Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Finding quality is harder and harder as the days pass. If you're young, you might think you're 'winning' and you're having the time of your life running through all of these different women, but if you find that quality woman, you better hold on and reward a loyal woman with loyalty. You really won't understand how unscrupulous women will affect your mind until you continually run across them and you're robbed of your peace of mind because you're always wondering what this woman is doing.

Dealing with women should be relatively simple, but it's become so complex in this day and age due to the fact that men are praising extremely low quality women because they have a big butt and essentially these women are being rewarded for their dysfunction, while the decent women are being punished because they see the hoes getting all the attention and they end up getting cheated on because her man goes with the neighborhood blockbuster for some fun. Then they wonder why so many women are morphing into hoes and the quality is declining.

Women with decent moral characteristics who actually will do things for her man need to be the one held in a high light... but you can see the problem when some stripper is getting 10 million followers. You literally have dudes 'following' hoes on instagram and other sites.

Reminds me of this Bible verse:
Isaiah 3:12
Youths oppress my people, women rule over them. My people, your guides lead you astray; they turn you from the path.

You literally have prostitutes and strippers on television brainwashing the youth and they are given a voice to essentially teach those youth what is and isn't acceptable behavior. Is it any wonder things are so dysfunctional in this day and age?

All of what you posted is a reflection of how morally corrupted society has become. Human indecency and dysfunction is celebrated while decency and normalcy is shamed and attacked in more ways than one. Even though I have come to accept this unfortunate reality, I am still saddened by it because it feels like it is must for me to abandon my otherwise decent nature altogether (I am guilty of deviating from it alot) in order to navigate my way through this fukked up society.
 

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All of what you posted is a reflection of how morally corrupted society has become. Human indecency and dysfunction is celebrated while decency and normalcy is shamed and attacked in more ways than one. Even though I have come to accept this unfortunate reality, I am still saddened by it because it feels like it is must for me to abandon my otherwise decent nature altogether (I am guilty of deviating from it alot) in order to navigate my way through this fukked up society.

Today's society is ultimately a test of your moral character because it seems easy to abandon your morals and 'join in on the party', but ultimately, that's a losing proposition.
 
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Today's society is ultimately a test of your moral character because it seems easy to abandon your morals and 'join in on the party', but ultimately, that's a losing proposition.

It is extremely easy to abandon your morals and join in on the party. It is only when you surround yourself with people who are similar to you that you get to appreciate the insanity of it all. So watch what types of people you hang around with or else indecency will quickly become the new normal. I've become so cynical that any time I meet people who are not indulging in all the evils dominating today's society I question myself and my own assumptions. But why should I need to question myself when I meet an upstanding individual? That should be the default and anything deviating from that should be criticized. Sometimes I wish I could go back to the days when I was ignorant and wore rose tinted glasses.
 

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Today's society is ultimately a test of your moral character because it seems easy to abandon your morals and 'join in on the party', but ultimately, that's a losing proposition.

That is true. I know wholeheartedly that I have failed this test not necessarily because I wanted to but merely out of frustration because I encountered a number of people who tried to pull bullshyt when I carried myself as decent human being under the assumption that I was weak when they was not the case. In general, people do not attempt to pull that tshyt with the people who don't give damn about decency and that is very telling when you look at how dysfunctional our society is.
 

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Man....I don't even know. I dated a white chick when I was like 20 but thats 6 winters back now. And that shyt was barely real if you ask me. We fukked and played video games for 6 months and called it quits.

But I'm really really feeling this one right now. Any tips for attempting some shyt like that as a black man? Not looking for bullshyt or condescending shyt. I try not to feel for these females too much but it is what it is.

Plus she turns up to Future with me and moves like she got melanin. I mean why not try?
 
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Man....I don't even know. I dated a white chick when I was like 20 but thats 6 winters back now. And that shyt was barely real if you ask me. We fukked and played video games for 6 months and called it quits.

But I'm really really feeling this one right now. Any tips for attempting some shyt like that as a black man? Not looking for bullshyt or condescending shyt. I try not to feel for these females too much but it is what it is.

Plus she turns up to Future with me and moves like she got melanin. I mean why not try?

What does her being white have anything to do with this? Either you are vibing or you are not.
Does she even like you back?

I know its the coli and all but lool don't let something like that weigh you down. Me personally I've found that a relationship with a black chick isn't any less likely to go *boom* for mysterious reasons so I keep my options open.
 

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Man....I don't even know. I dated a white chick when I was like 20 but thats 6 winters back now. And that shyt was barely real if you ask me. We fukked and played video games for 6 months and called it quits.

But I'm really really feeling this one right now. Any tips for attempting some shyt like that as a black man? Not looking for bullshyt or condescending shyt. I try not to feel for these females too much but it is what it is.

Plus she turns up to Future with me and moves like she got melanin. I mean why not try?

Don't let this site or anyone in public dictate who u should date cuz of race breh
My ex baby mama was white granted it ended fukked up but I didn't let anyone tell me what who I can date I gave no fukks who looked at us wrong or looked down on us it was my choice correction our choice to be together regardless of race
When u feelin someone a lot do u and take that step forward if she fits what ur looking for or ur gonna end up with that what if thought or life cuz u didn't pursue it cuz of what others thought or viewed u both
 

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If a woman can easily have you she don't value. Dudes be having low self esteem like females. Same way y'all shyt on a female y'all can fukk in a week she shots on you too. Your objective is to be a prize to a woman. Something she can't easily have.

How to get a woman to respect you ? Say what you mean mean what you say and check her when she know she supposed to be check.

Learn to keep your dikk out of a lady and you win everyone she know temp majority of man with her p*ssy
 

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If a woman can easily have you she don't value. Dudes be having low self esteem like females. Same way y'all shyt on a female y'all can fukk in a week she shots on you too. Your objective is to be a prize to a woman. Something she can't easily have.

How to get a woman to respect you ? Say what you mean mean what you say and check her when she know she supposed to be check.

Learn to keep your dikk out of a lady and you win everyone she know temp majority of man with her p*ssy

I agree but I'll take it a few steps further and say that one should be shytty towards women in general because they respect that more than they respect halfway decent treatment.
 

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I agree but I'll take it a few steps further and say that one should be shytty towards women in general because they respect that more than they respect halfway decent treatment.

You be surprised. The harder you go on a female the more she love you. All females want validation and if you never validate them the more she go out of her way to get it. You always gotta be a mystery something she can't figure out it's human nature people want what they can't have
 

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You be surprised. The harder you go on a female the more she love you. All females want validation and if you never validate them the more she go out of her way to get it. You always gotta be a mystery something she can't figure out it's human nature people want what they can't have

I understand that being unattainable to women is a must. But my issue is that you cannot be somewhat civilized, decent, and respectful in dealing with a woman without her trying to take it for weakness. You have to be on guerilla pimp shyt in order to prevent that. It is fukked up.
 

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I understand that being unattainable to women is a must. But my issue is that you cannot be somewhat civilized, decent, and respectful in dealing with a woman without her trying to take it for weakness. You have to be on guerilla pimp shyt in order to prevent that. It is fukked up.

You have to be gorilla pimp and have a sense of compassion at the same time. You can't gorilla pimp her to death but you can't be someone she can run over either. Gotta be able to blend the two. A woman will always look for weakness that's why they test man they do to see if they can control your emotions. You gotta always keep in a females head you don't need her and you gotta show that with action.
 
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