Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mickey Kane]

One month into dating this girl.

She real cool, enjoying it, so easygoing.

I'm trying something new, essentially a 1-year process. First 6 months are non-exclusive but I'm on overtly expressing it.

1st quarter: Friendship

2nd quarter: Dating/Courtship

3rd quarter: 'Seeing' one another. It's exclusive.

4th quarter: Relationship.

I'm certain it won't go down as linearly as that but I tend to rush into shyt so wanted to respect the process with the goal of having a quality relationship. We'll see how it goes, lol.

 

[Atlrocafella]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

 

[The ADD]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

Asking questions you already know the answer to.......

 

[Atlrocafella]

Asking questions you already know the answer to.......

Really don't know, I feel like the attraction Could get stronger with more time, but she sounding a bit impatient.

I mean I'm not trippin hard tho since I got others around.

 

[The ADD]

Really don't know, I feel like the attraction Could get stronger with more time, but she sounding a bit impatient.

I mean I'm not trippin hard tho since I got others around.

Been a year fam. You don't make the leap after a year while having other in the rotation

 

[Reno89]

Whenever you meet a chick, and it seems like after a couple dates, she's still logical, let it go.

For example, a chick can talk about how she is practicing abstinence from the get-go. If she still talking that after the second date, she don't like you. The more logic and control she has around you, the less she likes you.

 

[TRUEST]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

you already know the answer. u goto let her go. but be nice about it. if she's heartbroken, do the right thing and dont just cut off contact. help her through it. see her as often as she wants. but keep reiterating nothings ever going to happen. she'll gradually get over it and wont wish u any ill will.

whatever u do, dont lead this girl on.

on the flip side though. dont expect to marry a chick u really really like. unless ur a celebrity type dude and u've got multiple different women who u really like and who like u back, u will get fuccked.

the chicks u really really like are the ones that can twist u up like shoe strings and have u all types of fuccked up, financially and mentally. so beware.

the best relationships (from the guy's perspective) are the ones where the girl likes him way more than he likes her. i've always known this. but to have my mom tell me this too had me on some "wow" status the other day.

 

[Mr210]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

Yea let her go because after a year if you have no desire for her to meet your mom this will become a bigger issue over time.

I had something similar happen to me a few years back

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

If a bytch is a "relationship" and still talking to other nikkaz or even giving out the phone number to nikkaz she fukks with, that lets you know the nikka she's with is fukking up.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The key is to try and gauge this before yall goto other places and #wasteyourtime

There was one night I struck out but in a good way - I dodged 2 unsure chicks, put them in the back of the rolodex and got one that was DTF for that night. The other two hit me up at their own pace and it didn't matter cause I already resigned them to lower priority status.

This was 5 years ago though and I'm not single anymore so I imagine with the Femdom c*nt attitudes it's harder to use the #Stackdecks method now because they'll proabbly be on the lookout for that type of shyt too

My friend told me 1 year ago some chick said something along the lines of: "Oh so you just gonna put me on the bottom of your list probably and never call me right, and once you find some chick ready for tonight you'll forget i exist"

The appropriate answer in 99% of circumstances is "Yes, because it means she is interested in who I am and serious about making and exploring a mutual connection"

Always spin that shyt right back around to their illogic ass BS

Noted

 

[C-Styles]

you already know the answer. u goto let her go. but be nice about it. if she's heartbroken, do the right thing and dont just cut off contact. help her through it. see her as often as she wants. but keep reiterating nothings ever going to happen. she'll gradually get over it and wont wish u any ill will.

whatever u do, dont lead this girl on.

on the flip side though. dont expect to marry a chick u really really like. unless ur a celebrity type dude and u've got multiple different women who u really like and who like u back, u will get fuccked.

the chicks u really really like are the ones that can twist u up like shoe strings and have u all types of fuccked up, financially and mentally. so beware.

the best relationships (from the guy's perspective) are the ones where the girl likes him way more than he likes her. i've always known this. but to have my mom tell me this too had me on some "wow" status the other day.

FACTS!

My best friend's mom told us this when we we're younger and had it imprinted in my brain ever since, never forgot that!

 

[Reginald Noble]

Whenever you meet a chick, and it seems like after a couple dates, she's still logical, let it go.

For example, a chick can talk about how she is practicing abstinence from the get-go. If she still talking that after the second date, she don't like you. The more logic and control she has around you, the less she likes you.

Word. I already made sure that physical contact was established on the 1st one-on-one outing (we met in a group setting with mutual friends) to gauge my prospects. If she had showed negative body language to even just slight advances like touching her knee then I would not have called her back for a 2nd. Terminate that shyt asap and she's demoted to a jump off.

you already know the answer. u goto let her go. but be nice about it. if she's heartbroken, do the right thing and dont just cut off contact. help her through it. see her as often as she wants. but keep reiterating nothings ever going to happen. she'll gradually get over it and wont wish u any ill will.

whatever u do, dont lead this girl on.

on the flip side though. dont expect to marry a chick u really really like. unless ur a celebrity type dude and u've got multiple different women who u really like and who like u back, u will get fuccked.

the chicks u really really like are the ones that can twist u up like shoe strings and have u all types of fuccked up, financially and mentally. so beware.

the best relationships (from the guy's perspective) are the ones where the girl likes him way more than he likes her. i've always known this. but to have my mom tell me this too had me on some "wow" status the other day.

It is always best for the Man to have control in the relationship unless he's being abusive. A woman in charge leads to a failed relationship. My Woman knows if she pulls the plug I'll find a way to make do without her and my selfish survival instinct will kick in. Options and ambition in part is what keeps a Woman loyal and obedient.

 

[Action Mike]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

this is approaching me

i can feel it

 

[360dagod]

So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?

You already introduced your wifey to ya momz already

Might as well introduce her as well and then introduce everyone at the same time

 

[Atlrocafella]

You already introduced your wifey to ya momz already

Might as well introduce her as well and then introduce everyone at the same time

you be keeping up with my shenanigans.