I met this female off Tinder 2 weeks ago. First week she was all over me. We went on 2 dates. Made out most of both dates, convo was dope, hitting me up all day. Days later she just goes ghost. Taking forever to respond to texts, went a day and a half of no contact. I'm used to women being flaky and just being full of shyt but it still gets aggravating. She seemed cool and down to earth so I wanted to give her a shot. I might be a bit sensitive bc she isn't my girl but I just have no tolerance for the BS
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I thought I had a date tonight off of tinder... We was suppose to meet up at a cafe and chill. I told herets push it back 30 minutes... She hits me "hey I was just getting ready to text you, something came up. Can we reschedule another day?"
bytch please
, unmatched and hit her with the "lose my number" 
bytch please
, unmatched and hit her with the "lose my number" Exactly
The less I focus on women, the better. A lot of women nowadays are simply too unstable and have suspect character to consider spending too much time worrying about them. For whatever reason, dealing with women is the opposite of making progress in most other fields. In most fields, the more work you put in, the more gains you receive. When it comes to women, the opposite is true. The less you worry about them, sweat them, etc,. the more they seem to gravitate to you for whatever reason.
Women are crazy, last night me n my gal we talked on the phone, everything was all good, ended the phone call on a good note. Today Im just getting one word answers on text messages, like she dont want to be bothered. What the hellllll. Maybe an ex just popped up and she thinking twice.
Date modern day women brehs
Most women have several dudes on rotation. It is what it is, and usually that's where erratic behavior comes from. Her attention is focused elsewhere and she kind of feels like you're a bother. When she gets bored of the other guy and feels you're the thrill of the moment, then she'll be attentive again before her attention trails off and she's talking to some other guy. Not necessarily saying that's the case with your woman, but if she's acting cold for no reason and not making the reasons known, there's a high likelihood that that's what is going on.
DarkHorse23
Banned
Breh what happened to our thread? And Batman begins(the beginning when he's training with the league of shadows) is basically where I feel I'm at. I gotta start from scratch. Like building a nba champion, or Super Bowl champ. You gotta build your foundation, and then get all the pieces together to make a winner. I feel I have to do the same. My game plan is getting a colon Hydrotheraphy( Google) and then starting the process of losing weight, and then build muscle after that( long process, 2-4 years) and also upgrade my shoes. That's the foundation right there. I also need to get refocused my career and what I'm going do. In terms of women, my 90 day no fap ends Mar 30, so come April I'm going to start approaching again( maybe ) and trying to be more social.This may go contrary to what a lot of guys say, but if a woman makes you think or she forces you to play some kind of game in order to deal with her, then DON'T. You can spend all the time in the world learning how to give her an emotional rollercoaster, to play with her emotions and to do all kinds of nonsense, but really, all you are doing is creating an illusion for her and you'll get tired of putting on the show and all of that investment will be pointless when she gets bored of you and decides to move on to the next new guy. The real problem we have is that most guys are clowns and jesters who think they are kings. Women have an endless array of these guys who perform all kinds of stunts to keep her entertained and she just rotates these guys around. When one bores her, she brings the next on. In reality, a woman should be thinking of what she has to do to get with you. Men accept all of these excuses, but if it was some rapper, do you think she would be making excuses? She'd be there pronto. In fact, she'd be giving everyone else excuses. She'd tell her teacher she was sick and her homegirl's she is busy as she rushes to go deal with that guy. Bottom line is women find a way to be around guys they really want to deal with.
Stop the stunts and stop wasting time accepting excuses from women who don't want to be around you. Just boot them and stop letting them keep you around as a back-up or a favor buddy. You simply need to know that you may not be one woman's speed, but you are another woman's flavor. Boot a woman that is wasting your time. You might sit around with that weak mentality like, "Man maybe if I wait it out she'll really start to like me. I might miss out on a gem." Nah, women that like you find a way to spend time with you and treat you respectfully. You're just saying you're low worth by accepting indecent behavior.
Stop the stunts and stop wasting time accepting excuses from women who don't want to be around you. Just boot them and stop letting them keep you around as a back-up or a favor buddy. You simply need to know that you may not be one woman's speed, but you are another woman's flavor. Boot a woman that is wasting your time. You might sit around with that weak mentality like, "Man maybe if I wait it out she'll really start to like me. I might miss out on a gem." Nah, women that like you find a way to spend time with you and treat you respectfully. You're just saying you're low worth by accepting indecent behavior.
I think most men are feeling like that and it's sad because a woman should be a man's partner, but in this day and age they're allowed to engage in such low character activity with no real repercussions that a man would rather avoid most women than have to deal with the drama and unpredictability.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
NeilCartwright
All Star
Well, i had two females toss me to the bushes in a span of 3 days
The first one, we fcked, but apparently i only hit her up when i wanted sex (even though midterms were coming up and i still had to work) so she jus told me shes "re-kindling an old flame"
The second one was cool for a while, came close to fckin but she was on the cycle last weekend..anyway she had the day off earlier this week and wanted to hangout so we grab some ice cream, something light
but i only pay for mine and have her pay for hers (im done tricking, besides i dont have $$ to blow like that
) and since then shes been distant..Both of these happened the week after spring break. I know its part of the game, but damn
fukked up thing about both these situations is i was actually looking for something long term, but oh well
The first one, we fcked, but apparently i only hit her up when i wanted sex (even though midterms were coming up and i still had to work) so she jus told me shes "re-kindling an old flame"The second one was cool for a while, came close to fckin but she was on the cycle last weekend..anyway she had the day off earlier this week and wanted to hangout so we grab some ice cream, something lightbut i only pay for mine and have her pay for hers (im done tricking, besides i dont have $$ to blow like that) and since then shes been distant..Both of these happened the week after spring break. I know its part of the game, but damnfukked up thing about both these situations is i was actually looking for something long term, but oh well
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
No matter how much you anticipate flakiness it will never be easy to deal with. Fundamentally it just indicates a basic lack of respect for your time and attention. Any time I identify this in any one of my "friends" I bush them.
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
What I have always said. It gets tiring. Chasing these types of broads gets so boring and tiring it becomes pointless.