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Nah...she explained it to me and apologized. Had to do with her fam being OD strict.
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Nah...she explained it to me and apologized. Had to do with her fam being OD strict.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
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gonna try and get through this thread this month
MollyGalaga
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Man can my coli brehs help me.
Girl is conFUSING
been curving this girl for the longest cus she said she was in love wit her man and i dont wanna play second fiddle
but she'd always hmu at a random times + when i see her just talk like i didnt curve her hard (i told her peace out)
Well past saturday i went to a small kickback party thing. she was there plus we had liquor
ion know if it was the liquor (we only drunk a cup) or if it was the mood but we were all on each other, not really making out but almost partition video stuff
after it was over we kissed
Bruh,
Im so confused.
So I ask her if she still go with her bf to confirm she says "no but i talk to somebody tho"
so im like "ok but you made out with me friday" i didnt text her tht tho
I texted
"But you don’t go with nobody tho
So like, why don’t you wanna talk to me, or chill with me? I know u like me. Im saying like we could have fun together don’t u think?"
read it and never replied
or she did but bcus she be turning her data on n off it prob went as a txt and i dont get txts
prob the first reason tho
Girl is conFUSING
been curving this girl for the longest cus she said she was in love wit her man and i dont wanna play second fiddle
but she'd always hmu at a random times + when i see her just talk like i didnt curve her hard (i told her peace out)
Well past saturday i went to a small kickback party thing. she was there plus we had liquor
ion know if it was the liquor (we only drunk a cup) or if it was the mood but we were all on each other, not really making out but almost partition video stuff
after it was over we kissed
Bruh,
Im so confused.
So I ask her if she still go with her bf to confirm she says "no but i talk to somebody tho"
so im like "ok but you made out with me friday" i didnt text her tht tho
I texted
"But you don’t go with nobody tho
So like, why don’t you wanna talk to me, or chill with me? I know u like me. Im saying like we could have fun together don’t u think?"
read it and never replied
or she did but bcus she be turning her data on n off it prob went as a txt and i dont get txts
prob the first reason tho
satireprod
Superstar
Man can my coli brehs help me.
Girl is conFUSING
been curving this girl for the longest cus she said she was in love wit her man and i dont wanna play second fiddle
but she'd always hmu at a random times + when i see her just talk like i didnt curve her hard (i told her peace out)
Well past saturday i went to a small kickback party thing. she was there plus we had liquor
ion know if it was the liquor (we only drunk a cup) or if it was the mood but we were all on each other, not really making out but almost partition video stuff
after it was over we kissed
Bruh,
Im so confused.
So I ask her if she still go with her bf to confirm she says "no but i talk to somebody tho"
so im like "ok but you made out with me friday" i didnt text her tht tho
I texted
"But you don’t go with nobody tho
So like, why don’t you wanna talk to me, or chill with me? I know u like me. Im saying like we could have fun together don’t u think?"
read it and never replied
or she did but bcus she be turning her data on n off it prob went as a txt and i dont get txts
prob the first reason tho
MollyGalaga
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nah REAL shyt i wouldnt have believed it if i hadnt seen it for my self, she literally turns her data on and off.
and i have no phone and im only able to send/read imessages on my mac
but anyways man can you give me help on this shyt
satireprod
Superstar
Respect bro, I'm just trying to keep it real/look out for a brother. It just MIGHT be possible that she did as you said and since she turned her data on/off that it was happened.
BUT when she said she's talking to someone that means she's sleeping with someone..could be the ex..could be someone new. regardless it seems she's weighing her options, especially since you don't really want to mess with a woman involved with a guy (I'm like that too playa) she'll reach out accordingly. Key thing is for you to not be sitting by idly waiting on that decision.
MollyGalaga
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Hmm. Well Im thinking about texting her tonight, and tryna talk to her this week about it.
satireprod
Superstar
Nothing wrong with that. See if she's receptive bro. But if she seems distant or doesn't respond still you know what's up.
*This post is more about dating in a college town, if you're just trying to get laid some of this may apply but not as much so
I have to admit, I've had a rough time dating women in my 6 years of being in a college town. (I'm in law school, hence why 6 years)
I'm a good looking guy, in shape and hopefully with a good future in front of him but I'm naturally a really shy person and when I try and be outgoing I think it probably comes off as forced (I know it feels forced). I feel like I'd be a good boyfriend or whatever to a woman but very few women in a college town that are at least somewhat attractive seem interested in a not douchey guy. That said, looking back on the various women I've talked too, I've noticed a trend:
- Can't be too aggressive with the texting. It's so dumb but messaging a girl too much comes off as desperate. Girls get impressed when you get them to text last as dumb as that sounds. Or when they feel compelled to start the convo. Also, don't always text them immediately back. Sometimes it's ok but sometimes wait an hour or two, this shows her you're not too desperate and you have a life going on but it also gives you the chance to think of a really good response to what she says.
- Can't be too aggressive trying to see the girl either or it comes off as creepy. I've noticed when I leave a cooling off period in between trying to see a girl I get a much better response as opposed to like texting her the next day after seeing her already trying to set something up. If you're not bf/gf, no real reason why you should try and see a girl more then 1-2 times a week for the first few months.
- Try to come up with with a variety of things to do together. Not just drinks and not just food either. Do something active that shows you're fun outside of restaurant/bar setting. When planning stuff, take initiative but plan something unique.
- Get in situations where you'll take pictures with her and she's likely to post them on social media. Being on her social media reinforces the idea of your friendship...or something more. Sort of goes back to the unique date idea. Go to like the state fair or for a hike somewhere cool or something different and casual and notable that she's going to want to take a picture with you at.
- Don't forget about your guy friends:
1. They make the cooling off period in between women much better
2. It makes you more attractive to girls you have reliable guy friends. Shows you're not a loser/creep basically. They think it's weird/there's something wrong with you if never have any friends around when you see her. She doesn't even have to be there. Even like just snapchatting her something goofy with a bunch of guy friends in it helps a lot. Or posting on IG/FB a pic with your crew, she'll see it.
- Don't forget about your family either. Girls want to be wives and/or moms one day and they want to see you care about your family.
- Dress well: doesn't have to be brand name but make sure your clothes fit right, matches, is ironed and has no stains.
- Get a hobby. At my school I was really involved in SG. Not only are there a lot of girls in SG but it showed I had more on my mind then just boning girls 24/7.
I think most of all, something I was bad about for a while is TAKE IT SLOW AND PACE IT. Now that doesn't mean go so slow it lets other guys jump in, but I quickly realized that girls get turned off if you're trying to schedule too many things too quickly or trying to talk too much. Girls are being chased by lots of guys and although many of them want a bf, they don't want a big time commitment right after meeting you. They want to do their due diligence and be eased into it and they need to be convinced they need to commit to YOU over everyone else. Anyone can send a girl a text everyday. It comes down to quality over quantity. I feel like from the time you first meet a girl, it's realistic to expect 3-5 months minimum before you're a thing, no matter what you do. And no one wants three months of "what's up" or "got any plans tonight" texts. If she likes you, she'll start asking you to hang beyond the 1-2 times per week you see her that you plan and that's when you know it's escalating into something more.
Dating culture is kind of ridiculous, they want you to seem only half-interested at first. Don't let them think they've "got you" because if they do then you lost.
I have to admit, I've had a rough time dating women in my 6 years of being in a college town. (I'm in law school, hence why 6 years)
I'm a good looking guy, in shape and hopefully with a good future in front of him but I'm naturally a really shy person and when I try and be outgoing I think it probably comes off as forced (I know it feels forced). I feel like I'd be a good boyfriend or whatever to a woman but very few women in a college town that are at least somewhat attractive seem interested in a not douchey guy. That said, looking back on the various women I've talked too, I've noticed a trend:
- Can't be too aggressive with the texting. It's so dumb but messaging a girl too much comes off as desperate. Girls get impressed when you get them to text last as dumb as that sounds. Or when they feel compelled to start the convo. Also, don't always text them immediately back. Sometimes it's ok but sometimes wait an hour or two, this shows her you're not too desperate and you have a life going on but it also gives you the chance to think of a really good response to what she says.
- Can't be too aggressive trying to see the girl either or it comes off as creepy. I've noticed when I leave a cooling off period in between trying to see a girl I get a much better response as opposed to like texting her the next day after seeing her already trying to set something up. If you're not bf/gf, no real reason why you should try and see a girl more then 1-2 times a week for the first few months.
- Try to come up with with a variety of things to do together. Not just drinks and not just food either. Do something active that shows you're fun outside of restaurant/bar setting. When planning stuff, take initiative but plan something unique.
- Get in situations where you'll take pictures with her and she's likely to post them on social media. Being on her social media reinforces the idea of your friendship...or something more. Sort of goes back to the unique date idea. Go to like the state fair or for a hike somewhere cool or something different and casual and notable that she's going to want to take a picture with you at.
- Don't forget about your guy friends:
1. They make the cooling off period in between women much better
2. It makes you more attractive to girls you have reliable guy friends. Shows you're not a loser/creep basically. They think it's weird/there's something wrong with you if never have any friends around when you see her. She doesn't even have to be there. Even like just snapchatting her something goofy with a bunch of guy friends in it helps a lot. Or posting on IG/FB a pic with your crew, she'll see it.
- Don't forget about your family either. Girls want to be wives and/or moms one day and they want to see you care about your family.
- Dress well: doesn't have to be brand name but make sure your clothes fit right, matches, is ironed and has no stains.
- Get a hobby. At my school I was really involved in SG. Not only are there a lot of girls in SG but it showed I had more on my mind then just boning girls 24/7.
I think most of all, something I was bad about for a while is TAKE IT SLOW AND PACE IT. Now that doesn't mean go so slow it lets other guys jump in, but I quickly realized that girls get turned off if you're trying to schedule too many things too quickly or trying to talk too much. Girls are being chased by lots of guys and although many of them want a bf, they don't want a big time commitment right after meeting you. They want to do their due diligence and be eased into it and they need to be convinced they need to commit to YOU over everyone else. Anyone can send a girl a text everyday. It comes down to quality over quantity. I feel like from the time you first meet a girl, it's realistic to expect 3-5 months minimum before you're a thing, no matter what you do. And no one wants three months of "what's up" or "got any plans tonight" texts. If she likes you, she'll start asking you to hang beyond the 1-2 times per week you see her that you plan and that's when you know it's escalating into something more.
Dating culture is kind of ridiculous, they want you to seem only half-interested at first. Don't let them think they've "got you" because if they do then you lost.
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MalikReloaded
All Star
Yea man...in regards to the text thing...you gotta let them have space. Make it seem like you're not interested. If I had it my way, I would want to be around her all day everyday, texting, calling, hanging out but, that would make me look needy and desperate. And nothing repulses a woman more. So in the beginning, I'd force myself not to talk to her for days. You gotta walk the perfect line of being completely and utterly indifferent......and thoughtful and romantic. Makes for maximum effect when you DO decide to shower them with attention. I learned this years ago. This is one reason why women love bad boys. I'm not a bad boy but, I'll emptloy some of their tactics
It was almost too easy with the girl i'm seeing now. At first she would text back for maybe 10 minutes, talk for a little bit on the phone. When I felt like she was acting funny, I'd slow down contact. Talk to other girls. Do things that filled my time. Ignore her basically. Made her want the attention back. A couple of weeks afterward she was blowing me up 40, 50, 60 times a day texting. And then from there it got serious.
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Maybe because im not a social media nikka, but im not with the pic taking
...I only make exception for my lil cousins..i barely wanna take family pics but im dragged into it..
..These broads will take pics with any and everything.
...You taking pics can easily be countered with another nikka taking pics..I refuse to be apart of the attention whoring..If i even decide yes on it, its after she's begged and pleaded to the point where im the focal point of the picture and her page...Not Her
As far as showing her you got friends, show her you got potential to bag other women...That will pretty much shut her up
While you make good points, i dont necessarily agree with blindly giving away position on the chessboard...
Men dont play offense enough..Everything is based on what the female thinks/feel etc.
Play offense and attack
chabvongaBlackus
Banned
Brehs here's a text snippet from a broad I met in the club friday...didn't even have to talk to her...looked her into the eyes n handed her my phone
Hey what's up
Yesterday, 12:30 PM
what you got planned for the day ?
I might go to the spa with my girls, you?
service my Furiozo....wanna hang out with ya though /
That's cool, word? And do what?
hang out something casual
what do you like to do ?
Okay, I like shopping, eating out, getting drinks with friends, most of the time I'm at school so it just depends.
You?
Yeah...i’m in school too....
what r you in school for ?
What school do you go to?
Im majoring in education
usf....will tell you more when I see ya in person....face to face conversations always better looool
Yesterday, 12:47 PM
Oh really? Thats cool. And that's true.
you stay in tampa ?
Yesterday, 1:18 PM
Yeah. You?
Yesterday, 1:23 PM
aye so after your plans with ya girls lets either hit a yogurt spot or you could come out for drinks n conversation
Yesterday, 3:46 PM
Sure that sounds good.
Yesterday, 7:45 PM
I'm almost done taking care of furiozo....so r u now free ?
Yesterday, 7:53 PM
I'm out right now with a few friends but I should be going back home a little later
Yesterday, 8:34 PM
I guess it's for drinks then let me know
Yesterday, 9:06 PM
Okay than
Yesterday, 10:50 PM
free now ?
Yeah I'm almost home. Where do you want to go for drinks?
bar Louie's ?
Today, 12:16 AM
I guess we off for tonight ?
Today, 12:20 AM
We might have to reschedule for tomorrow. I haven't went home yet, still out with my girls
Today, 2:00 PM
hey
Today, 2:37 PM
What's up
Today, 2:45 PM
drinks at boba louie’s at 6:05?
Today, 2:48 PM
We might have to do something else. I'm 20 years old they won't allow me at the bar.
ok some casual pizza hangout place then.....or have you ever had amarula ? It’s cream like drink we drink back home
Today, 11:01 PM
you could have said straight up ain't sh!t happening mate
....If any mistakes made please advice so I can improve on the next one....I'm a firm believer in no fap so ya know a nikka can be a little aggressive
Hey what's up
Yesterday, 12:30 PM
what you got planned for the day ?
I might go to the spa with my girls, you?
service my Furiozo....wanna hang out with ya though /
That's cool, word? And do what?
hang out something casual
what do you like to do ?
Okay, I like shopping, eating out, getting drinks with friends, most of the time I'm at school so it just depends.
You?
Yeah...i’m in school too....
what r you in school for ?
What school do you go to?
Im majoring in education
usf....will tell you more when I see ya in person....face to face conversations always better looool
Yesterday, 12:47 PM
Oh really? Thats cool. And that's true.
you stay in tampa ?
Yesterday, 1:18 PM
Yeah. You?
Yesterday, 1:23 PM
aye so after your plans with ya girls lets either hit a yogurt spot or you could come out for drinks n conversation
Yesterday, 3:46 PM
Sure that sounds good.
Yesterday, 7:45 PM
I'm almost done taking care of furiozo....so r u now free ?
Yesterday, 7:53 PM
I'm out right now with a few friends but I should be going back home a little later
Yesterday, 8:34 PM
I guess it's for drinks then let me know
Yesterday, 9:06 PM
Okay than
Yesterday, 10:50 PM
free now ?
Yeah I'm almost home. Where do you want to go for drinks?
bar Louie's ?
Today, 12:16 AM
I guess we off for tonight ?
Today, 12:20 AM
We might have to reschedule for tomorrow. I haven't went home yet, still out with my girls
Today, 2:00 PM
hey
Today, 2:37 PM
What's up
Today, 2:45 PM
drinks at boba louie’s at 6:05?
Today, 2:48 PM
We might have to do something else. I'm 20 years old they won't allow me at the bar.
ok some casual pizza hangout place then.....or have you ever had amarula ? It’s cream like drink we drink back home
Today, 11:01 PM
you could have said straight up ain't sh!t happening mate
....If any mistakes made please advice so I can improve on the next one....I'm a firm believer in no fap so ya know a nikka can be a little aggressive
Brehs here's a text snippet from a broad I met in the club friday...didn't even have to talk to her...looked her into the eyes n handed her my phone
Hey what's up
Yesterday, 12:30 PM
what you got planned for the day ?
I might go to the spa with my girls, you?
service my Furiozo....wanna hang out with ya though /
That's cool, word? And do what?
hang out something casual
what do you like to do ?
Okay, I like shopping, eating out, getting drinks with friends, most of the time I'm at school so it just depends.
You?
Yeah...i’m in school too....
what r you in school for ?
What school do you go to?
Im majoring in education
usf....will tell you more when I see ya in person....face to face conversations always better looool
Yesterday, 12:47 PM
Oh really? Thats cool. And that's true.
you stay in tampa ?
Yesterday, 1:18 PM
Yeah. You?
Yesterday, 1:23 PM
aye so after your plans with ya girls lets either hit a yogurt spot or you could come out for drinks n conversation
Yesterday, 3:46 PM
Sure that sounds good.
Yesterday, 7:45 PM
I'm almost done taking care of furiozo....so r u now free ?
Yesterday, 7:53 PM
I'm out right now with a few friends but I should be going back home a little later
Yesterday, 8:34 PM
I guess it's for drinks then let me know
Yesterday, 9:06 PM
Okay than
Yesterday, 10:50 PM
free now ?
Yeah I'm almost home. Where do you want to go for drinks?
bar Louie's ?
Today, 12:16 AM
I guess we off for tonight ?
Today, 12:20 AM
We might have to reschedule for tomorrow. I haven't went home yet, still out with my girls
Today, 2:00 PM
hey
Today, 2:37 PM
What's up
Today, 2:45 PM
drinks at boba louie’s at 6:05?
Today, 2:48 PM
We might have to do something else. I'm 20 years old they won't allow me at the bar.
ok some casual pizza hangout place then.....or have you ever had amarula ? It’s cream like drink we drink back home
Today, 11:01 PM
you could have said straight up ain't sh!t happening mate
....If any mistakes made please advice so I can improve on the next one....I'm a firm believer in no fap so ya know a nikka can be a little aggressive
Way too much texting
I can understand when a nikka got that juice flowing..the thirst is serious
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