Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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TRUEST said:
my dude, you're asking questions that shouldn't be asked. a girl going ghost is a clear statement she's just not as into you as you're into her. like, ask yourself. when was the last time u went ghost on a chick u really liked? probably never. and if u did, it was probably because someone else who u were more emotionally attached to came into the picture.
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This WHY the game exist nikkas really don't think it makes them better. Dealing with women is a skill. It work it is what it is.
 
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TRUEST said:
my dude, you're asking questions that shouldn't be asked. a girl going ghost is a clear statement she's just not as into you as you're into her. like, ask yourself. when was the last time u went ghost on a chick u really liked? probably never. and if u did, it was probably because someone else who u were more emotionally attached to came into the picture.
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i already know this breh. I just wanted a female input.
 
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StarGirl said:
lol You noticed I didn't say anything when you guys were talking about that up there? Cause I've been guilty as hell of this. Probably one of THE worst offenders and I know it's dead wrong but even I don't have a reason for doing that. It defies logic, and its really not a knock to you personally. And you would think oh it's probably cause she wasn't feeling you like that, but nope nope- why would she give you her number (unless you were scary/intimidating in which case I do it to get you out my face) if she wasn't slightly interested? I've even done that to guys who I would've wanted to engage with, but I may have been in a relationship and given you my number because I was angry with my boyfriend, so when you text me of course I'll ignore it.

I literally just turned to my sisters and asked them this question and everyone pretty much agreed that even we don't actually know.

It might come down to the informal way you meet, and so you think it's not that important for you to have common decency because it was such a casual meeting. And we're in the "respect the curve" era of society where even an "ok" means it's probably a dub. OR she gave you her number to know she still got it, the same way guys get numbers for that reason. That's the best I can do. It's one of those hmm questions, where you don't even know why you do what you do.
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StarGirl said:
lol You noticed I didn't say anything when you guys were talking about that up there? Cause I've been guilty as hell of this. Probably one of THE worst offenders and I know it's dead wrong but even I don't have a reason for doing that. It defies logic, and its really not a knock to you personally. And you would think oh it's probably cause she wasn't feeling you like that, but nope nope- why would she give you her number (unless you were scary/intimidating in which case I do it to get you out my face) if she wasn't slightly interested? I've even done that to guys who I would've wanted to engage with, but I may have been in a relationship and given you my number because I was angry with my boyfriend, so when you text me of course I'll ignore it.

I literally just turned to my sisters and asked them this question and everyone pretty much agreed that even we don't actually know.

It might come down to the informal way you meet, and so you think it's not that important for you to have common decency because it was such a casual meeting. And we're in the "respect the curve" era of society where even an "ok" means it's probably a dub. OR she gave you her number to know she still got it, the same way guys get numbers for that reason. That's the best I can do. It's one of those hmm questions, where you don't even know why you do what you do.
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No guy in the history of guys have ever gotten a girls number just to see if he's still got it. This isn't a tv sitcom. Too much work goes into getting a girls number we are actually looking for something.

There are 3 main reasons girls give you their number then catch ghost

1. She was in the moment.
Chicks are hella quick to change their mind. They go off of energy. It doesn't matter if you're an amazing guy or a piece of $hit, if you can make her feel good at the time you can get her to do just about anything. But when you're not there and you're just talking to her through a phone the energy isn't the same. That's why it's hard to get a date if you get her number online or something. Solution? Meet a chick in person and have an improv date.

2. Somebody she likes more came into the picture
You got to understand that you are NEVER the only guy trying to get at a chick. Some other dude sparked her and she decided to show him attention.

3. She was just building her confidence
This is probably the worst. You trying to get at her just reassures her that she is desirable. Kind of like how women are fake angry at being "cat-called" knowing damn well if nobody ever tried to hit on them they would go through confidence withdrawal. The fact that 5+ guys are hitting her up trying to get with her makes her feel like she's the $hit. Ever see a girl screenshot her text messages and be like "Look at all these thirsty brehs"? Well how do you think they all got her number? :aicmon:




And the reason she will ignore you & hope you catch the hint instead of saying she isn't interested is because she's passive-aggressive. She doesn't want to be seen as a bytch.
 
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NeilCartwright said:
Been talking to this girl for almost a month. Everything is cool, i try and meet up with her twice a week but i dont wanna be all up under her:francis:last night we went to dave and busters just kickin it then as im dropping her off and she says her aunt is at work that night:ooh:mind you we havent done anything sexual AT ALL. No making out/nipple sucking etc...I say i wanna come up and shes like:whoa:well i have to work, i havent slept in a week etc. etc. (All this is true) but gah damn:russell:a brotha cant even feel the pum pum? We both 21 and she goes to church, just got out of a 5 yr relationship. She tells me "well we can plan to have some alone time" i play it cool and say aight but im thinking:why:she treading on thin ice...I dont want to be one of "those" guys who trips off women not giving it up soon but do yall see my point?

Granted she lives with her aunt and lil cousin (HS age), she claims her name is on the lease and shes paying the rent but im not sure on that:dame:Anyway Im gonna make a move next time i see her and if she's trippen ima call her out on it (ie communicate) bc this is getting ridiculous...The last two times i was over there her lil cousin was there so maybe she didnt want her to know? Im feeling her fr but i need to know some sort of sexual stimulation.
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anybody got some book recommendations?....read the art of mackin. had some solid shyt. No more Mr Nice Guy was kinda blah to me. share some of that good stuff.
 
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