Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'm sure there are great single mothers out there but doesn't seem worth it to me.

Invest all this time and energy and if it ends you get double heartbreak.

Dad will always be in the picture and no matter what she says she will always have feelings

And yes I'm a jealous person I don't talk to exes and I wouldn't want my woman talking to an ex..

At least if I get married and have kids and the relationship ends I can still see my kids c

 

[NerdNash]

Me and my ex been together for 4 days straight.

She hit me with "i'm not going to move on just leave it at that"

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

For the most part "male friends" don't exist.

Dude played a part in this mess, if the film is crap you can be a great actor but it means nothing, even if you try and carry the movie it will just be a burden and you'll burn out and it will flop anyways

Dude was in a crummy ass relationship, but he willingly signed up and partaked in it.

Any time you have to play a father role, provider role. Open up your wallet over and over again your going to take an L

Yeah I don't have many real female friends . I'm friendly with everyone


i remember one female asking me recently if I have a lot of female friends and I told her nah maybe one or two max. I think she was trying to feel out if I'd friendzone her or seeing if I had a situation

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah I don't have many real female friends . I'm friendly with everyone


i remember one female asking me recently if I have a lot of female friends and I told her nah maybe one or two max. I think she was trying to feel out if I'd friendzone her or seeing if I had a situation

i legit have 2 "friends" who are females, and one got married a month ago and since se got married there has been no discussion and I totally understand because I wouldn't want my wife talking to another man, even though shes like my sister.

And my other one is a former co -worker and all we do is text like once a week and its mainly about whats going on at my old job, minus that.

 

[Chef]

Female friends are weird for me. With my male friends, we won't see each or talk each other for months(work, school, etc.) and but when we link up it's all love.
My female friends in that scenario it's just... like they want an apology. I can't waste time on friendships like those.

 

[satireprod]

Female friends are weird for me. With my male friends, we won't see each or talk each other for months(work, school, etc.) and but when we link up it's all love.
My female friends in that scenario it's just... like they want an apology. I can't waste time on friendships like those.

lol I thought it was just me. My female friends will be highly offended if i go off and do my own thing.

 

[Chef]

lol I thought it was just me. My female friends will be highly offended if i go off and do my own thing.

One time I couldn't go to a birthday dinner because I went to an open house for school and work after that.
Morning after she put the typical "the people who came photo" with the obvious subliminal to those didn't come.

I told her I couldn't make it a week before.

Spoiler

Commented and liked the status too because I'm petty.

 

[satireprod]

time I couldn't go to a birthday dinner because I went to an open house for school and work after that.
Morning after she put the typical "the people who came photo" with the obvious subliminal to those didn't come.

I told her I couldn't make it a week before.

Spoiler

Commented and liked the status too because I'm petty.

The fact you commented on the photo had her heated lol

 

[Soundbwoy]

Man this chik did my boy dirty.

He was with the chik for 2 years. She had 2 kids 11 and 9. He dated her for a year then moved in. Decided to play the father figure to them kids. He thought everything was cool till out of nowhere she told him he needs to be more of a man. They went from splitting the rent to him paying for it in full. When he moved in, she decided to go back to finish up her masters in teaching. When she graduated in May, she all of a sudden felt she needed "a break" ..... then "some space" . So a month passes and they still talk a lot just see each other a little less, but since he moved out she's got an eviction notice, and asked him for some money so her and the kids don't get the boot. He helps out because at that point there was hope of them going back how it used to be and he also had an attachment to them kids , dude was just looking out. So that was settled. The she asks dude to take some of his things out the house so the kids have more space . Dude told me like 2 weeks after she said that, she told him to come get all his shyt and maybe they should start dating other people . So he doesn't rush to do it. Like a week after she told him she was dating someone else and it's weird having his stuff in the house when she has company . Bad move on his part, but he asked who the new dude was? . Turned it out it was an old friend of ole' girl. Dude waited patiently in line.


So now ,y boy hates black women after this.

dammit man

 

[kevm3]

Here's one tip. Don't argue with simps. IF you try to give someone advice that will put them in a better position and they vehemently defend their point and start attacking you, let them be. Some people just enjoy their miserable situation.

 

[kevm3]

Man this chik did my boy dirty.

He was with the chik for 2 years. She had 2 kids 11 and 9. He dated her for a year then moved in. Decided to play the father figure to them kids. He thought everything was cool till out of nowhere she told him he needs to be more of a man. They went from splitting the rent to him paying for it in full. When he moved in, she decided to go back to finish up her masters in teaching. When she graduated in May, she all of a sudden felt she needed "a break" ..... then "some space" . So a month passes and they still talk a lot just see each other a little less, but since he moved out she's got an eviction notice, and asked him for some money so her and the kids don't get the boot. He helps out because at that point there was hope of them going back how it used to be and he also had an attachment to them kids , dude was just looking out. So that was settled. The she asks dude to take some of his things out the house so the kids have more space . Dude told me like 2 weeks after she said that, she told him to come get all his shyt and maybe they should start dating other people . So he doesn't rush to do it. Like a week after she told him she was dating someone else and it's weird having his stuff in the house when she has company . Bad move on his part, but he asked who the new dude was? . Turned it out it was an old friend of ole' girl. Dude waited patiently in line.


So now ,y boy hates black women after this.

It's sad, but in this day and age, a lot of women look at 'providers' as something to be used and discarded. They are more interested in the entertaining dude while having the provider pay her bills. If a woman requires you to come off any sort of money to deal with her, cut her off immediately. As men, we want to provide and take care of what we think to be 'our' woman, but a lot of women simply look at a man like that as some easy come-up instead of something to be appreciated.

I know that he felt as a man he didn't want to leave those kids in a bad situation, and this is how she repays him.

 

[nalej]

fukked up in this order:

Dated a single mum

Moved in

Paid all rent

Played father figure early

Went back after the 'break' - or finished getting her hoeing on

Played superman on the eviction

Told him to get his shyt out of a place he's paying rent for

She said date other people - part 2 of the hoeing

Now bitter towards bw

Men do it to themselves.

It's almost like he had no good friends to pull him out.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Female friends are weird for me. With my male friends, we won't see each or talk each other for months(work, school, etc.) and but when we link up it's all love.
My female friends in that scenario it's just... like they want an apology. I can't waste time on friendships like those.

Yeah that's how it be. I can go months without talking to one of my close friends. One of my close friends i talk to ever few months or so. I called him in April for his birthday and we picked up where we left off a couple months prior lol. The others are the same, we don't have(nor do we have time) to talk everyday.

 

[MikelArteta]

close male friends no homo are like a book, you read a few pages book, months later you can pick up right where you left off and its no biggie

With "female friends" its awkward, are they dating someone?, are they angry your not her simp text buddy whose texting all the time etc

 

[Rich Spirit]

Female friends are weird for me. With my male friends, we won't see each or talk each other for months(work, school, etc.) and but when we link up it's all love.
My female friends in that scenario it's just... like they want an apology. I can't waste time on friendships like those.

Truth. Remind me of this one time a female friend grilled me for not texting back. Started asking me questions "why you aint text me back?" "Busy? busy doing what?" "Well you had 2-3 days to text me back"

the text wasn't even important