Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

small talk isnt my strong suit. i seriously want to learn about it. any tips or books on conversations?

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Why Analog is the Go-To in the Digital World

Why do some men still struggle to deal with women? It seems kind of easy.
And I don't mean the approach and getting the number, that is difficult, I mean the part after that:
Getting her to do what you intended her on doing.

A Date
Sex
Relationship

Those are three goals most men aim for when dealing w/a woman depending on the guy.
The struggle comes in because as men we have to work and impress women to make them feel like we are "worthy" enough for one of/all of those things.

Here is the difference between men and women

• Men are quantitative. When it comes to women we look for the best competitor. Who outperformed who? And is the best candidate based off of "skill".
• Women when it comes to men just look for who is different. Who can make her feel a certain way that no other man can/has. Regardless of his credentials.

Use that to your advantage.
Look at it like this. You see a chick, you think she's cute and you want to get at her. Do you think that as a man that you are the ONLY guy who is thinking this? NO!
You must think that every girl you approach already has at least 5-7 guys trying to get at her. Hence why she is looking for somebody different.
The way to get a woman's attention is to set yourself apart.....Be Analog, not Digital.

It is very simple. The mistake a lot of us men make is thinking that just because we got the number that means it's a sure thing. It's a good thing, but please believe the war ain't near over. It's good because it means that even though she has 5-7 other dudes trying, none of them have shown her anything new so she's still waiting. If some other guy is already showing her some potential, you won't get the number. You might, but she won't be talking to you at all.

Remember 5-7 other dudes are trying to get at her so if you begin to do the same boring things that they are doing it will just become 6-8 guys for the next man. Texting her "Hey" and having interrogations every day will land you in that group.
Understand in this day and age texting is big. Those 5-7 dudes are doing it to her everyday all day hoping to get something out of it. So how can you set yourself apart? Be Analog and pick up the phone and call her. Don't be lame & text her "Hey can I call you?" either. Be a man and just fukking do it.
People don't like talking because of the pressure of keeping up conversation. Don't worry about it because you don't need to have an hour long conversation. A 10-20 minute phone call is worth a 1000x more than texting her from morning to night. You will instantly jump into 1st place.

Texts don't work. I don't care how many emojis she sent you, you will never be in a position where you get to see her naked. Simps text, men call. Women can't hide how they feel over the phone. You call her and tell her what you want, and if she's wishy washy or not into it, cut it off and move on. Let her know she isn't being revolved around and her hearing you will make all the difference.


*p.s.* Don't call her all the fukking time. People have things to do. Texting is okay it just shouldn't be the main course.

 

[RickyGQ]

So the chick i work with that i mentioned in my second to last thread stay messing with me. On payday, i got her to buy me a energy drink. (She aint say nttn about YOU JUST GOT PAID TODAY). She be tryna find reasons to talk to me. She'll walk by an aisle (Walgreens) im on and double back to say something. Just yesterday she did that and came down the aisle and told me IM JUST TRYNA FIND A REASON TO MESS WITH YOU.

She stay "mean flirting". Yesterday she walked down the aisle while i was reading something on the shelf and she slapped my head hard and laughed. Earlier, she was showing a customer something and i said SCUSE ME while i was try trying to walk in betweeb them and the shelf the customer was asking about and she stepped right into my way and pointed talking about THIS ONE? and she wouldn't let me get by.

I even mentioned in that thread (or was it this one?) How i playef around and told her to come drink some ciroc with me and she said YEAH with no hesitation

She keep violating me.
Stay picking on me.


and no i ain't close the deal.

What are you waiting for?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

What are you waiting for?

Me to get my shyt together.
I just aint feeling myself.
shytty job with shytty pay, gotta step my wardrobe up, no car, no crib, etc

I aint got no reason to be shooting at a female right now

 

[Youseenmywork]

Catering to females never really works thoroughly as:

1.) A good portion of females expect it in this current social climate, like they're entitled to have their ass kissed. Lowkey, it's been like this for millennia but there were RULES.. There are no rules now so even 300 lb sasquatches, with titties that fold down to their ankles, rolling around with more children then the tribes of Israel expect top notch attention.

2.) By nature, most women don't appreciate simpdom at all. You can only buy loyalty for so long until the broad is seen running away with all your wealth, spending it on the next, most favored nikka. Men should understand that our greatest assets in dealing with women is recognizing the important of TIME and keeping our cards close to the chest. Time is important... You don't respect how your time is spent dealing in your relationships, then she WON'T either.

Dudes will waste so much time investing in a female by chasing her that the amount of leverage you've given up with your resources essentially guarantees the L.. Even if she throws you a bone and allows you to cuddle. Setting up and maintaining alotted times to interface with her, maintaining a bit of scarcity and cultivating an air of mystique about yourself will keep enough question marks floating around to keep her interest piqued to see what "this nikka's on." Curiosity killed the cat or in this case.. Got the cat wet.

Respect yourselves, fellas.. Respect your time on this planet because whatever god you believe in didn't give you enough on this Earth to fukk around with. Every action needs to be measured especially when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.. Lady got some nice national geographic tittie balls with a fat ass to match, cool.. If she ain't cooperating either because of ego or just clueless, charge it to game and keep it moving. You'll be surprised how many females have u-turned on me with invigorated interest and thrown out at an invite to at least go ole Ron Isley, between the sheets, marathonin' on that ass. I still might parlay on that even depending on how I feel but always keep your mind right and focused.

DAMN ...my man. Somebody get this man a beer

 

[RickyGQ]

Me to get my shyt together.
I just aint feeling myself.
shytty job with shytty pay, gotta step my wardrobe up, no car, no crib, etc

I aint got no reason to be shooting at a female right now

I hear ya, but she's giving you play regardless dog. While you def should better yourself in all those areas, you should do it for yourself, not to get bytches....
Quick gem: FOR THE MOST PART, women (actually people in general) don't give a fukk about your situation, if you don't give a fukk about your situation. They're not turned off by specific insecurities, just insecurity in general.

 

[RickyGQ]

Idk about that bruh I've seen and been in situations where yu show interest in a chick and in the beginning she's than out of nowhere she's all into yu. Sometimes yu have to give an opportunity for yu to grow on a chick. Yu are kind of hitting her by surprise by tryin to talk to her.

Now if yu been talking to a chick for a min and yu don't see no chemistry grown than yea ur prolly wasting ur time yu difinitley do not want to force it.

Yea I'm a slow cooker...

 

[Lo-Co]

I want to be able to give off a more male dominant vibe. I have the size that should give it off but I feel like I'm stuck in the background.

 

[darius19]

small talk isnt my strong suit. i seriously want to learn about it. any tips or books on conversations?

how to win friends and influence people - dale carnegie

 

[DaHNIC82]

Why Analog is the Go-To in the Digital World

Why do some men still struggle to deal with women? It seems kind of easy.
And I don't mean the approach and getting the number, that is difficult, I mean the part after that:
Getting her to do what you intended her on doing.

A Date
Sex
Relationship

Those are three goals most men aim for when dealing w/a woman depending on the guy.
The struggle comes in because as men we have to work and impress women to make them feel like we are "worthy" enough for one of/all of those things.

Here is the difference between men and women

• Men are quantitative. When it comes to women we look for the best competitor. Who outperformed who? And is the best candidate based off of "skill".
• Women when it comes to men just look for who is different. Who can make her feel a certain way that no other man can/has. Regardless of his credentials.

Use that to your advantage.
Look at it like this. You see a chick, you think she's cute and you want to get at her. Do you think that as a man that you are the ONLY guy who is thinking this? NO!
You must think that every girl you approach already has at least 5-7 guys trying to get at her. Hence why she is looking for somebody different.
The way to get a woman's attention is to set yourself apart.....Be Analog, not Digital.

It is very simple. The mistake a lot of us men make is thinking that just because we got the number that means it's a sure thing. It's a good thing, but please believe the war ain't near over. It's good because it means that even though she has 5-7 other dudes trying, none of them have shown her anything new so she's still waiting. If some other guy is already showing her some potential, you won't get the number. You might, but she won't be talking to you at all.

Remember 5-7 other dudes are trying to get at her so if you begin to do the same boring things that they are doing it will just become 6-8 guys for the next man. Texting her "Hey" and having interrogations every day will land you in that group.
Understand in this day and age texting is big. Those 5-7 dudes are doing it to her everyday all day hoping to get something out of it. So how can you set yourself apart? Be Analog and pick up the phone and call her. Don't be lame & text her "Hey can I call you?" either. Be a man and just fukking do it.
People don't like talking because of the pressure of keeping up conversation. Don't worry about it because you don't need to have an hour long conversation. A 10-20 minute phone call is worth a 1000x more than texting her from morning to night. You will instantly jump into 1st place.

Texts don't work. I don't care how many emojis she sent you, you will never be in a position where you get to see her naked. Simps text, men call. Women can't hide how they feel over the phone. You call her and tell her what you want, and if she's wishy washy or not into it, cut it off and move on. Let her know she isn't being revolved around and her hearing you will make all the difference.


*p.s.* Don't call her all the fukking time. People have things to do. Texting is okay it just shouldn't be the main course.

Right on point... Alot of females be takend off guard when I simply call them. I sometime leave a message and if they don't reply or text back. Delete keep it pushing. Never want to be trying to negotiate with a broad to hang with you.

 

[TRUEST]

Right on point... Alot of females be takend off guard when I simply call them. I sometime leave a message and if they don't reply or text back. Delete keep it pushing. Never want to be trying to negotiate with a broad to hang with you.

calling them is cool. but whatever u do, dont leave a voicemail. in this day in age, that is a clear sign of thirstiness to these women.

i've had chicks replay voicemails of guys for me to hear as they proceed to laugh at them. i really dont see a scenario where u come off looking good by leaving a voicemail.

 

[Lil Diddy]

Holiday season and I'm visiting fam and the sexy cousin came through


I know it's not right but she got the leggings on

I ain't shyt

Second or third?

I'm weak too breh..

Third...nikka fighting peeping her already

Give her one of them "come up to the altar" church hugs breh.. Show that holiday spirit love........

... ... ... What was going on here brehs??

 

[The M.I.C.]

... ... ... What was going on here brehs??

Brehs just enjoying the holidays breh

 

[DaRealness]

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

So I broke down and texted my ex on Christmas after I told her don't text me

Missing her in my life brehs

Don't know where to continue it from that. The feelings is there from both sides but I ain't trying to throw my full hand in

She doesn't feel it any more breh.


When they leave it blank (after that last courtesy response)... they getting blown out by Marcus next door.



Move on fam.



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