Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:blessed: date night with Jamaican wifey tonight..just trying to enjoy as much time as I can with her before she heads back to school and I return back to the game :mjpls:

She mentioned a few days ago how we should try the long distance thing since she's moving back to Atlanta in June. Told baby girl lets just enjoy right now and see where things are when you get back, no way I'm going to be able to block these chicks while you're in another city, kept it honest with her :yeshrug:.
 

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Do u have a problem with someone you are dating having the same cellphone as you? A friend of mine wants an iphone but doesnt get one because every chick he meets damn near has one
 

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Guys is there anything that is more of a waste of time than being in a long term relationship that ends in break up? I was in a relationship for 3 year and an extra year of trying on and off trying to see if there still something there and all I can think about it is all the oppurtunities I missed out on being tied down in a relationship. Yea I know I gained life lesson but that just seems like a cop out to make myself feel better.

Hindsight is 20/20 if I would have known it was goin to end in break up I would have never gotten with her but of course life is never that easy.
 

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Guys is there anything that is more of a waste of time than being in a long term relationship that ends in break up? I was in a relationship for 3 year and an extra year of trying on and off trying to see if there still something there and all I can think about it is all the oppurtunities I missed out on being tied down in a relationship. Yea I know I gained life lesson but that just seems like a cop out to make myself feel better.

Hindsight is 20/20 if I would have known it was goin to end in break up I would have never gotten with her but of course life is never that easy.
No there isn't..wasting time in a relationship that goes nowhere is the worst because it ends & leaves you exactly where you started before but time passes
 
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So,

I had to wait and think about how I would respond to this.
The general consensus is a woman should have a skill outside of having a vagina,
and then you tell me essentially my skills are tied directly to my vagina.

Also, your homeboy's girl is making a mistake. She's opened a door she can't close. And she'll be more upset when the relationship ends because she thinks what she did is gonna ensure her something. It won't. Trust me, I know. At some point she's gonna realize, somewhere when her head's in the her 5th third's lap that she's set a pattern that has changed the dynamic of the relationship entirely.

I'm in this thread to learn, and to offer another perspective from a woman's side. But I'm starting to realize just how different male and female thinking is.


Lets put a nail in this coffin once an for all.
Everything in a mans life is work ...that includes women. Women will never work as hard as a man in building an empire and better yet building himself . A man can be good in all areas of his life i mean finances education even spiritually. If he is not good at getting the women he wants it becomes a void. Believe it or not it is one of mens life purposes to be good with women. See what a lot of women fail to realize is you guys dont take rejection on the front end. Women take it on the back end . What that mean is women take rejection when you get in a relationship like when a nikka cheat on you ...or he has no ambitious to be a better man from the time he meet you.

Women dont need a mouthpiece or need the ability to talk your way into a man's pants. Women have to learn how to tap into mans desire and put their mans happiness first and most women will have a happy relationship. Women dont have to be a 1/3rd of what man HAS to be to get women...or to attract them. A women's beauty is your charm along with your vagina.

What you can do as a women is go oyt and master other things. Learn to shoot a gun ...take a painting class ....learn to play xbox...learn to shoot pool. Get your man a threesome for his birthday. Basic BE GENERAL INTRESTED IN LEARNING A MANS PERSPECTIVE ...the GOOD and the BAD.

You should look at these two sites. I learn a lot more when im not in this thread which helps me see the dynamics between men and women . Very educational in how they look at the game .

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im leave you wit these videos as well . Oh try approaching five men next and see if you CAN be as charming and diffrent ...make it a news years resolution i guess. It takes a lot of rejection to get to will smith characters level.






#hardwork# #thatincludeswomen#
 
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Guys is there anything that is more of a waste of time than being in a long term relationship that ends in break up? I was in a relationship for 3 year and an extra year of trying on and off trying to see if there still something there and all I can think about it is all the oppurtunities I missed out on being tied down in a relationship. Yea I know I gained life lesson but that just seems like a cop out to make myself feel better.

Hindsight is 20/20 if I would have known it was goin to end in break up I would have never gotten with her but of course life is never that easy.


The older you get youll realuze if you live with regrets you'll die with them to. The greatest revenge to ANY women is to go off and make yourself better as a man.
 

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Guys is there anything that is more of a waste of time than being in a long term relationship that ends in break up? I was in a relationship for 3 year and an extra year of trying on and off trying to see if there still something there and all I can think about it is all the oppurtunities I missed out on being tied down in a relationship. Yea I know I gained life lesson but that just seems like a cop out to make myself feel better.

Hindsight is 20/20 if I would have known it was goin to end in break up I would have never gotten with her but of course life is never that easy.
It only ends up as a waste of time if you don't learn anything from it and you continue to make the same mistake(s) in the future. Not to sound sappy, but relationships are learning experiences that can show us who we really are and who we really want to be with. Break down why the relationship ended and examine what parts of it made you happy, what parts made you unhappy, what are some things that you don't want to put up with the next time around, etc.

My last relationship was a nightmare for the last few months but it made me take a step back from the dating game and just focus on myself. It sucks to have to go through something like that in order to learn about yourself, but you don't have to chalk it up as a waste. You can turn it into an opportunity to learn and get better, breh.
 

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:blessed: date night with Jamaican wifey tonight..just trying to enjoy as much time as I can with her before she heads back to school and I return back to the game :mjpls:

She mentioned a few days ago how we should try the long distance thing since she's moving back to Atlanta in June. Told baby girl lets just enjoy right now and see where things are when you get back, no way I'm going to be able to block these chicks while you're in another city, kept it honest with her :yeshrug:.

Well played:salute:
 
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I was just discussing this in another thread but am I alone on here in being more attracted to women that I know PERSONALLY than women on IG and the internet that I may never meet? Yeah, it sounds strange but look at it this way. The girl you're talking to. There's a challenge going on there whether you like it or not. Because it starts at point A) and you want it to reach point B) whether that end goal is simply a date or sex or a relationship.. we feel good about accomplishing these goals.

We get to know her. We see her flaws. We're ok with her flaws. We know she's pretty without make up and filters. We know her body is natural.

I guess I don't understand the IG craze at all. I can see a woman on there and be like " :noah: " but it doesn't consume my life. I know the tricks of the trade. I know most of them don't look like that if you do meet them. I know that if the girl I'm talkin to went on IG and posted the same kind of pics that she too would have thousands of simps after her. Its whatever to me.

I don't get it. I want what's in front of me, not what's on a computer screen.
 
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