prob would of been like
before coming into my own
called her at one point, then texted 3 hours later (bad move if you trying to fukk, but I was just trying to talk/see how receptive she was)
she replied immediately "whos this" (I changed numbers from last time I've spoken)
I texted her who I was right back, after like 4 mins of no response I knew where this was going
a nikka just trying to keep tabs on future p*ssy , I thought this was my one ace up my sleeve
I'm happy I learned not to put too much women as partners or acquaintances, I prob would of been like
before coming into my own
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great minds think alikeSigned up on POF on tuesday. Got few phone numbers and BBM pins. 7 of em got theone literally went 0-100 real quick cuz i told her i was coming to her place when i was at home. Bytch was like "i see you like playing games..have a goodnight" followed by "please don't message me again"
Think its time i temporarily unplug myself from the game. I feel like i am doing more work than i need for something that is not guaranteed and i'm letting it get to me.
Need to fix my mindset up and devote all this energy to myself.Breh's, love and take care of yourselves first before anyone or anything else.
Stop choosing these women and let them choose up.
I can guarantee alot of nikkaz on this site are not in the best physical shape that they can be in. So, right there is one thing alot of dudes can devote their time, energy and effort into fixing.
I can also guarantee alot of nikkaz on here ain't where they want to be financially....heck, some might have even settled. Weak shyt.
Women will always be around. There are more women than there are men on earth and it will continue to be that way throughout our lifetime. Women have a limited time-period where they can utilize their potential to reap maximum return. So let them.For men, its the opposite. Sort yourselves out now while you're still young and have the time and energy to do so and reap the benefits later on.
beautifully saidSigned up on POF on tuesday. Got few phone numbers and BBM pins. 7 of em got the
Think its time i temporarily unplug myself from the game. I feel like i am doing more work than i need for something that is not guaranteed and i'm letting it get to me.
Need to fix my mindset up and devote all this energy to myself.
Stop choosing these women and let them choose up.
I can guarantee alot of nikkaz on this site are not in the best physical shape that they can be in. So, right there is one thing alot of dudes can devote their time, energy and effort into fixing.
I can also guarantee alot of nikkaz on here ain't where they want to be financially....heck, some might have even settled. Weak shyt.
Women will always be around. There are more women than there are men on earth and it will continue to be that way throughout our lifetime. Women have a limited time-period where they can utilize their potential to reap maximum return. So let them.
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I need some insight...
Let me start by saying I'm single.. I'm friends with a few women, but two of them stand miles ahead of the pack.
The first of the 2 is beautiful, I mean like a solid 9, shes an 8 naturally. She is intelligent, respectful, classy, she dresses nice. We have a strong connection, she is probably the only woman that has fully read me from top to bottom and was 100% accurate(even my family members have a hard time reading me). However, I can sense that there is hurt in her heart from something in her past. Sometimes I can just see it in her eyes. Everything is wonderful with us though. I'm just hesitant to take the next step because I feel like she needs to fix whatever is bothering her first.
The next woman is about an 8, naturally she's a 7. Her personality is great..she is the type of woman you can talk to for hours. She is educated, has a great job, we share the same family values, and she believes in the traditional style values as I do. We have the same sense of humor, like the same type of movies, etc. She shows more of an effort than woman number 1. The thing that stands out about her is she's willing to compromise..she puts me before herself sometimes..
What do you guys think...1 or 2?
I need some insight...
Let me start by saying I'm single.. I'm friends with a few women, but two of them stand miles ahead of the pack.
The first of the 2 is beautiful, I mean like a solid 9, shes an 8 naturally. She is intelligent, respectful, classy, she dresses nice. We have a strong connection, she is probably the only woman that has fully read me from top to bottom and was 100% accurate(even my family members have a hard time reading me). However, I can sense that there is hurt in her heart from something in her past. Sometimes I can just see it in her eyes. Everything is wonderful with us though. I'm just hesitant to take the next step because I feel like she needs to fix whatever is bothering her first.
The next woman is about an 8, naturally she's a 7. Her personality is great..she is the type of woman you can talk to for hours. She is educated, has a great job, we share the same family values, and she believes in the traditional style values as I do. We have the same sense of humor, like the same type of movies, etc. She shows more of an effort than woman number 1. The thing that stands out about her is she's willing to compromise..she puts me before herself sometimes..
What do you guys think...1 or 2?
I think the fact that 2 puts in more effort and puts you ahead of herself is what makes her standout. I'm curious as to what it is that you're sensing from option number 1. Ultimately though, looks fade, and it's the woman that goes hard for you and is loyal that matters. Which one of the two do you feel has the ability to be more loyal?
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I feel like with option number 1 it might be a bad experience with a previous relationship. She told me about how controlling her ex was. He controlled everything down to what she wore.
If I had to pick right now, I would definitely go with woman #2. I'm interested to dig deeper with woman #1 though.
When a woman says she has a controlling ex, it could mean that she did have some crazy dude who wants to control every aspect, but then again, it could mean that she had a regular dude that kept trying to reel in her out of pocket behavior, hence him being called 'controlling'. If she regularly goes to clubs and has a lot of male friends, I can see why her ex would be controlling, and if that's the case, I'd avoid. Choose whichever woman you feel will give you peace of mind over the long-term... say if you had to disappear for the month, the one you feel would hold you down the best. Looks fade, but a lack of character doesn't, and the last thing you want to be tethered to is a woman who snakes you out.
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The exact thing that ran through my mind when she told me her ex was controlling, was that she was probably on some thot shyt. Thanks for the advice.
Brehs, the main is a good chick, but I'm just not as into her as she is into me. It's cool when we kick it, but there isn't some huge chemistry, like I'm not thinking of her through out the day like I normally do with females I'm dealing with.
Should I give it time and let it grow some more? its only been two months and some change
To make it clear, I don't not like her, I do, but it's not a strong enough like to make me want to give her a title or introduce her to close friends and fam.
Let it ride until she flat out asks for a flat-out definition of whatever you two have going on. By that point, one way or another, you should know.