Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I could have stayed down there too, had a potential job lined up, had a nice little place that was only $300 a month (2 bedrooms). I had sold my car before going there, so my savings could have floated me for years even without a job. I seen a show on the HomeTV network where some British dude quit his job, bought a condo and opened a bar in Salvador, I was sitting there salty as hell watching like :comeon:

I rarely talk about this cause I hate bringing it up to be honest, I don't regret much at all, this is possibly the one thing I'll be on my deathbed looking back at like "Maybe".

:to:

Why didn't you stay?
 

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I'm 27 in my earlier days, when I thought of most women the words that came to mind were sex, attractive, love, enjoyment. However, unless a man lucks out and wins this lottery, his own experiences begin to shape and as you get older and it's "bytching, drama, bullshyt, manipulation, hostility, disgusting, demanding, selfish, unpleasant, unloyal. I still hold out in the deep crevices of my mind for unconditional love but realize its a fantasy :obama:
 

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Although I disagree with the execution/methods, but when you think about the logic of the way women are treated in the middle east/arab nations, it's pretty sensible. I just feel they take it way over the line and are abusive with their power.

But sometime thousands of years ago, men over there figured out that women being in charge of everything and running everything would be a disaster. And given that the nature of a man can easily fall prey to sex, physical features, it would be even worse.

Women they deserve to have equal oppurtunity work, right to vote, every other basic human right as men.......but over there you won't find women blatantly cheating on their men, or disrespecting their man over little stuff, especially not in public. Nor will they flirt with other men openly, etc. There is still a household order over there. Even the ones that have migrated over here to North America.

Like I said, I dont agree with how they execute it(talking down on women, beating them, , not letting them work, etc), but the intent is correct.

my mom and dad been married for 35 yrs...
not once did he come home and food was not ready...real talk.. and she was happy doing it..im like mom:smugfavre:
 

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i hate the fact that i have to take her out, spend 60 dollars
i have to make her laugh
hold doors for her
feed her stomach



and then by the end of the night i gotta hope she likes me


:why:

:ohhh:

bruh I SWEAR actually READING what you just said makes it even worse. Even though i'm married now I never even looked at it the way you put it. It's fukked up that we have to do all of what you listed and then at the end of the night she gives you a fake smile, a one armed hug, then call over her fukk buddy to dig her out while that's the guy she REALLY wants to be with yet he only want her as a fukk buddy

:why:
 

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:ohhh:

bruh I SWEAR actually READING what you just said makes it even worse. Even though i'm married now I never even looked at it the way you put it. It's fukked up that we have to do all of what you listed and then at the end of the night she gives you a fake smile, a one armed hug, then call over her fukk buddy to dig her out while that's the guy she REALLY wants to be with yet he only want her as a fukk buddy

:why:

:mindblown:you can do everything right and shyt feels like a job interview:dry:
 

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its sad going to resturants..seeing all these dudes lined up to go and pay for the dinner..and you can tell their all on a date cause all the females are sitting down at the table playing with her iphone..smh



do people even date outside of north america?
my couzin went to morocco and the nikka got treated like a fukkin royalty...
at the level of demand overseas :ohlawd:
 

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its sad going to resturants..seeing all these dudes lined up to go and pay for the dinner..and you can tell their all on a date cause all the females are sitting down at the table playing with her iphone..smh



do people even date outside of north america?
my couzin went to morocco and the nikka got treated like a fukkin royalty...
at the level of demand overseas :ohlawd:

And we both aren't saying that a female HAS to feel you or anything like that, but if 20 minutes into the date you AREN'T feeling me, just let me know and i'll take you home. Don't drag it out just because you want a meal. And females wonder why dudes dog them out
 

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This chick is into sci-fi, anime, football, video games, cosplay and all things nerdy -

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Dudes in other countries have no idea how good they have it when a woman like that is single because she's too tall (5"10), too nerdy and too dark. Oh, and she works out and cooks :heh:

smh and i bet you dont even need to spit game at her..just be cool and look noraml and you have a high percentage chance

where can i find a chick like this :ohlawd:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
its sad going to resturants..seeing all these dudes lined up to go and pay for the dinner..and you can tell their all on a date cause all the females are sitting down at the table playing with her iphone..smh



do people even date outside of north america?
my couzin went to morocco and the nikka got treated like a fukkin royalty...
at the level of demand overseas :ohlawd:

shyt is sad too, cause as black men, we're outnumbered by black women. Yet, we're the ones that have to go out of our way to prove ourselves because there are so many pathetic nikkas out there willing to do what the next man wont.

Simping ain't allowed in them countries, a nikkas daddy will smack the fire out the back of his son's head if he sees him simping.
 

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its sad going to resturants..seeing all these dudes lined up to go and pay for the dinner..and you can tell their all on a date cause all the females are sitting down at the table playing with her iphone..smh



do people even date outside of north america?
my couzin went to morocco and the nikka got treated like a fukkin royalty...
at the level of demand overseas :ohlawd:

Never happened to me but i see it. :wow:

bytches would never try that with me
 

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And we both aren't saying that a female HAS to feel you or anything like that, but if 20 minutes into the date you AREN'T feeling me, just let me know and i'll take you home. Don't drag it out just because you want a meal. And females wonder why dudes dog them out

i try to play the nice guy roll..paid for everything..80 dollars after tip and dinner..

dropped her off


no text for todays..then she tells me "sorry i just didnt see the connection"


im like why the fukk didnt you tell me when i met you?
i got robbed for 80 dollars :sadcam:


lesson learned anyways..IM NEVER TAKING ANYONE OUT
 

Malcolmxxx_23

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shyt is sad too, cause as black men, we're outnumbered by black women. Yet, we're the ones that have to go out of our way to prove ourselves because there are so many pathetic nikkas out there willing to do what the next man wont.

Simping ain't allowed in them countries, a nikkas daddy will smack the fire out the back of his son's head if he sees him simping.

the whole dating concept is simpin breh

why cant we just meet without someone having to pay for anything

fukk i got robbed 80 dollars last month...thats almost a day of work breh :to:
 
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