she probably passed up another dude before she met me. A dude who was just me 5-10 years ago.

I'm all for being smart and cautious when dealing with women but I honestly hope you don't carry that around everyday.
she probably passed up another dude before she met me. A dude who was just me 5-10 years ago.

Because experience may have taught the OP about the nature of women. That woman may like him for what he has. But what happens if he loses everything? Would she still want him? It's always best to be cautious lest u get caught slipping.
I'm all for being smart and cautious when dealing with women but I honestly hope you don't carry that around everyday.
But how can you blame a chick you never met for liking you for what you have built yourself to be when she didn't pass you up in the first place?
I'm not saying that they like him for the material possessions, more so the type of person he developed himself into. I think that's where a lot of brehs are unrealistic. It's silly to think that in your 20's you were this great finished product that women were simply overlooking. More than likely you got better as you got older and being more successful came along with that.
I don't know, I'm a little older so I try not to direct much energy on slights (real or perceived) from when I was younger![]()
Good luck sirNobody is a finished product in their 20's, i'm 26, and no i'm not muscular(yet) or tall, but i'm handsome and i'm trying to do something with my life, and i have good intentions. It would just be nice to get an opportunity or chance based on potential, but nah that's not in a woman's DNA. Brother got to be perfect, and clicking on all cylinders to get time of the day. That's cool though, because when i'm on top, i'm going be a shallow, superficial motherfukker X100. I'm going make the entire coli and male population look like boy scouts compared to me.
Nobody is a finished product in their 20's, i'm 26, and no i'm not muscular(yet) or tall, but i'm handsome and i'm trying to do something with my life, and i have good intentions. It would just be nice to get an opportunity or chance based on potential, but nah that's not in a woman's DNA. Brother got to be perfect, and clicking on all cylinders to get time of the day. That's cool though, because when i'm on top, i'm going be a shallow, superficial motherfukker X100. I'm going make the entire coli and male population look like boy scouts compared to me.
Have you ever felt "invisible" towards the opposite sex and how did you while in the process of trying to change deal with any emotions(I.e. Depression, bitterness ect) you might have been experiencing and manage to keep your head up. This is obviously aimed not at my "naturals" but at my brothers who had to put in the time and work and make significant changes to get quality women.





As men we get fulfillment and purpose from achievement (games/problem solving)
unfortunately that objective for you is "quality women"
As long as you put them on a pedestal as the prize of your efforts,
you will always be depressed...
You being happy is dependent on their attention/affection ...(external factors)
you are willingly serving an imaginary master ...if you want to be happy..."just be"...
It might be bad now but wait till a woman discovers your happiness hinges on her
Women right now value wealth/fame ....or the perception of it
Instead of trying to get women... make them compete for you
Get what they value and they'll be beating down ya door
They don't even care if you tell them you aint settling down
Somehow after smutting out models, doctors and lawyers...
her golden puss is the one that will tame you into a simp ?
but your focus should remain undeterred and focus on your self
and your needs, your wants, your goals and your desires
She'll want you to focus on her and her problems .... Don't
The moment you give in is when she knows she controls you
and will manipulate you into doing sh!t just to get her off ya back
then she'll lose respect for you since she's using your own love for
her against you.......
All women are like this. You've been warned. Stay selfish and you'll straight
if you end up in a relationship. ALWAYS put her in check.
if she says something slick about another dude to get you jealous
Don't fall for it. Block/delete and pretend she killed your mother
ColiBrehs went through that so you don't have to
#GMB
#NoLosses

After my last few forays with "woke" pro black type sisters I'm almost ready to just say fukk it and date white girls brehs![]()
