Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[KingFreeman]

This right here lets me know the guy who wrote this is a cac..nothing wrong with him being a cac, but certain things need to be filtered out for black men....
Because there is a real 'misunderstanding"here


"Game"for the average black man always goes beyond women

Cacs have safety nets and blimps in place for when they fall as well as when they rise..they have the luxury of "waiting"

We as black men..we gotta get it out the mud..And we gotta make sure we hold ground or try to keep climbing..

If you as a black man dont know how to maneuver with the mouthpiece{pause},you gonna have real problems out here...Because our "game"is needed in day to day living

Desperation for the black man creates a different dynamic..

I wouldn't be so quick to call 'CAC'.. Regardless of source, that whole 'put chasin ass on hold to better yourself' mindset has been a boon for countless upwardly-mobile brehs. Especially those in universities working towards makin serious paper but feeling distracted by thots and those brehs that treat school in general as a joke. Some of those cats try and chase women to keep up with other people they end up losing focus. Putting 100% emphasis on rebuilding yourself tends to produce results like nothing else

 

[KingFreeman]

After my last few forays with "woke" pro black type sisters I'm almost ready to just say fukk it and date white girls brehs

Bless us with dem stories breh

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[BreezyH]

Sup fellas, long time no post. Ben building with my lady, but decided to drop in and post.

So after I decided I was in it for the long haul with my lady, I pretty much cut all the other women off cold turkey. There was one in particular who refused to let the silence sit. She text every few weeks or months and I'd give her the basic/generic answers about life, etc. nothing on a romantic or sexual nature. this time around im thinking its setting in that i'm not pursuing anything with her but months later she hits me with the "u alive" text . says we should hang out. trying to avoid some drawn out, sad convo i give her a generic "yea maybe", then she texts asking me coming to come thru for a game night at her boyfriends house . like huh? you got a bf now and still blowing me up and trying to chill. these chicks switch sides with the best of em

 

[Youseenmywork]

I wouldn't be so quick to call 'CAC'.. Regardless of source, that whole 'put chasin ass on hold to better yourself' mindset has been a boon for countless upwardly-mobile brehs. Especially those in universities working towards makin serious paper but feeling distracted by thots and those brehs that treat school in general as a joke. Some of those cats try and chase women to keep up with other people they end up losing focus. Putting 100% emphasis on rebuilding yourself tends to produce results like nothing else

I've been stop doing this as a man. I'm not going to be bashing nikkas at all. No one man has everything figured out I'm willing to listen to see how something can help me and discard the bad. I've said it before I'll say it again men gotta start sticking together when it comes to women , finances, being fathers etc. It easy to tear a nikka down but I rather help you as long as your helping yourself first I'm game breh.

 

[Max B]

Whats this tingling sensation i get on my chest every time i chill with this girl

Whats going on

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

After my last few forays with "woke" pro black type sisters I'm almost ready to just say fukk it and date white girls brehs

 

[CASHAPP]

I haven't been in this thread in MAD LONG...but have you guys been talking about this shyt?

Broad involved in the Cruz sex scandal has been going HAM with the denials...I never in my life recall a female who denied so hard. Usually the men do that. The detectives on Twitter did a closeup shot of the pic and saw that the thing on her right is a pack of condoms and she spazzed out and said they photoshopped the picture LOL...

No wedding ring on either. She also put up a tweet saying she never cheated on her husband and on her page she has numerous tweets stanning Ted Cruz calling him "Daddy Cruz" and all this shyt

This and the chick that cheated on Kyle Irving just straight ruthless...

 

[DarkHorse23]

@Youseenmywork Do you ever feel like as men we focus on the wrong things? I mean there are so many men intelligent, educated, confident, with money men who are single and then you got pretty boys living in they momma basement who got 3-5 women. I said in a past thread sometimes I feel like "what's the point" in doing all the things we do to become better men if all its going come down to when women select a man is his body built and shoes he's wearing. I mean sometimes we men should just focus on increasing our sex appeal and just be like "whatever" to everything else, because clearly most attractive woman don't really care. In 1950 yes being a provider and having a good job was attractive, now being on IG fronting like you a mini celeb and having more swag than anyone else is what's sexy.

 

[Deafheaven]

@Youseenmywork Do you ever feel like as men we focus on the wrong things? I mean there are so many men intelligent, educated, confident, with money men who are single and then you got pretty boys living in they momma basement who got 3-5 women. I said in a past thread sometimes I feel like "what's the point" in doing all the things we do to become better men if all its going come down to when women select a man is his body built and shoes he's wearing. I mean sometimes we men should just focus on increasing our sex appeal and just be like "whatever" to everything else, because clearly most attractive woman don't really care. In 1950 yes being a provider and having a good job was attractive, now being on IG fronting like you a mini celeb and having more swag than anyone else is what's sexy.

I think too much emphasis put on the wrong bytches. This last relationship really opened my eyes to how much bullshyt nikkas deal with being a "good" guy trying to make it work. Frankly 96% of the girls age 18-30 arent worth the spit on the sidewalk and never being a man who treat them right they don't even know how to react to it and instead push you away because they are stupid as shyt. I wouldn't even worry about it.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Whats this tingling sensation i get on my chest every time i chill with this girl

Whats going on

suppress that shyt or you will catch a L

Mark my words nikka

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

@Youseenmywork Do you ever feel like as men we focus on the wrong things? I mean there are so many men intelligent, educated, confident, with money men who are single and then you got pretty boys living in they momma basement who got 3-5 women. I said in a past thread sometimes I feel like "what's the point" in doing all the things we do to become better men if all its going come down to when women select a man is his body built and shoes he's wearing. I mean sometimes we men should just focus on increasing our sex appeal and just be like "whatever" to everything else, because clearly most attractive woman don't really care. In 1950 yes being a provider and having a good job was attractive, now being on IG fronting like you a mini celeb and having more swag than anyone else is what's sexy.

An old lady was telling me a story of literally what you mentioned ... some bum ass dude living in a basement (missed all his rent payments) who has impregnated 3 broads and all of them gave birth around the same time ... which means this breh was playing russian roullete with his cock.

The lady telling me this story wanted me to feel bad for the chicks but my first response to the story was to the dude (cuz shyt that is pretty impressive, here I am havign difficulties getting just one chick to be interested in me) and to the broads.

There's enough scummy, bum ass dudes who have no issues getting girls (for whatever reason) for me to really care about the "chase". If you are pursuing self-improvement do it for the right reasons, because even if you do reach a point where you are pulling broads with no problem, you won't care as much and all the worries that are aggravating you now will seem distant.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I think too much emphasis put on the wrong bytches. This last relationship really opened my eyes to how much bullshyt nikkas deal with being a "good" guy trying to make it work. Frankly 96% of the girls age 18-30 arent worth the spit on the sidewalk and never being a man who treat them right they don't even know how to react to it and instead push you away because they are stupid as shyt. I wouldn't even worry about it.

Hey man drop that story

 

[Cynic]

This right here lets me know the guy who wrote this is a cac..nothing wrong with him being a cac, but certain things need to be filtered out for black men....
Because there is a real 'misunderstanding"here


"Game"for the average black man always goes beyond women

Cacs have safety nets and blimps in place for when they fall as well as when they rise..they have the luxury of "waiting"

We as black men..we gotta get it out the mud..And we gotta make sure we hold ground or try to keep climbing..

If you as a black man dont know how to maneuver with the mouthpiece{pause},you gonna have real problems out here...Because our "game"is needed in day to day living

Desperation for the black man creates a different dynamic..

No. You can be a millionaire and have girls chasing you instead. No game needed.

Girls just instantly want your money and your nut.

Where it gets sticky is when you are just a millionaire and there's famous people around. Regular girls will flock to them so fukk them but having a mouth piece will get famous hoes ridin ya d!ck.

Around richer millionaires with no game. You stand out. Around billionaires forget it unless they are old and short etc...

Either way wealth >>>>>> game with regular hoes

Different if ya wanna settle down but then again


#GMB

 

[TheArchitect]

I look at like this "hey she likes me because of my good looks, or money" but if it was gone tomorrow, all that "love" would disappear and walk right out the door along with her. So enjoy the sex and having a pretty girl on your arm, but never open up on an emotional standpoint, because unless this dime can relate to being alone in high school and all her 20's then we have nothing in common, besides both being attractive.

I thought i was the only one....