Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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When it comes to women, they'll treat you how you let them treat you. If you come off as weak and you let her run over you, it's exactly what she's going to do. These dudes that end up having everything dumped on them need to get the wake-up call. If you don't stand up on your manhood or respect, you won't get any from a woman. He's doing all that and she is still nagging at him, but a dude she actually respects has to do none of that and she'll have the sweetest personality ever. If a woman starts bring lemons into your life and making things sour, you got to tell her to sweeten that demeanor up or keep it moving. The longer you let a woman continue with the sour face in your life, the more she's going to escalate with the bad behavior.
Supercoolmayo
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My friend wants to know
The girl that i like doesn't text back. Im sure if she likes me or not. What should i do dude?
The girl that i like doesn't text back. Im sure if she likes me or not. What should i do dude?
Easy...I think he knows what to do
Supercoolmayo
Superstar
He doesn't know what your talking about
DarkHorse23
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DarkHorse23
Banned
Brehs, How do you get over the bullshyt social programming that as a man you HAVE to pay for dates. I believe going Dutch on dates initially makes sense when meeting a woman so you can be sure she's genuinely interested but I cant bring myself to tell a woman(once I start talking to them again) that's what I want to do. How do I get over that bullshyt belief that I'm suppose to do that as a man?
Ask if she's interested and she'll probably make up some excuse about being busy xyz/saying she likes him, but actions speak louder than words. She's not responding to his texts, maybe he should stop contact. Situations like these tends to get worse not better.
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
It's hard hurdle to climb as it's to be expected about 99% of the time. That is why it's best to do something like a coffee date as it's not expensive at all. But as things possibly move forward with the woman you're involved with, you may have to have that conversation as to figure out how things will work as far as paying for dates is concerned. As long as you communicate your message with confidence then I feel that a compromise can be reached. At the end of the day though, it's all about the woman you're involved with and how open she is to doing something like that.
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
My next step would be to call the woman. Now and days we've gotten so used to texting that we rarely just pick up the phone and call. If she doesn't respond that way, then something is really up as you're putting forth the effort but not receiving any feedback in return. He has to realize that time is precious and there is no point in wasting time on a woman whom is simply not interested.
You don't have to do anything.
For one, you could just start out with inexpensive dates. However, my advice would to be get your paper up so you can spend on things like this and not worry about it. I'd hate to be on a date and be preoccupied with thoughts like"
I hope she picks something cheap" or "I wonder if she's going to pay for half 
" Obviously you should only be taking chicks out who you feel are worth spending money on, especially if you're taking her to a more expensive place. That being said, the freedom from taking a chick out and knowing you can cover it is just 
. If it doesn't work out 
, take the L and move on the next one.
DarkHorse23
Banned
It's confusing to me because the majority of the men on this forum say they don't spend any money on women at all and get the p*ssy, so it's making me feel obviously it isn't expected or atleast you shouldn't feel the pressure to do it because apparently women who really like you aren't going expect you the spend a bunch if any money on you, and that they only do that to guys they aren't feeling but trying to take advantage of.
DarkHorse23
Banned
You don't have to do anything.
Yeah that's the long term goal obviously.....
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
And that is the crazy part about all of this. Everything depends on how the woman is feeling you. Most woman are conditioned to let the man pay for the dates as you mentioned, it's social programming. There are some women however whom don't follow the program and are more than willing to pay their share. It's all about communicating your values of what you expect from your woman.