Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NeilCartwright]

Been talking to this girl for 4 weeks. Everything was cool. She got out a 5 yr relationship a few months back, claims he didnt appreciate her etc.


Everything was good for the first two weeks. I could see potential in the relationship but the past two weekends its been sketchylast weekend she was studying for finals (legitimate excuse) and she said she was done thursday. So im tryna make plans for this weekend and now she says shes babysitting for her best friend and is cramping. Im like breh wtf is really going


So i already made (backup) plans with two other females for tonight and sunday, and my homeboy is graduating saturdayso its gonna be busy...But I wanna know if im trippen over this chick or if i should just fall back? To be real i could see a decent relationship but it seems like shes not putting forth the same effort. Im gonna try and meet up with her today to bring this shii up

 

[DaRealness]

Been talking to this girl for 4 weeks. Everything was cool. She got out a 5 yr relationship a few months back, claims he didnt appreciate her etc.


Everything was good for the first two weeks. I could see potential in the relationship but the past two weekends its been sketchylast weekend she was studying for finals (legitimate excuse) and she said she was done thursday. So im tryna make plans for this weekend and now she says shes babysitting for her best friend and is cramping. Im like breh wtf is really going


So i already made (backup) plans with two other females for tonight and sunday, and my homeboy is graduating saturdayso its gonna be busy...But I wanna know if im trippen over this chick or if i should just fall back? To be real i could see a decent relationship but it seems like shes not putting forth the same effort. Im gonna try and meet up with her today to bring this shii up

You can talk to her and see how it goes. Personally though, if I don't sense the same amount or more eagerness, then I'd fall back immediately and keep it moving.

 

[TRUEST]

Been talking to this girl for 4 weeks. Everything was cool. She got out a 5 yr relationship a few months back, claims he didnt appreciate her etc.


Everything was good for the first two weeks. I could see potential in the relationship but the past two weekends its been sketchylast weekend she was studying for finals (legitimate excuse) and she said she was done thursday. So im tryna make plans for this weekend and now she says shes babysitting for her best friend and is cramping. Im like breh wtf is really going


So i already made (backup) plans with two other females for tonight and sunday, and my homeboy is graduating saturdayso its gonna be busy...But I wanna know if im trippen over this chick or if i should just fall back? To be real i could see a decent relationship but it seems like shes not putting forth the same effort. Im gonna try and meet up with her today to bring this shii up

She just got out of a 5 year relationship. Don't believe anything she says. Her heart is still with that other nikka

 

[NeilCartwright]

She just got out of a 5 year relationship. Don't believe anything she says. Her heart is still with that other nikka

Good looks on the reply but this other dude is in Alabama (2 hours away)so it's not like he even in Atlanta.

It's getting to the point where I'm like damnwhen a brotha wants something real these females play games, and when we only want to smash we the bad guy

 

[hoodheronova]

Been talking to this girl for 4 weeks. Everything was cool. She got out a 5 yr relationship a few months back, claims he didnt appreciate her etc.


Everything was good for the first two weeks. I could see potential in the relationship but the past two weekends its been sketchylast weekend she was studying for finals (legitimate excuse) and she said she was done thursday. So im tryna make plans for this weekend and now she says shes babysitting for her best friend and is cramping. Im like breh wtf is really going


So i already made (backup) plans with two other females for tonight and sunday, and my homeboy is graduating saturdayso its gonna be busy...But I wanna know if im trippen over this chick or if i should just fall back? To be real i could see a decent relationship but it seems like shes not putting forth the same effort. Im gonna try and meet up with her today to bring this shii up

how you gonna just make abrupt plans with her like that. Chicks never go for that unless y'all together. Plans gotta be made in advance

 

[MikelArteta]

Doesnt matter if he's two hours away or 5000 miles.

Good looks on the reply but this other dude is in Alabama (2 hours away)so it's not like he even in Atlanta.

It's getting to the point where I'm like damnwhen a brotha wants something real these females play games, and when we only want to smash we the bad guy

 

[TRUEST]

Good looks on the reply but this other dude is in Alabama (2 hours away)so it's not like he even in Atlanta.

It's getting to the point where I'm like damnwhen a brotha wants something real these females play games, and when we only want to smash we the bad guy

u also gotta account for something. see, those chicks u only want to smash and do nothing else with, there's a reason for that. they didn't meet your personal threshold of sexiness or attractiveness. and chances are, they dont meet the personal threshold of that of a lot of other n1ggas. which is why those types of women get gungho about a guy who isn't chasing them. they dont have that many attractive options themselves. so they chase after n1ggas who aint paying them mind.

now, i say this because. that girl who ur feigning over obviously has something that makes u want her this much. and whatever that thing is she has, other n1ggas like u have noticed it and are chasing her hard too. which means she has options and the freewill to play as many games as she wants.

with these women man, one thing i've learned is, when ur with a girl u really like, enjoy the hell out of each moment u spend with her. so whenever u part ways that day or night, u know u had the best fun u coulda had with her. that way, if she goes ghost on you, u never had to deal with thoughts of "what if, should i, maybe if i" etc. and also, u have the ability to keep ur dignity and refrain from chasing after her.

i met up with a stripper at a strip club a few weeks ago. never in a million years did i think i'd been fucckinng her a week later. but i kicked game. after a few days / a week and a half of banter, we finally meet up. i smashed that night. she wanted me to sleep over so i did.

next morning, she was all up on me. sent me a text later that day talking about "u forgot ur six pack beer at my place. i'll keep it for u till next time". im like cool. i hit her up 2 days later, on some when are u free to getogether again. then she starts playing games, not wanting to give a date. i was legit confused because of how into me she was all through the night and all. but i know game.

i asked her to link up one more time a few days later and when she went ghost and didn't confirm, i just stopped hitting her up. aint on reason to think too hard about sh1t like this. yea, while i'd love to see her again, i know some other dude (who was willing to splurge on her like she wants) probably got her attention. which is all good. lol. keep it moving.

 

[Ohene]

met a Brazillian shorty while getting off the subway earlier this morning. speaks a bit of english but isn't fluent.

this should be interesting

 

[Action Mike]

im i tripping coli brehs?

girl im seeing acquaintances with a lot of people (and dudes) in 'the life'

 

[Ohene]

Good looks on the reply but this other dude is in Alabama (2 hours away)so it's not like he even in Atlanta.

It's getting to the point where I'm like damnwhen a brotha wants something real these females play games, and when we only want to smash we the bad guy

Two hours nothing fam. I've had a bytch drive five hours from up north to check me... Left her kid with a baby sitter

 

[Auger]

im i tripping coli brehs?

girl im seeing acquaintances with a lot of people (and dudes) in 'the life'

What semi attractive girl in this age doesn't?

 

[Brandeezy]

Don't know why I can't attract women brehs. I look at them to see if they're checking me out or whatever but they never look my way even if I walk pass them. Its not like I'm aiming at 7s, 8s, 9s etc. But just regular girls who I think look cute regardless of size or race. Hate being an unattractive person, you basically get ignored everywhere you go

 

[Pyrexcup]

Don't know why I can't attract women brehs. I look at them to see if they're checking me out or whatever but they never look my way even if I walk pass them. Its not like I'm aiming at 7s, 8s, 9s etc. But just regular girls who I think look cute regardless of size or race. Hate being an unattractive person, you basically get ignored everywhere you go

I know you have been struggling with girls your whole life and im going to tell you the truth. You need to have girls in order to have girls especially if you are an average male in 2015 nothing gets a females p*ssy wet more than social proof. Try and get some friends first and then try to break into ofther social circle which have girls and it will be easier. Fact is the way the dating game is setup in 2015 the average female is not checking for the average male

 

[TRUEST]

I know you have been struggling with girls your whole life and im going to tell you the truth. You need to have girls in order to have girls especially if you are an average male in 2015 nothing gets a females p*ssy wet more than social proof. Try and get some friends first and then try to break into ofther social circle which have girls and it will be easier. Fact is the way the dating game is setup in 2015 the average female is not checking for the average male

Also, ol boy should just plan to make the next several chicks he meets just friends without any kind of sexual innuendos in the conversations he has with them. That way, they'll feel easier making him their friend. I know it may be hard to do, but great advice u just gave him

 

[Brandeezy]

Also, ol boy should just plan to make the next several chicks he meets just friends without any kind of sexual innuendos in the conversations he has with them. That way, they'll feel easier making him their friend. I know it may be hard to do, but great advice u just gave him

I would have to have a convo with a woman to make sexual innuendos. Lol don't even know the last time I spoke to a female outside of work. I'm not looking for a woman who judges me on my social circle. Is she dating me or my social circle?