Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Solano707]

It's worrying

I considered two breakups a bit hard on me, but a whole marriage?! Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiet

Yeah, we were married 13 years out of the 16. I won't ever get married again to be honest. She has to make feel some type of way if I would consider marriage.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Get asked by your ex to take them back when they're about to adopt their nephew, brehs

out of topic but Planetes was a dope anime breh. Had perfect mix of romance and hard science fiction.

 

[360dagod]

If your SMV(sexual market value) is low, go your own way for a bit. You get horny and need a release? Jack off to porn to get your release. Chasing poon with low SMV is just a disaster waiting to happen and it sets you back, a lot. I'm all for guys "overcoming approach anxiety" and getting good at game, but I wouldn't recommend anyone practices game until they're on a solid footing in life. Game is a "a less immediate need" than making sure your mental health is good and that you're in control of your finances and have some general life direction. Without a strong sense of self as a foundation at the bottom, it's a fools errand to pursue higher levels of need like sexual satisfaction, self-satisfaction should always take priority over sexual satisfaction.

Practicing game when you're dirt poor, suffering from low self-esteem/depression/lack of confidence, don't have enough food in the fridge or whatever is retarded, you're placing a "less immediate need" higher in priority than the shyt that matters. You need a good foundation to build a strong empire, if you're focusing on getting laid and getting good with women before you have any sort of stability in your life, you're lacking disposable income, your mind isn't thinking healthy/productive/positive etc then you really need to take time out to fix yourself before you start trying to go and get other people to like you. You'll find it hard to make friends, let alone get laid, if your life is a fukking state because you're a fukking state.

Make money, learn some shyt, go to the gym. Too scared to go the gym because it's full of guys twenty times your size? Try to get over it. Can't get over it? Get a weight set and work out at home, use a fitness program from the internet, once you have acquired some fitness and seen some gains and got a bit of confidence you won't be so bothered about entering an actual gym. Small steps. Everyones at different stages, some low value guys have crippling social anxiety as a result of their lack of value, other guys don't find doing normal things like going out and talking to people or entering a gym and working out there a big deal, whatever, this advice is here for those who need it, it'd be pretty obnoxious to disregard common issues low value men have "because it's beta" remember most people in this sub start beta, some even omega, everyone's on a quest to become more alpha/masculine. Don't forget your roots if you're not a natural, don't scoff at the new guy if he's trying, respect that. Not just on the sub, but in real life too.

Often self-improvement means other shyt has to go on hold. If you're a fat guy or an omega WoW player who aimlessly jacks off all over the hotkeys and has no direction in life, you stumbled on TRP and you message me asking me for advice on "how to incorporate TRP into your life" I would say forget bytches for about 6 months to a year and go work on yourself. You have to like yourself so other people can like you. Make sure you're in a job that doesn't have you working with people that make you want to cut your own wrists on a daily, better to lower your income and work with people you enjoy working with, rather than earn more but be stuck with thunder c*nts who make you contemplate the merits of self-harming. If you have no source of income, get one. You need one. Money = freedom. More money equals more freedom.

Have direction, have projects. Focus on things. Lack of focus = failure. Myself included, I've known many people full of talent who lack the proclivity to apply themselves. You can be a brain box but if you don't feel motivated or see a point in anything then you'll just fulfill your immediate needs and end up a failure rather than build yourself into a success. Fear is relevant, fear of the unknown. Something 50 Cent says is "Those who are afraid of change stop themselves from becoming great" it's true. Potential can be wasted. Don't waste your life away. The younger you are the better, but fukk even if you're 40 - better to turn around now than turn around at 50. Once you hit 50 you only would have said "shyt I've known this since 40, I should have done something then" and then compounded your own sense of frustration even further. Control the time you have left and make it valuable.

Remember, nobody gives a fukk about you except your parents (assuming your parents aren't c*nts too or you're not so old that they've gone and died.) Most of your friends are more associates than they are friends, they won't give much of a fukk about you they're so busy doing their own shyt the only time they think about you is when they want you for something that benefits them - need company to go drinking or some crap like that.

You're practically invisible to girls if you have low SMV so don't even bother. Don't resent them, you don't like low smv girls yourself, just become better to become noticeable. You don't even like yourself. Go give yourself a reason to like yourself. Try to do at least TWO THINGS everyday that make you a better person. Jog, read an interesting book, earn some money. Learn to be funny, surround yourself with funny people. I make it a habit to talk to people with wit/sense of humour, I watch a lot of stand up comedy. Comedy is important to me, comedy is medicine. Comedy can stop a man in pain turning insane, watch that shyt. Not taking serious things seriously is a great coping mechanism for dealing with the bullshyt life throws at you. Keep your mind healthy by working on yourself, use comedy as a painkiller to assist in that if you need to.

I believe a lot of guys who are really bottom of the barrel whether they're flat out undesirable or just ridiculously poor (and thus need to get money on lockdown) need to take a serious hiatus from the sexual/social game and just focus on improving their situation, their money, their inner game/sense of self. It's like sports, sometimes a player has gotta go on the bench when he's too worn out or injured. Get on the bench and fix yourself and then you can fight to live another day.

Keep at it, you can make it.

-Illimitablemen.com[/QUOTE]

This right here lets me know the guy who wrote this is a cac..nothing wrong with him being a cac, but certain things need to be filtered out for black men....
Because there is a real 'misunderstanding"here


"Game"for the average black man always goes beyond women

Cacs have safety nets and blimps in place for when they fall as well as when they rise..they have the luxury of "waiting"

We as black men..we gotta get it out the mud..And we gotta make sure we hold ground or try to keep climbing..

If you as a black man dont know how to maneuver with the mouthpiece{pause},you gonna have real problems out here...Because our "game"is needed in day to day living

Desperation for the black man creates a different dynamic..

 

[EA]

out of topic but Planetes was a dope anime breh. Had perfect mix of romance and hard science fiction.

One of my favourite animes of all time. It's so slept on.

 

[DarkHorse23]

If your SMV(sexual market value) is low, go your own way for a bit. You get horny and need a release? Jack off to porn to get your release. Chasing poon with low SMV is just a disaster waiting to happen and it sets you back, a lot. I'm all for guys "overcoming approach anxiety" and getting good at game, but I wouldn't recommend anyone practices game until they're on a solid footing in life. Game is a "a less immediate need" than making sure your mental health is good and that you're in control of your finances and have some general life direction. Without a strong sense of self as a foundation at the bottom, it's a fools errand to pursue higher levels of need like sexual satisfaction, self-satisfaction should always take priority over sexual satisfaction.

Practicing game when you're dirt poor, suffering from low self-esteem/depression/lack of confidence, don't have enough food in the fridge or whatever is retarded, you're placing a "less immediate need" higher in priority than the shyt that matters. You need a good foundation to build a strong empire, if you're focusing on getting laid and getting good with women before you have any sort of stability in your life, you're lacking disposable income, your mind isn't thinking healthy/productive/positive etc then you really need to take time out to fix yourself before you start trying to go and get other people to like you. You'll find it hard to make friends, let alone get laid, if your life is a fukking state because you're a fukking state.

Make money, learn some shyt, go to the gym. Too scared to go the gym because it's full of guys twenty times your size? Try to get over it. Can't get over it? Get a weight set and work out at home, use a fitness program from the internet, once you have acquired some fitness and seen some gains and got a bit of confidence you won't be so bothered about entering an actual gym. Small steps. Everyones at different stages, some low value guys have crippling social anxiety as a result of their lack of value, other guys don't find doing normal things like going out and talking to people or entering a gym and working out there a big deal, whatever, this advice is here for those who need it, it'd be pretty obnoxious to disregard common issues low value men have "because it's beta" remember most people in this sub start beta, some even omega, everyone's on a quest to become more alpha/masculine. Don't forget your roots if you're not a natural, don't scoff at the new guy if he's trying, respect that. Not just on the sub, but in real life too.

Often self-improvement means other shyt has to go on hold. If you're a fat guy or an omega WoW player who aimlessly jacks off all over the hotkeys and has no direction in life, you stumbled on TRP and you message me asking me for advice on "how to incorporate TRP into your life" I would say forget bytches for about 6 months to a year and go work on yourself. You have to like yourself so other people can like you. Make sure you're in a job that doesn't have you working with people that make you want to cut your own wrists on a daily, better to lower your income and work with people you enjoy working with, rather than earn more but be stuck with thunder c*nts who make you contemplate the merits of self-harming. If you have no source of income, get one. You need one. Money = freedom. More money equals more freedom.

Have direction, have projects. Focus on things. Lack of focus = failure. Myself included, I've known many people full of talent who lack the proclivity to apply themselves. You can be a brain box but if you don't feel motivated or see a point in anything then you'll just fulfill your immediate needs and end up a failure rather than build yourself into a success. Fear is relevant, fear of the unknown. Something 50 Cent says is "Those who are afraid of change stop themselves from becoming great" it's true. Potential can be wasted. Don't waste your life away. The younger you are the better, but fukk even if you're 40 - better to turn around now than turn around at 50. Once you hit 50 you only would have said "shyt I've known this since 40, I should have done something then" and then compounded your own sense of frustration even further. Control the time you have left and make it valuable.

Remember, nobody gives a fukk about you except your parents (assuming your parents aren't c*nts too or you're not so old that they've gone and died.) Most of your friends are more associates than they are friends, they won't give much of a fukk about you they're so busy doing their own shyt the only time they think about you is when they want you for something that benefits them - need company to go drinking or some crap like that.

You're practically invisible to girls if you have low SMV so don't even bother. Don't resent them, you don't like low smv girls yourself, just become better to become noticeable. You don't even like yourself. Go give yourself a reason to like yourself. Try to do at least TWO THINGS everyday that make you a better person. Jog, read an interesting book, earn some money. Learn to be funny, surround yourself with funny people. I make it a habit to talk to people with wit/sense of humour, I watch a lot of stand up comedy. Comedy is important to me, comedy is medicine. Comedy can stop a man in pain turning insane, watch that shyt. Not taking serious things seriously is a great coping mechanism for dealing with the bullshyt life throws at you. Keep your mind healthy by working on yourself, use comedy as a painkiller to assist in that if you need to.

I believe a lot of guys who are really bottom of the barrel whether they're flat out undesirable or just ridiculously poor (and thus need to get money on lockdown) need to take a serious hiatus from the sexual/social game and just focus on improving their situation, their money, their inner game/sense of self. It's like sports, sometimes a player has gotta go on the bench when he's too worn out or injured. Get on the bench and fix yourself and then you can fight to live another day.

Keep at it, you can make it.

-Illimitablemen.com

I don't recommend that at all. Addiction to porn, and porn induced erectile dysfunction is very real.

 

[DarkHorse23]

This right here lets me know the guy who wrote this is a cac..nothing wrong with him being a cac, but certain things need to be filtered out for black men....
Because there is a real 'misunderstanding"here


"Game"for the average black man always goes beyond women

Cacs have safety nets and blimps in place for when they fall as well as when they rise..they have the luxury of "waiting"

We as black men..we gotta get it out the mud..And we gotta make sure we hold ground or try to keep climbing..

If you as a black man dont know how to maneuver with the mouthpiece{pause},you gonna have real problems out here...Because our "game"is needed in day to day living

Desperation for the black man creates a different dynamic..

In terms of women, or just life in general? If you mean women, i honestly think it's overrated. You can have the greatest mouthpiece in the world, but if you ugly, a woman not going give you play anyway.

 

[360dagod]

In terms of women, or just life in general? If you mean women, i honestly think it's overrated. You can have the greatest mouthpiece in the world, but if you ugly, a woman not going give you play anyway.

for your 1st question...life in general..

nikkas are steps away from rock bottom as is...from bill collectors to the 9-5 life, a nikka gotta have some game to get what he wants(from job promotions to women) and deal with bullshyt of being a black man..

for your 2nd question....

You ever seen how some of these pimps look?

You ever wondered why jail nikkas be coming home to p*ssy and a place to live off the rip?

 

[DarkHorse23]

for your 1st question...life in general..

nikkas are steps away from rock bottom as is...from bill collectors to the 9-5 life, a nikka gotta have some game to get what he wants(from job promotions to women) and deal with bullshyt of being a black man..

for your 2nd question....

You ever seen how some of these pimps look?

You ever wondered why jail nikkas be coming home to p*ssy and a place to live off the rip?

PIMPs and jail nikkas are swimming in p*ssy because of their physical appearance. PIMPs are typically well dressed and flashy, style always on point and jail nikkas typically are very muscular. Never heard the term "prison body".

 

[DarkHorse23]

If your SMV(sexual market value) is low, go your own way for a bit. You get horny and need a release? Jack off to porn to get your release. Chasing poon with low SMV is just a disaster waiting to happen and it sets you back, a lot. I'm all for guys "overcoming approach anxiety" and getting good at game, but I wouldn't recommend anyone practices game until they're on a solid footing in life. Game is a "a less immediate need" than making sure your mental health is good and that you're in control of your finances and have some general life direction. Without a strong sense of self as a foundation at the bottom, it's a fools errand to pursue higher levels of need like sexual satisfaction, self-satisfaction should always take priority over sexual satisfaction.

Practicing game when you're dirt poor, suffering from low self-esteem/depression/lack of confidence, don't have enough food in the fridge or whatever is retarded, you're placing a "less immediate need" higher in priority than the shyt that matters. You need a good foundation to build a strong empire, if you're focusing on getting laid and getting good with women before you have any sort of stability in your life, you're lacking disposable income, your mind isn't thinking healthy/productive/positive etc then you really need to take time out to fix yourself before you start trying to go and get other people to like you. You'll find it hard to make friends, let alone get laid, if your life is a fukking state because you're a fukking state.

Make money, learn some shyt, go to the gym. Too scared to go the gym because it's full of guys twenty times your size? Try to get over it. Can't get over it? Get a weight set and work out at home, use a fitness program from the internet, once you have acquired some fitness and seen some gains and got a bit of confidence you won't be so bothered about entering an actual gym. Small steps. Everyones at different stages, some low value guys have crippling social anxiety as a result of their lack of value, other guys don't find doing normal things like going out and talking to people or entering a gym and working out there a big deal, whatever, this advice is here for those who need it, it'd be pretty obnoxious to disregard common issues low value men have "because it's beta" remember most people in this sub start beta, some even omega, everyone's on a quest to become more alpha/masculine. Don't forget your roots if you're not a natural, don't scoff at the new guy if he's trying, respect that. Not just on the sub, but in real life too.

Often self-improvement means other shyt has to go on hold. If you're a fat guy or an omega WoW player who aimlessly jacks off all over the hotkeys and has no direction in life, you stumbled on TRP and you message me asking me for advice on "how to incorporate TRP into your life" I would say forget bytches for about 6 months to a year and go work on yourself. You have to like yourself so other people can like you. Make sure you're in a job that doesn't have you working with people that make you want to cut your own wrists on a daily, better to lower your income and work with people you enjoy working with, rather than earn more but be stuck with thunder c*nts who make you contemplate the merits of self-harming. If you have no source of income, get one. You need one. Money = freedom. More money equals more freedom.

Have direction, have projects. Focus on things. Lack of focus = failure. Myself included, I've known many people full of talent who lack the proclivity to apply themselves. You can be a brain box but if you don't feel motivated or see a point in anything then you'll just fulfill your immediate needs and end up a failure rather than build yourself into a success. Fear is relevant, fear of the unknown. Something 50 Cent says is "Those who are afraid of change stop themselves from becoming great" it's true. Potential can be wasted. Don't waste your life away. The younger you are the better, but fukk even if you're 40 - better to turn around now than turn around at 50. Once you hit 50 you only would have said "shyt I've known this since 40, I should have done something then" and then compounded your own sense of frustration even further. Control the time you have left and make it valuable.

Remember, nobody gives a fukk about you except your parents (assuming your parents aren't c*nts too or you're not so old that they've gone and died.) Most of your friends are more associates than they are friends, they won't give much of a fukk about you they're so busy doing their own shyt the only time they think about you is when they want you for something that benefits them - need company to go drinking or some crap like that.

You're practically invisible to girls if you have low SMV so don't even bother. Don't resent them, you don't like low smv girls yourself, just become better to become noticeable. You don't even like yourself. Go give yourself a reason to like yourself. Try to do at least TWO THINGS everyday that make you a better person. Jog, read an interesting book, earn some money. Learn to be funny, surround yourself with funny people. I make it a habit to talk to people with wit/sense of humour, I watch a lot of stand up comedy. Comedy is important to me, comedy is medicine. Comedy can stop a man in pain turning insane, watch that shyt. Not taking serious things seriously is a great coping mechanism for dealing with the bullshyt life throws at you. Keep your mind healthy by working on yourself, use comedy as a painkiller to assist in that if you need to.

I believe a lot of guys who are really bottom of the barrel whether they're flat out undesirable or just ridiculously poor (and thus need to get money on lockdown) need to take a serious hiatus from the sexual/social game and just focus on improving their situation, their money, their inner game/sense of self. It's like sports, sometimes a player has gotta go on the bench when he's too worn out or injured. Get on the bench and fix yourself and then you can fight to live another day.

Keep at it, you can make it.

-Illimitablemen.com

Sorry, but i will always resent them in some way,will become successful and date one eventually, but my attitude will always be "never forget". I'm tired of women being given a pass to shyt on men, and then once you make it and are "desirable" i'm suppose to get amnesia and act like i haven't been through hell. I don't blame successful and rich men for dogging women out once they make it. What goes around, comes back around is true.

 

[The ADD]

Sorry, but i will always resent them in some way,will become successful and date one eventually, but my attitude will always be "never forget". I'm tired of women being given a pass to shyt on men, and then once you make it and are "desirable" i'm suppose to get amnesia and act like i haven't been through hell. I don't blame successful and rich men for dogging women out once they make it. What goes around, comes back around is true.

But how can you blame a chick you never met for liking you for what you have built yourself to be when she didn't pass you up in the first place?

 

[The Mad Titan]

Relationships need to build slow, you shouldn't jump right into a relationship because you like someone within the 1st 2-3 months.


With that said the best thing you can do if your having problems with women is put those problems on the back burner. Do not do not do not put women 1st or even as a high priority on your list of things to do. For some thats easier to do than others, but I promise you your life will as a man will be so much more productive when women and your next lay isn't the main thing on your mind week after week.


Just give it a shot, do some stuff you really enjoy regardless. You gotta get fly every time you go out? Put on some jeans and a Tee and run errands. Just dont make women your 1st and last thought day in and day out.

its hard to do because thats what we are told almost every day that we should be doing by others or just the media.

 

[TRUEST]

But how can you blame a chick you never met for liking you for what you have built yourself to be when she didn't pass you up in the first place?

Because experience may have taught the OP about the nature of women. That woman may like him for what he has. But what happens if he loses everything? Would she still want him? It's always best to be cautious lest u get caught slipping.

 

[The ADD]

Because experience may have taught the OP about the nature of women. That woman may like him for what he has. But what happens if he loses everything? Would she still want him? It's always best to be cautious lest u get caught slipping.

I'm not saying that they like him for the material possessions, more so the type of person he developed himself into. I think that's where a lot of brehs are unrealistic. It's silly to think that in your 20's you were this great finished product that women were simply overlooking. More than likely you got better as you got older and being more successful came along with that.

I don't know, I'm a little older so I try not to direct much energy on slights (real or perceived) from when I was younger

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

These "busy" chicks are so full of shyt. Any chick that hits you with that shyt, just leave mane.

Chicks be on facebook, IG, the whole nine all day. But act like they're doing something with their boring lives when they aren't. LOL.

 

[DarkHorse23]

But how can you blame a chick you never met for liking you for what you have built yourself to be when she didn't pass you up in the first place?

she probably passed up another dude before she met me. A dude who was just me 5-10 years ago.