Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

bro for me its either i really really like the girl off the bat when first meet her or i dont just wanna bang her.

This chick different though has money her own car and good persnality and the sex is amazing which it mainly comes down to. Im not setting myself up this time esp from past experience..i know what im doing this time..

girls from smallers cities are much different then the ones in toronto trust me fam

So she's not a GTA chick ... ? Where is she from? For the record I agree with you. Toronto hoes can be a tough nut to crack

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

that bummy as dude u are referencing, may give no fuccks about who he sticks is d1ck in. so i wouldn't be so quick to give him kudos. some dudes will fucck anything.

Not giving him kudos. That is some reprehensible behavior but i'm also not going to give these broads a pass - more than likely they knew what they were getting into ... feel sorry for neither.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Party next door


And as a man you either have it or you don't

This I don't agree with...anything can be learned. It's about what and how much your willing to put into it. The guy you think is a NATURAL with women started earlier in life like the 6th grade. You going to HAVE to step outside your comfort zone to be good at or master anything.

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Youseenmywork Do you ever feel like as men we focus on the wrong things? I mean there are so many men intelligent, educated, confident, with money men who are single and then you got pretty boys living in they momma basement who got 3-5 women. I said in a past thread sometimes I feel like "what's the point" in doing all the things we do to become better men if all its going come down to when women select a man is his body built and shoes he's wearing. I mean sometimes we men should just focus on increasing our sex appeal and just be like "whatever" to everything else, because clearly most attractive woman don't really care. In 1950 yes being a provider and having a good job was attractive, now being on IG fronting like you a mini celeb and having more swag than anyone else is what's sexy.

I understand were your coming from. I'm say be better for yourself. You come first and you have to love yourself more than you love anyone else. Be smarter than these women...be more articulate than these women....have hobbies unlike most women...carry yourself better than these women. Keep adding value and resources to your life and trust the right women will appreciate the work and time you spent on yourself. You're right in 19 50s thoe it was simpler times but thing will always change you just gotta adapt to it. Personally I believe we at war with women due to the fact that society has put them on a petals. We live a world were no matter what a women does it a wonderful thing but being a man/Alpha male is a horrible thing. You have to change your mindset and sharpen your hunting tools and get yours in this life. Trust me if you quit it's only going to get worst.

 

[MikelArteta]

Anything is possible. What I mean is the bum ass dude with nothing going for him can have it thus he gets women left and right while the accomplished dude gotta hit up backpage and beg for puzzy like Keith sweat because he doesn't

So you don't believe a man can develop it?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I understand were your coming from. I'm say be better for yourself. You come first and you have to love yourself more than you love anyone else. Be smarter than these women...be more articulate than these women....have hobbies unlike most women...carry yourself better than these women. Keep adding value and resources to your life and trust the right women will appreciate the work and time you spent on yourself. You're right in 19 50s thoe it was simpler times but thing will always change you just gotta adapt to it. Personally I believe we at war with women due to the fact that society has put them on a petals. We live a world were no matter what a women does it a wonderful thing but being a man/Alpha male is a horrible thing. You have to change your mindset and sharpen your hunting tools and get yours in this life. Trust me if you quit it's only going to get worst.

Nah i'm not going quit, i'm going still aspire for a quality life, ambition is just part of who I am. I'm just trying to focus on making sure i spread my time evenly to build building my career and developing my sex appeal. Both are so important in trying to become the superior man.

 

[TheArchitect]

I wouldn't say mental harm but you definitely do experience a "shift" so to speak. Your train of thought either becomes super savage or you become indifferent. Personally, I don't think indifference is bad as as long you're focusing your time and energy on improving yourself.

I think I've past the point of indifference. It feels more like i just get depressed and irritable...

I feel that has personally caused me mental pain such as depression. Spending weekends and holiday consistently for many years has definitely taken a toil on me. At the end of day, i'm not suggesting be needy but at the end of the day men and women need each other. Neither was meant to be alone. Women need attention(despite what they say about not needing a man) and so do men.

Indeed. Ive never had a holiday, bday, or even a weekend with someone I want to be with. Its like part of me is quietly preparing for a life of loneliness....no one ive been with/done anything with was substantial. I dont even have anything i can look back on and smile....

 

[DarkHorse23]

Indeed. Ive never had a holiday, bday, or even a weekend with someone I want to be with. Its like part of me is quietly preparing for a life of loneliness....no one ive been with/done anything with was substantial. I dont even have anything i can look back on and smile....

I feel your pain breh

 

[TheArchitect]

suppress that shyt or you will catch a L

Mark my words nikka

Dont know if we're on the same page, but I think i feel you....

I would always get "pains"in my chest or my gut once i saw someone inwas interested in.....had to cut that shyt out...

 

[DarkHorse23]

Thinking about going the escort route until i start getting chosen

Once a month should be economically feasible. Going start doing some research....

make a few calls.

 

[TheArchitect]

I feel your pain breh

Very sad that anyone else does....

I'm probably gonna wind up like dude in the gif below (with the blonde hair)...

 

[twan83]

Thinking about going the escort route until i start getting chosen

Once a month should be economically feasible. Going start doing some research....

make a few calls.

Always put urself first and most important know urself
U just have to build that confidence up by approaching woman do it at random places and understand it's ok for her to say No
U could just go to Walmart and if u see a female alone that is attractive
U can just politely go up to her and say excuse me miss I just wanna say you look beautiful today and then u smile at her and walk away
She might not even let u walk away cuz you made her day and start a convo with u and u just go with the flow and be true to urself while doing it
After ur comfortable doing that approach then u strive harder and approach with the mindset of getting the number
All it takes is confidence a smile good eye contact be yourself and have a normal convo and ur good too go

U have to get comfortable approaching females if they don't approach u and once u do get comfortable convos come naturally with them and easily and u will end up getting approach cuz they are gonna take notice too u it's like a feeling too them to gravitate too u

And when ur talking to them be respectful honest and straight up no games cuz the good ones will know from experience

I'll use a example that I have done before and what had happen


Me: excuse me miss just wanted to say you look beautiful today but ur smile is what caught my eye

Her: wow thanks and ur handsome yourself what's ur name

Me: (my name) and yours

Her: Alicia

Me: nice too meet u well I don't wanna hold u up I'm sure u got stuff (here I go 2 ways just depends on my mood or how she reacts too me) to do here is my number whenever ur free hit me anytime

Option 2:
I don't wanna hold up I'm sure u got stuff to do I would like to know you better tho what's ur number
(Here I'm not asking like may I have comes of too polite and not confident enough either I'm stating I wanna know u better what's ur number )

Then she either gives it too me or she says no and i go no problem and have a nice day no feelings hurt just her lost in my mind and on to the next one

It just takes practice, time, be familiar with the opposite sex and confidence anybody can do it

And most important is too not give a fukk if she says no that's the worst she can say too u can't be scared of rejection even the best ones get turned down

 

[DarkHorse23]

Always put urself first and most important know urself
U just have to build that confidence up by approaching woman do it at random places and understand it's ok for her to say No
U could just go to Walmart and if u see a female alone that is attractive
U can just politely go up to her and say excuse me miss I just wanna say you look beautiful today and then u smile at her and walk away
She might not even let u walk away cuz you made her day and start a convo with u and u just go with the flow and be true to urself while doing it
After ur comfortable doing that approach then u strive harder and approach with the mindset of getting the number
All it takes is confidence a smile good eye contact be yourself and have a normal convo and ur good too go

U have to get comfortable approaching females if they don't approach u and once u do get comfortable convos come naturally with them and easily and u will end up getting approach cuz they are gonna take notice too u it's like a feeling too them to gravitate too u

And when ur talking to them be respectful honest and straight up no games cuz the good ones will know from experience

I'll use a example that I have done before and what had happen


Me: excuse me miss just wanted to say you look beautiful today but ur smile is what caught my eye

Her: wow thanks and ur handsome yourself what's ur name

Me: (my name) and yours

Her: Alicia

Me: nice too meet u well I don't wanna hold u up I'm sure u got stuff (here I go 2 ways just depends on my mood or how she reacts too me) to do here is my number whenever ur free hit me anytime

Option 2:
I don't wanna hold up I'm sure u got stuff to do I would like to know you better tho what's ur number
(Here I'm not asking like may I have comes of too polite and not confident enough either I'm stating I wanna know u better what's ur number )

Then she either gives it too me or she says no and i go no problem and have a nice day no feelings hurt just her lost in my mind and on to the next one

It just takes practice, time, be familiar with the opposite sex and confidence anybody can do it

And most important is too not give a fukk if she says no that's the worst she can say too u can't be scared of rejection even the best ones get turned down

Approaching isn't my problem. I did a lot of cold approaches from 2012-2014. The results just weren't what i wanted. I had one good summer, and after that was never ever to create that magic again.

 

[twan83]

Approaching isn't my problem. I did a lot of cold approaches from 2012-2014. The results just weren't what i wanted. I had one good summer, and after that was never ever to create that magic again.

What is the problem?
Cuz if it's looking for the right female
Good luck cuz it just happens u can't go forcing it or searching it so hard either it's more of put urself out there and look but not so hard and the other half it will happen or come
Too u naturally when u least expect it
Also have realistic standards some
Be having absurd shyt imo
At the same time don't settle
It's more of a give or take
Expand ur options also try new females u be surprised what the other types bring to the table

 

[DarkHorse23]

What is the problem?

Idk

Maybe it was beginners luck, approached many women in summer 2012, and had some really good opportunities with some good looking women, and said some shyt in my approaches that made them reject me. I was straightforward and bold, but at the same time too bold, and it cost me. After that i would approach many more women until 2014 and after basically threw in the towel . 2015 I'd approach occasionally, and tried to modify my approach in 2014 and 2015, but no matter what the shots just wouldn't go in.