Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Swamp-Thing said:
@ThatGuyloco, but just to set expectations, you probably ain't gonna get any woman you want on sight. That's the point of dating though, see a lot of different ones before making your decision. Best for everyone involved.

Don't put so much pressure onto yourself when you are conversing with her because, realize, there is most likely gonna be dozens of 'hers' (or more) when you are able to really put yourself out there.

As far as confidence and social skills, don't even need a date to work on that shyt, join a gym (3 days a week, leg (squats, single leg press, calf raises, cardio), chest-tris (bench/incline bench/dips/tricep pressdown), and back-n-bicep (deadlift, rowing machine, pull downs, curls). Do that for yourself. Start eating better and getting your health to a high point. Change habits. You will be surprised how much that shyt changes your mind chemistry and will go hand in hand with more confidence, less nervousness, anxiety, depression, fear or what have you.

Create successful habits that you can control in your personal life and then just let that spill over into your social and dating life.

I was behind a computer screen between like 2006-2009 playing video games (wow), so trust me, you can overcome that stuff and improve the sitcheeation, ya mean? Also, just wanted to make a point between what you said and what @DaRealness said.... do not let fear be your motivation, it will not work. Overcome the fear and when it occurs, stay true to yourself in spite of it. This will help you in all arenas of life.
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Diet and working out is the biggest thing I want to change. I don't watch porn anymore either. The thing is I SEE the potential but having anyone isn't guaranteed. I'm also attempting to look for new things to do outside my house. And conversational pressure with people is somewhat hard to shake. I don't get small talk. I feel like I'm tap dancing with women to keep them interested. I'm stubborn when it comes to wasting words. I feel like I have to be better than them for them to take interest
 
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How many of y'all have seen 'A Thin Line Between Love and Hate' ?

So I'm watching this joint right now like :ohhh:

Lots of lessons in this movie brehs. Haven't seen it in awhile but it shows where a lot of nikkas fukk up by thinking with their dikks and ignoring signs.

"Life is all about choices son. The older your mind gets the better choices your dikk makes."
 
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Just noticed something :lupe:

My ex is trying damn hard to connect with my female friends :dwillhuh:

She been pressing hard these last couple of weeks.

She stay posting commets under my friends wall and pictures

My friends aint loyal for shyt though lol.
 
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No woman can make you do anything you don't want to do.

No woman is worth you doing anything you don't want to do.

Remember this. Respect comes from having the ability to say no.

Never apologize for telling a woman No. Never feel bad or sorry for telling a woman No.

That's how men get taken advantage of. A woman can't respect a man who doesn't respect himself.
 
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AlwaysLurkin said:
Im a lil confused,me and this chick been cool for a while and I didn't mind cause are height difference,im 5'5 shes 5'11.Recently we've been doing a lot of flirting jokingly through text.So tonight we texting like normal and she sends a pic of her in a towel.Then says let me see something so I say fuk it and send a dikk pic. Then she sends a pic of her titties :ohlawd:...she says she wouldn't let me hit tho:to:,but after tonight I think she frontin.Yall think I have a good chance to smash? I could cross smashing a tall chick off my bucket list
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Yes

Invite her over to ur crib
Then when she ask for what

Say because your gonna fukk.her
 
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I don't think I've ever been as sexually attracted to any girl as this one chick :whew:

I be having regular ass conversations just talking with her....dikk be on hard :heh:

She just exudes sex appeal without even trying. The thoughts I be having :wow:

I need shorty like that :banderas:
 
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Swamp-Thing said:
@ThatGuyloco, but just to set expectations, you probably ain't gonna get any woman you want on sight. That's the point of dating though, see a lot of different ones before making your decision. Best for everyone involved.

Don't put so much pressure onto yourself when you are conversing with her because, realize, there is most likely gonna be dozens of 'hers' (or more) when you are able to really put yourself out there.

As far as confidence and social skills, don't even need a date to work on that shyt, join a gym (3 days a week, leg (squats, single leg press, calf raises, cardio), chest-tris (bench/incline bench/dips/tricep pressdown), and back-n-bicep (deadlift, rowing machine, pull downs, curls). Do that for yourself. Start eating better and getting your health to a high point. Change habits. You will be surprised how much that shyt changes your mind chemistry and will go hand in hand with more confidence, less nervousness, anxiety, depression, fear or what have you.

Create successful habits that you can control in your personal life and then just let that spill over into your social and dating life.

I was behind a computer screen between like 2006-2009 playing video games (wow), so trust me, you can overcome that stuff and improve the sitcheeation, ya mean? Also, just wanted to make a point between what you said and what @DaRealness said.... do not let fear be your motivation, it will not work. Overcome the fear and when it occurs, stay true to yourself in spite of it. This will help you in all arenas of life.
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LISTEN TO THIS MAN HERE!! :myman:

Co-sign 100% about the gym and eating cleaner/right. I just got a new membership 2 weeks ago. Been taking high advantage of it. 24/7 hour joint too.
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
She's literally said like one word to me past 3 days, till I called her out on it today. I know how women are emotionally detaching, so I'm always a step ahead.
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She been quiet, so you be quiet.

don't call her out or anything. If she has an issue, especially with ya'll, she should contact you and try to hash it out.

not none of this ignore/go silent shyt.
 
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Already chewed her out dont care.
Grandma for diagnosed with stage 4 cancer yesterday :to:

RealAssanova said:
She been quiet, so you be quiet.

don't call her out or anything. If she has an issue, especially with ya'll, she should contact you and try to hash it out.

not none of this ignore/go silent shyt.
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