Yeah. However, showing human decency does not give anyone the right to come at you with bullshyt on principle alone but women are notorious for doing that towards men who have not done any fukked up shyt towards them yet will treat those who have like kings. That's like me robbing somebody who aint did shyt wrong to me in any capacity but not doing anything to someone who actually did some foul shyt towards me. It is backwards as fukk.
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Yeah. However, showing human decency does not give anyone the right to come at you with bullshyt on principle alone but women are notorious for doing that towards men who have not done any fukked up shyt towards them yet will treat those who have like kings. That's like me robbing somebody who aint did shyt wrong to me in any capacity but not doing anything to someone who actually did some foul shyt towards me. It is backwards as fukk.
So broke up with my girl 
just couldnt deal with the 80/20 relationship brehs. Here I am educated, reapectful, paid brother and its like ahe aint realize how rare that shyt is nowadays.
Long story short she said she wanted to make it work, but then said she aint changing
. Had to dead it, 6 months aint too much down the drain but I really cared for her. I could get another bytch easily but im just shell shocked how quick shyt fell apart wi th this im not even ready for that. Plus having to use rubbers again
At least I know it wasnt me and she need help. You cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves tho.
just couldnt deal with the 80/20 relationship brehs. Here I am educated, reapectful, paid brother and its like ahe aint realize how rare that shyt is nowadays. Long story short she said she wanted to make it work, but then said she aint changing
. Had to dead it, 6 months aint too much down the drain but I really cared for her. I could get another bytch easily but im just shell shocked how quick shyt fell apart wi th this im not even ready for that. Plus having to use rubbers again At least I know it wasnt me and she need help. You cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves tho.
Marlostanfield.
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Yeah they're gonna come at you a lot of times it's in their nature. They're trying to turn you into a trick so they will always test to see if they can but you gotta pass them tests by being icy. You show the female compassion when she goes beyond for you. You gotta reward them but when they try you, you gotta check/discipline them so they respect you.
All of that is true. It is still fukked up that you can't interact with women with common decency tho. It's crazy how when a man strives to be a decent human being women try to bring out the worst in you but when you are a shytty being they try to bring out the best.
i know that feel breh. not with girlfriends though...wouldnt wife a girl who doesnt already know how lucky she is to have me...but with randomsSo broke up with my girl
Long story short she said she wanted to make it work, but then said she aint changing
At least I know it wasnt me and she need help. You cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves tho.
be happy u aint seed her
yeah g thats my biggest thing. aint no kids involved it ain that big a deal I'm still solo
but man, IDK what is up with our generation of women. they say nikkas are dogs but these bytches are like fukking voids of nothing but bad news.
the reason for that is that these women don't have to work for it.yeah g thats my biggest thing. aint no kids involved it ain that big a deal I'm still solo
but man, IDK what is up with our generation of women. they say nikkas are dogs but these bytches are like fukking voids of nothing but bad news.
whenever I find a really good girl I hold on to it because I had to put in work...approaching tons of females, getting dissed, getting flaked on, being underwhelmed after getting to know them etc. I know just how rare the woman i'm dealing with is and treat shorty accordingly.
most girls know that once things fizzle out with you that a next dude will come who is willing to put up with their shyt. they dont have to adapt for the most part. furthermore they have nothing but men reinforcing the idea that their shyt dont stink. A lot of women are simply used to getting what they want. They have never been given a reason to change because nobody has told them that they're fukkin up. Not their dads, brothers, ex-boyfriends, girlfriends etc. Most girls are coddled in society
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
I was going to add to this
but you are pretty much on point with your analysis 
Sometimes I get so used to flaky, lame females that I forget that I deserve to be treated with respect too. I admire your resolve though bro, 
cuz from reading your posts it seems you put in more work in a couple of weeks than I have my entire lifetime. I give up way too easily and enter a funk 
Yea you have to put in work and just learn to be comfortable with yourself, rejection, disappointment etc. i'm predatory when it comes to talking to females and honestly...nowadays I dont even take it that seriously. I do. But i dont.I was going to add to this
Just today I had lunch with a Brazillian woman (fresh off the plane) who I met 3 months ago. Hadnt seen her since that day but the dialogue was always good. She always wanted to hang out but we live cities apart so I couldnt make the time with my work/commute schedule. After a while i started ramping up my efforts to chill with her and take the initiative but she kept saying shed let me know so i figured she moved on
. I fell back and charged it to the game without a care because I had other girls in the arrears anyways; and if I didnt I would seize opportunities to get them girls (which is why its important to be a predator). Low and behold a month later she messages me...next day (today) we're having lunch. The #1 rule is that when a girl is feeling you, they will treat you like a king. period. They will follow your lead and pay you respect for the most part.
I aint gonna lie I loved ol girl, I still don't hate her or anything. but the lopsidedness was too much. If she hit em up out of the blue and said shes making a effort to change her ways IDK if I could turn it down tbh. Like outside of that shes a really sweet girl, just has depression issues she needs to get handled some way. I tried to be that anchor to do so but even I had no lasting effect. Just thinking about having to go out at some point and play the game and try to find yet another bytch that is worth keeping around for a period of time is sobering is hell..
It's what we have to deal with. But remember, you did the RIGHT thing. You didn't allow her to drag you through an emotional roller coaster of ups and downs for a much longer period of time. You basically realized that you are worth more than dealing with the headache. Let her get her shyt together, if she comes back and you feel like giving her shot, so be it. But move forward breh.
It's like the chick I mentioned before who texted me saying she thinks we should try dating each other again because she didn't give it a fair shot. I told her "yeah you didn't, but I did give it a fair shot and you played yourself", time is precious, don't waste time on those who would take yours for a game.
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
Yea you have to put in work and just learn to be comfortable with yourself, rejection, disappointment etc. i'm predatory when it comes to talking to females and honestly...nowadays I dont even take it that seriously. I do. But i dont.
Just today I had lunch with a Brazillian woman (fresh off the plane) who I met 3 months ago. Hadnt seen her since that day but the dialogue was always good. She always wanted to hang out but we live cities apart so I couldnt make the time with my work/commute schedule. After a while i started ramping up my efforts to chill with her and take the initiative but she kept saying shed let me know so i figured she moved on
The #1 rule is that when a girl is feeling you, they will treat you like a king. period. They will follow your lead and pay you respect for the most part.
my nikka, i remember you mentioning that brazillian shorty a while back, glad that that turned out OK. yah i'm slowly turning myself around to your sort of mentality, but it is tough to shake off that empty feeling you get when a sizeable amount of women treat you like 
Bruh its all self confidence just believe in yourself
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
Yea you have to put in work and just learn to be comfortable with yourself, rejection, disappointment etc. i'm predatory when it comes to talking to females and honestly...nowadays I dont even take it that seriously. I do. But i dont.
Just today I had lunch with a Brazillian woman (fresh off the plane) who I met 3 months ago. Hadnt seen her since that day but the dialogue was always good. She always wanted to hang out but we live cities apart so I couldnt make the time with my work/commute schedule. After a while i started ramping up my efforts to chill with her and take the initiative but she kept saying shed let me know so i figured she moved on
The #1 rule is that when a girl is feeling you, they will treat you like a king. period. They will follow your lead and pay you respect for the most part.
don't u hate it when hoes do that?
i was gonne link up with this italian/romanian broad back in the summer...shorty wasn't budging so i deaded that. Deleted her off bbm and shyt. So i rejoined the site we met on...and guess who hit me up last week?
she said why haven't i hit her up....told her, you wasn't with it and life goes on.
girl was like 
"you got a girl now aye?" her tone done changed 100%. Girl was on that full court press. She called me and everything but i was
. Never picked up...just texted back.Set something up for fri...but when i called her today, shorty ain't answer or text me back.
back to the bushes she goes....
THANK YOU!
Like, I was chatting with an old friend of mine. She is a selfish, greedy, egotistical, women, who leech after simps. She was like, "I don't want to be with a man that is not established and not within their financial needs". I started to burst out laughing mentally.
Now, she is right to an extent. But the problem with her statement is that SHE herself is not established or goal orientated as well. She just wants simps to pamper and cater to her needs because she has a vagina and don't want to work on herself but leech after a man because she has a pumpum. Most women with that type of mentally disgust mi.
There is not problem with wanting a non-broke man, but if you don't get your shyt together the door is that way>>