Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Idk

Maybe it was beginners luck, approached many women in summer 2012, and had some really good opportunities with some good looking women, and said some shyt in my approaches that made them reject me. I was straightforward and bold, but at the same time too bold, and it cost me. After that i would approach many more women until 2014 and after basically threw in the towel . 2015 I'd approach occasionally, and tried to modify my approach in 2014 and 2015, but no matter what the shots just wouldn't go in.

Define too bold cuz if ur being straightforward not disrespectful then that's on them not u and u shouldn't get discouraged either and also could be what type
Of females ur approaching too have to take that in consideration
Never give up tho don't let that be a reason to stop
U could also try online dating to see if that works better for u too granted it's more complicated that way but at least u have that option

I went thru a time it happened to me
I was like chalked it up to the game and on to the next one shooters keep shooting cuz eventually there shots fall but also observe what ur approach game is like what can u improve in a convo maybe smile more more eye contact
Don't give her so much info bout u in the beginning or maybe don't approach them ig models only that some do and take it down a slight notch with another type of female

 

[DarkHorse23]

Define too bold cuz if ur being straightforward not disrespectful then that's on them not u and u shouldn't get discouraged either and also could be what type
Of females ur approaching too have to take that in consideration
Never give up tho don't let that be a reason to stop
U could also try online dating to see if that works better for u too granted it's more complicated that way but at least u have that option

I went thru a time it happened to me
I was like chalked it up to the game and on to the next one shooters keep shooting cuz eventually there shots fall but also observe what ur approach game is like what can u improve in a convo maybe smile more more eye contact
Don't give her so much info bout u in the beginning or maybe don't approach them ig models only that some do and take it down a slight notch with another type of female

I was very sexually straightforward in my 1st conversation, so at that time i wanted casual sex, FWB, and they found that disrespectful for me to bring that up in my 1st conversation. Even though my semantics wasn't very xrated, some of the responses i got I just didn't understand. I remember in college i approached a few women and told them i want exchange orgasms and that i was looking for a long term non monogamous situation, neither phrases that are xrated and i heard from friends that I made them cry. I guess being real with girls fresh out of highschool is something most can't handle. So on the upside my confidence and boldness were my biggest strengths, but became my detriment when i went too far. I guess only athletes and celebrities can pull that sexually straightforward approach off.

Spoke to one of my old roommates from school, and he told me that not to change, but too improve. And that women liked my confidence and that i just needed to modify things.

 

[twan83]

I was very sexually straightforward in my 1st conversation, so at that time i wanted casual sex, FWB, and they found that disrespectful for me to bring that up in my 1st conversation. Even though my semantics wasn't very xrated, some of the responses i got I just didn't understand. I remember in college i approached a few women and told them i want exchange orgasms and that i was looking for a long term non monogamous situation, neither phrases that are xrated and i heard from friends that I made them cry. I guess being real with girls fresh out of highschool is something most can't handle. So on the upside my confidence and boldness were my biggest strengths, but became my detriment when i went too far. I guess only athletes and celebrities can pull that off.

Spoke to my one of my old roommates from school, and he told me that not to change, but too improve. And that women liked my confidence and that i just needed to modify things and not withdrawal.

Ok gotcha ur good for most part and the fwb and casual sex part let me help u out cuz I did that primarily I'm not big on relationships unless I'm feeling a certain way

What I did was I never brought up the sex part at that time.

My philosophy is

Talking too u = we can kick it fukk but no status attach too each other

After that is Gf status

So what I do is say I'm just chillin and looking and whatever happens happens u have to earn the right for me to call u my gf i let them know that up front

We can talk but if imma do me and u can do u no hard feelings can u handle that is what I tell em
Cuz once u start acting up I'll cut u quicker than a team release on a sport

So talking gives them incentive and hope but at same time I was having sex with them

I never lied bout anything just I used a different word or term instead that made it so much easier for them now some said isn't that fukk buddies I go yea it is but it's also a tryout or interview too it's a win win for both we enjoy each other's company no strings attach and if things go good enough we go to the next level and that gave em motivation

Now it never works out for too long somebody always gets feelings and can't stand u being around someone else just know that

But what i did gave me fewer headaches cuz I wasn't tricking nobody I was honest just used a diff term and added the possibility of it going further which was true

 

[The Mad Titan]

@twan83 with the game

 

[Deafheaven]

Its amazing how easy it is for a women to "fall out of love" with you

Just wake up one day like "well I don't feel the same any more" and no amount of talking will change that at that point. shyts brazy. It almost makes me want to get on my eternal bachelor shyt and not even fukk with these broads man.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Its amazing how easy it is for a women to "fall out of love" with you

Just wake up one day like "well I don't feel the same any more" and no amount of talking will change that at that point. shyts brazy. It almost makes me want to get on my eternal bachelor shyt and not even fukk with these broads man.

This I do agree with, although alot of time its a build up and we just dont see it. Then they just drop it on you like "Yeah I dont feel the same"


If you ever hear that from a woman and your not married. Pack it up and dont look back.

 

[Deafheaven]

This I do agree with, although alot of time its a build up and we just dont see it. Then they just drop it on you like "Yeah I dont feel the same"


If you ever hear that from a woman and your not married. Pack it up and dont look back.

Yeah this last girl said that after 8 months. IDK its probs gradual but when you give every external sign that you in the relationship to just one day come out like you have no feelings for me is fukking insane to me.

 

[twan83]

@twan83 with the game

Not even game it's just being who u are telling em straight up and if they don't like it kick rocks is what i tell
Them

Nobody got time for games or figure out after awhile if she feeling u
Say the shyt upfront and don't waste my time

Even the ones I knew who were feeling me i I'm not gonna wait around cuz I know u would say that shyt sooner to another guy I bet so if u can't with me u ain't feeling enough apparently

The whole game is all kinds of fukked up
Dudes so stress out bout if she loyal and cheating on u breh u ain't gonna know action speaks louder than words and the best players can treat u damn good and still cheat so why stress about ain't shyt u can do about it accept it for what it is if she ain't giving u reason to doubt don't go looking let it be it will come out eventually if she does cuz for all u know u could have a loyal ass female and ur insecurities cause her to leave cuz u don't trust her at the same time don't give her that 100% trust keep like 5-10% in case she ain't shyt soften the blow but keep them actions and THOUGTS to urself

If a female want u she will show don't bend over backwards for her fukk outta here with that shyt

And this simp shyt is misunderstood treating her like a lady cuz she been good too u let alone she is ur girl ain't wrong it ain't simping it's simping when she aint done shyt for u and holds all that power over u and u let her

If u got a good woman treat her right keep ur shyt in ur pants Brehs ur gonna regret it cuz the grass ain't greener cuz u thought it was cuz shorty was a dime had a phat ass and big t*ts but don't Bring shyt else to the table u gonna sit there like I fukked up while ur ex moved on and u let a good one get away

If u want new p*ssy all the time don't get ur ass in a relationship simple as that enjoy ur freedom till ur cravings die aka wild Oates are soaked

Don't get in a relationship if u don't even know who u are u may think u do but we change as we get older and what we want from women and out of life

Don't fukk with a single mom if u can't accept her kid/s cuz they are priority and understand the father may be in the picture

Speaking of which not all single moms are bad or fukking their ex either no damn diff than ones with our kids having a dude as a side piece except the kid part

Looks aren't everything how they treat u is more important

Know her flaws for all her pros one flaw can be a deal breaker u gotta ask urself can u deal with her flaws for the rest of ur life cuz if u can u got a keeper

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

I was very sexually straightforward in my 1st conversation, so at that time i wanted casual sex, FWB, and they found that disrespectful for me to bring that up in my 1st conversation. Even though my semantics wasn't very xrated, some of the responses i got I just didn't understand. I remember in college i approached a few women and told them i want exchange orgasms and that i was looking for a long term non monogamous situation, neither phrases that are xrated and i heard from friends that I made them cry. I guess being real with girls fresh out of highschool is something most can't handle. So on the upside my confidence and boldness were my biggest strengths, but became my detriment when i went too far. I guess only athletes and celebrities can pull that sexually straightforward approach off.

Spoke to one of my old roommates from school, and he told me that not to change, but too improve. And that women liked my confidence and that i just needed to modify things.

At least you found your way to this thread. Praise Allah.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Ok gotcha ur good for most part and the fwb and casual sex part let me help u out cuz I did that primarily I'm not big on relationships unless I'm feeling a certain way

What I did was I never brought up the sex part at that time.

My philosophy is

Talking too u = we can kick it fukk but no status attach too each other

After that is Gf status

So what I do is say I'm just chillin and looking and whatever happens happens u have to earn the right for me to call u my gf i let them know that up front

We can talk but if imma do me and u can do u no hard feelings can u handle that is what I tell em
Cuz once u start acting up I'll cut u quicker than a team release on a sport

So talking gives them incentive and hope but at same time I was having sex with them

I never lied bout anything just I used a different word or term instead that made it so much easier for them now some said isn't that fukk buddies I go yea it is but it's also a tryout or interview too it's a win win for both we enjoy each other's company no strings attach and if things go good enough we go to the next level and that gave em motivation

Now it never works out for too long somebody always gets feelings and can't stand u being around someone else just know that

But what i did gave me fewer headaches cuz I wasn't tricking nobody I was honest just used a diff term and added the possibility of it going further which was true

Ok i'll incorporate your approach into what I do going forward if I find a woman i really fancy. Semantics are big, and i understand that now.

 

[DarkHorse23]

At least you found your way to this thread. Praise Allah.

I never pictured it going that way in my head.

 

[Kenny West]

I was very sexually straightforward in my 1st conversation, so at that time i wanted casual sex, FWB, and they found that disrespectful for me to bring that up in my 1st conversation. Even though my semantics wasn't very xrated, some of the responses i got I just didn't understand. I remember in college i approached a few women and told them i want exchange orgasms and that i was looking for a long term non monogamous situation, neither phrases that are xrated and i heard from friends that I made them cry. I guess being real with girls fresh out of highschool is something most can't handle. So on the upside my confidence and boldness were my biggest strengths, but became my detriment when i went too far. I guess only athletes and celebrities can pull that sexually straightforward approach off.

Spoke to one of my old roommates from school, and he told me that not to change, but too improve. And that women liked my confidence and that i just needed to modify things.

damn that was dumb as fukk

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

I never pictured it going that way in my head.

Its aight bruh. Your friend was right though you had the right spirit you just need some tweaking to the approach.

at them crying over that though. Thats the part that prompt me reply lmao.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Its aight bruh. Your friend was right though you had the right spirit you just need some tweaking to the approach.

at them crying over that though. Thats the part that prompt me reply lmao.

I heard that and was like WTF. Oh well everything is a learning experience and l learned what does and doesn't work for me.

 

[Max B]

So she's not a GTA chick ... ? Where is she from? For the record I agree with you. Toronto hoes can be a tough nut to crack

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