Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Throwbacksample]

Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.

How old are yall?

 

[Deathstroke]

Should I come clean to this chick about me overdoing things to impress her and to get rid of this player's persona I kinda have so she could trust me. She's a good chick but I feel like I've been overdoing things to get her and it's slowly pushing her away. I feel like coming clean might help me get back to being chilled? I did a few stupid things like saying I would take her out, big plans but didn't come through on them because I was busy.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

How old are yall?

I'm 31, shes 30

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

i was talking to one of the female receptionist where i work today. sh1t kinda got me feeling all types of ways at how bad i've fuccked up in the past.

girl is very young. shes 22. her man is 21. she said dude broke up with her a couple of weeks ago when he found text messages from a guy friend from her past. it was just 3 texts back and forth between her and the friend. and when her man found out, he didn't like it at all and he broke up with her. she said she couldn't believe it. she said she "begged him" for days and he didn't talk to her. the trip they were going to go on, she said he told her he doesn't want her coming along anymore. she begged and finally, dude gave in and on the day of the trip, told her, she can come.

so while at the destination, he was a complete dikk to her. for 2 days, she said she kept begging him and was getting frustrated because he was just very short with her to the point where she started thinking, why did i even come on this trip. but after 2 days, he started being nice to her again. and told her, if i hadn't been as harsh as i was to you, u would do it again. i wanted u to understand i dont tolerate all that "guy friend" bs. she said after they made up, she deleted her facebook, got rid of all of her social media except for the ones he approved of. she even give him her password to everything...and she has his too.

i heard her tell me all this and i was just like "wow" in my head. back at 21, i was pusssy whipped and i would have quickly forgiven any chick as long as i liked her. and here was this 21 year old kid who got the game on lock. lesson to be learned. i did tell her i agree with him. u have no business having guy friends. none. he's correct to be mad.

if ur girl is giving u sh1t about ur discomfort concerning her male friends, u need to cut her off asap. it will only lead to nothing but problems for you.

another situation from several years ago. a coworker of mine got in touch with an ex girlfriend of his on myspace. found her myspace page. sent her a message. she responded back saying she was happy to hear from him. they messaged back and forth for a day or two. till she out of no where responds back to him and says her husband does not approve of her talking to him. and she will be respecting his wishes and therefore will no longer be talking to him. he read her message to me and in my head i was just impressed that women like this exist.

so again, know who u are and what u stand for. anyone that challenges your core needs to be bushed. if u r uncomfortable with anything ur girl is doing, u need to address that asap and make sure there are consequences. worst thing, she walks out of ur life...in which case, she'd be doing u a favor. a huge favor. trust.

Pretty impressive. I try not to think about how I was like back then because I was doing some really embarrasing, stupid things. Arguably I still am. I will reach y'alls level though.

 

[Throwbacksample]

I'm 31, shes 30

makes sense...women want to get married by that age especially if their friends are getting married/already married. A woman can be in an unhappy home but will want that ring. Woman will go through more sh*t than Frodo to get a ring

 

[NoChillJones]

I'm 31, shes 30

By moving in you give her the leverage. To make the demands of the relationship. Let her know that you wont be given any ultimatums and thst she should respect that. Especially a year into it.

 

[Easy-E]

No job, no prospects, male "friends" & threats?

Man, I complain about the single life, but, damn...

 

[Atlrocafella]

Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.

I'm glad we don't even have to tell you that she needs a first class ticket to the bushes. The nerve of that woman to be making demand like that while her financial house is in disarray. Why would anyone in their right mind want to take on that problem??

 

[International Playa]

Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.

Dont move in bruhhhh

She got no job, guess who is gonna be paying ALL the billls. YOU!!!


Bruh you need a girl who is financially savvy especially these days. Broke up with a girlfriend 2 months ago, who had expensive tastes, liked being "treated". I have already saved $1500 in those two months. I didnt notice how much she been draining my pockets till after the relationship.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Dont move in bruhhhh

She got no job, guess who is gonna be paying ALL the billls. YOU!!!


Bruh you need a girl who is financially savvy especially these days. Broke up with a girlfriend 2 months ago, who had expensive tastes, liked being "treated". I have already saved $1500 in those two months. I didnt notice how much she been draining my pockets till after the relationship.

Bruh I don't deal with any broke chick and it's always the broke ones thinking they deserve everything

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Dont move in bruhhhh

She got no job, guess who is gonna be paying ALL the billls. YOU!!!


Bruh you need a girl who is financially savvy especially these days. Broke up with a girlfriend 2 months ago, who had expensive tastes, liked being "treated". I have already saved $1500 in those two months. I didnt notice how much she been draining my pockets till after the relationship.

Depending on the type of ppl you hang around with, it is so easy for your pockets to get drained. I used to laugh at the ppl who'd go in debt buying presents for hoes, taking them on vacations and expensive restaurants etc, but after my pockets started draining super quikk the last couple of months while hanging out with certain ppl, I totally understand. It just doesn't go for girls, make sure EVERYBODY you hang around with is financially savvy. peer pressure is powerful brehs, you will find yourself emulating your friends self-destructive habits in no time.

 

[MikelArteta]

Props to that breh there is no such thing as make friends.

My mom doesn't have any, my sister doesn't , my grandma don't.

i was talking to one of the female receptionist where i work today. sh1t kinda got me feeling all types of ways at how bad i've fuccked up in the past.

girl is very young. shes 22. her man is 21. she said dude broke up with her a couple of weeks ago when he found text messages from a guy friend from her past. it was just 3 texts back and forth between her and the friend. and when her man found out, he didn't like it at all and he broke up with her. she said she couldn't believe it. she said she "begged him" for days and he didn't talk to her. the trip they were going to go on, she said he told her he doesn't want her coming along anymore. she begged and finally, dude gave in and on the day of the trip, told her, she can come.

so while at the destination, he was a complete dikk to her. for 2 days, she said she kept begging him and was getting frustrated because he was just very short with her to the point where she started thinking, why did i even come on this trip. but after 2 days, he started being nice to her again. and told her, if i hadn't been as harsh as i was to you, u would do it again. i wanted u to understand i dont tolerate all that "guy friend" bs. she said after they made up, she deleted her facebook, got rid of all of her social media except for the ones he approved of. she even give him her password to everything...and she has his too.

i heard her tell me all this and i was just like "wow" in my head. back at 21, i was pusssy whipped and i would have quickly forgiven any chick as long as i liked her. and here was this 21 year old kid who got the game on lock. lesson to be learned. i did tell her i agree with him. u have no business having guy friends. none. he's correct to be mad.

if ur girl is giving u sh1t about ur discomfort concerning her male friends, u need to cut her off asap. it will only lead to nothing but problems for you.

another situation from several years ago. a coworker of mine got in touch with an ex girlfriend of his on myspace. found her myspace page. sent her a message. she responded back saying she was happy to hear from him. they messaged back and forth for a day or two. till she out of no where responds back to him and says her husband does not approve of her talking to him. and she will be respecting his wishes and therefore will no longer be talking to him. he read her message to me and in my head i was just impressed that women like this exist.

so again, know who u are and what u stand for. anyone that challenges your core needs to be bushed. if u r uncomfortable with anything ur girl is doing, u need to address that asap and make sure there are consequences. worst thing, she walks out of ur life...in which case, she'd be doing u a favor. a huge favor. trust.

 

[Lo-Co]

Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.

You know what to do

 

[IVS]

I think it is bruh....

Man I know it is. I go to school at night as she been FaceTiming this dude whenever I'm not home....I asked her about it and she say....that's just my friend....

I ask her why she never FaceTime while I'm home and she say he works during the day and the only time we can FaceTime is at night....

I tell her....stop talking to dude, period.

She say aight....but she still talking to dude...

Found out that this dude is her ex-boyfriend from like 10 years ago.....

Been there before with my EX. Throw her ass to the bushes.

 

[Solano707]

Damn brehski, shyt got me upset for you. Sad to say, but that's why I always tell these women I will never trust them completely. Never let your guard down, even in marriage, these chicks willing to throw it all away for a new feeling.

Never let these women get comfortable with you. I got a main and I let her know early on that you can be replaced at a moments notice, play that petty shyt with me if you want , and I keep the roster in rotation for moments like this.

@CaughtInTWebb breh you need to dumb that hoe NOW! She has lost all respect for you already. Ain't no stopping that bullet anymore. She talking to another nikka behind your back take it from me, I've been - wife was facetime, seeing that nikka at odd times and shyt, it tore me up homes. But on the real, save yourself the heart ache, stress and the torture and just dump her. Tell her exactly how it is: "you ain't shyt but a liar and cheater". And if another fukk nikka wanna date a woman that is already in the relationship, then it's doomed to fail.

Serious man, do it. She don't wanna be saved breh