Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So my ex called me yesterday to "make sure" that I didn't want to do anything on Valentine's Day...I straight up told her that I didn't. I can tell she's progressively getting more and more fed up with me so hopefully this is leading on to her finding someone else.
 

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when a girl asks what are u doing tonight:

her: what u doing tonight?
you: gonna be recuperating (this insinuates a lot of things to her which i'm not gonna get into)
her: blah blah blah
you: come over.
her: <anything she says here that's not in agreement to coming over, you must ignore!>

that's how you subliminally train girls to do what u want without uttering a word. she's correlate your nonanswers to her foolishness and will respond with whatever it is she thinks u want.

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when a girl asks what are u doing tonight:

her: what u doing tonight?
you: gonna be recuperating (this insinuates a lot of things to her which i'm not gonna get into)
her: blah blah blah
you: come over.
her: <anything she says here that's not in agreement to coming over, you must ignore!>

that's how you subliminally train girls to do what u want without uttering a word. she's correlate your nonanswers to her foolishness and will respond with whatever it is she thinks u want.

exactly.

basically dating is leading a girl to sex without her feeling like a ho

if a chick feeling you, she will smash after a trip to walmart.
 

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2 date max rules still apply young brehs :ufdup:, don't initiate/spend shyt after the 2nd date, if she can't plan anything for the 3rd outing than she's just wasting your time and money.
 

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my girl let a chick who's only known us for the past week and a half shoehorn herself into the middle of our relationship :snoop: i could kill that chick right now

she's trying to earn that "loyal best friend" badge with my girl by going out of her way to paint me as shifty and trying to make my girl suspicious, making it seem like she's looking out for her

im not even mad at the chick im more disappointed that my girl was so gullible she's lettin a random thot who doesn't know jack shyt about me or her talk reckless about me and isn't doing shyt....because she doesn't want it to be "awkward" between them

so you gonna choose getting into arguments with me over an awkward pause when you tell her to watch her mouth :what: what kinda disloyal shyt is that, you didn't even know she existed 2 weeks ago :dahell:

my girl's even saying "yea i can tell she doesn't even know you by the way she's talking about you"

so WHY the hell are you letting her talk greasy about me then :dahell:

im the type of nikka i'll check someone or even dead a friendship if they talk to reckless about the person im with, it's just a respect thing, how can i be laughin in chillin around somebody who's shytting on the person im with without even knowing shyt about em? and then try to use the shyt that THEY said to start an argument?

brehs make sure ya girl is down to stand up for you before you take them serious :snoop: im tryna figure out how to tackle this shyt

on one hand, i aint bouta concede defeat to some random bish who just showed up

on the other hand why am i gonna fight for someone who doesn't even have the backbone to stand up for the boi :martin: that's some deep seeded loyalty issues imo

edit: i left out another little tidbit of info on this other broad

she recently met one of my girl's friends (they've been friends for YEARS)

and after that SINGLE encounter, after my girl and her longtime friend leave the room she turns and me and starts telling me about how she doesn't like the girl, she's a bytch, etc.

im like "you just met her :mindblown: you don't know shyt about this girl"

i told my girl about it later and she's didn't even comment on it

so she aint even willing to stand up for her long time best friends if someone talks shyt about em
 
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my girl let a chick who's only known us for the past week and a half shoehorn herself into the middle of our relationship :snoop: i could kill that chick right now

she's trying to earn that "loyal best friend" badge with my girl by going out of her way to paint me as shifty and trying to make my girl suspicious, making it seem like she's looking out for her

im not even mad at the chick im more disappointed that my girl was so gullible she's lettin a random thot who doesn't know jack shyt about me or her talk reckless about me and isn't doing shyt....because she doesn't want it to be "awkward" between them

so you gonna choose getting into arguments with me over an awkward pause when you tell her to watch her mouth :what: what kinda disloyal shyt is that, you didn't even know she existed 2 weeks ago :dahell:

my girl's even saying "yea i can tell she doesn't even know you by the way she's talking about you"

so WHY the hell are you letting her talk greasy about me then :dahell:

im the type of nikka i'll check someone or even dead a friendship if they talk to reckless about the person im with, it's just a respect thing, how can i be laughin in chillin around somebody who's shytting on the person im with without even knowing shyt about em? and then try to use the shyt that THEY said to start an argument?

brehs make sure ya girl is down to stand up for you before you take them serious :snoop: im tryna figure out how to tackle this shyt

on one hand, i aint bouta concede defeat to some random bish who just showed up

on the other hand why am i gonna fight for someone who doesn't even have the backbone to stand up for the boi :martin: that's some deep seeded loyalty issues imo
I'm very thankful for the pain I've experienced in my previous relationship because it taught me exactly what to do or not do in all situations involving women.

In ur case, u need to side with ur gut. This girl is showing symptoms of a person who's just not down for u. If this is the first time she's done this, I suggest sitting her down and having a frank conversation with her. Let her know it's a disrespect ur not gonna put up with.

If she resists u, downgrade her and start dating someone else, fast!
 

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I'm very thankful for the pain I've experienced in my previous relationship because it taught me exactly what to do or not do in all situations involving women.

In ur case, u need to side with ur gut. This girl is showing symptoms of a person who's just not down for u. If this is the first time she's done this, I suggest sitting her down and having a frank conversation with her. Let her know it's a disrespect ur not gonna put up with.

If she resists u, downgrade her and start dating someone else, fast!
i updated the post with another incident that happened prior to my issue with the chick, taking that into account as well i don't think it's specific to me, i truly just feel like she doesn't have any semblance of a backbone. i mean i already knew she was on the timid side when it comes to confrontations, but i was thinking she would be able to come out of that shell for me or her best friend of 7+ years :francis:
 

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i updated the post with another incident that happened prior to my issue with the chick, taking that into account as well i don't think it's specific to me, i truly just feel like she doesn't have any semblance of a backbone. i mean i already knew she was on the timid side when it comes to confrontations, but i was thinking she would be able to come out of that shell for me or her best friend of 7+ years :francis:

i think u know what to do here. good news is, this girl can be put under ur control. u just need to let her know who's authority she needs to bow to. start by assigning her work to do. and when she does it, reward her with something she likes. and when she fuccks up, throw a temper tantrum and avoid talking to her for a lil bit till she corrects what she did wrong or apologizes.

these are very strong steps, but given ur situation, you have no alternative. ur relationship is going down a road that leads to nothing but pure hell..for you.
 

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i think u know what to do here. good news is, this girl can be put under ur control. u just need to let her know who's authority she needs to bow to. start by assigning her work to do. and when she does it, reward her with something she likes. and when she fuccks up, throw a temper tantrum and avoid talking to her for a lil bit till she corrects what she did wrong or apologizes.

these are very strong steps, but given ur situation, you have no alternative. ur relationship is going down a road that leads to nothing but pure hell..for you.
:russ: you aint shyt
 
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when a girl asks what are u doing tonight:

her: what u doing tonight?
you: gonna be recuperating (this insinuates a lot of things to her which i'm not gonna get into)
her: blah blah blah
you: come over.
her: <anything she says here that's not in agreement to coming over, you must ignore!>

that's how you subliminally train girls to do what u want without uttering a word. she's correlate your nonanswers to her foolishness and will respond with whatever it is she thinks u want.

I read over this once but now reading it again, I can say it is pretty good advice. My only issue is I don't have my own place :francis:
 

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Finding quality is harder and harder as the days pass. If you're young, you might think you're 'winning' and you're having the time of your life running through all of these different women, but if you find that quality woman, you better hold on and reward a loyal woman with loyalty. You really won't understand how unscrupulous women will affect your mind until you continually run across them and you're robbed of your peace of mind because you're always wondering what this woman is doing.

Dealing with women should be relatively simple, but it's become so complex in this day and age due to the fact that men are praising extremely low quality women because they have a big butt and essentially these women are being rewarded for their dysfunction, while the decent women are being punished because they see the hoes getting all the attention and they end up getting cheated on because her man goes with the neighborhood blockbuster for some fun. Then they wonder why so many women are morphing into hoes and the quality is declining.

Women with decent moral characteristics who actually will do things for her man need to be the one held in a high light... but you can see the problem when some stripper is getting 10 million followers. You literally have dudes 'following' hoes on instagram and other sites.

Reminds me of this Bible verse:
Isaiah 3:12
Youths oppress my people, women rule over them. My people, your guides lead you astray; they turn you from the path.

You literally have prostitutes and strippers on television brainwashing the youth and they are given a voice to essentially teach those youth what is and isn't acceptable behavior. Is it any wonder things are so dysfunctional in this day and age?
 

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so I get a text from an old chick talking about "I think we should try to date each other one more time" :dahell:, right before Valentine's Day huh? This chick wasn't trying to get down when I wanted her, wasn't completely over her ex, didn't really trust guys, and etc.

When you miss the boat with me, you just miss the boat. I have no room to entertain anymore women.
 
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so I get a text from an old chick talking about "I think we should try to date each other one more time" :dahell:, right before Valentine's Day huh? This chick wasn't trying to get down when I wanted her, wasn't completely over her ex, didn't really trust guys, and etc.

When you miss the boat with me, you just miss the boat. I have no room to entertain anymore women.

:francis:bushes

At least the girls that try this with me, did it first week of february.....:mjlol:
 
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