Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

hoodheronova

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22 she of same age. And yeah you right, I need to just bring her over and see whats up. Maybe I'm overthinking and rushing. I should kickback and have her come to me. I'm always the one making plans and stuff so time for a change..
nah bro I'm not sayin to fall back. You need closure.

Tell her "Listen, we got a great vibe going here. I'm feeling you, you feeling me n I don't want to jeopardize what we got going here, but I need to know where this going. Meaning you need to come over the crib and seal the deal okay."

Depending on her answer, you'll know where she stands with you breh.
 

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I need some help. How do I start some friends with benefits shyt with a girl?

There's a girl I've known for a month or two, fukked her once, but then we stayed as friends.

I've been wanting to pipe again but I don't know how to initiate that shyt.

I know she horny cause I have her on Twitter and she's been retweeting and tweeting some sexual ass stuff.

How do I tell I wanna fukk her withorut straight up saying "let's fukk"?

Today I hit her with the "whachu up too lets chill" text but she told me she's busy studying for two tests.

Help a brother out!
 

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I need some help. How do I start some friends with benefits shyt with a girl?

There's a girl I've known for a month or two, fukked her once, but then we stayed as friends.

I've been wanting to pipe again but I don't know how to initiate that shyt.

I know she horny cause I have her on Twitter and she's been retweeting and tweeting some sexual ass stuff.

How do I tell I wanna fukk her withorut straight up saying "let's fukk"?

Today I hit her with the "whachu up too lets chill" text but she told me she's busy studying for two tests.

Help a brother out!

You might wanna take these women off ya twitter...

Just cuz she tweet sexual stuff dont mean she horny..some of these broads love the attention...

Give it a few days and holla..Make sure you got the crib/telly on standby...

Just do small talk and let it go from there..

Just subtly lead into it...Make sure the convo steers that way and say she got a juicy p*ssy or something...her response should be all you need rather to continue..but dont make it seem like you got no other options
 

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So with the women I like now, I feel like I have no chill.

The last time I felt anything remotely close to this so early on years later I ended up engaged to the chick.



Usually I'm really chill laid back, and just let thing go how they go. This time, I worry about stupid stuff like should I text 1st. Should I call just say hey.


Dumb stuff man... the thing is its stuff I did previously but I guess since I actually really like this one. I let it worry me, not to mention I feel like I'm pushing it when she just wants to take it slowly and see where it goes.

All this could not matter in a instant which again....kind bothers a nikka because I'm invested sorted.

Really liking someone is the best worst feeling.
 

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Breh..Be very careful:ufdup:

Some women cant separate dikk and feelings:ld:

If she is a young joint with no kids, your asking for problems

She doesn't have any kids. I don't get the feeling that she's that type though :patrice:
 

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Was gonna make a thread but, I don't feel like it. So I'll just drop it in here. Everything we have as men, we have to earn. We have to work hard to turn ourselves into men of value. We aren't born with our value like women are (looks, femininity, youth). For the most part women control the dating game early in life because they leverage the hell out of this difference. But I'll never regret being born a man. If life was a mountain, women begin on top, and every year they stumble further and further down until they eventually reach the bottom. For them, it's a ticking time bomb and every year the ticking grows louder. Men start life at the bottom of the mountain :why: some of us stay at the bottom. Some of us make it up a few hundred feet, get sidetracked and fall back down to the ground. Some make it to a certain point and are content to just hang there. And some....some make it to the very top. That's life as a man. You start with absolutely nothing.....absolute dikk. But if you work hard / smart, learn from the errors of the men who came before you, and avoid all the bullshyt life throws at you, your life will only get better as you age.
 

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I need some help. How do I start some friends with benefits shyt with a girl?

There's a girl I've known for a month or two, fukked her once, but then we stayed as friends.

I've been wanting to pipe again but I don't know how to initiate that shyt.

I know she horny cause I have her on Twitter and she's been retweeting and tweeting some sexual ass stuff.

How do I tell I wanna fukk her withorut straight up saying "let's fukk"?

Today I hit her with the "whachu up too lets chill" text but she told me she's busy studying for two tests.


Help a brother out!
lol depending on how u vibe with this chick, this is where i go apesh1t on them.

me: lets chill tonight
them: aah i goto study for this exam (or some variation of this bullsh1t)
me: nah, u dont understand. i goto see u
them: aah i dont know. i really goto study for tis
me: ok listen, if u dont come tonight theres gon be serious repercussions. i made plans for us
her: what plans?
me: damn it. just handle ur business over there. and make sure ur here by 830pm baby. miss u

ignore whatever she says after the last thing i said. lol. she gon bring her ass over for sure. best believe.
 

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She's literally said like one word to me past 3 days, till I called her out on it today. I know how women are emotionally detaching, so I'm always a step ahead.

Speak on it.

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