Just remember the story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego. Realize they weren't the only Israelites in Babylon either, which means many others had succumbed and faltered.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Try not to be a dikk after you smash. Not because you give a fukk, but because you may need her to come thru on a rainy day when you don't feel like picking up something new.
So This girl at my gym who straight curved me almost 2 years ago is now being SUPER nice and tryna holla. Even my friend I work out with was like, "(her name) seems like she's feelin you..
." I'm like, "yeah she sure is" 
I haven't seen her in almost a couple years and she starts coming to the gym again last week.
I think I know what it is though, she's getting older, she's 28 now and she see's I'm a good guy, educated, degree. She wasn't having it a couple years ago and was messing with some dude she had already broken up with. They were "broken up" but he was still smashing. It made it really awkward everyday b/c I had to see her and she knew I liked her.....but fast forward to now I have NO feelings towards her at all.
Long story short, I got her number with ease yesterday.....she has a really nice body
.....whereas a couple years ago she wasn't having it at all.
She's saying things like, "I like your (something I'm wearing)", "You have perfect teeth", "Muscle man", "So what do you do for a living?" "Do you have any kids?", etc.
I'm just playing along like I'm naive, but I see what she's doing.
." I'm like, "yeah she sure is" I haven't seen her in almost a couple years and she starts coming to the gym again last week.
I think I know what it is though, she's getting older, she's 28 now and she see's I'm a good guy, educated, degree. She wasn't having it a couple years ago and was messing with some dude she had already broken up with. They were "broken up" but he was still smashing. It made it really awkward everyday b/c I had to see her and she knew I liked her.....but fast forward to now I have NO feelings towards her at all.
Long story short, I got her number with ease yesterday.....she has a really nice body
.....whereas a couple years ago she wasn't having it at all.She's saying things like, "I like your (something I'm wearing)", "You have perfect teeth", "Muscle man", "So what do you do for a living?" "Do you have any kids?", etc.
I'm just playing along like I'm naive, but I see what she's doing.
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
Been talking and dating this chick but it feels like I text or call too much so I thinking on falling back and seeing if she gonna contact me. What's y'all take on this?
So This girl at my gym who straight curved me almost 2 years ago is now being SUPER nice and tryna holla. Even my friend I work out with was like, "(her name) seems like she's feelin you..
I haven't seen her in almost a couple years and she starts coming to the gym again last week.
I think I know what it is though, she's getting older, she's 28 now and she see's I'm a good guy, educated, degree. She wasn't having it a couple years ago and was messing with some dude she had already broken up with. They were "broken up" but he was still smashing. It made it really awkward everyday b/c I had to see her and she knew I liked her.....but fast forward to now I have NO feelings towards her at all.
Long story short, I got her number with ease yesterday.....she has a really nice body
She's saying things like, "I like your (something I'm wearing)", "You have perfect teeth", "Muscle man", "So what do you do for a living?" "Do you have any kids?", etc.
I'm just playing along like I'm naive, but I see what she's doing.
these chicks be hoping you forget that they curved you a while back.
like are boy Drizzy says, "just wait on it", they'll be back in no time.
Why do women act the way they do? Some dude on quora did an experiment where he pretended to be a girl on facebook, created a profile with some blonde and he went and added 20 random dudes and within a day, he had a flood of friend requests and guys messaging him. There were a lot of dudes offering to buy stuff.
The reality is that a young, pretty girl has countless amounts of suitors, especially online. She has guys flooding her inbox, offering to buy her stuff, etc. If she goes cold, it's probably because one of the other guys caught her fancy more than you did for a moment in time. As soon as she gets bored of him, she'll probably pop back up to you. That's why you don't see these women for a week. They have so many options and they want to explore them to look for the 'best deal', and when her current best deal falls off, she'll pop back up to where you are if you weren't her first best deal. She'll be around for a week or two and disappear again when she finds another 'best deal'. A woman who is young and pretty doesn't have to put in any work. She has a flood of guys offering their services. That's why you seem disposable to them. When they mysteriously reappear? Their options are running low for the moment.
When a woman is feeling you, she'll make time for you. If she's playing the disappearing game and hits you up sporadically, 9 times out of 10, she's dealing with another guy. Why do women take your number, but don't pick up when you call them? She's with a current option she likes, but she wants to cultivate more options in case that guy falls off.
The reality is that a young, pretty girl has countless amounts of suitors, especially online. She has guys flooding her inbox, offering to buy her stuff, etc. If she goes cold, it's probably because one of the other guys caught her fancy more than you did for a moment in time. As soon as she gets bored of him, she'll probably pop back up to you. That's why you don't see these women for a week. They have so many options and they want to explore them to look for the 'best deal', and when her current best deal falls off, she'll pop back up to where you are if you weren't her first best deal. She'll be around for a week or two and disappear again when she finds another 'best deal'. A woman who is young and pretty doesn't have to put in any work. She has a flood of guys offering their services. That's why you seem disposable to them. When they mysteriously reappear? Their options are running low for the moment.
When a woman is feeling you, she'll make time for you. If she's playing the disappearing game and hits you up sporadically, 9 times out of 10, she's dealing with another guy. Why do women take your number, but don't pick up when you call them? She's with a current option she likes, but she wants to cultivate more options in case that guy falls off.
still scouting but i might have found that one 
Home girl works at a big 4 in auditing and is ambitious
Home girl is pretty and slim
Home girl has a bubbly personality
Home girl can cook
Home girl and I have great conversations / chemistry
Home girl says she looks up to me
Home girl has a good sense of humor
Home girl is a virgin (a bonus that is a good/bad thing)
Home girl seems loyal and trustworthy
I dont ask for much ...but it seems that I've found it
. She fresh off a two year relationship though so we've agreed we shouldnt jump into anything right now.
Home girl works at a big 4 in auditing and is ambitious
Home girl is pretty and slim
Home girl has a bubbly personality
Home girl can cook
Home girl and I have great conversations / chemistry
Home girl says she looks up to me
Home girl has a good sense of humor
Home girl is a virgin (a bonus that is a good/bad thing)
Home girl seems loyal and trustworthy
I dont ask for much ...but it seems that I've found it
. She fresh off a two year relationship though so we've agreed we shouldnt jump into anything right now.
Bless't
Living the dream
Shes a virgin and just got off two year relationship?
I dated a 25 year old virgin for about 4 months before. It's unlikely to find a virgin nowadays... but not impossible.
NeilCartwright
All Star
How old are you?still scouting but i might have found that one
Home girl works at a big 4 in auditing and is ambitious
Home girl is pretty and slim
Home girl has a bubbly personality
Home girl can cook
Home girl and I have great conversations / chemistry
Home girl says she looks up to me
Home girl has a good sense of humor
Home girl is a virgin (a bonus that is a good/bad thing)
Home girl seems loyal and trustworthy
I dont ask for much ...but it seems that I've found it
And yea it seems like a good fit but id play it cool for a couple months just to see where it goes. I was messing with a chick who just got out of a 5 yr relationship and ultimately that weighs a lot on you mentally.
But play it cool for a couple months to see where it goes
lucky lefty
Most Annoying Jay Z (aka GOAT) Stan of All Time
nikka really thinks a thot was with a nikka who wasn't castrated and didn't fukk him for 2 yrs?
Y'all desperate for love ass fukk boyz will fall for any dream these pimpettes sell yo trick asses
Y'all desperate for love ass fukk boyz will fall for any dream these pimpettes sell yo trick asses
I know they exist bruh its the fact that i dont get how anyone can be in a two year relationship without fukking? whats the whole point the hoe has to be lying.
I dated a 25 year old virgin for about 4 months before. It's unlikely to find a virgin nowadays... but not impossible.
24 years old. she's 22. she's still finishing school as well...currently here for an internship.How old are you?
And yea it seems like a good fit but id play it cool for a couple months just to see where it goes. I was messing with a chick who just got out of a 5 yr relationship and ultimately that weighs a lot on you mentally.
But play it cool for a couple months to see where it goes
i'd usually not talk to a girl from work but shes on a different floor and in a different department that often requires her to work at client offices. plus like i said shes going to school for her final semester this summer.
i got other girls i'm talking to so it works out for me. I can settle the score with these other girls and then once she's completely forgotten about her ex i can see what it do. She's def a catch though...this girl is my #1 prospect easily.
crazy right? truth is she actually wanted to smash old dude eventually but he was acting funny. homeboy was probably just cheating on her and could didnt have the heart to take it from her.Shes a virgin and just got off two year relationship?
that being said just cause a girl says shes a virgin it doesnt mean she is. I'll find out the hard way when I eventually smash
lol
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Bless't
Living the dream
The dude couldve been a virgin too. Who knows. Dude should feel her out in terms of identifying her character and morals. Pay attention to minor details and I'm sure he'll be able to tell if she's being truthful or not.
If breh is vibing with her... he should give her an honest shot. Why not?
truth is i would prefer that she wasnt a virgin. so i'm not sure what youre getting at.
if my posts on here prove anything its that i aint a desperate for love ass fukk boyl...you fukk nikka