Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

Honestly breh i posted a post a while back about maybe calling it a wrap. I havent wanted to date in two years. I just havent had the urge to. I hope to try to get back in the swing of things around may thoe. Ive really just been working and developing my hobhies (music production, photography) . I know were you coming from. Stability is going to be difficult to find in this generation. Im 31 like i told my grandmother if i get married coo...if not i have a plan besides getting my accounting degree. That plan is to come up with a way to help men understand masculinity and what it means to be a man to the fullest. Before i do all that thoe im start back at the foundation of myself as a man ...i wanna feel like ive done everything i could to reach my potenial as a man and helping men understand masculinity in the society we live today would be a good place to start. I believe if men get in line the rest of society will have to get in line. I said to myself i got about 3yrs left of this "dealing with women possibly trying to find a wife" im 31 now sooo...jesus take the wheel...lol

Lol I feel ya bruh,Im developing my gifts as well,also doing what makes me happy.Its about peace of mind moreso thdn anything.Cats let women dictate their happiness.Btothas out here sleeping with everything when you should only focus on you,spirituality happiness.The right woman will come and if she dont life moves on.Dont get me wrong a beautiful woman (inside and out) is a joy to be around but if she isnt helping you,thrn your better off by yourself.The men masculinity is a thread in itself however I feel we let conquering women as a definition of that.If we put more energy towards ourselves,gifts and uplifting a community we would be in pretty good shape.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Lol I feel ya bruh,Im developing my gifts as well,also doing what makes me happy.Its about peace of mind moreso thdn anything.Cats let women dictate their happiness.Btothas out here sleeping with everything when you should only focus on you,spirituality happiness.The right woman will come and if she dont life moves on.Dont get me wrong a beautiful woman (inside and out) is a joy to be around but if she isnt helping you,thrn your better off by yourself.The men masculinity is a thread in itself however I feel we let conquering women as a definition of that.If we put more energy towards ourselves,gifts and uplifting a community we would be in pretty good shape.

When i start working on writing about masculinity...im not going to even deal with women . I want mean to godd inside and out first. Then i will get to women and how you really should go about them. I gotta work on my own kinks first thoe.

 

[kevm3]

I haven't been posting in here much mainly because I've been focusing on other things. You realize as you get older that all of the investment you put into women can disappear in the blink of an eye. You put in all of that effort, you got her attention, then for whatever reason she gets bored and disappears. All of that work for nothing.

Put your time into things that actually will give you a return on investment. I've been focusing on my programming skills and will make a lot more money than I've made previously. Increase your relationship with God,Get your career skills up, enjoy your hobbies, enjoy friends, etc. Too much to enjoy to life to have your happiness tethered to a western woman who will be the supposed love of your life for a couple of weeks or months and then mysteriously disappear for no apparent reason. When you have your things together, it's a lot easier to get the attention of women. Don't chase them. Put yourself in a position where they chase you.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

When i start working on writing about masculinity...im not going to even deal with women . I want mean to godd inside and out first. Then i will get to women and how you really should go about them. I gotta work on my own kinks first thoe.

I feel ya gotta work on ya self before you can work a relationship.

 

[Mainevent_7]

I respect your resolve. If cheating is involved then there's really no point to stay in the relationship. The trust is gone, your minds will always wander, it just adds too much stress. You need to join that bachelor life and try to process why you've remained in what seems like a somewhat unhealthy relationship. Enjoy that trip, and focus on yourself for a while. How old are you?

24

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Let me tell y'all, mane. If she's not responding to your texts on a Friday AND Saturday, she's clearly has her interests set somewhere else. It's no coincidence. Fridays and Saturdays = Get loose days for either gender. I judge women by their interest level. If she's not trying to spend those days with you, they're being spent with another nikka. Don't fall for all that "I was asleep" shyt. That's how nikkaz get played.

 

[LezJepzin]

This is to my older brehs or some younger brehs do any of you cats ever get tired of dating?I know game is changing as we get older (online,shorter attention spans) but do you get to the point where your just tired of the whole show (fresh cut,new clothes,always in gym,getting the # etc.. Is this normal.Im not saying settle down with ya wifey or anything.Im just saying the point where you want stability

Honestly breh i posted a post a while back about maybe calling it a wrap. I havent wanted to date in two years. I just havent had the urge to. I hope to try to get back in the swing of things around may thoe. Ive really just been working and developing my hobhies (music production, photography) . I know were you coming from. Stability is going to be difficult to find in this generation. Im 31 like i told my grandmother if i get married coo...if not i have a plan besides getting my accounting degree. That plan is to come up with a way to help men understand masculinity and what it means to be a man to the fullest. Before i do all that thoe im start back at the foundation of myself as a man ...i wanna feel like ive done everything i could to reach my potenial as a man and helping men understand masculinity in the society we live today would be a good place to start. I believe if men get in line the rest of society will have to get in line. I said to myself i got about 3yrs left of this "dealing with women possibly trying to find a wife" im 31 now sooo...jesus take the wheel...lol

This is me




However, I'm at three years later being 34.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This is me




However, I'm at three years later being 34.

Older you get more you feel like this

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Hell, I guess I'm guilty of this same thing sometimes. I had a good time because I look at interacting with new women as just a game now, but I would have been pretty disappointed if I was actually looking for anything significant.

Only way to look at it if you want to maintain your sanity.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Let me tell y'all, mane. If she's not responding to your texts on a Friday AND Saturday, she's clearly has her interests set somewhere else. It's no coincidence. Fridays and Saturdays = Get loose days for either gender. I judge women by their interest level. If she's not trying to spend those days with you, they're being spent with another nikka. Don't fall for all that "I was asleep" shyt. That's how nikkaz get played.

Like yesterday, the nurse woman, she was working and she finished her patients and had to do the paper work and email the doctor. To test her interest and resolve I'm like you can do that at my house just come over. At first she is like no and then 5 mins later I get a call saying I'm on my way. Less than 15 mins not only she was over, she finished her work and treated me to Cheesecake Factory. So heed this gentlemen. Men women, people in general will make time for what and who they want. If they don't give you the time: split.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

To me, I was once like that. Giving up and just dating around. The game is tired now. Social meds has made it difficult to find a stand up woman. Before women used to have to compete or fight for a mans attention. Now it's a pic of her thighs. Some cleavage. Shot of her in panties and she gets the attention from men across the world. Social media is going to kill relationships, personal interactions and oddly enough, social skills. People don't even talk no more.

 

[Solano707]

Sohh... I had my date with the chick that is 5'9 very thick big t*ts and ass... and I'm 5'5 160lbs soak and wet

We met off tinder, pretty chill person when we text. Long story short, she's pawg/bbw status, 36 years old, and by that - she looks her age. I would say she is a strong 7 weak 8 out of a score of 10. Very VARY fukkable though She has big BIG ASS TIDDIES!!!!!!!!!! Like a DD or an E (maybe even bigger)

So anyways, we meet up in by her city, a good hour and 15 minutes me So i text her and said that I just to to the restaurant. She was already there waiting on me. Good thing is, she looks just like her Tinder profile pic, so not bad. I sit down across from her and I can already tell she is way taller than me The restaurant is all white people in there save one other interracial couple, an older sister having dinner with a white boy. He scooped him one. Anyways... back to her and I

So we talk small talk and everything picked up as usual, nothing strange and nothing out of the ordinary. I exhibited a lot of confidence because I didn't want my size to make me a handicap in the situation. She don't know who she fukking with at this point. So we order our food and I picked up the tab, no issues. I will say that she held the best convo that I had with any female in a good while. Very intelligent, considerate and down to earth. There was a thread earlier about this facebook simpe talking about paying her groceries and babsitter if you want to take her out. The date I was on had to get a babysitter. So I was going to test the waters on this one:

Me: Hey, since you are with me, let me pick up the baby sitter tab too
Her: ....
Her: Thanks, but it's okay. I want to be with you and its not even an issue. Plus, your cute
Me:
Me: (Me thinknig to myself "She passed the test" )

Me: Alright, cool. No worries then.

The whole time I'm looking at her breast because she was wearing a low cut shirt and I'm like
I mean her tiddy meats were exquisite, just milky white goodness, i'd be lying if I didn't want to rip her top off and suck all over em'.

Anyways, we eat drink and talk and laugh, we have very good chemistry. So, I suggested we go bowling and she was down for that. So we get up and mind you she was a few inches taller than me. Again, I'm 5'5 and she's 5'9

So we both look at each other and I was thinking in my head "I'm gonna tackle this bytch"

Me: You should have worn high heels baby girl

Her: ... You serious?

Me: Damn straight (i start to laugh)

Her: Wow, you really are nutsand confident

So I walk her to her car and we both leave to go to the bowling alley.

So we get, I buy use a few alcohol drinks of a variety kind just to taste test. We grab our shoes and the guy at the counter says lane 33. Now, we are in Lexington, SC - nothing BUT CACS everywhere!!!!!!!!!

So we walk to our lane and we are sandwhiched in between two parties of George W. Bush and Donald Trump Fans, I'm pretty sure they had their white hoods somewhere. So I'm like I may have to scrap my way out of here, maybe even lynched because I'm with this big titty big ass'd pawg.

So, I didn't sweat it. We sit down and I start pluggin away that the bowling machine and I put our names down. The guy next to me, is straight up KKK and he's lookin at me like
Me; What's up breh?
Him: He gets up and leaves.

Her and I bowl for the rest of the night, laughing and having a good time The people between us are looking at her like

She kicked my ass, 4-1. I only won 1 game and that was the only game i cracked over a hunned with

So we get done because her hand started to hurt. We go up to the booths and order more drinks. As we are walking past the conession stands, all these nikkas started to come in looking my girl like
All these brehs are bigger than me too, like 6'1 and shyt so I'm like Now I think I have to fight with brehs. So as we approach the session stand, the group was in our way. I didn't say anything, but one of the other breh's was telling his friend to move out the way and grabbed him by the army to make room for me and my girl to get through. nikkas split like it was the red sea. They was cool, so no beef.

We get our drinks and talk the rest of the night, baby girl was all rubbing my hands and shyt as we were talking she legitimately was feeling ya boy. We talked about family, her life here, past relationships, my current relationship with my ex-wife (that'll be a new thread coming soon on the L's I took from that bytch).

We left the bowing alley when last call was done. I walk her to her car and we hugged.
Her: God, you smell so good What is it?
Me: I don't remember what I used lol

We part ways. On my way home, she texts me "Call me so that I know you made it safe back home".
Me:

I get home and do just that. We talked for like a minute or so and called it a night on the phone. It was around 230AM.

I received a text from her this morning saying

Her "I had such an awesome time with you. You want to do karaoke with me soon?" You know, most people put on a front when they date online and when you meet them in person they are totally different. You weren't like that and I can tell you are a real down to earth man.

Me: yeah, but I need to get something to drink first before i embarass myself. Thanks for the compliment. I'm just a low key kind of guy. No reason being fake.

Her: oh yeah, that is gonna happen for sure i'm gonna take the weekend off so "we" can sleep off the hangover

Me; "We"

her: yes, you ain't driving home drunk
Me: Okay, I'm down with that. You mind if I take a shower over there?

Her:

Overall guys, it was a great night. She's not the first time I had a dated someone taller, last chick was 5'7 that was wearing platform wedges

 

[Swing]

@Blaxican707

 

[NeilCartwright]

Sohh... I had my date with the chick that is 5'9 very thick big t*ts and ass... and I'm 5'5 160lbs soak and wet

We met off tinder, pretty chill person when we text. Long story short, she's pawg/bbw status, 36 years old, and by that - she looks her age. I would say she is a strong 7 weak 8 out of a score of 10. Very VARY fukkable though She has big BIG ASS TIDDIES!!!!!!!!!! Like a DD or an E (maybe even bigger)

So anyways, we meet up in by her city, a good hour and 15 minutes me So i text her and said that I just to to the restaurant. She was already there waiting on me. Good thing is, she looks just like her Tinder profile pic, so not bad. I sit down across from her and I can already tell she is way taller than me The restaurant is all white people in there save one other interracial couple, an older sister having dinner with a white boy. He scooped him one. Anyways... back to her and I

So we talk small talk and everything picked up as usual, nothing strange and nothing out of the ordinary. I exhibited a lot of confidence because I didn't want my size to make me a handicap in the situation. She don't know who she fukking with at this point. So we order our food and I picked up the tab, no issues. I will say that she held the best convo that I had with any female in a good while. Very intelligent, considerate and down to earth. There was a thread earlier about this facebook simpe talking about paying her groceries and babsitter if you want to take her out. The date I was on had to get a babysitter. So I was going to test the waters on this one:

Me: Hey, since you are with me, let me pick up the baby sitter tab too
Her: ....
Her: Thanks, but it's okay. I want to be with you and its not even an issue. Plus, your cute
Me:
Me: (Me thinknig to myself "She passed the test" )

Me: Alright, cool. No worries then.

The whole time I'm looking at her breast because she was wearing a low cut shirt and I'm like
I mean her tiddy meats were exquisite, just milky white goodness, i'd be lying if I didn't want to rip her top off and suck all over em'.

Anyways, we eat drink and talk and laugh, we have very good chemistry. So, I suggested we go bowling and she was down for that. So we get up and mind you she was a few inches taller than me. Again, I'm 5'5 and she's 5'9

So we both look at each other and I was thinking in my head "I'm gonna tackle this bytch"

Me: You should have worn high heels baby girl

Her: ... You serious?

Me: Damn straight (i start to laugh)

Her: Wow, you really are nutsand confident

So I walk her to her car and we both leave to go to the bowling alley.

So we get, I buy use a few alcohol drinks of a variety kind just to taste test. We grab our shoes and the guy at the counter says lane 33. Now, we are in Lexington, SC - nothing BUT CACS everywhere!!!!!!!!!

So we walk to our lane and we are sandwhiched in between two parties of George W. Bush and Donald Trump Fans, I'm pretty sure they had their white hoods somewhere. So I'm like I may have to scrap my way out of here, maybe even lynched because I'm with this big titty big ass'd pawg.

So, I didn't sweat it. We sit down and I start pluggin away that the bowling machine and I put our names down. The guy next to me, is straight up KKK and he's lookin at me like
Me; What's up breh?
Him: He gets up and leaves.

Her and I bowl for the rest of the night, laughing and having a good time The people between us are looking at her like

She kicked my ass, 4-1. I only won 1 game and that was the only game i cracked over a hunned with

So we get done because her hand started to hurt. We go up to the booths and order more drinks. As we are walking past the conession stands, all these nikkas started to come in looking my girl like
All these brehs are bigger than me too, like 6'1 and shyt so I'm like Now I think I have to fight with brehs. So as we approach the session stand, the group was in our way. I didn't say anything, but one of the other breh's was telling his friend to move out the way and grabbed him by the army to make room for me and my girl to get through. nikkas split like it was the red sea. They was cool, so no beef.

We get our drinks and talk the rest of the night, baby girl was all rubbing my hands and shyt as we were talking she legitimately was feeling ya boy. We talked about family, her life here, past relationships, my current relationship with my ex-wife (that'll be a new thread coming soon on the L's I took from that bytch).

We left the bowing alley when last call was done. I walk her to her car and we hugged.
Her: God, you smell so good What is it?
Me: I don't remember what I used lol

We part ways. On my way home, she texts me "Call me so that I know you made it safe back home".
Me:

I get home and do just that. We talked for like a minute or so and called it a night on the phone. It was around 230AM.

I received a text from her this morning saying

Her "I had such an awesome time with you. You want to do karaoke with me soon?" You know, most people put on a front when they date online and when you meet them in person they are totally different. You weren't like that and I can tell you are a real down to earth man.

Me: yeah, but I need to get something to drink first before i embarass myself. Thanks for the compliment. I'm just a low key kind of guy. No reason being fake.

Her: oh yeah, that is gonna happen for sure i'm gonna take the weekend off so "we" can sleep off the hangover

Me; "We"

her: yes, you ain't driving home drunk
Me: Okay, I'm down with that. You mind if I take a shower over there?

Her:

Overall guys, it was a great night. She's not the first time I had a dated someone taller, last chick was 5'7 that was wearing platform wedges

Story was funny as hell
Glad it went well

 

[Ohene]

Sohh... I had my date with the chick that is 5'9 very thick big t*ts and ass... and I'm 5'5 160lbs soak and wet

We met off tinder, pretty chill person when we text. Long story short, she's pawg/bbw status, 36 years old, and by that - she looks her age. I would say she is a strong 7 weak 8 out of a score of 10. Very VARY fukkable though She has big BIG ASS TIDDIES!!!!!!!!!! Like a DD or an E (maybe even bigger)

So anyways, we meet up in by her city, a good hour and 15 minutes me So i text her and said that I just to to the restaurant. She was already there waiting on me. Good thing is, she looks just like her Tinder profile pic, so not bad. I sit down across from her and I can already tell she is way taller than me The restaurant is all white people in there save one other interracial couple, an older sister having dinner with a white boy. He scooped him one. Anyways... back to her and I

So we talk small talk and everything picked up as usual, nothing strange and nothing out of the ordinary. I exhibited a lot of confidence because I didn't want my size to make me a handicap in the situation. She don't know who she fukking with at this point. So we order our food and I picked up the tab, no issues. I will say that she held the best convo that I had with any female in a good while. Very intelligent, considerate and down to earth. There was a thread earlier about this facebook simpe talking about paying her groceries and babsitter if you want to take her out. The date I was on had to get a babysitter. So I was going to test the waters on this one:

Me: Hey, since you are with me, let me pick up the baby sitter tab too
Her: ....
Her: Thanks, but it's okay. I want to be with you and its not even an issue. Plus, your cute
Me:
Me: (Me thinknig to myself "She passed the test" )

Me: Alright, cool. No worries then.

The whole time I'm looking at her breast because she was wearing a low cut shirt and I'm like
I mean her tiddy meats were exquisite, just milky white goodness, i'd be lying if I didn't want to rip her top off and suck all over em'.

Anyways, we eat drink and talk and laugh, we have very good chemistry. So, I suggested we go bowling and she was down for that. So we get up and mind you she was a few inches taller than me. Again, I'm 5'5 and she's 5'9

So we both look at each other and I was thinking in my head "I'm gonna tackle this bytch"

Me: You should have worn high heels baby girl

Her: ... You serious?

Me: Damn straight (i start to laugh)

Her: Wow, you really are nutsand confident

So I walk her to her car and we both leave to go to the bowling alley.

So we get, I buy use a few alcohol drinks of a variety kind just to taste test. We grab our shoes and the guy at the counter says lane 33. Now, we are in Lexington, SC - nothing BUT CACS everywhere!!!!!!!!!

So we walk to our lane and we are sandwhiched in between two parties of George W. Bush and Donald Trump Fans, I'm pretty sure they had their white hoods somewhere. So I'm like I may have to scrap my way out of here, maybe even lynched because I'm with this big titty big ass'd pawg.

So, I didn't sweat it. We sit down and I start pluggin away that the bowling machine and I put our names down. The guy next to me, is straight up KKK and he's lookin at me like
Me; What's up breh?
Him: He gets up and leaves.

Her and I bowl for the rest of the night, laughing and having a good time The people between us are looking at her like

She kicked my ass, 4-1. I only won 1 game and that was the only game i cracked over a hunned with

So we get done because her hand started to hurt. We go up to the booths and order more drinks. As we are walking past the conession stands, all these nikkas started to come in looking my girl like
All these brehs are bigger than me too, like 6'1 and shyt so I'm like Now I think I have to fight with brehs. So as we approach the session stand, the group was in our way. I didn't say anything, but one of the other breh's was telling his friend to move out the way and grabbed him by the army to make room for me and my girl to get through. nikkas split like it was the red sea. They was cool, so no beef.

We get our drinks and talk the rest of the night, baby girl was all rubbing my hands and shyt as we were talking she legitimately was feeling ya boy. We talked about family, her life here, past relationships, my current relationship with my ex-wife (that'll be a new thread coming soon on the L's I took from that bytch).

We left the bowing alley when last call was done. I walk her to her car and we hugged.
Her: God, you smell so good What is it?
Me: I don't remember what I used lol

We part ways. On my way home, she texts me "Call me so that I know you made it safe back home".
Me:

I get home and do just that. We talked for like a minute or so and called it a night on the phone. It was around 230AM.

I received a text from her this morning saying

Her "I had such an awesome time with you. You want to do karaoke with me soon?" You know, most people put on a front when they date online and when you meet them in person they are totally different. You weren't like that and I can tell you are a real down to earth man.

Me: yeah, but I need to get something to drink first before i embarass myself. Thanks for the compliment. I'm just a low key kind of guy. No reason being fake.

Her: oh yeah, that is gonna happen for sure i'm gonna take the weekend off so "we" can sleep off the hangover

Me; "We"

her: yes, you ain't driving home drunk
Me: Okay, I'm down with that. You mind if I take a shower over there?

Her:

Overall guys, it was a great night. She's not the first time I had a dated someone taller, last chick was 5'7 that was wearing platform wedges

that high heels line was 10/10

motherfukkiin salute hahaha