So she pushed marriage on you?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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a woman could never hurt a man with options.
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Living the dream
Saturday was interesting. A Moroccan girl I literally only saw 3 times about 4 years ago text me saturday in the middle of the day like, "was at the beach, dropped my girl off. What are you up to?"
She comes over, we smoke and then... whatever, whatever. It was a pleasant surprise actually. Cool girl but she's a single mom so she knows the drill. I thought it was fun. It was nice to catch up.
She comes over, we smoke and then... whatever, whatever. It was a pleasant surprise actually. Cool girl but she's a single mom so she knows the drill. I thought it was fun. It was nice to catch up.
It's true, as a man you have to be tall, a good job a car, in shape, have hobbies passions and goals. Be funny. Charming, fashionable all for what?
Some chick who just has a vagina and a pretty face?
If anything women should be selling themselves to us but SIMPs but SIMPs
Some chick who just has a vagina and a pretty face?
If anything women should be selling themselves to us but SIMPs but SIMPs
So I had a date with this chick yesterday planned out...sent her a morning text and apparently it never sent. Was in my drafts. She texted that night asking why did I bail on her.Fortunately, we ended up meeting around 9:30 for drinks before she picked up her home girl from the airport. We run in the same group of people...and a lot of guys have tried and been friend zoned by her.
Gotta be explicit and upfront before I become that dude as well...doesn't help those other guys are really smooth either.
Saturday night she invites me to a bar where here and her friends are. We just ordered drinks so we chill there like an hour and half. I offer to drive her home and she accepts. We are in the parking lot for like 20 minutes...various conversations. We somehow get on the topic of kissing and how my homeboy tried to kiss her and she swerved him. She gives me a hug and starts to open the car door. I see the disappointed look on her face and she pulls away. I blurt a last minute..."WAIT"
White chick starts to go HAM on my lap in my car...I told her we should take this upstairs....
Ended up smashing twice and went to brunch in the morning.Almost had to hesitate when I asked for doggystyle b/c she's never been with a black dude and she said I was a good dancer.
Sensed she was feeling me a bit...but all the way. You never know what these chicks are feeling. Just go for it.
MAGNETO.
#STARKSET #LEMONCAKEGANG #NYGBIGBLUE
MAGNETO.
#STARKSET #LEMONCAKEGANG #NYGBIGBLUE
I'm not saying to disregard being courteous or having manners but when you can show them that this imaginary hold that they perceive to have on you is no longer there, it feels great. Having options helps make this easier but it's something that should happen regardless of that. It's the simps and white knights that ruin it.
nah my dude. its ALL about having options. i repeat, its ALLLLLL about having options. dont let anyone tell you different.
if u have options (not just bs options, but real options - not some ugly ducklings or whatever, but real dimes who actually want you), women will act right! trust!!
being able to walk away from a chick is damn near impossible if u aint have a reserve dime piece on deck. all that work on yourself stuff is for the long term. the short term, which is the here and NOW, you need to have options!!!! options keeps u an alpha in any relationship you're in no matter how much of a beta u are.
Value yourself more than any broad and walking away is easy.
If you invest everything in one woman yeah you will lose just like any investment, but if you have other enjoyable things in life then shrugs.
There will always be another woman if you want.
If you invest everything in one woman yeah you will lose just like any investment, but if you have other enjoyable things in life then shrugs.
There will always be another woman if you want.
see my dude. there comes a time when you just have to accept the fact that some things are easier read, heard, or said, than actually doing. i've never, nor will i ever subscribe to the idea of telling a man who's recently dumped to work on himself as a way to deal with the pain of the heartbreak.
when u get heartbroken, u cant concentrate for sh1t on anything. so my philosophy on life is what can be done in the HERE and NOW to help a shytty situation. what can alleviate the pain a brokenhearted man is feeling, right NOW. in the case of this discussion, its always new women! that's the answer. u can choose to believe it or not. but once u feel urself on the road to recovery, then u can start working on urself so u dont end up broken hearted again.
while dealing with women issues a while back, i began "working on myself and started to take some classes.". my time in those classes was miserable as i could not concentrate. i dropped that sh1t with the quickness and concentrated my time on going to bars a lot and within no time, the heartbreak disappeared.
this goes far beyond valuing yourself or anything. see, a lot of the lessons i've learned are either derived from personal experiences or that of others (close friends). the friends of mine who are great with women, i noticed one constant thing about them. they always have multiple women on deck. and all of them confirmed it is the options that allows them to be able to walk away from foolish chicks quickly and easily.
valuing urself really boils down to laying down the law with women as far as what u wont tolerate. and if they prove to be linesteppers, u punish them for it and u dont waver on the punishment. and the best way to be able to do this is knowing if u eliminate one particular chick, it wont matter because someone else will be in ur bed at the end of the night. having women on deck, helps u avoid being bitter. how? when a chick wrongs u, u dont spend too much time worrying about it because the other chicks on deck will help u get ur mind off it pretty fast!
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The Principles (your holy scripture!)
This thread needed some principles these should do.
@Emperor_ReinScarf
#01 – We are at war.
Nothing you want to do gets in the way of your relationship, it is innately part of who you are and why the bytch fell in love with you in the first place. We are at war. You’re in situations when you think you’re in a relationship but you’re not in a relationship, you’re in battle. If you give in you’ll never get what you lost back, it’s very hard to get what you’ve lost back if you’re not a “master pimp.”
#02 – All bytches are crazy.
Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense, they’re out of their fukking mind. You’re trying to use logic to figure out what they’re thinking, but this is guerilla warfare – stop with the logic.
#03 – Repeated favours become obligations.
Anything you do more than 3 times is no longer a favour, it is a habit and an obligation and you need to understand that’s how they (women) think. To an extent, men are the same. When people come to expect things, it’s no longer a favour but an unspoken duty.
#04 – Women fall for who you are but they try to make you something that you’re not.
A woman falls in love with you for everything that you are. She spends the rest of the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not, and when she succeeds she will dump you for the guy who is what you were when she met you. You’ll get left for the guy you used to be even though she’s trying to change you. That’s why you have to set up fake rules for them to break, then they feel good without really breaking your integrity or who you are. When a woman falls in love with you and she’s attracted to you there are things she’s attracted by, don’t change those things, she’s going to ask you to change things that she finds innately attractive. This sounds fukked up because it’s an act of self-sabotage (of the relationship) but the thing is she knows other women find these things about you attractive so she tries to get rid of it so that other women don’t come at you.
#05 – Whatever’s broke, fix it.
Always be self-improving and upgrading wherever you can. EG: Your salary, car, personality, game, skillset (languages, martial arts, instruments), your physique (gym etc)
#06 – Trust your gut.
If your balls are tingling a bytch is probably gonna kick you in the balls. Don’t ignore your better instincts for a whiff of the p*ssy. If a bytch gives you alarm, stop the interaction, don’t argue, just leave. Guys ignore their gut because they’re in love or in lust. Compromise when you’re comfortable, do not compromise when you’re uncomfortable as when it gets thrown in your face, because you bent over too far backwards, you’re not just going to be angry at her but at yourself too because you compromised yourself.
#07 – If anything goes wrong it’s always your fault (because she’s a reflection of you.)
Anything that happens in a relationship that goes bad with your woman, if your woman’s a bytch, if she’s disrespectful, if she cheats on you, if she leaves you, if she takes your money – it’s your fault. The way she treats you is down to the presentation you give her. There’s no such thing as victims, just volunteers.
#08 – Don’t assume shyt.
Common sense ain’t common, if it was common everybody would know. You can’t assume people understand things, you need to be a guy who can explain things straight so that she understands her options. Get good at giving ultimatums and laying out your boundaries by communicating them adequately, even though she may expect you to be a mind reader, you don’t have that same luxury so get good at laying it down.
#09 – Put yourself first at all costs.
If you don’t love yourself nobody else will. If you don’t put yourself first, she won’t. If you put a woman first, she won’t appreciate that shyt and ends up taking you for a sucker. But if you’re like “fukk it I don’t care what you need” they’re grateful for any little thing.
Stop using the W words, “who”, “what”, “when”, “why” – stop giving a fukk, you know what happens if you ask them W words? You’re getting taken in and then you feel like you need to know what she thinks. The reason you think you need to know is because you think what she thinks is important and that essentially what she thinks is more important than what you think. In order to not give a fukk you’ve got to understand what your value is, this chick is interested in you because she sees some sort of value in you, if she thought you were a failure then she wouldn’t have anything to do with you in the first place, what you’re doing is changing her mind (of the opinion she’s formed that you’re worth knowing) and thus she’s re-evaluating your value.
#10 – Agreements with women don’t mean shyt.
Don’t think that if you’re honest and they agree to it, that they’ll agree it to later, there’s no binding legal agreement. Women have integrity amnesia, whatever you decide the relationship will be in the beginning doesn’t mean a damn thing. What she wants in a relationship changes based upon her emotions because her reality stems from her emotional state (See #16.) Whatever they agree to in the beginning doesn’t mean shyt later on, they haven’t signed a legal contract, you have to police that, you have to hold firm with the rules, you show you’re a real man by sticking to your guns. Likewise, f you establish something as a pattern, that pattern can’t change just because she chooses to complain about it.
#11 – You MUST be credible.
You wanna be the captain of your ship then you’ve gotta steer all the time. You must be in control, but you need to be credible so she can relinquish her control. It’s her job to give you a hard time because what she’s trying to do is make sure that you’re credible, if you’re not strong enough to protect her from her own bullshyt then how are you able to protect her from other people? In order for her to allow you to take charge you’ve got to be credible. If you’re trying to sell her something you don’t have, she isn’t gonna buy it. It’s about being a man, taking what you want. It’s about being credible, taking control, giving a woman what she needs as opposed to what she wants, understanding what she needs and making the hard decisions when you need to make the hard decisions so that she sees you as credible, they really don’t wanna drive, they want to give the wheel up, but they’ll only give it up to someone who they feel is credible enough to give it up to and only then will they let YOU drive.
#12 – Everybody “gets got” at some point.
You will fall in love, get your heart-broken and get fukked over, it’s inevitable and you need the experience to become a true player in the game, use your heartbreak as a learning experience to catapult yourself forwards.
#13 – Be Ready to take the L.
Do not be afraid to leave, if things aren’t working out you’ve got to leave, and you’ve got to communicate to her that you will leave. If she calls you on that, you have to follow through. If you’re afraid to argue with her, let alone leave, then she’s pimping you with the p*ssy and you’re not in control.
#14 – Women pretend they don’t want sex.
It’s easy to control a woman’s body, but takes a real man to control a bytches mind. The power you’re going up against is so huge. The reason it’s difficult is because women have a natural aptness in mental manipulation. Women’s sexuality has been repressed by 2,000 years of religion which is why so many feel they need excuses to have sex now, to have plausible deniability in situations where really they do in fact want to fukk.
#15 – Women’s behaviour and personality mirrors you in a relationship.
A bytch is always a reflection of the guy that she’s fukking, they don’t really have set personalities. When you’re with a woman, whatever she is, her love needs to attach itself to something and when she attachs that love to someone, they ultimately shape who she is. The way you treat a woman shapes who she is as a person.
#16 – Female Logic.
A woman cannot be logical because her logic is based upon her emotional foundation, so as she changes in her mood so does the foundation of her logic.
#17 – Feminine indifference is dangerous.
Never have a woman be indifferent about you. Have her love you, have her hate you but don’t have her be indifferent, indifference is the nail in the coffin. If you piss a girl off she’s more likely to fukk you.
#18 – Be astute, observe.
There is information all around us, it is our job to interpret it and use it to our benefit. Look for clues. If a woman fukks you over, there will be clues beforehand. Moodiness, major difference in behaviour and demeanour around different people etc. If you’re caught by surprise, you weren’t paying attention to the subtle (or not so subtle) cues she was giving off.
#19 – When a woman dumps you.
If a woman leaves you then praise that because it gives you time to be inside a new woman that’s more worthy. If she’s left, it’s dead. Don’t go back, go forward (see #20.)
#20 – Don’t chase them, replace them, remain unaffected.
You’ve gotta like you so that when these women make a decision that goes beyond your scope of patience, you’ll be ok. You don’t control a woman, your patience does. You have to be consistently inconsistent and unaffected, understand the emotions that she’s giving you she’s just bouncing off you to get a rise. You have to be kinda robotic “this is what we’re doing? OK I’ll drop you off” being consistently inconsistent is what keeps her off-balance, it creates interest and keeps her interested in you. In poker, if you keep bluffing or raising then they’re gonna catch you, you have to mix it up.
#21 – What it takes to get a woman is the same thing it takes to keep her.
The elements required to get a woman are the same things it takes to keep her (being nice, intelligent, rich etc) the things she is initially attracted to are the same things that keep her interested in the long run. The opposite is not true. The element needed to get a man is not the same as the elements needed to keep him. You get a man by having a vagina, but the thing women don’t understand is the contract surrounding that. A man gives his best to a woman and then she fukks him – contracts finished. Now if you want a man to like you that’s a different contract that needs renegotiating (essentially a vagina will get a man into a womans bed, but it’s not enough to make him commit.)
This thread needed some principles these should do.
@Emperor_ReinScarf
#01 – We are at war.
Nothing you want to do gets in the way of your relationship, it is innately part of who you are and why the bytch fell in love with you in the first place. We are at war. You’re in situations when you think you’re in a relationship but you’re not in a relationship, you’re in battle. If you give in you’ll never get what you lost back, it’s very hard to get what you’ve lost back if you’re not a “master pimp.”
#02 – All bytches are crazy.
Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense, they’re out of their fukking mind. You’re trying to use logic to figure out what they’re thinking, but this is guerilla warfare – stop with the logic.
#03 – Repeated favours become obligations.
Anything you do more than 3 times is no longer a favour, it is a habit and an obligation and you need to understand that’s how they (women) think. To an extent, men are the same. When people come to expect things, it’s no longer a favour but an unspoken duty.
#04 – Women fall for who you are but they try to make you something that you’re not.
A woman falls in love with you for everything that you are. She spends the rest of the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not, and when she succeeds she will dump you for the guy who is what you were when she met you. You’ll get left for the guy you used to be even though she’s trying to change you. That’s why you have to set up fake rules for them to break, then they feel good without really breaking your integrity or who you are. When a woman falls in love with you and she’s attracted to you there are things she’s attracted by, don’t change those things, she’s going to ask you to change things that she finds innately attractive. This sounds fukked up because it’s an act of self-sabotage (of the relationship) but the thing is she knows other women find these things about you attractive so she tries to get rid of it so that other women don’t come at you.
#05 – Whatever’s broke, fix it.
Always be self-improving and upgrading wherever you can. EG: Your salary, car, personality, game, skillset (languages, martial arts, instruments), your physique (gym etc)
#06 – Trust your gut.
If your balls are tingling a bytch is probably gonna kick you in the balls. Don’t ignore your better instincts for a whiff of the p*ssy. If a bytch gives you alarm, stop the interaction, don’t argue, just leave. Guys ignore their gut because they’re in love or in lust. Compromise when you’re comfortable, do not compromise when you’re uncomfortable as when it gets thrown in your face, because you bent over too far backwards, you’re not just going to be angry at her but at yourself too because you compromised yourself.
#07 – If anything goes wrong it’s always your fault (because she’s a reflection of you.)
Anything that happens in a relationship that goes bad with your woman, if your woman’s a bytch, if she’s disrespectful, if she cheats on you, if she leaves you, if she takes your money – it’s your fault. The way she treats you is down to the presentation you give her. There’s no such thing as victims, just volunteers.
#08 – Don’t assume shyt.
Common sense ain’t common, if it was common everybody would know. You can’t assume people understand things, you need to be a guy who can explain things straight so that she understands her options. Get good at giving ultimatums and laying out your boundaries by communicating them adequately, even though she may expect you to be a mind reader, you don’t have that same luxury so get good at laying it down.
#09 – Put yourself first at all costs.
If you don’t love yourself nobody else will. If you don’t put yourself first, she won’t. If you put a woman first, she won’t appreciate that shyt and ends up taking you for a sucker. But if you’re like “fukk it I don’t care what you need” they’re grateful for any little thing.
Stop using the W words, “who”, “what”, “when”, “why” – stop giving a fukk, you know what happens if you ask them W words? You’re getting taken in and then you feel like you need to know what she thinks. The reason you think you need to know is because you think what she thinks is important and that essentially what she thinks is more important than what you think. In order to not give a fukk you’ve got to understand what your value is, this chick is interested in you because she sees some sort of value in you, if she thought you were a failure then she wouldn’t have anything to do with you in the first place, what you’re doing is changing her mind (of the opinion she’s formed that you’re worth knowing) and thus she’s re-evaluating your value.
#10 – Agreements with women don’t mean shyt.
Don’t think that if you’re honest and they agree to it, that they’ll agree it to later, there’s no binding legal agreement. Women have integrity amnesia, whatever you decide the relationship will be in the beginning doesn’t mean a damn thing. What she wants in a relationship changes based upon her emotions because her reality stems from her emotional state (See #16.) Whatever they agree to in the beginning doesn’t mean shyt later on, they haven’t signed a legal contract, you have to police that, you have to hold firm with the rules, you show you’re a real man by sticking to your guns. Likewise, f you establish something as a pattern, that pattern can’t change just because she chooses to complain about it.
#11 – You MUST be credible.
You wanna be the captain of your ship then you’ve gotta steer all the time. You must be in control, but you need to be credible so she can relinquish her control. It’s her job to give you a hard time because what she’s trying to do is make sure that you’re credible, if you’re not strong enough to protect her from her own bullshyt then how are you able to protect her from other people? In order for her to allow you to take charge you’ve got to be credible. If you’re trying to sell her something you don’t have, she isn’t gonna buy it. It’s about being a man, taking what you want. It’s about being credible, taking control, giving a woman what she needs as opposed to what she wants, understanding what she needs and making the hard decisions when you need to make the hard decisions so that she sees you as credible, they really don’t wanna drive, they want to give the wheel up, but they’ll only give it up to someone who they feel is credible enough to give it up to and only then will they let YOU drive.
#12 – Everybody “gets got” at some point.
You will fall in love, get your heart-broken and get fukked over, it’s inevitable and you need the experience to become a true player in the game, use your heartbreak as a learning experience to catapult yourself forwards.
#13 – Be Ready to take the L.
Do not be afraid to leave, if things aren’t working out you’ve got to leave, and you’ve got to communicate to her that you will leave. If she calls you on that, you have to follow through. If you’re afraid to argue with her, let alone leave, then she’s pimping you with the p*ssy and you’re not in control.
#14 – Women pretend they don’t want sex.
It’s easy to control a woman’s body, but takes a real man to control a bytches mind. The power you’re going up against is so huge. The reason it’s difficult is because women have a natural aptness in mental manipulation. Women’s sexuality has been repressed by 2,000 years of religion which is why so many feel they need excuses to have sex now, to have plausible deniability in situations where really they do in fact want to fukk.
#15 – Women’s behaviour and personality mirrors you in a relationship.
A bytch is always a reflection of the guy that she’s fukking, they don’t really have set personalities. When you’re with a woman, whatever she is, her love needs to attach itself to something and when she attachs that love to someone, they ultimately shape who she is. The way you treat a woman shapes who she is as a person.
#16 – Female Logic.
A woman cannot be logical because her logic is based upon her emotional foundation, so as she changes in her mood so does the foundation of her logic.
#17 – Feminine indifference is dangerous.
Never have a woman be indifferent about you. Have her love you, have her hate you but don’t have her be indifferent, indifference is the nail in the coffin. If you piss a girl off she’s more likely to fukk you.
#18 – Be astute, observe.
There is information all around us, it is our job to interpret it and use it to our benefit. Look for clues. If a woman fukks you over, there will be clues beforehand. Moodiness, major difference in behaviour and demeanour around different people etc. If you’re caught by surprise, you weren’t paying attention to the subtle (or not so subtle) cues she was giving off.
#19 – When a woman dumps you.
If a woman leaves you then praise that because it gives you time to be inside a new woman that’s more worthy. If she’s left, it’s dead. Don’t go back, go forward (see #20.)
#20 – Don’t chase them, replace them, remain unaffected.
You’ve gotta like you so that when these women make a decision that goes beyond your scope of patience, you’ll be ok. You don’t control a woman, your patience does. You have to be consistently inconsistent and unaffected, understand the emotions that she’s giving you she’s just bouncing off you to get a rise. You have to be kinda robotic “this is what we’re doing? OK I’ll drop you off” being consistently inconsistent is what keeps her off-balance, it creates interest and keeps her interested in you. In poker, if you keep bluffing or raising then they’re gonna catch you, you have to mix it up.
#21 – What it takes to get a woman is the same thing it takes to keep her.
The elements required to get a woman are the same things it takes to keep her (being nice, intelligent, rich etc) the things she is initially attracted to are the same things that keep her interested in the long run. The opposite is not true. The element needed to get a man is not the same as the elements needed to keep him. You get a man by having a vagina, but the thing women don’t understand is the contract surrounding that. A man gives his best to a woman and then she fukks him – contracts finished. Now if you want a man to like you that’s a different contract that needs renegotiating (essentially a vagina will get a man into a womans bed, but it’s not enough to make him commit.)
Basically it comes down to me, these women ain't special.
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I got all that but the tall part
and a good job but I'm in school for finance. But yea these chicks don't even have anything to offer but yu can negate that if yu carry ur self like ur the man