Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[u mad son?]

Any of you ever date someone who was clinically depressed? I am right now, just wanted to hear some stories and possibly tips.

Fam my longest relationship was 2 years and it was with a girl who was severely depressed. You think you're doing the right thing being there for her at her worst times... shyt I drove 70 miles to go see this girl on demand when she was crying, stressing, talking about wanting to die etc. Bro, best believe she will not remember or appreciate that shyt, she will feel you will do that as a duty for her because her mind ain't right

Save yourself the trouble bruv, that girl will be a black hole for positive energy..... I thought I had the energy and patience to deal with her depression, but the fact is, it will be a waste of energy until she gets her mind right herself. We men, not councilors... And that's what she needs before she ever finds a man

 

[physics1]

Hey brehs,I have an embarrassing question to ask,how old were you when you first got a girl's number?
Sorry for the weird question.

 

[Jahmal]

Someone please explain this to me.

A woman makes it known shes attracted to you. You get the number. When you go to set up something ie for them to come over and chill they curve youthis is some ol bullshyt. This is the second weekend in a row this has happened. 2 girls in two weeks.


I dont get this. They tell your mutual friends you fine yada yada then dont want to chill?

stop asking them to come directly to your house to chill. ask them out to a bar first (one thats very close to your house), have a couple of drinks with them, then suggest they follow u back to your place.

Women will like you but they dont want you to think they are thots by coming to your place for netflix and chill. I have girls meet me out at a park or coffee shop and see where her head is at. If the convo is cool I invite her back to my place either that night or the next night. if the shorty is feeling you then she will be down. If she isnt and suggests you taking her to dinner then I curve her.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

explain brother im lost

help a fellow laker brethen out

Leave that chick alone. She gonna play games

edit: I see she already did

 

[MikelArteta]

Fixing, helping out being there for a girl in a time of need rarely pays a dividend.

It's like a scrub in baseball playing for a small market team, you work with him fix his swing he's batting 330, with 50 home runs and 130rbis.

You think he's going to be like well I'm going to be loyal and stick by you because you helped me out nah best offer gone.

 

[DarkHorse23]

my friend complimented a girl in a similar way this week around monday/tuesday, hasn't heard from her since. told me that before that the convo was flowing smoothly.
bytches are weird man

Well i texted her today, and she texted back. Going try and set something up this week, if a no go then i'm going trash it and move on.

 

[lamont614]

Leave that chick alone. She gonna play games

edit: I see she already did

So what's the point tho lol

What does playing games mean ?

 

[sfgiants]

This bytch I been messing with posted a pic of some flowers n candy some simp got her today for no reason
I'm like these dudes doing all this extra credit simp shyt not knowing the kind of shyt their #wcw are getting into

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

This bytch I been messing with posted a pic of some flowers n candy some simp got her today for no reason
I'm like these dudes doing all this extra credit simp shyt not knowing the kind of shyt their #wcw are getting into

No point in doing too much because at the end of the day she is gonna go with who she wants for other reasons. If she does stick around because she's getting bought shyt, that's not a win either. She'll just stick around until the well dries up.

 

[u mad son?]

these goody goody bytches causing me the most problems

been messaging this chick, kept it brief, called her up to try and set up a date .... I asked her to meet up and she keep telling me i aint her type cos I made a joke earlier about my type being social media hoes . now shes grabbing hold of this angle and not letting go .. I dunno what to do now, I just played it off and tapered the conversation and left it at that

next move?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

next move?

Leave it alone and move on to the next. If she wanna chill she will.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Leave it alone and move on to the next. If she wanna chill she will.

I agree. Chasing women is for the birds.

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

I like this thread so I will give thoughts.

You are a business and women are potential employees - this is how you should mentally frame your interactions with women.

If you want the best women, make sure that you are the best.

Women should feel glad to be with you and not the other way around.

They should want to be seen associating with you.

They should love doing things for you that make you happy.

If she doesn't want to do these things for you, then you're lacking in some way and need improvement.

If women don't wanna be with you, then you need improvement. You're not doing something correctly or you're doing a horrible job at it.

 

[360dagod]

All you nikkas out here dealing with women who have kids in any capacity,yall better know how to maneuver if the Baby Father is around

And be ready for the avalanche at a moment's notice

Im telling you this as im talking to my homegirl....

 

[360dagod]

I like this thread so I will give thoughts.

You are a business and women are potential employees - this is how you should mentally frame your interactions with women.

If you want the best women, make sure that you are the best.

Women should feel glad to be with you and not the other way around.

They should want to be seen associating with you.

They should love doing things for you that make you happy.

If she doesn't want to do these things for you, then you're lacking in some way and need improvement.

If women don't wanna be with you, then you need improvement. You're not doing something correctly or you're doing a horrible job at it.

What exactly do you mean by the "best"