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What exactly do you mean by the "best"

Find out what women want and then become it. Constantly improve. Research what women are biologically designed to be attracted to and then become it.

Research long enough and you'll come to sound answers.

The top women know that they are the best and wont just accept any average, basic man. You need to command their respect by becoming more.
 

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Screw all that, be the best you can be for you not for any women.




A woman will like you or not, and if she does everything will be overwritten.

It's why women marry outside their race, social class, etc. It's why women leave the rich dude to be with Mr scrub.


Life becomes easier when you just enjoy life and have a take it or leave it attitude


Find out what women want and then become it. Constantly improve. Research what women are biologically designed to be attracted to and then become it.

Research long enough and you'll come to sound answers.

The top women know that they are the best and wont just accept any average, basic man. You need to command their respect by becoming more.
 

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All you nikkas out here dealing with women who have kids in any capacity,yall better know how to maneuver if the Baby Father is around:francis:

Especially the ones who have younger ones (under 10).In sports terms the baby daddy is Brady.No mater how much dirt or cheating he does he will always have a spot and be the #1.
 

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Find out what women want and then become it. Constantly improve. Research what women are biologically designed to be attracted to and then become it.

Research long enough and you'll come to sound answers.

The top women know that they are the best and wont just accept any average, basic man. You need to command their respect by becoming more.

Screw all that, be the best you can be for you not for any women.

A woman will like you or not, and if she does everything will be overwritten.

It's why women marry outside their race, social class, etc. It's why women leave the rich dude to be with Mr scrub.

Life becomes easier when you just enjoy life and have a take it or leave it attitude

I think it's kind of a combination between both these answers. While I agree you should never change your fundamental being for the sake of attracting women alone, it is wise to take the time to understand women and how they think.

Women are attracted to a man who is confident, assertive, comfortable in his own skin, masculine, etc. But you don't become these things for women. You become these things for yourself and attracting women is side effect. These are traits that will help you in all phases of life. Not being afraid will help you advance in your career, could improve your social life, and get you to try things a less confident man may not try, thus making you more interesting through your experiences. Next thing you know, women are attracted to you.

So yeah, make yourself the best you, but not for women, do it for you. While it certainly doesn't hurt to understand what, exactly, attracts women, don't let that be your motivation. You should want that for yourself regardless.

If you build yourself, they will come.
 

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Find out what women want and then become it. Constantly improve. Research what women are biologically designed to be attracted to and then become it.

Research long enough and you'll come to sound answers.

The top women know that they are the best and wont just accept any average, basic man. You need to command their respect by becoming more.

Naaaaah to the bolded.:scust:

You can do this by simply bettering yourself. Then that in turn should broaden the range of women you can attract.

I agree with your last sentence though. Learn more, lift more, work more, travel more, be more.
 

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My attitude is this if a woman wants this and that and I don't have it then go .

If she wants a dr, lawyer etc. Well I'm not going to med school or law school so go get one.


I'm enjoying my life and my hobbies, And the life I lead.

I already said before I overwrotr every rule my girl had in dating.

She's taller, richer, and never dated a person who wasn't Nigerian.
 

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Agree somewhat but Women aren't changing for you, or trying to understand men.

A woman will like you or not everything else is extra.


You can be shy quirky, awkard but if a woman likes you suddenly those words are your mysterious, not clichéd and comfy in your skin.

Just like your a creep if she hates you but she loves how aggressive you are if she likes you.




I think it's kind of a combination between both these answers. While I agree you should never change your fundamental being for the sake of attracting women alone, it is wise to take the time to understand women and how they think.

Women are attracted to a man who is confident, assertive, comfortable in his own skin, masculine, etc. But you don't become these things for women. You become these things for yourself and attracting women is side effect. These are traits that will help you in all phases of life. Not being afraid will help you advance in your career, could improve your social life, and get you to try things a less confident man may not try, thus making you more interesting through your experiences. Next thing you know, women are attracted to you.

So yeah, make yourself the best you, but not for women, do it for you. While it certainly doesn't hurt to understand what, exactly, attracts women, don't let that be your motivation. You should want that for yourself regardless.

If you build yourself, they will come.
 

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Agree somewhat but Women aren't changing for you, or trying to understand men.

A woman will like you or not everything else is extra.


You can be shy quirky, awkard but if a woman likes you suddenly those words are your mysterious, not clichéd and comfy in your skin.

Just like your a creep if she hates you but she loves how aggressive you are if she likes you.

That's ok if women don't try to understand men. It's also ok if men don't try to understand women. But understanding is always a virtue. Understanding will make you better prepared. That holds true for anything in life.

I also think there's a difference between creep and aggressive and it's not always just about if she likes you. If you do it right, she will give you signs (this is an area where understanding can come into play, understanding these signs) and if you're on top of your game there is no way you can come off like a creep. Why? Because first of all, you should not be thirsty. That's the #1 characteristic of a creep. Women can sense thirst. A creep will also put her on a pedestal instead of just talking to her like a regular human being. And if she's not feeling you, a creep will persist instead of playing it cool and casually stepping off. And lastly, the creep will place blame if he's rejected (she only likes thugs/white boys/ballers, etc) which may even cause him to lash out at her. Cat playing it cool is like whatever and it's not really rejection to him, it's nothing more than a simple convo that didn't lead anywhere. He keeps it moving while the creep dwells. So it's not just about appearance or approach, it's about a complete mindset that surrounds those things. Again, preparation. #1 problem dudes have trying to get women is not having their mind right.
 

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My attitude is this if a woman wants this and that and I don't have it then go .

If she wants a dr, lawyer etc. Well I'm not going to med school or law school so go get one.


I'm enjoying my life and my hobbies, And the life I lead.

I already said before I overwrotr every rule my girl had in dating.

She's taller, richer, and never dated a person who wasn't Nigerian.

What's her height and what's yours.
 
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Screw all that, be the best you can be for you not for any women.




A woman will like you or not, and if she does everything will be overwritten.

It's why women marry outside their race, social class, etc. It's why women leave the rich dude to be with Mr scrub.


Life becomes easier when you just enjoy life and have a take it or leave it attitude

You took a the words right out my mouth real in nikkas on the same wavelength...
 
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Agree somewhat but Women aren't changing for you, or trying to understand men.

A woman will like you or not everything else is extra.


You can be shy quirky, awkard but if a woman likes you suddenly those words are your mysterious, not clichéd and comfy in your skin.

Just like your a creep if she hates you but she loves how aggressive you are if she likes you.


Even when get the so called better job better house better car ....Men are just success objects to these women with that thought process because all they really after is you status...they DONT care what you have gone threw to BE the man you are today. This why you do things for you and your family ONLY.
 
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