Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Let her go, on the other hand why don't you feel anything towards this girl?


So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?:jbhmm:

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Whenever you meet a chick, and it seems like after a couple dates, she's still logical, let it go.

For example, a chick can talk about how she is practicing abstinence from the get-go. If she still talking that after the second date, she don't like you. The more logic and control she has around you, the less she likes you.

Amen......bytches know how to play the game like a nikka does.....
 

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Man 2 1/2 yrs ago I had a woman who cooked for me 3-4 times a week, we had sex everyday some times 2-3 times a day which wore me out sometimes. We could be be silly together and we had so many things in common. Probably would still be together if she didn't lie about such a major issue. I couldn't look at her the same
 
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Man 2 1/2 yrs ago I had a woman who cooked for me 3-4 times a week, we had sex everyday some times 2-3 times a day which wore me out sometimes. We could be be silly together and we had so many things in common. Probably would still be together if she didn't lie about such a major issue. I couldn't look at her the same

What did she lie about? How could you type all of this out and not say?
 

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The key is to try and gauge this before yall goto other places and #wasteyourtime

There was one night I struck out but in a good way - I dodged 2 unsure chicks, put them in the back of the rolodex and got one that was DTF for that night. The other two hit me up at their own pace and it didn't matter cause I already resigned them to lower priority status.

This was 5 years ago though and I'm not single anymore so I imagine with the Femdom c*nt attitudes it's harder to use the #Stackdecks method now because they'll proabbly be on the lookout for that type of shyt too

My friend told me 1 year ago some chick said something along the lines of: "Oh so you just gonna put me on the bottom of your list probably and never call me right, and once you find some chick ready for tonight you'll forget i exist"

The appropriate answer in 99% of circumstances is "Yes, because it means she is interested in who I am and serious about making and exploring a mutual connection:mjpls:" :banderas:

Always spin that shyt right back around to their illogic ass BS :pachaha:

honesty is beautiful.. it never fails
 

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on the flip side though. dont expect to marry a chick u really really like. unless ur a celebrity type dude and u've got multiple different women who u really like and who like u back, u will get fuccked.

the chicks u really really like are the ones that can twist u up like shoe strings and have u all types of fuccked up, financially and mentally. so beware.

the best relationships (from the guy's perspective) are the ones where the girl likes him way more than he likes her. i've always known this. but to have my mom tell me this too had me on some "wow" status the other day.
Thats some deep game, its far easier checking a female you dont love too much, when she starts disrespecting you. A female you deeply love, you will let her get away with disrespect because you scared you might lose her if you check her.
 
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Thats some deep game, its far easier checking a female you dont love too much, when she starts disrespecting you. A female you deeply love, you will let her get away with disrespect because you scared you might lose her if you check her.

Yup and @TRUEST said some real shiit right there too. I just purchased a plane ticket to NYC next weekend on some impromptu shyt. Told my main that I'm headed there and she immediate caught an attitude and was like why I didn't I let her know before I decided to go to NYC.. I'm like ":dahell:I ain't gotta check in with you when I want to go somewhere,hell are you talking about"...she gets tight and hangs up the phone. I realize she likes me WAY more than I like her cause I really don't care how she feel about it, which is probably why she won't be meeting my mother :camby::umad:
 

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So my main, who's been around for a year, is asking why she hasn't met my mother yet. I thought about it and I don't want to introduce my mom to someone I don't feel strongly about or can see myself marrying. I like her, but not like that.

Should I go ahead and let this girl go find someone who will commit to her?:jbhmm:

@kevm3 @Reinscarf @TRUEST

Best to let her know the real deal. It's not fair if she's thinking she's the one but you don't see her that way.
 

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Lol fellas its amazing when you have one chick(not even fcking her she's just around) its so much easier to get another and so on.


I'm steady stacking the girls in my line up(I just had to start a new roster), I went thru a dry spell for a good month or something since leaving my girl and now things are coming together
:wow:




Take away:
1 girl is even actively coming for me, she's so ugly but the ass is fat...I always seem to have the highest standards so I might just take the plunge and mess with this bird. One thing I've noticed is she sends me a lot more messages then I send her and shes actually becoming more and more aggressive she just sent me a text asking what I'm doing tomorrow night.
 
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