Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

the thot said that "i work too much" and I put work before family. Like, you never complained about the nice houses and cars we have and all the money that you spend on yourself and your parents, right? Oh and the fact, she never worked a day since we got married - almost 13 years

these chicks will literally come up with anything to try to justify in their head why they cheated. sorry again for what happened to you. if a long term, supposedly "life" partner did to me what she did to you, I'd go postal ...

 

[TRUEST]

Its amazing how easy it is for a women to "fall out of love" with you

Just wake up one day like "well I don't feel the same any more" and no amount of talking will change that at that point. shyts brazy. It almost makes me want to get on my eternal bachelor shyt and not even fukk with these broads man.

its often said that with women, u should be yourself. i disagree. if you're a lame (im not saying you are), u need to adapt the attitude or behavioral patterns of someone who's good with women. fake it, till you make it.

im a very hotheaded kinda guy and i can fly off the handle at the slightest provocation. but, after a good talking to by the older female members of my family and after being written up at a few jobs and fired one or two, i fell back and started to be more calm and understanding when dealing with female. this switch hurt me badly.

i realized i got fuccked with the most when i was agreeable and not easy to piss off.

but, luckily for me, it wasn't hard for me to switch back to what i naturally am, at least when dealing with women. and yes, striking fear into the hearts of women is always a good thing. (and no, i'm not saying u should threaten to beat them or anything like that)

i say all this because, based on what u just said, it seems to me u got a lil complacent in ur dealings with ur woman. and that's what bored her.

a woman who's busy screaming at you, or being pissedd off at something u did, wont be getting bored. im not saying start up drama for no reason. but an example is, if u do somesh1t that pisses off ur woman and she tells u to apologize, but u feel what u did is right, then u stand ur ground and refuse to apologize. she'll be mad, but, trust me, u will pay a heavy price for lacking in principle later down the line if you cave in and apologize.

lil things like this may not mean much to you. but women, for whatever reason, come up with these different tests in their head to challenge ur authority and to see if ur fit to lead them. running and hiding under ur desk at the first sign of trouble is a clear sign of cowardice to a lot of women.

 

[Deafheaven]

its often said that with women, u should be yourself. i disagree. if you're a lame (im not saying you are), u need to adapt the attitude or behavioral patterns of someone who's good with women. fake it, till you make it.

im a very hotheaded kinda guy and i can fly off the handle at the slightest provocation. but, after a good talking to by the older female members of my family and after being written up at a few jobs and fired one or two, i fell back and started to be more calm and understanding when dealing with female. this switch hurt me badly.

i realized i got fuccked with the most when i was agreeable and not easy to piss off.

but, luckily for me, it wasn't hard for me to switch back to what i naturally am, at least when dealing with women. and yes, striking fear into the hearts of women is always a good thing. (and no, i'm not saying u should threaten to beat them or anything like that)

i say all this because, based on what u just said, it seems to me u got a lil complacent in ur dealings with ur woman. and that's what bored her.

a woman who's busy screaming at you, or being pissedd off at something u did, wont be getting bored. im not saying start up drama for no reason. but an example is, if u do somesh1t that pisses off ur woman and she tells u to apologize, but u feel what u did is right, then u stand ur ground and refuse to apologize. she'll be mad, but, trust me, u will pay a heavy price for lacking in principle later down the line if you cave in and apologize.

lil things like this may not mean much to you. but women, for whatever reason, come up with these different tests in their head to challenge ur authority and to see if ur fit to lead them. running and hiding under ur desk at the first sign of trouble is a clear sign of cowardice to a lot of women.

Thats the thin man. I'mma be honest. I'm a savage in most dealings. I don't take shyt, I speak my mind, I dont give two fukks if you like it. But my dad beat my mom, and then treated my stepmoms like shyt to the point they divorced. He always pushed a lot of shyt on me when I was younger. thats what I grew up with. I promised myself I would try to be furthest from him when dealing with women as possible. I've seen my moms dealing with a nikka who treats her like dirt for almost twenty years. but now that I think of it man...she did keep going back

This girl had really bad depression. If I upset her or w/e I'd usually just say w/e and smooth it over. I didn't feel like worsening w/e bullshyt she was going through. Stuff I was completely firm on I didn't budge and we disagreed but if I said or did some shyt that made her visibly sad I'd apologize. I won't change that just to get less secure and mentally stable girls to stay with me. I wasn't a pushover really. We rarely even argued. When we did I can only think of a couple times where I straight up apologized. I do not like meaningless conflict. I know chicks dig that "excitement" but I seriously detest it and do not search for ways to exert my dominance. I'm ripped, prior service, and about my shyt man.

Last big argument we had was like last week. she had been bleeding off and on for a bit and we hadn't had sex in like a week. So I start to put the moves on her and when her shirt is off and a tit in my mouth she goes "I can't do this" and runs into the bathroom. I'm fukking enraged and let her know it. Eventually she says something about her bleeding and I'm like okay thats fine, you could have said that But shyt seemed okay after that. Fast forward to this week and her going I'm done and dont feel the same over text. I'm like breh, do I need to start slapping bytches? Thats the excitement you want?

 

[MikelArteta]

Its amazing how easy it is for a women to "fall out of love" with you

Just wake up one day like "well I don't feel the same any more" and no amount of talking will change that at that point. shyts brazy. It almost makes me want to get on my eternal bachelor shyt and not even fukk with these broads man.

love is just a emotion, and womens emotions change like the wind.

Many women dont evne know what love is, you sleep with em once and they love you, you date em for a month and they never felt this way before and they love you.

dont get caught up in a woman word, most just lvoe what you can offer and when you cease offering that you are replaced

 

[TRUEST]

Thats the thin man. I'mma be honest. I'm a savage in most dealings. I don't take shyt, I speak my mind, I dont give two fukks if you like it. But my dad beat my mom, and then treated my stepmoms like shyt to the point they divorced. He always pushed a lot of shyt on me when I was younger. thats what I grew up with. I promised myself I would try to be furthest from him when dealing with women as possible. I've seen my moms dealing with a nikka who treats her like dirt for almost twenty years. but now that I think of it man...she did keep going back

This girl had really bad depression. If I upset her or w/e I'd usually just say w/e and smooth it over. I didn't feel like worsening w/e bullshyt she was going through. Stuff I was completely firm on I didn't budge and we disagreed but if I said or did some shyt that made her visibly sad I'd apologize. I won't change that just to get less secure and mentally stable girls to stay with me. I wasn't a pushover really. We rarely even argued. When we did I can only think of a couple times where I straight up apologized. I do not like meaningless conflict. I know chicks dig that "excitement" but I seriously detest it and do not search for ways to exert my dominance. I'm ripped, prior service, and about my shyt man.

Last big argument we had was like last week. she had been bleeding off and on for a bit and we hadn't had sex in like a week. So I start to put the moves on her and when her shirt is off and a tit in my mouth she goes "I can't do this" and runs into the bathroom. I'm fukking enraged and let her know it. Eventually she says something about her bleeding and I'm like okay thats fine, you could have said that But shyt seemed okay after that. Fast forward to this week and her going I'm done and dont feel the same over text. I'm like breh, do I need to start slapping bytches? Thats the excitement you want?

when a chick plays games with sex like that, never let urself get caught being mad. if its for legit reason (she's sick), then u can let it slide. but a chick flat out saying she doesn't want to have sex is extremely disrespectful. even if shes not in the mood, when chicks like u and dont want to risk u going to get it somewhere else, they'll do whatever they goto do to keep u.

and i think her not wanting to have sex for the reason she stated is bs.

and no, u dont need to start slapping women. but the next time u are in the mood and ur chick plays with u like this, just roll over. act like nothings wrong. wait a few minutes, and leave the house for a few hours. tell her ur going for a walk or something. but DONT LET HER KNOW YOU"RE MAD. but when u get back, dont try to hide the perfume of whatever woman u ended up hooking up with.

if u have to do this more than twice (meaning, having to go for a "walk"), u need to break up with that girl before she dumps u.

 

[Deafheaven]

when a chick plays games with sex like that, never let urself get caught being mad. if its for legit reason (she's sick), then u can let it slide. but a chick flat out saying she doesn't want to have sex is extremely disrespectful. even if shes not in the mood, when chicks like u and dont want to risk u going to get it somewhere else, they'll do whatever they goto do to keep u.

and i think her not wanting to have sex for the reason she stated is bs.

and no, u dont need to start slapping women. but the next time u are in the mood and ur chick plays with u like this, just roll over. act like nothings wrong. wait a few minutes, and leave the house for a few hours. tell her ur going for a walk or something. but DONT LET HER KNOW YOU"RE MAD. but when u get back, dont try to hide the perfume of whatever woman u ended up hooking up with.

if u have to do this more than twice (meaning, having to go for a "walk"), u need to break up with that girl before she dumps u.

I usually would not have gotten mad but after she said the shyt she just sat next to me for 20 minutes in silence on tumblr and that shyt enraged me.

Ive just come to the conclusion it was one of those relationships that just was not destined to work. She had a myriad of red flags I chose to ignore because of her aesthetics and personality when she wasnt being crazy. But I need to heed those red flags in the future

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Watch what y'all say to these women on social media and text messages. They will screenshot nikkaz messages in a heartbeat if they feel you're dissing them, or all bc you sent a dikk pic. If she does this constantly to other men, she's going to do it to you eventually. Leave her fukk ass alone.

 

[twan83]

its often said that with women, u should be yourself. i disagree. if you're a lame (im not saying you are), u need to adapt the attitude or behavioral patterns of someone who's good with women. fake it, till you make it.

im a very hotheaded kinda guy and i can fly off the handle at the slightest provocation. but, after a good talking to by the older female members of my family and after being written up at a few jobs and fired one or two, i fell back and started to be more calm and understanding when dealing with female. this switch hurt me badly.

i realized i got fuccked with the most when i was agreeable and not easy to piss off.

but, luckily for me, it wasn't hard for me to switch back to what i naturally am, at least when dealing with women. and yes, striking fear into the hearts of women is always a good thing. (and no, i'm not saying u should threaten to beat them or anything like that)

i say all this because, based on what u just said, it seems to me u got a lil complacent in ur dealings with ur woman. and that's what bored her.

a woman who's busy screaming at you, or being pissedd off at something u did, wont be getting bored. im not saying start up drama for no reason. but an example is, if u do somesh1t that pisses off ur woman and she tells u to apologize, but u feel what u did is right, then u stand ur ground and refuse to apologize. she'll be mad, but, trust me, u will pay a heavy price for lacking in principle later down the line if you cave in and apologize.

lil things like this may not mean much to you. but women, for whatever reason, come up with these different tests in their head to challenge ur authority and to see if ur fit to lead them. running and hiding under ur desk at the first sign of trouble is a clear sign of cowardice to a lot of women.

I disagree respectfully to a extent tho i do agree u should learn to adapt which most won't do but faking it eventually catches up with u
When I mean be urself in a sense u need to add that mentality maybe not as deep but the don't take shyt type of attitude
U can be a nice person but also display that u don't tolerate shyt also

If ur always nice and u don't wanna change then ur gonna have to accept ur gonna get hurt so often cuz ur not choosing to change small areas of urself to better urself to deal with women u can still be true to who u are but I think all guys should add that I don't give a fukk to a extent and don't tolerate shyt to them where it's less likely u don't get hurt as much granted u still can but it will be a lot Less compared to what ur use too

I usually would not have gotten mad but after she said the shyt she just sat next to me for 20 minutes in silence on tumblr and that shyt enraged me.

Ive just come to the conclusion it was one of those relationships that just was not destined to work. She had a myriad of red flags I chose to ignore because of her aesthetics and personality when she wasnt being crazy. But I need to heed those red flags in the future

Was gonna say was she on her period then yea I get where she coming from but if she ain't and no explanation it's kinda like wtf

I do get it sometimes ur tired from work , sick , period of course ur gonna say no but the tired from work excuse all the time ain't gonna work either
Only the period or sick will work cuz u can legit tell

If she wanna have sex she will if this doesn't happen often i wouldn't make a big deal but if she ignoring the elephant in the room
With no reason then i see y to be upset at least give a damn reason to u
Oh boy right bout not showing to get mad only thing I do is I will literally hold out and not give u sex and that shyt fukks them up bad

 

[TRUEST]

I disagree respectfully to a extent tho i do agree u should learn to adapt which most won't do but faking it eventually catches up with u
When I mean be urself in a sense u need to add that mentality maybe not as deep but the don't take shyt type of attitude
U can be a nice person but also display that u don't tolerate shyt also

If ur always nice and u don't wanna change then ur gonna have to accept ur gonna get hurt so often cuz ur not choosing to change small areas of urself to better urself to deal with women u can still be true to who u are but I think all guys should add that I don't give a fukk to a extent and don't tolerate shyt to them where it's less likely u don't get hurt as much granted u still can but it will be a lot Less compared to what ur use too





Was gonna say was she on her period then yea I get where she coming from but if she ain't and no explanation it's kinda like wtf

I do get it sometimes ur tired from work , sick , period of course ur gonna say no but the tired from work excuse all the time ain't gonna work either
Only the period or sick will work cuz u can legit tell

If she wanna have sex she will if this doesn't happen often i wouldn't make a big deal but if she ignoring the elephant in the room
With no reason then i see y to be upset at least give a damn reason to u
Oh boy right bout not showing to get mad only thing I do is I will literally hold out and not give u sex and that shyt fukks them up bad

i hear ya. the post you quoted was actually not directed at u or anyone. i was just reading over the dude's post who i quoted and i had to tell him how i felt.

the gist of what im saying is, be yourself. but if being urself means letting women get away with stupid sh1t because "it doesn't bother u", then u need to change it up. no one is born perfect. we have to perfect ourselves as best as we can.

if beinng urself is keeping ur d1ck dry, u need to change up quick. u dont need to sacrifice anything. just learn to be alert for the tricks women play. and learn when to reprimand them with authority, or just straight up walk away.

if u let women continue to do sh1t to u, it'll only keep happening, and will pile up till she has no respect left.

ol boy who i quoted said out of no where, his lady just up and left. he said after he tried to have sex with her, she stopped midway and said she wasn't into it. then he later found out (so she says), that it was because she was bleeding. ok. and after she came back into the room, she sat there next to him playing around on her phone...giving no fuccks about the satisfaction of her man. no handjob, no blowjob. no fuccks given at all.

the gist of my post is very very simple. this type of behavior should NEVER, i repeat NEVER be tolerated because it is signalling the beginning of a terrible end.

 

[twan83]

i hear ya. the post you quoted was actually not directed at u or anyone. i was just reading over the dude's post who i quoted and i had to tell him how i felt.

the gist of what im saying is, be yourself. but if being urself means letting women get away with stupid sh1t because "it doesn't bother u", then u need to change it up. no one is born perfect. we have to perfect ourselves as best as we can.

if beinng urself is keeping ur d1ck dry, u need to change up quick. u dont need to sacrifice anything. just learn to be alert for the tricks women play. and learn when to reprimand them with authority, or just straight up walk away.

if u let women continue to do sh1t to u, it'll only keep happening, and will pile up till she has no respect left.

ol boy who i quoted said out of no where, his lady just up and left. he said after he tried to have sex with her, she stopped midway and said she wasn't into it. then he later found out (so she says), that it was because she was bleeding. ok. and after she came back into the room, she sat there next to him playing around on her phone...giving no fuccks about the satisfaction of her man. no handjob, no blowjob. no fuccks given at all.

the gist of my post is very very simple. this type of behavior should NEVER, i repeat NEVER be tolerated because it is signalling the beginning of a terrible end.

Oh ok I totally agree with what u said also but back to ur response to him I misunderstood that's all kinds of fukked up ain't no way in hell im tolerating that
So stops in middle of it cuz not into it don't make sense cuz if not in mood wouldn't have happened if sex was wack in general she should of spoken up from day 1
Bleeding part I can see get that part cuz it randomly happens so I can let that part be but after that just sit on ur phone and ignore him I don't condone unless she got some serious cramps which if she did wouldn't be on phone no excuse
I would of been like first off why not in mood in the middle of sex wasn't like that in when we started
Then if bleeding I be like oh ok I get it can u give me head or tittyfukk since I'm standing tall ready to release and a female that is done would do that no questions ask even I know that fact she blew him off got and went to phone got me
Like well she getting her back blown out by someone else who doing it better in a nutshell would be my thinking

 

[International Playa]

its often said that with women, u should be yourself. i disagree. if you're a lame (im not saying you are), u need to adapt the attitude or behavioral patterns of someone who's good with women. fake it, till you make it.

im a very hotheaded kinda guy and i can fly off the handle at the slightest provocation. but, after a good talking to by the older female members of my family and after being written up at a few jobs and fired one or two, i fell back and started to be more calm and understanding when dealing with female. this switch hurt me badly.

i realized i got fuccked with the most when i was agreeable and not easy to piss off.

but, luckily for me, it wasn't hard for me to switch back to what i naturally am, at least when dealing with women. and yes, striking fear into the hearts of women is always a good thing. (and no, i'm not saying u should threaten to beat them or anything like that)

i say all this because, based on what u just said, it seems to me u got a lil complacent in ur dealings with ur woman. and that's what bored her.

a woman who's busy screaming at you, or being pissedd off at something u did, wont be getting bored. im not saying start up drama for no reason. but an example is, if u do somesh1t that pisses off ur woman and she tells u to apologize, but u feel what u did is right, then u stand ur ground and refuse to apologize. she'll be mad, but, trust me, u will pay a heavy price for lacking in principle later down the line if you cave in and apologize.

lil things like this may not mean much to you. but women, for whatever reason, come up with these different tests in their head to challenge ur authority and to see if ur fit to lead them. running and hiding under ur desk at the first sign of trouble is a clear sign of cowardice to a lot of women.

Thats some cold game right there, i have apologized to women just to keep the peace even though I wasnt wrong or because I wanted some ass that night. Its true when it comes to women never bow down.

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

The shyt my wife put me through got me on some fukk love shyt.....

 

[The Mad Titan]

How...

 

[Deafheaven]

Oh ok I totally agree with what u said also but back to ur response to him I misunderstood that's all kinds of fukked up ain't no way in hell im tolerating that
So stops in middle of it cuz not into it don't make sense cuz if not in mood wouldn't have happened if sex was wack in general she should of spoken up from day 1
Bleeding part I can see get that part cuz it randomly happens so I can let that part be but after that just sit on ur phone and ignore him I don't condone unless she got some serious cramps which if she did wouldn't be on phone no excuse
I would of been like first off why not in mood in the middle of sex wasn't like that in when we started
Then if bleeding I be like oh ok I get it can u give me head or tittyfukk since I'm standing tall ready to release and a female that is done would do that no questions ask even I know that fact she blew him off got and went to phone got me
Like well she getting her back blown out by someone else who doing it better in a nutshell would be my thinking

Its probs just her being a nutty bytch. Im the onl6 man who made her cum, and xid it regularly.

 

[Doctor Doom]

Don't try and be the knight in shining armor for women/girls who been through the ringer or deal with mental health/anxiety/depression/etc. If anything, its just gonna be more stress on you. If you have a full plate already, its just not worth it. Slowly learned this in my former relationship with my ex. They might be one of the coolest/nicest people, but unless they're actually seeing someone for their problems, 9/10 that shyt is just gonna be an ever-present rain cloud over your head.