Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Well, i had two females toss me to the bushes in a span of 3 days:trash: The first one, we fcked, but apparently i only hit her up when i wanted sex (even though midterms were coming up and i still had to work) so she jus told me shes "re-kindling an old flame":patrice:The second one was cool for a while, came close to fckin but she was on the cycle last weekend..anyway she had the day off earlier this week and wanted to hangout so we grab some ice cream, something light:ehh:but i only pay for mine and have her pay for hers (im done tricking, besides i dont have $$ to blow like that:manny:) and since then shes been distant..Both of these happened the week after spring break. I know its part of the game, but damn:francis:

fukked up thing about both these situations is i was actually looking for something long term, but oh well:wow:

hilarious :mjlol:

I always used to wonder why hoes would suddenly go cold on me :patrice:maybe it was a similar thing.

she probably thought you were a cheap b*stard. but you made the right decision. broads who expect you to pay for everything become a bottomless pit after a while, you gotta watch your finances breh
 

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Give us the story breh :feedme:
No story... She just looks good as fukk especially for a thirty year old. I was with her yesterday. Unfortunately I won't be putting in much effort with her cause I don't see it being too fruitful . ball is in her possession and I'm playing zone D. she's cool though
 

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What is the best way to befriend a Player/Ladies man/ Bad boy type(I.e. Guy who is successful with women) and seek out his help without revealing your weaknesses?
 

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What is the best way to befriend a Player/Ladies man/ Bad boy type(I.e. Guy who is successful with women) and seek out his help without revealing your weaknesses?


Just have a normal convo and ask for tips nothing more u be surprised how down to earth and coo some are
Revealing ur weakness isn't bad it also gives them a point to guide u on the right path

Also u don't have to be one to be successful
I can't stress enough simple shyt as confidence, smiling, eye contact and being urself is all u need a lot of times plus with no fukks given cuz ur gonna strike out and it's like oh well on to the next one anyways and not getting hurt from rejection u will be just fine
 

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Brazilians are over rated to me...no more special than any other group. I dont see the hype.
i agree...but this chick is built like one of them mike in brazil chicks. Nice perky titties...a fat ass. She goes to the gym 5 days a week so thats why. Unfortunately i dont know if i'll ever hit :francis:
 
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What is the best way to befriend a Player/Ladies man/ Bad boy type(I.e. Guy who is successful with women) and seek out his help without revealing your weaknesses?

Just ask - lots of dudes have girl problems - you are not the first nor the last. What I noticed with my friends who seem to have a lot of attractive women surrounding them - they get rejected A LOT. So the major difference between them and me is they put a lot of effort into getting broads, and weather a lot of failures whereas I do not.
 

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1 simple piece of advice that will take you a long way when dealing with women. If they are not showing interest in you like you're showing interest in them, do not I repeat do not continue to pursue.

Dealing with women it's not the same as dealing with a friend. And you shouldn't treat it as such. In the long run only one person's feelings going to end up hurt and it's probably yours

Take it from an older head in the game I've taken my losses and looking back one common denominator was pursuing when there shouldn't even been a Chase

It's really refreshing when you deal with a woman that is genuinely interested in your mundane everyday affairs and your well-being. That doesn't mean calling or texting or speaking everyday but more than a couple days probably won't go by without a hello or how you doing.

If it's not this way and is not mutual red flag. Save yourself a lot of headache and ignore women no matter how good, great or amazing they may seem if the interest isn't Mutual.

You save yourself months if not years of headache and heartache and no those simple polite holiday text or once every 6 months clothes don't count is mutual attraction if your hitting them up every week

This can apply to both men and women I know it's hard but remind yourself that you can do better and there are people out there that are actually enjoy and look forward to you and what you have to say
 
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1 simple piece of advice that will take you a long way when dealing with women. If they are not showing interest in you like you're showing interest in them, do not I repeat do not continue to pursue.

Dealing with women it's not the same as dealing with a friend. And you shouldn't treat it as such. In the long run only one person's feelings going to end up hurt and it's probably yours

Take it from an older head in the game I've taken my losses and looking back one common denominator was pursuing when there shouldn't even been a Chase

It's really refreshing when you deal with a woman that is genuinely interested in your mundane everyday affairs and your well-being. That doesn't mean calling or texting or speaking everyday but more than a couple days probably won't go by without a hello or how you doing.

If it's not this way and is not mutual red flag. Save yourself a lot of headache and ignore women no matter how good, great or amazing they may seem if the interest isn't Mutual.

You said yourself months if not years of headache and heartache and no those simple polite holiday text or once every 6 months clothes don't count is mutual attraction if your hitting them up every week

This can apply to both men and women I know it's hard but remind yourself that you can do better and there are people out there that are actually enjoy and look forward to you and what you have to say

i agree with the general idea of your post but if you're with a girl that has serious interest in you, more than a day should never go without her u hitting up. a week? nah. hell no. if a girl u just met can go that long without hitting u up, trust, she's involved with someone else. or is just not bothered with the prospect of another girl snatching u up before she does.

and if you're dating the girl, not a single day should pass without u two talking. being ok with a status quo thats different from what i just said is asking for a whole world of trouble.
 
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i agree with the general idea of your post but if you're with a girl that has serious interest in you, more then a day should never go without her hitting up. a week? nah. hell no. if a girl u just met can go that long without hitting u up, trust, she's involved with someone else. or is just not bothered with the prospect of another girl snatching u up before she does.

and if you're dating the girl, not a single day should pass without u two talking. being ok with a status quo thats different from what i just said is asking for a whole world of trouble.
Agreed fully
 
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