Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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a lot of women didn't grow up with a father. So that's why they so damn emotional. Women like that are usually bratty and rude as fukk. Sometimes, their father instilled them of that princess mentality and look at society now :skip:

And ironically the non lesbian tomboys end up having a better track record in relationships. But like always not everything is 100 percent. I am just speaking generally that its those who are extremellyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy girly that cause these problems.

Not saying to look for a Serena Williams.....but I try to stay away from those who have the extreme princess mentalities.

And you know what is sad Wild self, some guys out there actually will say with a straight face about how they love how "wild" their girl is and how its "cute"




:rudy:


As always we black people.......actually to be fair.......people in general have this entire thing backwards. For ages its the idiotic father that has been continuing this "Daddy's Little girl" ...."my princess will have everything" bullshyt mindset. And the mother having the "Im gonna be mean as hell to her since I know how women act and her father is always nice"

You think people would get the hint already.......

Your suppose to swith the roles around, the mother should be the one who is more lenient to the girl. Yes you may say their are exceptions like the Lohan family and her far too lenient mother............but look at that situation and notice the reason why that is an exception......













Because for a large part of her life her father was not around and in prison and not fit to be the balance.





If any of you in here have girls or have a male family member that has a daughter.......make SURE to keep them in check if you hear something nonsense about them around their 9 or 10 year old daugther about how "Daddy is gonna keep his princess happy"......

^I have continuously heard nonsense like that from my 9 year old sister's father since she was an infant. This is why even if some people may think I am being evil to her or something or I hate her because I am nonchalant , i ignore it and know that what I am doing is right. Why would I continue to treat her like a princess simply because she is my sister?

I'm only the brother, its pretty sad that I know about this more than a supposed responsible father who continues to smother her
 

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Man that's what's so serious. The husband is at home, babysitting the kids... paying all the bills and all of that. These women are 'going out' with their girlfriends, meeting some young dude and letting him go to town... and they aren't feeling regret. They think they are 'keeping the torch lit.' This is exactly what happens when you start being with these women for a long time and they go cold out of nowhere. They've found someone who they've already let get it, and they like the thrill of someone new.

These women feel not an ounce of remorse, but rather see it as some kind of fun, taboo adventure. How exciting to sneak out on the guy taking care of you, doing the nastiest things imaginable right under his nose without him knowing and coming home to give him a big kiss after her 'fun romps.'



My sister did this to her boyfriend a couple weeks ago.

She even had the nerve to ask me, "Do you think i should meet up with him for coffee later in the week?"


I'm like, "bytch!!! You fukkin' kidding me?!?!"


had to readjust her logic (or lackthereof).


she makes 6 figures, new bimmer, lives in a loft in downtown (w her mans), but its never enough. Gotta go get "romped" by some cac. She blames it on being blacked out... but how you leave his place and end up in a cab and meet me for post-drunk munchies?


Lying ass sibling.


She cheated on her husband (no kids), so you know the cycle.


Once an infidel...


.
 

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And ironically the non lesbian tomboys end up having a better track record in relationships. But like always not everything is 100 percent. I am just speaking generally that its those who are extremellyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy girly that cause these problems.

Not saying to look for a Serena Williams.....but I try to stay away from those who have the extreme princess mentalities.

And you know what is sad Wild self, some guys out there actually will say with a straight face about how they love how "wild" their girl is and how its "cute"




:rudy:


As always we black people.......actually to be fair.......people in general have this entire thing backwards. For ages its the idiotic father that has been continuing this "Daddy's Little girl" ...."my princess will have everything" bullshyt mindset. And the mother having the "Im gonna be mean as hell to her since I know how women act and her father is always nice"

You think people would get the hint already.......

Your suppose to swith the roles around, the mother should be the one who is more lenient to the girl. Yes you may say their are exceptions like the Lohan family and her far too lenient mother............but look at that situation and notice the reason why that is an exception......













Because for a large part of her life her father was not around and in prison and not fit to be the balance.





If any of you in here have girls or have a male family member that has a daughter.......make SURE to keep them in check if you hear something nonsense about them around their 9 or 10 year old daugther about how "Daddy is gonna keep his princess happy"......

^I have continuously heard nonsense like that from my 9 year old sister's father since she was an infant. This is why even if some people may think I am being evil to her or something or I hate her because I am nonchalant , i ignore it and know that what I am doing is right. Why would I continue to treat her like a princess simply because she is my sister?

I'm only the brother, its pretty sad that I know about this more than a supposed responsible father who continues to smother her
:lawd::lawd:

If I have a daughter, I'll raise her like my son and teach her the importance of respecting people.
 

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Exactly. Instead of teaching these girls to become daddy's little princess or some such nonsense, teach them to be dignified classy women of God. Teach them to respect others and that their sexuality DOES have value. The less you give it away and the more exclusive you keep it, the higher quality of attention you will attract. If I have a daughter, I'd like for anyone who dealt with her be able to say, "Your dad raised you right. I really respect you." Instead of, "Where was yo daddy at lol."

The problem these days is we got this extra weak, suckafied attitude prevalent. Dads don't even want to be dads anymore. They are letting their daughters bring in these negroes to their homes and chill in their rooms, talking about well its better she do it here than out on them streets. Back in the day, you tried to do that, momma and daddy would tan her hide, that dude would either get beat up or shot by dad or brother and the daughter was taught to respect the family's honor or else. Nowadays, you got moms teaching their daughters how to pop their booties and even going to the club and getting piercings with them. It's a real problem man.
 
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Exactly. Instead of teaching these girls to become daddy's little princess or some such nonsense, teach them to be dignified classy women of God. Teach them to respect others and that their sexuality DOES have value. The less you give it away and the more exclusive you keep it, the higher quality of attention you will attract. If I have a daughter, I'd like for anyone who dealt with her be able to say, "Your dad raised you right. I really respect you." Instead of, "Where was yo daddy at lol."

The problem these days is we got this extra weak, suckafied attitude prevalent. Dads don't even want to be dads anymore. They are letting their daughters bring in these negroes to their homes and chill in their rooms, talking about well its better she do it here than out on them streets. Back in the day, you tried to do that, momma and daddy would tan her hide, that dude would either get beat up or shot by dad or brother and the daughter was taught to respect the family's honor or else. Nowadays, you got moms teaching their daughters how to pop their booties and even going to the club and getting piercings with them. It's a real problem man.

Parents are acting like there friends then being parents
 

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My sister did this to her boyfriend a couple weeks ago.

She even had the nerve to ask me, "Do you think i should meet up with him for coffee later in the week?"


I'm like, "bytch!!! You fukkin' kidding me?!?!"


had to readjust her logic (or lackthereof).


she makes 6 figures, new bimmer, lives in a loft in downtown (w her mans), but its never enough. Gotta go get "romped" by some cac. She blames it on being blacked out... but how you leave his place and end up in a cab and meet me for post-drunk munchies?


Lying ass sibling.


She cheated on her husband (no kids), so you know the cycle.


Once an infidel...


.

cold ass bytches :wow:
 

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Parents are acting like there friends then being parents

Yeah man, it's pathetic. These older folks want to live their second and third childhood. It's crazy how I see people 40+ act. They have a very teenagerish vibe about them. Honestly man, I think I'm getting out of America, hopefully by next year.
 

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"You need to embrace feminism and stop throwing rocks at it. OK, changes have occurred. I have been run over by many of them as much as anybody. Work in corporations suck now. They have fukked up a lot of shyt for men. But the big picture is that they are freeing men from a truly stupid life and allowing them to live free in a meaningful form.

I don’t have to work a soul busting corporate job anymore to pay for some bytch that took 80% of the money that I made to spend on horseshyt. I don’t have to sit in a fukking cube anymore surrounded by dweebs. I don’t have to sit in boring meetings and listen to bytches drone on. I do what I want. I eat what I want. I go where I want. I travel where I want. I work or don’t work when I want. I am now less lonely than I was because she went to sleep early and I was down in the living room watching the fukking stupid History Channel or reading one of 1000 books I read while I was married. I don’t have anyone looking over my shoulder at what I do, what I spend, where I go, who I talk to. I don’t have anyone whipping me, abusing me, screaming at me, manipulating me to do what she wants me to do.

Because of feminism, I am fukking free. I am no longer a husband living that boring stupid life, and I no longer have to work in a stupid corporation to get the money to pay for the life that bytch constructed. I am no longer a slave.

The reality is Women’s Liberation means Men’s Liberation. Let them go their fukking way. Let them be single moms. Let them work the stupid jobs that this economy is producing in those Femcentric companies.

Better Obama is their husband than me. And you. The monetary price you would pay is worth the freedom that you will get.

Stop fighting it and see it for what it is."
 
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Yeah man, it's pathetic. These older folks want to live their second and third childhood. It's crazy how I see people 40+ act. They have a very teenagerish vibe about them. Honestly man, I think I'm getting out of America, hopefully by next year.

yeah it a sad sight seeing 40 year old guys dressing young :snoop:
 

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Exactly. Instead of teaching these girls to become daddy's little princess or some such nonsense, teach them to be dignified classy women of God. Teach them to respect others and that their sexuality DOES have value. The less you give it away and the more exclusive you keep it, the higher quality of attention you will attract. If I have a daughter, I'd like for anyone who dealt with her be able to say, "Your dad raised you right. I really respect you." Instead of, "Where was yo daddy at lol."

The problem these days is we got this extra weak, suckafied attitude prevalent. Dads don't even want to be dads anymore. They are letting their daughters bring in these negroes to their homes and chill in their rooms, talking about well its better she do it here than out on them streets. Back in the day, you tried to do that, momma and daddy would tan her hide, that dude would either get beat up or shot by dad or brother and the daughter was taught to respect the family's honor or else. Nowadays, you got moms teaching their daughters how to pop their booties and even going to the club and getting piercings with them. It's a real problem man.

I be thinking the same shyt about my girl :wow:

However it just so happens that last night she remarked that her daddy treats her like a princess (and taught her never to ask or depend on men for anything) and Nigerians usually treat girlfriends the same ways so she aint used to nikkas like me. This, because i didnt offer to pay for her and her friends subway :beli:. :smh: She doesnt want to ask but wants me to take initiative. She be treating me so good so I hear her :whoo:...but why must girls always forget when you do take initiative and pull out a one two instance you didnt. :why: I aint paying for your / your friends dinner everytime I'm out with you. Nah . Had to talk to her on some shyt. Never compare me to the status quo, an ex or expect me to live in your fathers footsteps when I aint even half his age or in his tax bracket... fukk you think this is ?:stopitslime:
 

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Yeah man it's great to establish boundaries early. One of those 'tests'. If you said okey doke it would have escalated from there.
 

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Exactly. Instead of teaching these girls to become daddy's little princess or some such nonsense, teach them to be dignified classy women of God. Teach them to respect others and that their sexuality DOES have value. The less you give it away and the more exclusive you keep it, the higher quality of attention you will attract. If I have a daughter, I'd like for anyone who dealt with her be able to say, "Your dad raised you right. I really respect you." Instead of, "Where was yo daddy at lol."

The problem these days is we got this extra weak, suckafied attitude prevalent. Dads don't even want to be dads anymore. They are letting their daughters bring in these negroes to their homes and chill in their rooms, talking about well its better she do it here than out on them streets. Back in the day, you tried to do that, momma and daddy would tan her hide, that dude would either get beat up or shot by dad or brother and the daughter was taught to respect the family's honor or else. Nowadays, you got moms teaching their daughters how to pop their booties and even going to the club and getting piercings with them. It's a real problem man.

this is true
the funny thing is that women throw away their most prize possession for free.

When i was out sleeping around before i changed, it took literally nothing i didn't ask didn't even make the first move it opened my eyes, i remember when i changed my ways and decided to become celibate chicks literally got offended that i wouldn't sleep with them:troll:

majority women of today are unwifeable they call each other b*tches, embrace showing their cleavage and booty, up in the club, sleeping around, carrying stds, embracing being a whore

no thanks
 
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I understand your guys point about daddy little girls.....BUT as a father of beautiful 7 yr old..i have to disagree..

You have to establish a little girl self esteem. While I tell my daughter often that she is beautiful, I also tell her she is smart. You have to establish that first! One of the reasons so many women act they way they do is because of self esteem issues. Its not entitlement*ts establish a little girl, which is already fragile, self esteem.
 

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It's one thing to give your daughter self-esteem and tell her she's intelligent. It's a whole different ball game when you turn her into daddy's little princess and allow her to manipulate you into getting her whatever she wants and never holding her accountable for any of her actions. Daughters who can manipulate their fathers into getting their way will take that and do the exact same thing to men they start dealing with. People who are never held accountable for their actions start to do some pretty nasty things to other people when they grow up as well. We're not speaking on giving your daughter reasonable self-esteem, but rather allowing her to believe the world is owed to her.
 
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