Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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moved to a new city to start grad school feels :blessed: came here with a purpose to do what I need to do and get right and better as a man and professional

so all orientation last week was chill talking to people chopping it up and having a good time without going overboard with the drinking. It seems like once I got on my own away from home (since i went back after college), all the gems i've picked up in this thread have come out in practice naturally since ive been here. i've sweated no one, everyone approaching me seeing what i'm about. even though im on par with the average age in my class, there are students younger so it is kind of a variable environment in backgrounds which is nice

couple people asking me how you stay so laidback and chill when we about to go through this ringer, but honestly i'm thankful to get a chance to be here and learn that i've completely mellowed out and it's been :blessed: each day. even when we go out couple people out here acting thirsty, but you don't wanna mess around with classmates unless you know it's the right move.

speaking of classmates, there's this one woman and she took a serious interest in me (seems cool and a decent person too :ehh:). if this was a couple years ago, i woulda been whoa ok :noah: and been overthinking it, but i came here to study and if it works over time so be it. we spent a couple nights out with mutual classmates/friends where we keep getting closer. we both are having to press the :whoa: on that though as it's the first week of school and we came here with bigger purposes

also brand new city with too many people as well as too many classmates for me to be getting caught up so early, if we digging each other now hopefully we will later too. we both had no intention of being with classmates so im not going back on that just cause of one person.


anyway cant update as frequently and trying to stay relatively anonymous as i move forward in this chapter (so i gotta skimp on some details) but i feel real good in this new city and it seems like i'll prosper here as a man and a learner mostly. i've chilled out completely and lost if and any thirst I ever had. I'm playing the game differently now, all that other chasing/worrying/ stuff people can have that. if females are part of the plan, that's great but I'm not rushing into shyt. Its just good to be somewhere different
 

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:myman:, enjoy the new city and school breh. That's my plan one day if I still remain single and no kids, just to pack up and head to a new city far away and just start new, new career, make new friends, see new places. I mean I wasn't made to just live and born in the same 100kms

It's cool wheny ou get older and wiser and just enjoy life without worrying about things out of your control, focus on school, new city, new things to discover, can craft your new way of life, if you meet a woman cool if not shrugs so much to enjoy

all the best in school breh get that 4.0 gpa


moved to a new city to start grad school feels :blessed: came here with a purpose to do what I need to do and get right and better as a man and professional

so all orientation last week was chill talking to people chopping it up and having a good time without going overboard with the drinking. It seems like once I got on my own away from home (since i went back after college), all the gems i've picked up in this thread have come out in practice naturally since ive been here. i've sweated no one, everyone approaching me seeing what i'm about. even though im on par with the average age in my class, there are students younger so it is kind of a variable environment in backgrounds which is nice

couple people asking me how you stay so laidback and chill when we about to go through this ringer, but honestly i'm thankful to get a chance to be here and learn that i've completely mellowed out and it's been :blessed: each day. even when we go out couple people out here acting thirsty, but you don't wanna mess around with classmates unless you know it's the right move.

speaking of classmates, there's this one woman and she took a serious interest in me (seems cool and a decent person too :ehh:). if this was a couple years ago, i woulda been whoa ok :noah: and been overthinking it, but i came here to study and if it works over time so be it. we spent a couple nights out with mutual classmates/friends where we keep getting closer. we both are having to press the :whoa: on that though as it's the first week of school and we came here with bigger purposes

also brand new city with too many people as well as too many classmates for me to be getting caught up so early, if we digging each other now hopefully we will later too. we both had no intention of being with classmates so im not going back on that just cause of one person.


anyway cant update as frequently and trying to stay relatively anonymous as i move forward in this chapter (so i gotta skimp on some details) but i feel real good in this new city and it seems like i'll prosper here as a man and a learner mostly. i've chilled out completely and lost if and any thirst I ever had. I'm playing the game differently now, all that other chasing/worrying/ stuff people can have that. if females are part of the plan, that's great but I'm not rushing into shyt. Its just good to be somewhere different
 

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although things that start fast usually end fast, meh life is short. I don't follow rules or regulations if its Friday and I like the date and she wants to hang out again Sunday and I want to IMA do it.

It's headache inducing when one thinks about the amount of compromising that men typically do to 'deal' with women. "When is the perfect time to text? When is the perfect date to text? What are the perfect words to say?" You can go on and on. No wonder dudes are so stressed out and nervous over women. Once these fellas realize that women aren't this super ultimate prize and stop trying to cater to them, the easier dealing with them will become. If you feel like talking or texting her do that. If she doesn't like it, move on.

Men need to stop spending life catering to women. Hit her up when you feel like it. Obviously you don't ever want to be super thirsty to where you're suffocating this woman, but spending all this time worrying about all the sequence of events and timing. If a woman likes you, you don't have to worry about this perfect sequence of events.
 

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moved to a new city to start grad school feels :blessed: came here with a purpose to do what I need to do and get right and better as a man and professional

so all orientation last week was chill talking to people chopping it up and having a good time without going overboard with the drinking. It seems like once I got on my own away from home (since i went back after college), all the gems i've picked up in this thread have come out in practice naturally since ive been here. i've sweated no one, everyone approaching me seeing what i'm about. even though im on par with the average age in my class, there are students younger so it is kind of a variable environment in backgrounds which is nice

couple people asking me how you stay so laidback and chill when we about to go through this ringer, but honestly i'm thankful to get a chance to be here and learn that i've completely mellowed out and it's been :blessed: each day. even when we go out couple people out here acting thirsty, but you don't wanna mess around with classmates unless you know it's the right move.

speaking of classmates, there's this one woman and she took a serious interest in me (seems cool and a decent person too :ehh:). if this was a couple years ago, i woulda been whoa ok :noah: and been overthinking it, but i came here to study and if it works over time so be it. we spent a couple nights out with mutual classmates/friends where we keep getting closer. we both are having to press the :whoa: on that though as it's the first week of school and we came here with bigger purposes

also brand new city with too many people as well as too many classmates for me to be getting caught up so early, if we digging each other now hopefully we will later too. we both had no intention of being with classmates so im not going back on that just cause of one person.


anyway cant update as frequently and trying to stay relatively anonymous as i move forward in this chapter (so i gotta skimp on some details) but i feel real good in this new city and it seems like i'll prosper here as a man and a learner mostly. i've chilled out completely and lost if and any thirst I ever had. I'm playing the game differently now, all that other chasing/worrying/ stuff people can have that. if females are part of the plan, that's great but I'm not rushing into shyt. Its just good to be somewhere different

You're attitude is on the right track. Never spend time in life worrying about things outside of your control. We can't control what women are doing, so there's no need to allow that to sap all of the joy out of your life. If a high quality, moral one decides to come along for the ride, excellent. If not, there are 10 million other blessings in life to enjoy.
 

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It's headache inducing when one thinks about the amount of compromising that men typically do to 'deal' with women. "When is the perfect time to text? When is the perfect date to text? What are the perfect words to say?" You can go on and on. No wonder dudes are so stressed out and nervous over women. Once these fellas realize that women aren't this super ultimate prize and stop trying to cater to them, the easier dealing with them will become. If you feel like talking or texting her do that. If she doesn't like it, move on.

Men need to stop spending life catering to women. Hit her up when you feel like it. Obviously you don't ever want to be super thirsty to where you're suffocating this woman, but spending all this time worrying about all the sequence of events and timing. If a woman likes you, you don't have to worry about this perfect sequence of events.

yep do whatever you want, life is too short to take it any other way. at the same time if someone you just met was blowing you up all the time you'd be like :whoa: too so just be laid back about it all

i been around a couple women recently where other guys are trying all these tricks to get someone's attention, all these attention seeking tactics. meanwhile she's only making eye contact and talking with me predominantly and is totally uncomfortable with that person's energy.

it's like reincar's said 1000 times, if they are interested you neednt worry all becomes transparent.
 

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shyt brehs... why don't y'all copy sections of this thread and publish a game manual off of it? Y'all got enough content for 10 Harry Potter series up in hea. Donate the profits to the Coli and get us on the world stage:blessed:
 
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shyt brehs... why don't y'all copy sections of this thread and publish a game manual off of it? Y'all got enough content for 10 Harry Potter series up in hea. Donate the profits to the Coli and get us on the world stage:blessed:


At the end of this month im post some books that deal with masculinity, game , red pill ,dressing better and etc.
 

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Ya'll right I'm overthinking...just go with the flow. No need to worry. :skip:

Just found out that my homie moving in with his girlfriend into her apartment....:scusthov:
 

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Went to visit my uncle today, he always put me up on game every time i see him, today he told me
"Don't watch your woman, watch your pockets":ufdup:
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Brehs how do you deal with a chick with a really tiny vagina. Am i gonna have to grab some lube cuz like her hole is so small. I aint pornstar status either no homo so this is cray :snoop:
 

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Brehs how do you deal with a chick with a really tiny vagina. Am i gonna have to grab some lube cuz like her hole is so small. I aint pornstar status either no homo so this is cray :snoop:

You doing proper foreplay? Ease in the tip and she should fit to you eventually...lube up and enjoy....:manny:
 
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