Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Um she just psychologically enslaved u. Now ur gonna be putting urself thru bs to keep her attention? What is she bringing to the table that warrants this type of chase? U shoulda told her the same. I wanna see how knowledgeable u are about different topics. That'll put HER On the defense



ANY women who says " I need a man that can keep my attention" is a basic bytch. If you smash a women who says this bushes after you smash. PERIOD. I meant to say something about that comment earlier.
 
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What do you do when you tell a girl lets smash (I didn't say it that bluntly) and she tells you "Haha...not right now"? I just played it cool and told her I feel you and to lemme know.

What can you decipher from that message?
 

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What do you do when you tell a girl lets smash (I didn't say it that bluntly) and she tells you "Haha...not right now"? I just played it cool and told her I feel you and to lemme know.

What can you decipher from that message?

She's putting you on ice right now - so in the mean time, play ball with other females. And don't make yourself totally available to her when she calls, she will expect for you to drop everything at the drop of a hat to see her. You don't want that type of look. She calls and you come running seems like you desperate as fukk. Don't be that guy
 

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She's putting you on ice right now - so in the mean time, play ball with other females. And don't make yourself totally available to her when she calls, she will expect for you to drop everything at the drop of a hat to see her. You don't want that type of look. She calls and you come running seems like you desperate as fukk. Don't be that guy

I feel you. I tried to sound as chill as possible in my response. Instead of questioning "why not right now?" I just told her "Alright I feel. Lemme know" to show her that I don't need her box. Time to play the waiting game and hit up other girls. Appreciate it.
 

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The average jumpoff allows 3-5 good smashes before she start gettin "ideas"

I got this broad that i smashed 4 time already , she doesnt show any sign of liking me and doesnt show any feeling unless when we fukk and when we cuddle

What kind of chick u think she is ?
 

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What are some other immediate ways a man can improve his success with women?

I'm in the process of trying to improve myself. my list of things to do is....

(a) get a colon hydrotheraphy (internal system is very important to overall health)
(b) start losing weight
(c) after losing weight, start the process of building muscle
(d) upgrade my shoes (only got 1 pair of casual shoes, 1 pair of boots, 3 pairs of dress shoes)
(e) start in April and start doing some limited cold approaches
(f) resume applying for better jobs

Many of the things on my list have to do with physical my appearance, and our more long term changes(meaning they won't happen overnight).

Anything else you guys would suggest?

I hate that change takes time, and self improvement is a journey and not a destination. It's hard to be patient at time smh.
 
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I sent this one chick a text about the state of our relationship and how I aint with me having to do everything . She hasn't replied since morning lool. I know the last time I texted her before, she didnt get my messages on her phone. Should I fb her and ask her if she got it or just leave it at that? It seems weird cause she usually does reply...
 

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I sent this one chick a text about the state of our relationship and how I aint with me having to do everything . She hasn't replied since morning lool. I know the last time I texted her before, she didnt get my messages on her phone. Should I fb her and ask her if she got it or just leave it at that? It seems weird cause she usually does reply...

Hell naw, leave that shyt alone. you already told her, she seen it. don't play yourself
 

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I got this broad that i smashed 4 time already , she doesnt show any sign of liking me and doesnt show any feeling unless when we fukk and when we cuddle

What kind of chick u think she is ?
Who knows I dunno the chick. If it were me I'd ride out the wave :dame: if she good I'm great
 

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What are some other immediate ways a man can improve his success with women?

I'm in the process of trying to improve myself. my list of things to do is....

(a) get a colon hydrotheraphy (internal system is very important to overall health)
(b) start losing weight
(c) after losing weight, start the process of building muscle
(d) upgrade my shoes (only got 1 pair of casual shoes, 1 pair of boots, 3 pairs of dress shoes)
(e) start in April and start doing some limited cold approaches
(f) resume applying for better jobs

Many of the things on my list have to do with physical my appearance, and our more long term changes(meaning they won't happen overnight).

Anything else you guys would suggest?

I hate that change takes time, and self improvement is a journey and not a destination. It's hard to be patient at time smh.

you'd be surprised at the types who get women...:pachaha:

I dont put myself "out there"so i dont get as many as i could:manny:

But if you can keep her on her toes emotionally, she's already on board:leostare:

Make em laugh,get them frustrated,treat her like a queen,treat her like she's not needed..

If you can manage to combine these elements into your interactions, she will be infatuated...

And dont even act like you want the p*ssy...Make indirect comments about what you do to the p*ssy with her...When the opportunity arises..

Also..keep your emotions in check
 

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I really hate talking on the phone for long periods of time. Most of the time I'm like this :francis:on the other end. I really don't want to call you everyday to talk about the same shyt from the day before.

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Who knows I dunno the chick. If it were me I'd ride out the wave :dame: if she good I'm great

I need ur help , with all i said
I treat her like a side chick cuz she's also with other guy , so i dnt wanna take the L
but im human , i think i start to catch feeling a lil bit
Until today we have never talk about us
When we meet we talk , joke , fukk and fukk again lol

Now i have a new gf , but i do think abt her more than i think abt my new gf

I was thinking abt making her jealous, i want her to see dat i have a new gf

What do u suggest ?
 
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