Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[H.R.V]

shyt like that

I mean I do get women so I can't complain. But it still throws me off so heavy.

Especially since I will put no effort into getting laid. They'll come to me and tell me they want it on said night. They'll contact me after for a few days, initiating. Which is abnormal.

But then when I try to link up again it's excuses then I don't hear from them.

Confuses me. Not every chick is the same so ur right, some are mutual. But these kinds throw me off.

I get what your saying and how you'd be confused. You knowing these girls for very long or getting didigts and within a few days smashin?

 

[H.R.V]

Dno why I quoted myself , still gettin used to this

 

[Music Fiend]

I get what your saying and how you'd be confused. You knowing these girls for very long or getting didigts and within a few days smashin?

That's the crazy part. These are girls I've know for years. At one point I'll try to get it early and it doesn't work out but they were somewhat into me at some point but we'll still be cool cuz we run the same circles.

then years later they'll plot and then hoe me after like they didn't just have me inside of them a couple weeks before

 

[H.R.V]

That's the crazy part. These are girls I've know for years. At one point I'll try to get it early and it doesn't work out but they were somewhat into me at some point but we'll still be cool cuz we run the same circles.

then years later they'll plot and then hoe me after like I ain't shyt.

Lol must be they know your down from the get go, if there girls running in the same circles word gets about as well hence why they smash an dash if your running through the whole crew.

 

[Music Fiend]

Lol must be they know your down from the get go, if there girls running in the same circles word gets about as well hence why they smash an dash if your running through the whole crew.

Lol. I mean they know cuz I'll flirt even if I know I can't get it and then flirt with another chick I met out. It's no big deal to me.

I move smart so I never hit 2 in the same crew.

Idk bro, I'd be cool if we could just hook up casually. Makes me feel maybe my pipe game is weak to them.

 

[H.R.V]

Yeah I get you,

Maybe there's an ex in the picture or another hook up. One of those things your never really going to know. Keep doing what your doing and you'll come across one that sticks around.

Look at the one timers as dodging a bullet and don't let it hit your self esteem/ confidence.

Your not becoming a cling on and texting them first afterwards I hope. You got to play it cool and "go fishing" a few weeks later if you haven't heard anything. Send the same message to a few of them and see who bites.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Need some advice bros.


Why am I getting curved by women who are down to have sex?

I'll make a pass at a woman and they give me an indirect curve. Something along the lines of "I can't tonight, It's my friends bday". No big deal... I can't tell if it's a curve or just she's busy.

So I'll try one more time and it'll be the same deal like "I have to work in the AM". So at that point I'm off that and onto the next.

Then randomly months later that same woman will plot to fukk me. We'll be in the same bar randomly, chop it up, dance, then they'll tell me to come over after. I come thru we smash. That following week they'll initiate contact and hit me up a couple times asking what I'm doing.
Then its right back to the "I can't" curves when I try to set things up

Am I just not hitting it right, or am I just being used for sex? Or is it that they just aren't attracted to me?

Those indirect curves are the worst - it's what makes guys do dumb shyt. But sounds like your having first world problems my nikka. There's this girl who I run into all the time who I want to smash something serious but she curved me a bunch of times so I'm trying to not talk to her - but still everytime I see the bytch i'm like

So these broads will hit you up MONTHS afterwards? woow homie, somehow reading that gave me hope.

 

[Music Fiend]

Those indirect curves are the worst - it's what makes guys do dumb shyt. But sounds like your having first world problems my nikka. There's this girl who I run into all the time who I want to smash something serious but she curved me a bunch of times so I'm trying to not talk to her - but still everytime I see the bytch i'm like

So these broads will hit you up MONTHS afterwards? woow homie, somehow reading that gave me hope.

I mean the thing is. I can hover in the same group and not be mad. So we don't hang alone but we may hang in a mutual group setting when out. Even though I get curved initially and it does hurt my ego. I'll still flirt and still make lil moves on em, but I'll also know I need other options. So while I'm hanging with them sometimes I'll bring a chick or be hitting on another chick.

I just don't sweat em and fall back once I'm curved. The thing is they never are direct or say no. So I approach it as open ended.

So on one end its prolly like this night wont give up but on another end its like, obviously he has options and can pull. But yeah I don't see why give indirect curves. Why not just say u not interested.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I mean the thing is. I can hover in the same group and not be mad. So we don't hang alone but we may hang in a mutual group setting when out. Even though I get curved initially and it does hurt my ego. I'll still flirt and still make lil moves on em, but I'll also know I need other options. So while I'm hanging with them sometimes I'll bring a chick or be hitting on another chick.

Dawg that's precisely what i'm going right now. I don't see the usefulness of completely disengaging but it kind of runs counter to the sort of advice you'd get from this thread.

I just don't sweat em and fall back once I'm curved. The thing is they never are direct or say no. So I approach it as open ended.

I prefer to look at it like this. Even though she never gives it up, this chick will be a conduit for me to meet a whole bunch of ppl so it would be really stupid to just not talk to her cuz she curved me once.

 

[TRUEST]

Need some advice bros.


Why am I getting curved by women who are down to have sex?

I'll make a pass at a woman and they give me an indirect curve. Something along the lines of "I can't tonight, It's my friends bday". No big deal... I can't tell if it's a curve or just she's busy.

So I'll try one more time and it'll be the same deal like "I have to work in the AM". So at that point I'm off that and onto the next.

Then randomly months later that same woman will plot to fukk me. We'll be in the same bar randomly, chop it up, dance, then they'll tell me to come over after. I come thru we smash. That following week they'll initiate contact and hit me up a couple times asking what I'm doing.
Then its right back to the "I can't" curves when I try to set things up

Am I just not hitting it right, or am I just being used for sex? Or is it that they just aren't attracted to me?

you're being too excited when you're around them. its a turn off. its something i had to work on myself. no matter how excited u are to be around a girl u really like, u need to watch the tone of ur voice, ur eyes (dont be widening them - it's a dead give away you're sprung)

i say this because i think about the expression on my face when i was around girls i didn't really like and had those girls asking me "do you like me?". they had to ask because the look on my face was clear to them i can take it or leave it. u just goto do the same with women u really like. and dont be hitting up these chicks. let them come to you. if u do hit them up, be very direct.

 

[Music Fiend]

you're being too excited when you're around them. its a turn off. its something i had to work on myself. no matter how excited u are to be around a girl u really like, u need to watch the tone of ur voice, ur eyes (dont be widening them - it's a dead give away you're sprung)

i say this because i think about the expression on my face when i was around girls i didn't really like and had those girls asking me "do you like me?". they had to ask because the look on my face was clear to them i can take it or leave it. u just goto do the same with women u really like. and dont be hitting up these chicks. let them come to you. if u do hit them up, be very direct.

I mean I am pretty direct when I hit em up. I'll take the advice but that feels not authentic to me? I'm excited to see everybody not just a woman. I'm never following em around and I'm fukkin em...

I'm getting hit with the okie dokie before and then after I fukk.

For example: I smash the last chick, see her days later out again. I'm playing it like a hookup so in chilling. Shes comin to me. She's grabbing my hands and telling me to grab her ass etc and is all in my face talking about she wants to hang out more.

Couple days go by she's texting me non stop being flirty. The shell hit me a few days later at night like what r u doing tonight?! I'll respond, tryna secure the smash and it's crickets.

Then a couple days later I try to set it up and it's excuse. Then I'll no longer hear from em since I won't hit them up again.

 

[TRUEST]

I mean I am pretty direct when I hit em up. I'll take the advice but that feels not authentic to me? I'm excited to see everybody not just a woman. I'm never following em around and I'm fukkin em...

I'm getting hit with the okie dokie before and then after I fukk.

For example: I smash the last chick, see her days later out again. I'm playing it like a hookup so in chilling. Shes comin to me. She's grabbing my hands and telling me to grab her ass etc and is all in my face talking about she wants to hang out more.

Couple days go by she's texting me non stop being flirty. The shell hit me a few days later at night like what r u doing tonight?! I'll respond, tryna secure the smash and it's crickets.

Then a couple days later I try to set it up and it's excuse. Then I'll no longer hear from em since I won't hit them up again.

when a girl asks what are u doing tonight:

her: what u doing tonight?
you: gonna be recuperating (this insinuates a lot of things to her which i'm not gonna get into)
her: blah blah blah
you: come over.
her: <anything she says here that's not in agreement to coming over, you must ignore!>

that's how you subliminally train girls to do what u want without uttering a word. she's correlate your nonanswers to her foolishness and will respond with whatever it is she thinks u want.

 

[Music Fiend]

when a girl asks what are u doing tonight:

her: what u doing tonight?
you: gonna be recuperating (this insinuates a lot of things to her which i'm not gonna get into)
her: blah blah blah
you: come over.
her: <anything she says here that's not in agreement to coming over, you must ignore!>

that's how you subliminally train girls to do what u want without uttering a word. she's correlate your nonanswers to her foolishness and will respond with whatever it is she thinks u want.

Real shyt I like that. But in my situation.

That's where she ain't respond.

I guess what I need to know is why would a woman who's "not attracted" to you sleep with you. The other ones I'm Gucci on, just women I've known for a minute I've been tryna hit. I'm used to women getting attached after sex. So I'm usually expecting that if I got it once I can get it again. But it's both e case with these types.


Obviously they were all attracted to me if they fukked me right? And if the sex wasn't good and they didn't enjoy it, why would they be hittin me up after only to give me endless curves til I no longer give a fukk.

 

[360dagod]

Real shyt I like that. But in my situation.

That's where she ain't respond.

I guess what I need to know is why would a woman who's "not attracted" to you sleep with you. The other ones I'm Gucci on, just women I've known for a minute I've been tryna hit. I'm used to women getting attached after sex. So I'm usually expecting that if I got it once I can get it again. But it's both e case with these types.


Obviously they were all attracted to me if they fukked me right? And if the sex wasn't good and they didn't enjoy it, why would they be hittin me up after only to give me endless curves til I no longer give a fukk.

you gotta give women the impression their leading, while your doing the actual leading...

I dont never set up a date to fukk...i just agree to it..

Even if you initiate text, keep it off of sex as much as possible...

she'll find a way to steer it there..Somehow

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Co sign

you gotta give women the impression their leading, while your doing the actual leading...

I dont never set up a date to fukk...i just agree to it..

Even if you initiate text, keep it off of sex as much as possible...

she'll find a way to steer it there..Somehow