Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Sidenote, me and my ex chilling/fukking again. And since I had my me time to improve myself and figure shyt out its been effortless interactions. I can tell she sees a difference because we havent even spoke on anythjming relating to the break up
 
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Lol fellas its amazing when you have one chick(not even fcking her she's just around) its so much easier to get another and so on.


I'm steady stacking the girls in my line up(I just had to start a new roster), I went thru a dry spell for a good month or something since leaving my girl and now things are coming together
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1 girl is even actively coming for me, she's so ugly but the ass is fat...I always seem to have the highest standards so I might just take the plunge and mess with this bird. One thing I've noticed is she sends me a lot more messages then I send her and shes actually becoming more and more aggressive she just sent me a text asking what I'm doing tomorrow night.
i cant seem to find the energy to entertain chicks i dont see a future with. back in the day id fucck anything. but breh, be careful. u dont wanna knock up a chick ur not all that feeling.
 

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Sidenote, me and my ex chilling/fukking again. And since I had my me time to improve myself and figure shyt out its been effortless interactions. I can tell she sees a difference because we havent even spoke on anythjming relating to the break up
I feel you.
 

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Sidenote, me and my ex chilling/fukking again. And since I had my me time to improve myself and figure shyt out its been effortless interactions. I can tell she sees a difference because we havent even spoke on anythjming relating to the break up


That was my plan for one of my exes but she dropped the bomb on me that she is seeing someone
 

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That was my plan for one of my exes but she dropped the bomb on me that she is seeing someone
Na she not seeing anyone. And if she is :ehh: I seeing other people too. Until she tell me she wanr me and only me we still out chea
 

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Sidenote, me and my ex chilling/fukking again. And since I had my me time to improve myself and figure shyt out its been effortless interactions. I can tell she sees a difference because we havent even spoke on anythjming relating to the break up
After what happened between you two I strongly feel that this is a mistake... but if you're gonna do it then don't show any weakness or deference to her. You're your own man, she has no control over you, and you have options.

If anything this can be a learning experience no matter how it ends up. Just keep your guard up and stay focused on yourself. She doesn't deserve your full attention or commitment again anytime soon.

Once this honeymoon period wears off, and it will wear off, do not fall back into old habits with her. You will be the one who gets hurt again if you let that happen. Good luck, breh. Just know the risks.

Edit: also be prepared for her to test this new you. She will likely try to see if you'll revert back to the same old behavior.
 

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After what happened between you two I strongly feel that this is a mistake... but if you're gonna do it then don't show any weakness or deference to her. You're your own man, she has no control over you, and you have options.

If anything this can be a learning experience no matter how it ends up. Just keep your guard up and stay focused on yourself. She doesn't deserve your full attention or commitment again anytime soon.

Once this honeymoon period wears off, and it will wear off, do not fall back into old habits with her. You will be the one who gets hurt again if you let that happen. Good luck, breh. Just know the risks.

Edit: also be prepared for her to test this new you. She will likely try to see if you'll revert back to the same old behavior.

I'm not committed to her. Only time I interact with her really is in person. I'm too busy doing my own thing to engage in text convos with any byrd atm. I already know she might test me cuz she already tried to do it and I just kind of blew it off because I see it for what it is. I don't have any more pervasive insecurities or depression. Me and my rents talked it out and it helped a lot. I care about this girl obviously but I'm taking every thing day by day. I'm just a lot more centered now and if it were to blow up in my face again then it is what it is. I have at least a year out plan for MYSELF that won't be shaken regardless of whatever woman comes in it. I think I'll be fine breh but I appreciate the words. All yall have been a huge help.
 

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Na she not seeing anyone. And if she is :ehh: I seeing other people too. Until she tell me she wanr me and only me we still out chea


I don't care that she is seeing someone but it does bother me the particular person because I know him
 

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I'm not committed to her. Only time I interact with her really is in person. I'm too busy doing my own thing to engage in text convos with any byrd atm. I already know she might test me cuz she already tried to do it and I just kind of blew it off because I see it for what it is. I don't have any more pervasive insecurities or depression. Me and my rents talked it out and it helped a lot. I care about this girl obviously but I'm taking every thing day by day. I'm just a lot more centered now and if it were to blow up in my face again then it is what it is. I have at least a year out plan for MYSELF that won't be shaken regardless of whatever woman comes in it. I think I'll be fine breh but I appreciate the words. All yall have been a huge help.

fukk all that breh, why jump into a hot pan that is still on the stove?

fukk her and that relationship - be single homie and enjoy it. date, but date casually - nothign wrong wtih female interaction. but do it with a female that has not screwed you over before. that's my take. good luck homes
 

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I'm not committed to her. Only time I interact with her really is in person. I'm too busy doing my own thing to engage in text convos with any byrd atm. I already know she might test me cuz she already tried to do it and I just kind of blew it off because I see it for what it is. I don't have any more pervasive insecurities or depression. Me and my rents talked it out and it helped a lot. I care about this girl obviously but I'm taking every thing day by day. I'm just a lot more centered now and if it were to blow up in my face again then it is what it is. I have at least a year out plan for MYSELF that won't be shaken regardless of whatever woman comes in it. I think I'll be fine breh but I appreciate the words. All yall have been a huge help.
This is good. It helps to have supportive parents, so keep relying on them. I had to learn the hard way to only rely on my parents and my closest male friends for real support. They've talked me out of some rough patches. Keep her at arm's length.

As long as you put yourself first then even if it blows up you can walk away with your pride. Enjoy your freedom breh. That's the most valuable thing we have.
 

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This is good. It helps to have supportive parents, so keep relying on them. I had to learn the hard way to only rely on my parents and my closest male friends for real support. They've talked me out of some rough patches. Keep her at arm's length.

As long as you put yourself first then even if it blows up you can walk away with your pride. Enjoy your freedom breh. That's the most valuable thing we have.
goto cosign this.
what is putting urself first?
dont go out of ur way to help her. its that simple. well, at least, that's how i do things now. the only females i go out of my way for are the ones that are proved to be naturally caring. not these modern idiots that like to think "im a lady, u goto woo me". gtfoh
 
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