Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

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I need ur help , with all i said
I treat her like a side chick cuz she's also with other guy , so i dnt wanna take the L
but im human , i think i start to catch feeling a lil bit
Until today we have never talk about us
When we meet we talk , joke , fukk and fukk again lol

Now i have a new gf , but i do think abt her more than i think abt my new gf

I was thinking abt making her jealous, i want her to see dat i have a new gf

What do u suggest ?

Simply be honest about the situation....And let it go from there..

Be honest even in dishonesty

 

[Urbanmiracle]

you'd be surprised at the types who get women...

I dont put myself "out there"so i dont get as many as i could

But if you can keep her on her toes emotionally, she's already on board

Make em laugh,get them frustrated,treat her like a queen,treat her like she's not needed..

If you can manage to combine these elements into your interactions, she will be infatuated...

And dont even act like you want the p*ssy...Make indirect comments about what you do to the p*ssy with her...When the opportunity arises..

Also..keep your emotions in check

Do I really gotta play mind games with these women? Maybe that why I fail at times because I don't feel like playing into their flip flop emotional madness. A nikka likes you just be I dunno straight up. I guess I feel I shouldn't have be an a$$hole when I'm not really one. I'm just a laid back guy. Most women hate that....

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Do I really gotta play mind games with these women? Maybe that why I fail at times because I don't feel like playing into their flip flop emotional madness. A nikka likes you just be I dunno straight up. I guess I feel I shouldn't have be an a$$hole when I'm not really one. I'm just a laid back guy. Most women hate that....

even if having girls go through an emotional rollercoaster works you simply won't be able to maintain it if that's not your natural personality. like me, i usually start off an a$$hole but then i simp once i feel i "have" her .... which is a bad idea really ... but i'd rather be single than fake my personality for ages ... can't do it.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Agreed. I rather just be with someone who likes me for me. And if there no one out there like that so be it. But I'm not gonna conform to anyone's games because they can't control themselves. Life ain't a Zhane novel.

 

[360dagod]

Do I really gotta play mind games with these women? Maybe that why I fail at times because I don't feel like playing into their flip flop emotional madness. A nikka likes you just be I dunno straight up. I guess I feel I shouldn't have be an a$$hole when I'm not really one. I'm just a laid back guy. Most women hate that....

Im a naturally complicated person who confuses myself and does everything unorthodox so it kinda works in my favor...
But its really about adapting to the climate if you want to play the game..
dosent mean you gotta be an a$$hole as it is developing an edge..

If you cant stimulate a woman mentally either positive or negative, its gonna be alot of trouble..

Its like coaching a player..the best coaches knew when to press buttons and what buttons to press..

Sometimes you gotta tell a bad bytch that the world dosent revolve around her as soon as she steps outta line..

I dont make the rules, im just telling how it goes if you want to play the field...

 

[360dagod]

even if having girls go through an emotional rollercoaster works you simply won't be able to maintain it if that's not your natural personality. like me, i usually start off an a$$hole but then i simp once i feel i "have" her .... which is a bad idea really ... but i'd rather be single than fake my personality for ages ... can't do it.

You can still be you and add to your element...
Its like being a pitcher...
you can add a change up/curveball/splitter etc...

The more you develop as a person, the better it is for you..

 

[DarkHorse23]

you'd be surprised at the types who get women...

I dont put myself "out there"so i dont get as many as i could

But if you can keep her on her toes emotionally, she's already on board

Make em laugh,get them frustrated,treat her like a queen,treat her like she's not needed..

If you can manage to combine these elements into your interactions, she will be infatuated...

And dont even act like you want the p*ssy...Make indirect comments about what you do to the p*ssy with her...When the opportunity arises..

Also..keep your emotions in check

Does that mean i'm not allowed to get angry/pissed off? I find the older i'm getting, the less patience i have for certain antics of women, and more confidence to speak how i feel about it. In the past i'd keep how i felt bottled up, but i'm realizing that's not healthy for me.

 

[Soundbwoy]

What are some other immediate ways a man can improve his success with women?

I'm in the process of trying to improve myself. my list of things to do is....

(a) get a colon hydrotheraphy (internal system is very important to overall health)
(b) start losing weight
(c) after losing weight, start the process of building muscle
(d) upgrade my shoes (only got 1 pair of casual shoes, 1 pair of boots, 3 pairs of dress shoes)
(e) start in April and start doing some limited cold approaches
(f) resume applying for better jobs

Many of the things on my list have to do with physical my appearance, and our more long term changes(meaning they won't happen overnight).

Anything else you guys would suggest?

I hate that change takes time, and self improvement is a journey and not a destination. It's hard to be patient at time smh.

it's a good start, also start going out alone and slowly build up the confidence to walk up to chicks( only those showing signs of interest)

 

[DarkHorse23]

it's a good start, also start going out alone and slowly build up the confidence to walk up to chicks( only those showing signs of interest)[/QUOTE]

i feel like i never get chosen.....

 

[Soundbwoy]

i feel like i never get chosen.....

maybe you are oblivious to them if not continue to improve, volunteer you might meet some cool people in the process just don't become one of those biter mgtow dudes

 

[DarkHorse23]

maybe you are oblivious to them if not continue to improve, volunteer you might meet some cool people in the process just don't become one of those biter mgtow dudes

You mentioned going out alone. Where should i go?

 

[Shameonyou]

i was gonna take a girl out for her bday....only to find out she went to a trip with her friends and her "man" indirectly through someones instagram. Thank GOD for saving me from simpin like a lil bytch ass nikka

 

[360dagod]

Does that mean i'm not allowed to get angry/pissed off? I find the older i'm getting, the less patience i have for certain antics of women, and more confidence to speak how i feel about it. In the past i'd keep how i felt bottled up, but i'm realizing that's not healthy for me.

You can...but everyone is different in terms of how they go about it...

I'm laid back, so i would have to back up with action alot quicker...

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]